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The I LOVE YOU Book

I love you when you need hugs... Most of all, I love you just the way you are. Todd Parr celebrates the unconditional love between parent and child. From the heartfelt ("I love you when you need hugs") to the lighthearted ("I love you when you hide my keys") and with many moments in between that are sure to make readers smile and reminisce, this is the perfect book for families to share together to remind children how much they are loved, each and every day. This new edition of the New York Times bestselling book features sturdy board pages perfect for little hands!

28 pages, Board Book

Published December 17, 2013

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Todd Parr

109 books267 followers
Todd Parr is a three-time New York Times-bestselling author and illustrator of more than fifty books for children. He has inspired and empowered children around the world with simple, hopeful, and powerful messages such as “be kind”, “love yourself” and “be who you are,” all set with vibrant images in eye-catching primary colors. His books have received numerous awards and are available in nearly twenty languages. He also is the co-creator of the popular three-time Daytime Emmy©-nominated animated TV series, "ToddWorld" with Gerry Renert of SupperTime Entertainment. Several short films for Sesame Street have also been based on Parr’s work.

Parr devotes time to numerous philanthropic causes supporting pet adoption, children’s hunger, health, and literacy. He is a frequent reader and fundraiser for The Ronald McDonald House and serves on the board of directors for the Virginia Children’s Book Festival. His corporate collaborations include Best Buy, Stouffer’s, and the San Francisco–Marin Food Bank, among others.

A native of Wyoming, Parr currently lives in Berkeley, California.

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Profile Image for Calista.
5,451 reviews31.3k followers
February 11, 2020
Todd parr is a master of color and using bright happy colors. This is a wonderful positive book about parents loving children and the things they do. It’s a feel good hug.

It’s for the youngest of readers and anyone who loves Todd Parr. I love to read Todd Parr. I feel like it’s a great self-help book for kids and adults. I always feel good reading Todd Parr.

I didn’t read this to my nephew. He’s moved on to other things and I know he’s too old for these, but I want to read these. I’m on a kick so there are going to be Todd Parr books here and there.
Profile Image for Jason Koivu.
Author 7 books1,436 followers
February 12, 2014
* Read & Reviewed by me and Emma! *

Wow, this book doles out the love like you wouldn't believe! It's a cover to cover love-fest!

The idea is that everyone is loved all the time, whether you're sick, silly, sad, scared or brave, gone away or cuddled up close, asleep or awake, even when you hide your parents' keys!

The book is VERY colorful. The cartoonish pictures are uber simple. My niece Emma noticed that most of the people had on different colored shoes, which she declared was quite silly. I concurred.

At 4 years old, Emma was on the verge of being too old for this, but we both loved The I LOVE YOU Book. Our absolute favorite part was the "I love you when you are stinky" page with the baby with the wavy stink lines coming from her bottom.

We read this and made tiny pudding pies. It was a pretty good day!

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Profile Image for Dream.M.
1,185 reviews809 followers
July 27, 2026
وقتی می‌ترسی یا شجاعی
وقتی دور هستم یا وقتی بغل هم هستیم
وقتی بوسه می‌دهی یا وقتی به بغل شدن نیاز داری
و در نهایت: «بیشتر از همه چیز، تو را دقیقاً همان‌طور که هستی دوست دارم.»
Profile Image for Ellen Gail.
920 reviews432 followers
November 24, 2017
Today I got to read a book to my niece for the first time. This was that book.

She's only five months old, so she understands none of it. But I think she enjoyed it just the same.

Profile Image for Christina/ The Blog for Teachers, Readers, & Life!.
193 reviews49 followers
December 9, 2018
3) The I Love You Book By: Todd Parr Ages: 3-7 Grades: Preschool-First Grade Hardcover

The I Love You Book by Todd Parr is another vividly colored book about unconditional love. It illustrated how children are loved no matter what the everyday situation brings. Although this is not specifically a Valentine’s Day book, this is a wonderful celebration of love.

Please see my full post "6 Best Valentine’s Day Books for Children Ages 1-10 & Exciting Activities" at https://www.teacher-librarian-forlife...
Profile Image for Zahra Sarmadi.
51 reviews
September 5, 2026
یه کتاب خیلی ساده و شیرین درباره‌ی عشق بی‌قیدوشرطه. 🥹
دوست داشتم که به بچه یاد می‌ده حتی وقتی می‌ترسه، ناراحته، شیطنت می‌کنه یا حتی اشتباه می‌کنه، باز هم دوست‌داشتنیه. تصویرهای رنگی و متن‌های کوتاهش هم دقیقاً مناسب بچه‌های کوچیکه.

فقط حس کردم مثل بعضی کتاب‌های دیگه‌ی تاد پار، حرف خیلی تازه‌ای نداره و بیشتر روی همون پیام همیشگیِ «دوستت دارم، همون‌طور که هستی» می‌چرخه. ولی برای یه کتاب قبل خواب یا هدیه به بچه‌ها واقعاً انتخاب قشنگیه.
Profile Image for J.
4,205 reviews26 followers
May 22, 2017
A definite quick read and one that explores what it means to unconditionally love a child. Unfortunately the only thing that truly stood out to me was the message of the book and the very last page that mentioned all children should be loved even though unfortunately there are always a few that never seem to find that beautiful need fulfilled. And as a result of the latter the book isn't going to be able to cover all the children of the world..

Otherwise the book has no rhyming to it and is just basically a bunch of opposites so if you are wanting to teach your young ones about opposites then I would recommend it. Even the concept of love is not truly explained well enough but given sort of as an "if I love you then I deal with you when you are....

The illustrations are definitely nothing memorable even with the bright colors. Basic and just a step over from stick figures it makes me wonder if the illustrator is maybe a young child or if that was the concept they wanted to presented to the reader thus keeping the book for only the youngest of crowds.

An alright book I wouldn't truly recommend it when there are other beautiful stories of love out there but then again there may be some who would rather prefer this type of book instead.
Profile Image for ☼Pam Might Read Too Much ☼ .
1,360 reviews68 followers
December 3, 2013
a review of the BOARDBOOK

THE I LOVE YOU BOOK has been very popular with adults and the little kids they share it with. It was first published waaaay back in 2009, and now, FINALLY, it's been done as a boardbook.

Since there are tons of reviews that will tell you about the theme, let me focus on what the boardbook is like.

It's the standard boardbook size. The front has a heart, and the inside of the heart is soft and squishy to the touch.

The inside artwork it totally Todd Parr. All done in extremely bright cheerful colors. The pages are slick, and importantly, they are thick and sturdy. (I don't know about you, but my boy was rough on boardbooks. I would think this would would hold up fine.)

The only downside I found was that there are two pages with dark purple backgrounds and this makes it a little difficult for my eyes to make out the text.

Altogether an adorable boardbook version of Todd Parr's I LOVE YOU BOOK. I just love the theme of unconditional love. Because that's how we are. We love our darlings whether they have stinkie poopie pants, or are struggling with their algebra.
Profile Image for Kathryn.
1,053 reviews3 followers
March 1, 2014
Summary: This book was not memorable.

Why I Read This: I got bored at Amanda's baby shower.

Review: This book was not memorable.
Profile Image for Gavin.
1,276 reviews89 followers
July 23, 2015
nice child-like art, good simple positivity.
Profile Image for Melissa McAlvey.
498 reviews8 followers
March 6, 2017
We love Todd Parr. Both girls have loved his simple text and fun illustrations from a young age. this one is a great stepping of spot to talk about unconditional love
103 reviews1 follower
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May 20, 2019
Because I can’t find enough ways to tell my boys I love them.
Profile Image for Patricia Stephens.
40 reviews
September 5, 2014
This book demonstrates the different kinds of situations in which parents or anyone else that cares for children can love them no matter what. I feel like it is a great book to teach children that their parents/caregivers will love them always, and also a great book to teach parents or caregivers to remind children of this fact. It is so important to tell children this, especially when they act up, because sometimes when they are punished they tend to get the idea that they are not loved or their parents hate them. I know for sure that I had that idea in my head at least once when I was a child.

One aspect that caught my eye were the pictures, both positively and negatively. The pictures were very colorful, which I enjoyed because they stood out and definitely would do a good job with catching the attention of children since color fascinates them. However, I didn't like how simple the pictures were. I felt like they could have had more detail to them to be more interesting. The sentences also seemed to be too repetitive for me. I was bored of reading the same structures about half way through the book. I wish they would have been more varied. Overall though, it was a cute book. I would definitely read this to my future children someday, but not my elementary students because of the fact that it didn't seem to have much literary value as it did emotional value.
Profile Image for Jennifer Wardrip.
Author 5 books522 followers
October 8, 2009
Reviewed by Me for Kids @ TeensReadToo.com

I have truly enjoyed each and every one of Todd Parr's books, and THE I LOVE YOU BOOK is one of the best.

Perfect for bedtime, the story shares a parent's love for a child, no matter the situation. When they're tired and cranky, when they're messy or stinky, when they're sleeping or shopping, when they're walking or making new friends, mom and dad will always be there, loving them the entire time.

As always, the illustrations are what make the story so great. Bold, bright, and multicolored, they compliment the easy-to-read story perfectly.

This is another winning picture book by Todd Parr to add to your home library. There's no doubt young children will ask for it before bed again and again.
Profile Image for Margaret Chind.
3,212 reviews272 followers
February 19, 2009
The first thing that I notice from this book are the vibrant colors and they just make me want to smile or even draw a picture. Each page of this book is filled with one more reason from parent to child (or whomever the reader is to child) that "I love you" when and why. It is a fabulous book and has an absolutely wonderful message that is so important.

This book was my first Todd Parr experience, but will definitely not be my last. I cannot wait for more books and to go back and find some of his already published works out there. Definitely a keeper for my child's shelf. I cannot wait to be able to share this book with my baby again (outside of the womb). *grin*
Profile Image for Russell.
420 reviews10 followers
July 1, 2014
While not the grand slam of Doggy Kisses 123, it's still another solid offering from Todd Parr. The unconditional love of a parent is depicted through a variety of conditions, a simple yet powerful message that's important to express.
Profile Image for Cara Byrne.
3,997 reviews35 followers
April 22, 2015
A Parr classic. This book captures the immense love a caregiver (whether parent or not) feels for their little one - even when said child can be overwhelming and frustrating! A great book to cuddle up and read - reaffirming a caregiver's affection for the child s/he is reading the book to. A baby story time read.
Profile Image for Kris.
3,723 reviews68 followers
November 12, 2018
Some people don’t like Todd Parr’s books. I maintain that those people didn’t cry at the first five minutes of the movie Up and don’t think puppies are cute and basically have no soul. So yeah. It’s a Todd Parr book and it’s about love and you should read it because Mister Rogers would probably want you to.
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502 reviews33 followers
July 30, 2017
I think this book is ugly, but my daughter is obsessed with it. Sometimes when we try to read her other, better books, she will grab it instead.

I recommend NOT buying it so that your kid doesn't have the option. Beware!
Profile Image for Christine Grant.
1,951 reviews10 followers
February 8, 2018
Valentine's Day Story Time. A simple book with colorful illustrations about how much parents love their children. Might work well with Baby & Me program.

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Profile Image for Deborah.
557 reviews
March 13, 2017
Conveys the important message of unconditional love, no matter what. And the 5 year old could read it all by himself to me. A perfect little book for bedtime cuddles.
22 reviews2 followers
December 28, 2017
i don’t like the lack of rhyming, but the message at the end is powerful
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182 reviews7 followers
October 12, 2018
One of my all-time favorite bedtime stories for my daughter.
Profile Image for Shauna Ludlow Smith.
832 reviews
January 19, 2019
Great message about loving others just the way they are in many situations (sleepy, sick, silly, sad, scared), etc. Sturdy board pages.
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837 reviews22 followers
March 31, 2019
Read it to my neice and she loved it and then threw it at me. 😁
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