Developing Positive Self-Images & Discipline in Black Children

by Jawanza Kunjufu

The relationship between self-esteem and student achievement is analyzed in this book.

Genres: Education, Psychology, Nonfiction

120 pages, Paperback

First published December 1, 1984

Reviews

[Kimberly OutspokenMom · Rating 5 out of 5]

An excellent read and a must have for all African-American families. The book guides parents and others in our community on ways to navigate through a system that is not geared for the positive growth and development of our children. It gives us positive ways to overcome this system without condemning the system itself. Dr. Kunjufu is to be congratulated for producing another valuable tool for African-American families.

[AutyFBooks · Rating 5 out of 5]

Dr. Kunjufu's work on developing positive self-images in Black children is truly timeless. In the realm of efforts to improve American education, there is often a focus on students who are achieving well below their peers. As someone who was a highly intelligent girl growing up in a low-income environment, I faced numerous challenges and gaps in my education. Once I became a teenager, I found myself heavily influenced by my peer group, who didn't value my academic success as much as other things and as a result, I stopped taking school seriously during that period of time. The adults in my life resorted to discipline without engaging in meaningful conversations or attempting to motivate me towards improvement.

One aspect of the text that resonated with me was the importance of meeting children where they are and setting goals for effective parenting. Dr. Kunjufu stresses the significance of self-development as a prerequisite for child development. Parental involvement and support, although often used interchangeably, are not equivalent. Dr. Kunjufu explores how a student cannot excel in school if they have negative feelings about their own looks and abilities. These insecurities are deeply rooted and are often influenced by social constructs such as popularity versus intelligence in urban schools.

Now, as a parent myself, I understand the profound impact we have on our children's lives and the importance of education. I prioritize my child's achievements and encourage him to develop a positive self-image by asking him if he is proud of himself. By doing so, I aim to help him recognize and appreciate his unique talents and abilities. While I occasionally express my pride in him, my primary focus is on fostering his own sense of accomplishment. This approach not only promotes positive self-worth but also nurtures a deeper understanding of his own capabilities.

Dr. Kunjufu's work serves as a reminder that true commitment to the liberation of Black people requires a conscious embrace of one's Black identity. By emphasizing the significance of positive self-images and education, Dr. Kunjufu's teachings inspire individuals to empower themselves and their communities.

[April Daniels · Rating 4 out of 5]

Presented as a "Resource for Further Reading" in both the 1992 and 1993 editions of Paperdolls: Healing from Sexual Abuse in Mormon Neighborhoods.

[Lifelearner · Rating 4 out of 5]

Great read, I definitely was taking notes.

[Sekeema · Rating 3 out of 5]

This is an excellent read.