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308 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 1975
“Season of mists and mellow fruitfulness,
Close bosom-friend of the maturing sun...
Who hath not seen thee oft amid thy store?”
“Is anybody out there?
Is anybody listening?…
If it's the end of the beginning…
It's everything you wanted, it's everything you don't
It's one door swinging open and one door swinging closed
Some prayers find an answer
Some prayers never know
We're holding on and letting go”










"The only thing I'm afraid of are the words 'ordinary life.'"This novel, first published in 1975, has somehow drifted onto my radar lately and I'm not sure why. I bought it on a whim and I almost never buy brand new books. I'm so glad I did. It is an incredibly thought provoking look at marriage, satisfaction with our lives as we age, etc. Although I'm not sure I will read in bed anymore. I had this on my bedside table for almost a month and almost quit reading it. It felt fragmented but I think that was just me, falling asleep too fast.
"Their life is mysterious, it is like a forest; from far off it seems a unity, it can be comprehended, described, but closer it begins to separate, to break into light and shadow, the density blinds one. Within there is no form, only prodigious detail that reaches everywhere: exotic sounds, spills of sunlight, foliage, fallen trees, small beasts that flee at the sound of a twig-snap, insects, silence, flowers.Passages like this are not frequent, in fact the novel is largely dialogue. But I appreciated these moments, reflecting on the truth underlying the scenes the characters play out with one another, not always the truth, not always what they are thinking.
And all of this, dependent, closely woven, all of it is deceiving. There are really two kinds of life. There is, as Viri says, the one people believe you are living, and there is the other. It is this other which causes the trouble, this other we long to see."
"Actually, we talk frequently about America. We even read your newspapers," he said. "I'm more or less obsessed with the idea of your country which has, after all, meant so much to the entire world. I find it very disturbing now to see what's happened. It's like the sun going out."I want to share what Viri thinks in the end, pg. 296, but feel like it would ruin the journey. Definitely a book to check out.
"You think America is dying?" Viri asked....
"A place and a history as vast as America cannot disappear, but it can become dark. And it seems to be slipping toward that. I mean, the utterly blind passions, the lack of moderation - these things are like a fever...."
"These are beautiful," Eve said.
"I think these are better."
"Sixty dollars a dozen. What will you use them for?"
"You always need wineglasses."
"Aren't you afraid they'll break?"
"The only thing I'm afraid of are the words ordinary life,'" Nedra said.
"Too bad about Arnaud," Neil said.
"It's horrible."
"Eve says he... may never talk right again," he said to the water glass. He gad a thin mouth, the words leaked out.
"They don't know."
"Would you like some tea?" Eve asked.
"Let me make it," Nedra said, rising quickly to her feet. She disappeared into the kitchen.
"Rotten weather, isn't it?" Neil murmured after a pause.
"Yes."
"It's a lot colder than... last winter," he said.
"I guess it is."
"Something to do with... the earth's orbit... I don't know. We're supposed to be entering a new ice age."
"Not another one," she said.