Okay, I have read all of these books in order. I wanted something light for the summer. The recipes all sound so good. The murder mysteries are fun and imaginative with many twists.
But I would never, ever want to be Sadie's friend. And, yes, we are close to the same age so we could be contemporaries. However, she drives me crazy, even though she is good at being the mystery solver. Yes, she is caring and compassionate. She is funny and quirky. But, as others have said, she worries all the time about shallow things like her looks, recipes, etc. There seems to be no depth to her. She is the quintessential old lady, not good at technology, stuck in old fashioned ways, passing judgement on anyone and everyone's actions and values.
However, the aspect of her personality that really drives me crazy is her complete lack of personal integrity. She will make promises again and again to Pete, to law enforcement, to family about staying out of things. Then her mind goes through the rationalizations of why she shouldn't keep that promise. The loop plays over and over throughout every book.
It wasn't until this book that I could really see how selfish she is. In this book, everything she does is in the guise of being a mama bear who just can stop herself because she is trying to protect her kids. This includes breaking into a restaurant, copying high security papers on another's desk, and the list goes on. None of this is really to protect her children. These actions are to alleviate her own anxiety. Many times her actions make it worse for the people around her. In this book, there is a character that she emotionally wounds (again using the excuse of mama bear) and she wants to make it right, but not because she is worried about the other character's feelings; but because she doesn't like having people mad at her.
Really, it's Sadie's feelings that come first.
I do love Pete, who is almost too good to be true. And I can see that Sadie brings excitement into his life.
But here I am, knowing I will finish the series. I have enjoyed it. And how weird is it that the central character drives me completely crazy?
Thanks for letting me vent.