Much has been written about the stormy history of China and the West, but mostly about later events such as the Opium War and the Boxer Rebellion. This book treats an earlier period, where attitudes of the attitudes of both sides were more fluid and mixed. Here are some of the things that happened in that period.
The Jesuits went to China to convert the Chinese to Christianity. The Jesuits, being the educated elite of clergy, concentrated on influencing the educated elite of China, the literati, who were mostly Confucian. The Jesuits impressed with their knowledge of science and technology, and also with perspective in art. The Jesuits tried to be accommodating to Chinese culture. The emphasized the similarities between Christianity and Confucianism. Chinese ancestor worship was a sticking point. Some Europeans argued that it wasn't really worship, just honor, but it was a source of controversy.
Other missionaries to China, such as Franciscans, focused on the poorer people, who were Buddhist or Daoist. They had some success winning converts as the Chinese had a tradition of secret societies, often revolutionary, and Christianity seemed like just another secret society. The problem with that is that it was also viewed as dangerous by the literati.
On the whole, conversions were slow. Among the literati, people converted one, two, or three at a time, so we know their names, and their histories, and often we have their pictures. These stories are fascinating, and sometimes tragic, as converts found themselves suspended between two worlds that they didn't fully belong to.
One of the issues between the Christians and the Chinese was concubinage. The missionaries wanted converts to put away their concubines, which meant putting a woman out of the home she may have lived in for years, which didn't strike the Chinese as consistent with the Christians' message of love. Another issue is that the Christians expected to preach to women as well as men, and to hear their confessions, which the Chinese believed was indecent, and there was a great fear of priests having sex with Chinese women. Another issue was the killing of female infants, which wasn't officially sanctioned, but was done anyway. There were too many to save, but the Christians at least tried to baptize all the dying babies they could find.
Back in Europe, people were at first fascinated by China. They admired their riches and the antiquity of their culture. (The Chinese culture was so old that it predated the beginning of time, as calculated by the events of the Bible, which led European church people to go back and calculate it again, so that they wouldn't have that discrepancy.) Confucianism was seen as a rational way to order society. The philosophes of France especially viewed it as an alternative to organized religion. People thought the Chinese language might contain a key to the universal proto-language.
Then public opinion changed. Europeans saw the Chinese are "the yellow menace," barbaric, backward, and hidebound by tradition. The Chinese still felt themselves superior, the great empire, who needed nothing from the outside except tribute. But the economic, political, and military might of Europe was on the increase, and that of China was on the wane. And that's where this book ends, setting the stage for the next chapter of the great encounter.