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Make Yourself Unforgettable
Make Yourself Unforgettable melihat secara mendalam sepuluh unsur penting untu menjadi orang yang selalu diingat dan memberi pembaca panduan selangkah demi selangkah untuk membangun serta menerapkannya. Apa artinya memiliki sikap berkelas? Bagaimana Anda membedakan diri dari kerumunan dan menjadi pemimpin yang sukses? Kapan institusi seharusnya membimbing keputusan bisnis Anda? Jawaban atasnya dan pertanyaan-pertanyaan penting lainnya bisa ditemukan di buku yang dinamis serta menginspirasi ini.
Pembaca akan mempelajari rahasia Dale Carnegie Class-Act System, yang mencakup:
- enam langkah untuk mengelola masalah komunikasi,
- empat hambatan terhadap perilaku etis dan cara menghindarinya,
- cara baru untuk memahami serta meningkatkan kepercayaan diri,
- teknik untuk membentuk sikap tangguh dan menghilangkan rasa takut,
- lima keterampilan sosial penting yang mengidentifikasikan seseorang sebagai kelas aksi.
Dilengkapi dengan contoh dari dunia nyata dan tips praktis, Make Yourself Unforgettable adalah buku panduan sempurna bagi mereka yang berupaya menjalani kehidupan dengan makna serta pengaruh yang lebih besar.
Pembaca akan mempelajari rahasia Dale Carnegie Class-Act System, yang mencakup:
- enam langkah untuk mengelola masalah komunikasi,
- empat hambatan terhadap perilaku etis dan cara menghindarinya,
- cara baru untuk memahami serta meningkatkan kepercayaan diri,
- teknik untuk membentuk sikap tangguh dan menghilangkan rasa takut,
- lima keterampilan sosial penting yang mengidentifikasikan seseorang sebagai kelas aksi.
Dilengkapi dengan contoh dari dunia nyata dan tips praktis, Make Yourself Unforgettable adalah buku panduan sempurna bagi mereka yang berupaya menjalani kehidupan dengan makna serta pengaruh yang lebih besar.
218 pages, Paperback
First published November 7, 2006
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Dale Carnegie
1,612 books8,920 followersDale Carnegie was an American writer and teacher of courses in self-improvement, salesmanship, corporate training, public speaking, and interpersonal skills. Born into poverty on a farm in Missouri, he was the author of How to Win Friends and Influence People (1936), a bestseller that remains popular today. He also wrote How to Stop Worrying and Start Living (1948), Lincoln the Unknown (1932), and several other books.
One of the core ideas in his books is that it is possible to change other people's behavior by changing one's behavior towards them.
One of the core ideas in his books is that it is possible to change other people's behavior by changing one's behavior towards them.
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May 25, 2009
I like reading motivational books occasionally. It's like Proverbs
lite - rules for life. This book was well done with lots of lists,
then discussion of what is on the lists. There was a list of qualities
that show personal resiliance. Then some discussion on building
resiliance (adapting to adversity, bounding back):
1. make connections
2. avoid seeing crisis as unsurmountable problem
3. accept change as inevitable (learn how to play a bad hand)
4. move steadily toward goal (bring adversity to an end)
5. look for self discovery opportunities
6. keep things in perspective (don't overreact)
7. take care of yourself (laugh, rest, relationships)
A few more guidelines:
- Giving puts the universe in your debt.
- Grateful people are less fearful people.
- Get plenty of rest when you are in a stressful situation.
- Rekindle optimism to build courage.
lite - rules for life. This book was well done with lots of lists,
then discussion of what is on the lists. There was a list of qualities
that show personal resiliance. Then some discussion on building
resiliance (adapting to adversity, bounding back):
1. make connections
2. avoid seeing crisis as unsurmountable problem
3. accept change as inevitable (learn how to play a bad hand)
4. move steadily toward goal (bring adversity to an end)
5. look for self discovery opportunities
6. keep things in perspective (don't overreact)
7. take care of yourself (laugh, rest, relationships)
A few more guidelines:
- Giving puts the universe in your debt.
- Grateful people are less fearful people.
- Get plenty of rest when you are in a stressful situation.
- Rekindle optimism to build courage.
March 27, 2012
Typical Dale Carnegie book.. very easy to read and very well written. Sometimes it feels like it speaks to you. Dont rush through these books.. to have a greater effect, you'll have to slow down and ponder upon the statements that trigger some spark in your conscience.
January 8, 2019
"The bad news is, everyone looks great on paper and in interviews, but everyone also looks exactly the same. People have figured out how to present themselves as competent, qualified managers who won’t make waves and who won’t make mistakes—but nobody is able to say, “I’ve got ideas that are really new and different!"
---Make Yourself Unforgettable---
Not as good as How to Win Friends..., but I found some of the strategies presented in Make Yourself Unforgettable... were valuable (so long as I don't forget them!). The book is basically a hodgepodge collection of characteristics which can make you a "class act", and how being a class act will make you unforgettable.
---Make Yourself Unforgettable---
Not as good as How to Win Friends..., but I found some of the strategies presented in Make Yourself Unforgettable... were valuable (so long as I don't forget them!). The book is basically a hodgepodge collection of characteristics which can make you a "class act", and how being a class act will make you unforgettable.
February 6, 2020
This is not a work by Dale Carnegie himself but the training organization and that reflects in the book. This book is a collection of random suggestions, vaguely expressed thoughts and many a times borrowed works from others. Nevertheless, I found some of the tips and suggestions given pretty helpful. It is possible that this book maybe of a greater help to someone else.
January 23, 2012
I particularly like the sections on time management, stress management, and building patience.
February 9, 2015
Carnegie sets the gold standard for self improvement programs. Each section has practical and simple methods for changing or examining the chosen topic as well as real life examples of people who experienced them. I'm going to have to give this one another listen.
I'd recommend this for anyone who is looking to "class up their act" whether that is in business, personal life, or anywhere in-between.
I'd recommend this for anyone who is looking to "class up their act" whether that is in business, personal life, or anywhere in-between.
May 8, 2018
This book is life changing.
March 28, 2020
So yeah... I basically went on a highlighting frenzy with this one, thus beating the purpose of notes and highlights. :/
October 2, 2015
Another good system with lots of good information. Though, don't be surprised when most of the points taught in this book are lessons in honesty. If you can be honest, you can be classy. If you're one of those people that has a tendency to cut corners in the honesty department or have commitment issues, this books offers some good advice to remedy that. Enjoy!
February 5, 2019
very great book! definitely worth re reading it in the future!
December 5, 2020
Nunca me imaginé leyendo un libro con un título como “Cómo hacerse inolvidable”, pero lo hice y la verdad es que me gustó. Lo veo como un libro de consejos sencillos y prácticos para convertirse en una mejor persona, lo que según los términos del libro es una persona “con clase”.
Lo primero que vale la pena decir sobre este libro es que no fue escrito por Dale Carnegie, pero se basa en sus enseñanzas. Dale Carnegie fue un famoso orador que, en los años 30, daba conferencias alrededor de los Estados Unidos sobre liderazgo, comunicación y otras habilidades valiosas en el mundo empresarial. Carnegie falleció en 1955, pero dejó fundada una empresa que hoy continúa impartiendo estas capacitaciones y realizando publicaciones basadas en sus ideas y en las buenas prácticas.
Esta obra se puede ver como un compendio de consejos sobre el manejo de diferentes aspectos de la vida profesional, que también son importantes en la vida personal, como los fracasos, la depresión, los logros, la escucha, la gestión del tiempo, la definición de metas, la empatía, entre otros.
En mi caso nada de lo que decía el libro era nuevo, pues llevo un tiempo trabajando, he asistido a diferentes tipos de eventos, entrenamientos y charlas sobre habilidades blandas y he tenido la suerte de tener buenos jefes, pero me gustó el hecho de encontrar en un único lugar tantos pequeños tips que han aparecido en diferentes contextos a lo largo de mi vida. Creo que eso y los ejemplos de aplicación puntual de cada tema son lo más valioso de este libro y por eso lo recomiendo.
Más en: https://vistoleidohecho.com/
Lo primero que vale la pena decir sobre este libro es que no fue escrito por Dale Carnegie, pero se basa en sus enseñanzas. Dale Carnegie fue un famoso orador que, en los años 30, daba conferencias alrededor de los Estados Unidos sobre liderazgo, comunicación y otras habilidades valiosas en el mundo empresarial. Carnegie falleció en 1955, pero dejó fundada una empresa que hoy continúa impartiendo estas capacitaciones y realizando publicaciones basadas en sus ideas y en las buenas prácticas.
Esta obra se puede ver como un compendio de consejos sobre el manejo de diferentes aspectos de la vida profesional, que también son importantes en la vida personal, como los fracasos, la depresión, los logros, la escucha, la gestión del tiempo, la definición de metas, la empatía, entre otros.
En mi caso nada de lo que decía el libro era nuevo, pues llevo un tiempo trabajando, he asistido a diferentes tipos de eventos, entrenamientos y charlas sobre habilidades blandas y he tenido la suerte de tener buenos jefes, pero me gustó el hecho de encontrar en un único lugar tantos pequeños tips que han aparecido en diferentes contextos a lo largo de mi vida. Creo que eso y los ejemplos de aplicación puntual de cada tema son lo más valioso de este libro y por eso lo recomiendo.
Más en: https://vistoleidohecho.com/
August 6, 2014
All I can say according to this book that class is about being a good, honest, tenacious, and responsible person. Basically, being a classy person is being a good human, the one who is able and willing to help others and reaching his own goal without giving up.
Nevertheless, this book still gives the explanation and description about class act in a detail which we can easily depict in our daily live. There are even many things in this book that we didn't realize although those things happen frequently.
Then, there is also some discussions about passion and happiness, just like any other self-help books. Unfortunately, with what actually only few things to learn, this book is a bit thick and took not a short time to read (at least for me).
What I like the most is the part about stress management. There are a lot new things I discovered after reading that chapter. The suggestions are very implementable.
Overall, I think this book deserves three or four stars. But because it opens my eyes about some new things, I'll just give it 4 stars.
Nevertheless, this book still gives the explanation and description about class act in a detail which we can easily depict in our daily live. There are even many things in this book that we didn't realize although those things happen frequently.
Then, there is also some discussions about passion and happiness, just like any other self-help books. Unfortunately, with what actually only few things to learn, this book is a bit thick and took not a short time to read (at least for me).
What I like the most is the part about stress management. There are a lot new things I discovered after reading that chapter. The suggestions are very implementable.
Overall, I think this book deserves three or four stars. But because it opens my eyes about some new things, I'll just give it 4 stars.
July 14, 2008
I great program to learn how to make a lasting impression on people.
July 3, 2013
Dale Carnegie Stuff.
January 16, 2016
Great life lessons on how to carry yourself, more about being a class act.
August 9, 2012
Must be read attentively, the real value is subtle.
December 31, 2018
Definitely a good read it for everyone, I still love to read this book. It is changing my life daily. The book is a great read for everyone.
I have extracted from the book some paragraphs that I like best in order to introduce this good book to the readers. You can read these interesting quotes prior to making a decision to read the whole book....!
"Confidence is knowing that you will succeed."
"Live one day at a time."
"Money makes many people uncomfortable."
Thanks and Wish you and your family health and success.
I have extracted from the book some paragraphs that I like best in order to introduce this good book to the readers. You can read these interesting quotes prior to making a decision to read the whole book....!
"Confidence is knowing that you will succeed."
"Live one day at a time."
"Money makes many people uncomfortable."
Thanks and Wish you and your family health and success.
February 2, 2021
Como se tornar inesquecível é uma grande conversa introdutória sobre o mundo comercial no estilo de Dale Carnegie. Parece um pouco Napolean Hill contemporâneo, só que mais resumido mas também com doses de ciência meio boboca (aqui ninguém ficou falando em telepatia pelo menos kkk) e ao mesmo tempo não boboca (por causa de uso de psicologia em neurociência, embora as explicações usem termos alusivos ou de conversa informal
- o que pode ser bom).
No final é um training pragmático e direto. Tem uma escrita honesta e as vezes parece que estamos dialogando com alguém maduro do mercado, falando pra nós em posição de funcionário e executivo. Mas as recomendações são pontuais como de post de blog. Muitas delas exigem toda uma literatura completar: o que não invalida o conteúdo porque de forma geral ajuda mapear áreas de aprimoramento.
- o que pode ser bom).
No final é um training pragmático e direto. Tem uma escrita honesta e as vezes parece que estamos dialogando com alguém maduro do mercado, falando pra nós em posição de funcionário e executivo. Mas as recomendações são pontuais como de post de blog. Muitas delas exigem toda uma literatura completar: o que não invalida o conteúdo porque de forma geral ajuda mapear áreas de aprimoramento.
March 19, 2019
"Fear scares you into not trying. Not trying deprives you of acquiring experience. Not acquiring experience means you are not moving forward. And if you don't move forward in any endeavor, how can you be successful?
Looking fear in the eye without blinking is the primary act of courage. In the seventeenth century, the British philosopher Francis Bacon said, "Nothing is terrible except fear itself.
...
We learn by doing. Children don't learn to walk by watching others, they try to stand and fall hundreds of times before learning how to put one foot in front of the other in perfect balance. Doing things that are uncomfortable and new ultimately expands your comfort zone. It enables you to confront new tasks courageously - not without fear, but with the fear under control."
Looking fear in the eye without blinking is the primary act of courage. In the seventeenth century, the British philosopher Francis Bacon said, "Nothing is terrible except fear itself.
...
We learn by doing. Children don't learn to walk by watching others, they try to stand and fall hundreds of times before learning how to put one foot in front of the other in perfect balance. Doing things that are uncomfortable and new ultimately expands your comfort zone. It enables you to confront new tasks courageously - not without fear, but with the fear under control."
December 27, 2020
This is an amazing book for leaders and managers, and for anyone who is aimed at improving their skills. Carnegie places prominence on the role of class that gives some type of energy to people and helps them to become unforgettable in society. The central message is that any person can ensure self-improvement. The book helps to better understand how to achieve success in life based on personal beliefs, values, and attitudes. It takes an in-depth glimpse of the 10 essential elements of being unforgettable and delivers a clear-cut step-by-step guide for developing and embodying them. The information is divided into an introduction, 18 chapters, and an epilogue. “Success in life depends on confidence, determination, and dedication”. I give it 5 stars out of 5.
June 27, 2025
No matter how many times I read Dale Carnegie’s books, I always gain something valuable. His writing prompts me to reflect deeply on the mistakes I’ve made in the past. It reminds me that good character is not something we are born with—it is cultivated through conscious effort and constant self-discipline.
Pride can sometimes deceive us into thinking we are flawless, but in truth, we are full of shortcomings that require ongoing attention and improvement. Especially in our interactions with others, we must be mindful of our words and behavior. This is particularly important when dealing with those we care about—our actions and speech should never become a source of hurt to them.
Pride can sometimes deceive us into thinking we are flawless, but in truth, we are full of shortcomings that require ongoing attention and improvement. Especially in our interactions with others, we must be mindful of our words and behavior. This is particularly important when dealing with those we care about—our actions and speech should never become a source of hurt to them.
June 3, 2020
Great book, but I HATE the title.
This gem is a Dale Carnegie book (I love me some Dale Carnegie), and it is about learning to be a person of class in our business and personal lives. LOTS of great techniques and suggestions.
Being unforgettable??? I wouldn't even WANT to read a book about being unforgettable!
Also, in chapter 4, I think they edited out a story about Steve and Ben because when they mentioned these fellows, I had NO clue what they were talking about. I spent quite some time trying to find Steve and Ben, but I do believe they are officially MIA.
This gem is a Dale Carnegie book (I love me some Dale Carnegie), and it is about learning to be a person of class in our business and personal lives. LOTS of great techniques and suggestions.
Being unforgettable??? I wouldn't even WANT to read a book about being unforgettable!
Also, in chapter 4, I think they edited out a story about Steve and Ben because when they mentioned these fellows, I had NO clue what they were talking about. I spent quite some time trying to find Steve and Ben, but I do believe they are officially MIA.
January 27, 2024
Excellent info and narrator's voice, however, the music in between sessions (chapters) is super dated (currently 2024). It's really all about being a good person, a class act, and how that is win-win bc you reap the benefits in many areas of life. My favorite chapter was the last one, Chapter 11, about courage, and how that can pertain to finding a job. Chapter 10, regarding generosity, was also excellent and hard to find in the headlines these days.
July 1, 2022
There were some interesting takeaways from the book if you don't take it too seriously. I thought it interesting to describe how he tried to improve himself. I'm the kind of person that thinking to hard about the right way to do everything stresses me out. So I thought his interesting to listen to, but not something I'm going to try and change about me in my everyday life.
November 22, 2023
Me gustaron mucho los aprendizajes que pude obtener. De hecho son tan prácticos y simples que se pueden aplicar a los segundos de leerlo. No se si te hacen ser inolvidable pero si de esas personas que te inspiran confianza y no te olvidas por la manera simple que tienen de llevar la vida. Lo recomiendo
March 24, 2024
Me gustó, abarca muchas lecciones simples y fáciles que toda persona puede implementar en su vida diaria; por momentos se centra en muchos tecnicismos y eso me hizo hacer la lectura más lenta, sin embargo en general es fácil de leer, tiene muchos aprendizajes, es un libro al que volvería por enseñanzas específicas. ¿Lo recomiendo? Sí.
March 27, 2018
I found the first half of this book inspiring and it has had a real impact on how I define my own success. I now want to be a class act over any other goal. I have down graded to four stars because the second half of the book is filled with platitudes and rehashed basic self help tips.
June 4, 2019
Easy read and great points
Quick and easy read. Great lessons that everyone can benefit not just those in a leadership positions. Some can even be applied to relationships with kids and spouses.
Quick and easy read. Great lessons that everyone can benefit not just those in a leadership positions. Some can even be applied to relationships with kids and spouses.
January 1, 2020
Yeah I skimmed and I liked it...
This book would’ve been a 5 star if it were shorter.
Overkill on the stories.
What I did get from this read is reassurance.
I’ve been practicing everything that was written.
Feels real good to know that I’m on the darkest of roads to my black heart’s desire.
This book would’ve been a 5 star if it were shorter.
Overkill on the stories.
What I did get from this read is reassurance.
I’ve been practicing everything that was written.
Feels real good to know that I’m on the darkest of roads to my black heart’s desire.
April 5, 2024
Es un buen libro de consejos, retoma varios que ya se han visto sobretodo de "como hacer amigos e influir en las personas" pero creo que no los mira desde otra perspectiva y algunos profundiza más, además de otros consejos.
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