Die neue Kunst, den Mann fürs Leben zu finden. The Rules II.

The Rules #2

by Ellen Fein

You are a creature unlike any other (Rule #1)--that's why you need . . . The Rules. A simple set of dos and don'ts, The Rules will lead you to where you want to be: in a healthy, committed relationship. Unlike today's haphazard dating customs, The Rules recognizes certain facts of life. That men know what they want. That a man is either attracted to you--or not That men want a challenge, not an instant or easy victory. When you follow these commonsense guidelines, you treat yourself with respect and dignity--and demand that men do likewise. Although they sound old-fashioned ("Don't see him more than once or twice a week"), they encourage you to lead a full, satisfying, busy life--outside of romance. Although they seem tough ("Don't talk to a man first"), they will teach you how to accept occasional defeat and move on. And although they require discipline ("No more than casual kissing on the first date"), they will bring out the best in you and in the men you date. The goal? Marriage, in the shortest time possible, to a man you love, who loves you even more than you love him.

Genres: Relationships, Self Help, Nonfiction, Psychology, Love

231 pages, Paperback

First published September 1, 1997

Reviews

[Amara · Rating 3 out of 5]

Don't read this expecting actual help. Read this when you're bored out of your freaking mind getting hopped up on caffeine at a Barnes and Noble. Then laugh hysterically at the sexist bullshit this author thinks is the way to land a man. Way to perpetuate the female archetype of manipulator.

I totally rated this book the same as the first. My thoughts on it are the same. As well as the fact that I really did read it at a Barnes and Noble hopped up on too much Starbucks.

[Yamila · Rating 5 out of 5]

Everybody should read this book, single or married, male or female. It gives basic rules for romantic relationships.

[Sweetrica Baker · Rating 5 out of 5]

I love this book. When I was single I couldnt understand why guys would stop calling. After I read it I made that mistake a lot less. Great book if you have a hard time hooking them and keeping them.

[S S · Rating 5 out of 5]

In "The Rules II," the authors expand on their popular relationship advice book, providing additional insights and rules for women seeking love and fulfillment. Building on the principles of the original "The Rules," this sequel emphasizes the importance of self-worth, emotional strength, and setting boundaries. The authors guide readers through various aspects of dating, including navigating mixed signals, dealing with commitment issues, and maintaining healthy relationships. With a witty and relatable tone, they empower women to take charge of their love lives and create lasting connections based on respect, communication, and mutual growth.

One rule I love is not accepting a second date with a man who doesn't call you within a day of your first date. Some women might think that the man should have leeway but no. Men will tell you they didn't call within a day because they're "busy", but a man who is interested will call within a day of the first date. I went on a first date with a guy who told me he's busy and doesn't usually call a woman quickly after a first date because of his "busy" schedule. On OkCupid there are questions people can answer and one question is how soon do you call someone after a good first date and he answered that he calls right away or within a day. This shows men lie to spare your feelings. He told me he took time to call because he wasn't interested in me and wasn't going to call me again anyways (he never did). Don't listen to people who say these rules are outdated.

[Kecia · Rating 2 out of 5]

A rehash of the first book.

[Bryn]

AKA The gay Rules(tm).

[Caroline]

This book does not necessarily represent all I believe to be true about relationships, but it is a lot of fun to read out loud on a roadtrip with girlfriends!

[Rebecca · Rating 3 out of 5]

Good but seemed unessisary.

[Ingrid · Rating 3 out of 5]

I don't believe in any of this, but it's such a funny book without intending to be.

[Rita · Rating 2 out of 5]

I read this book when i was single, most for curiosity... I have to say that I am married now, but i don't think it was becouse i read the book... it was becouse I was my self.

[Steffany · Rating 3 out of 5]

Very interesting, may be it is the way to do it?

[Susan Morton · Rating 3 out of 5]

same as first one really slight changes

[Cheri · Rating 2 out of 5]

more funny than anything