Thank goodness for authors such as Max Arthur (and Lyn MacDonald, among others), who succeeded in obtaining oral histories from WWI veterans, individuals who usually were understandably unwilling to talk about their experiences. In Last Post, Arthur interviews all of his subjects when they are past their century mark - in fact, these were the final 21 British veterans of WWI; all have since passed away, Harry Patch being the last in July 2009, just days after the oldest, Henry Allingham, at 113 years old.
These interviews are conducted as an arc, not simply "what happened in the war?", and the memories of these men are far clearer than one might expect, given their age. They describe their childhoods, family life, and the years before the war as clearly as they do the years after - meeting and marrying spouses, raising children, employment, etc. For me, it made their accounts of wartime experience all the more poignant, as it is clear that they remember those years as vividly, years most would prefer to forget.
The interviews convey grace, dignity, and a remembrance of beloved friends who didn't come back that hasn't dimmed in the near-century of separation. The photographs are wonderful as well, as they are testimony to the care provided by family, careworkers and others - these men do not appear physically neglected, but respectfully cared for.
In particular, several of the veterans commented on the "secret" of how they lived so long, and how they "moved past" the war; it is sound advice for all of us, whatever our difficulties. Alfred Anderson is quoted:
"But I didn't want to go over those old memories. It's over - it's passed. If I dwelled on what happened during those terrible times, I would never have lived to see the age I am now. I've tried to put all those thoughts behind me. I've no wish to revive them. But what I saw and went through still affects me, even to this day...It doesn't do to look back. We lived for each day during the war - and even at my age, now, I do the same thing. I'm still looking forward. I'm more interested in what's happening now."
A wise balance between remembering, but not dwelling on, difficult times.
I specifically chose to read this before this centennial began, and it was good to read about the full arc of their life and see that they indeed had full lives, that the war didn't rob them of happiness for the rest of their lives.