"...the most strenuous efforts of the most committed educationalists in the years since my boyhood have been unable to make a school into anything but a school, which is to say a jail with educational opportunities." (p.14)
"I was a lonely child, but I liked loneliness and I like it still. Despite my mother I was a woods child, and what the woods taught me is still at the heart of my life." (p.18)
"I fell in love with beautiful books, and now, as an old man, I have a harem which is by no means trivial." (p.65)
"...belief posits adherance to a creed, and a creed posits belief in a God, a Prime Mover, a Creator, and an Imminent Presence. And that won't wash...it's pretty widely accepted now among the advanced people- the molecular biologists, you know- that the recent investigations into basic organic stuff show clearly that all forms of life come into being by pure chance, through unpredictable mutation, and because of necessity probably rooted in Darwinian selection. And that makes it quite out of the question to posit any Master Plan, or Planner, or scheme of Creation. Simply won't wash." (p.67/68)
"'Belief where there is unquestionable proof would be possible only to someone who had final knowledge of all things. Someone with God's view of history. We have to put up with the knowledge that's open to us during our lifetimes. We can't have knowledge of future things; we only have a scrappy knowledge of past things. You know what the sailor said when he was told that King Solomon was the wisest man the world had ever known, or would ever know?'
'Can't say I do.'
The sailor said, 'If I had Solomon aboard my ship he wouldn't know a jib-boom from a poop lantern.'" (p.68)
"I knew that he prayed a great deal, of course for help in his examinations. But subsequent clinical experience has convinced me that God is not particularly interested in examinations, just as he won;t be dragged into the stock Market, or being a backer in show business." (p.76)
"Their very silences were rhetorical." (p.88)
"To learn to see what is right in front of one's nose; that is the task and a heavy task it is. It demands a certain stillness of spirit, which is not the same thing as dimness of personality, and need not be partnered with a retiring, bland social life." (p.129)
"I cannot think of a better term for it: the drye mock. Not sarcasm, which is like vinegar, or cynicism, which is so often the voice of disappointed idealism, but a delicate casting of a cool and illuminating light on life, and thus an enlargement. The ironist is not bitter, he does not seek to undercut everything that seems worthy or serious, he scorns the cheap scoring-off of the wisecracker." (p.136)
"The drye mock is not for all audiences: sometimes it falls flat." (p.167)
"Very few people can be cured by a doctor they do not like and I have even heard people say that they could not be cured by a man who was obviously stupider than themselves." (p.226)
"Treatment must be intensely personal, and if sometimes it strays into the realm of the mind, there the physician must follow it. But usually it is in that realm where mind and body mingle- where the mind affects the body and the body the mind, and where untangling the relationship is the Devil's own work,and takes time and appreciation and sympathy- that the hard-driven practicioner and his specialist brother cannot be expected to provide for every patient who knocks on his door." (p.227)
"I settle down in my living-room to read, to listen to music, but always beneath the surface occupation to think about my patients and my work, and I am wrapped in my own sort of happiness, when nothing hurts." (p.238)
"Ceremonial. When I was young I thought, like a real Canadian of the twentieth century, that anything that was too carefully ordered was not 'sincere,' and I accepted sincerity- meaning life stripped of beauty though not wholly of decency- as the greatest of values. Anything goes, so long as it is 'sincere,' however squalid, illiterate, and confused it may seem.
The war cured me of that. I saw the sincerity, the wholehearted acquiescence, of good men fighting for a cause they could not have summed up, for a country of which they knew very little, for 'values' they had never heard seriously questioned. I had seen that sincerity turned to bitterness in the men that had been brought low by 'friendly fire,' and who had nothing to cling to, nothing to show them that there might be something beyond the muddle of belief, or mere acquiescence, with which the best of them had gone to war. They knew no ceremonial that might light their way. Even the worldly splendour of monarchy and patriotism was denied them, because these things had been brought low by 'sincere' thinkers who saw through everything that was not on the flattest levels of mediocrity." (p.248)
"Any enlightenment must come from yourself. It's rooted in the Divine Reality that we find in our minds- mind in the largest definition and not just the calculator inside your head- that recognizes and reflects the Divine Reality in all things." (p.250)
"Old Burton would have described her illness as Maids', Nuns', and Widows' Melancholy, but that would not have been quite accurate. It was not sexual experience alone that she was missing, but something far broader. She exemplified, with clarity, the Revenge of the Unlived Life, the rejection of whatever possibilities had been open to her as a young woman, the abandonment of love or any strong emotion." (p.256)
"Vanity is where they all score high, as I suppose all artists must do. Without vanity how could they survive?" (p.264)
"In the world of art you never know who knows or has known who, and what is personal and what is derivative. That's part of the misery of the lesser artist. People think they copy, whereas they really just think the same way as somebody bigger, but not as effectively." (p.269)
"She says we must curtsy at first meeting. I say for an Englishwoman to curtsy to any Canadian, however highly placed, is against Nature and is indeed a kind of ceremonial sodomy and nothing will make me do it." (p. 276)
"One of the worst basic ills is anger, or resentment, or simple grievance; that one can assume shapes that would astound you. And they all speak through the body, not clearly or obviously, but with a determination that can shadow a life or end a life." (p.283)
"But that's Toronto for you- and Canada, because this country is still pretty much pioneer in its deepest feelings and thinks art is something the women amuse themselves with in the long winter evenings- you know, knitting, tatting, and barbola- while the men drink bootleg hooch in the barn." (p.302)
"Mankind must have something upon which to hang its great Dread, which is Everyman's Fatality." (p.306)
"There is a whole large class of society- called children- to whom mothers are not women, but inescapable appendages, sometimes dear, sometimes not, and never full human beings but supporting players in their own intense drama." (p.309)
"A little self-pity, I have always found, is very agreeable, so long as one keeps it to oneself. Who would pity me, if I didn't? An old man, and apparently without a friend in the world. I was cheered after a consultation with a patient who complained of constant and medically inexplicable indigestion. I did not tell him that I was certain he was married to the cause of his indigestion, but I took some comfort in the fact that I had at least escaped the wretchedness of a bad marriage, patiently endured." (p.346)
"More humanism and less science- that's what medicine needs. But humanism is hard work and a lot of science is just Tinkertoy." (p.356)
"The world had, without my being strongly aware of it, changed its attitude toward sex dramatically, though not, I think, deeply. Homosexuality had become, not the love that dares not speak its name, but the love that never knows when to shut up." (p.364)
"...much of the class system of European and American life right up until the present century, rested upon the distinction between those who dealt habitually with human detritus and those who did not." (p.371)
"That's what happened to music, and arts generally, in Toronto: respectability has descended in a fog of Arts Councils and Foundations and, although things are better on the whole, so far as performance goes, a lot of the elfin glamour of sin-and-improvisation has been dissipated." (p.377)
"The worst artistic tragedy is not to be a failure, but to fall short of the kind of success you have marked as your own." (p.381)
"His attitude seemed to be that of the nineteenth century, when nakedness was not utterly decried, but was cloaked in a terrible high-mindedness. Frequently quoted was a Mrs. Bishop, a celebrated traveller, who said, 'A woman may be naked, yet behave like a lady.' At the tea-table, one presumes. But it was a far, far better thing for the lady never, never to be naked." (p.395)
"Oh, the tyranny of invalids! How they dominate us happy mortals who are still on our feet, able to meet in some measure the demands of life, and who feel no pain- or not very much pain." (p.407)
"I have no faith that the treatment will heal whatever it was that gave rise to the disease. Nor am I such a fool to think that if I could find the root of the misery, the disease would disappear. The disease is the signal, that a life has become hard to bear." (p.408)
"I thought that the real heroism of death was seen in the one who stood by." (p.415)
"Every love affair is a private madness into which nobody else can hope to penetrate." (p.429)
"And here we are, in this excellent restaurant, drinking this very good claret and eating cutlets, and not looking like people with such a peculiar ancestry. That's the Divine Drama. The onward march of evolution. Astonishing, so far as it's gone, but we're probably only in act Two of a five-act tragicomedy. We are probably a mere waystation on the road to something finer than anything we can now conceive." (p.434)
"Was all this nothing to one who had always thought of himself as an intelligent observer of, if not a very active participator in, the life of his time? Decidedly not. Gain, every moment of it. But what remains for autumn and winter?" (p.436)
"...this is the Great Theatre of Life. Admission is free but the taxation is mortal. You come when you can, and leave when you must. The show is continuous. Good-night." (p.437)