Surprising, funny, sad, compulsively readable. When you read the words "I lived most of my life in fear," you'd think that Martina Navratilova said them, right? After all, she was a closeted lesbian who defected from a Communist country. Nope, Chris Evert said them. Most people who knew Navratilova thought she wasn't afraid enough.
Some other quotes from this remarkable book:
"I'm still tired from the '70s." --Billie Jean King, explaining why she likes to sleep late
"People always thought I was angry. I wasn't. I was determined." --BJK again
"Men are playing tennis for a living now. They don't want to give up money just for girls to play . . . Why should we have to split our money with them?" --Arthur Ashe
"You could be the best player ever--I mean in the history of the game. God has given you this extraordinary talent. . . . But if you don't work hard you are not going to make it." --BJK to Navratilova
"Don't say a word to your mother. Just go. If you're going to do it, just stay there. No matter what we say, don't let us talk you into coming back. We may have a gun to our head when we talk with you on the phone." --Navratilova's stepfather, discussing the possibility of the 18-year-old defecting to the United States
"Man is still the breadwinner no matter what the women's libbers say." --Evert
"I still thought of women athletes as freaks, and I used to hate myself, thinking I must not be a whole woman." --Evert
"I'm not a machine." --Evert, sobbing uncontrollably after failing to defend her Wimbledon title
"Can you help me?" --Evert after another match; her hands had cramped around the racquet, leaving her unable to let it go
"I think it's because my parents just never made a big deal about that sort of thing. They never said a bad word about gay people, not even when I first began playing the tennis tour. My mother treated everyone the same, and so I did too." --Evert, describing her progressive views about homosexuality despite growing up in a conservative Catholic family
"I really felt that America was the land of opportunity, the land of dreams, the land where you can be who you are and not have to make any apologies." --Navratilova
"In her wildest imaginings, Martina couldn't believe that people would mistreat her because she was a lesbian. That was un-American in her mind." --Rita Mae Brown
"Who are we to knock it if someone is gay? . . . We're in no position to judge right and wrong in someone else's life." --Evert, in an editorial in World Tennis magazine, 1981
"I hate being called a homosexual. I don't feel homosexual." --BJK in People magazine, 1981
"If we want others to give us respect, we must first be willing to give ourselves respect. We must be proud of who we are. And we cannot do that if we hide." --Navratilova at the gay and lesbian rights march on Washington, 1993
"[Evert is] the perfect image of a lady who happens to be a great tennis player. Whereas I was an athlete who happens to be a woman." --Navratilova
"The ball doesn't know how old I am." --Navratilova in 2000
"I hope when I'm gone somebody will say that I mattered. That's important to me." --Navratilova
"No matter how catty we get with each other in private or in public, I still have a closeness with [Evert] that I will never have with another human being because of what we went through together, on and off the court." --Navratilova