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Our mortal experience is designed to test what we really care about, what we really beleive, and what we really want to become. But how do we keep going when circumstances or events seem to sap the last ounce of our physical, emotional or spiritual energy? This Book on CD discusses some basic truths that will liftl your spirit and help you meet life's challenges head-on.
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Sheri Dew
31 books358 followersSheri Dew graduated from Brigham Young University. She served as second counselor in the general Relief Society of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints from 1997 to 2002. In March 2003 the White House appointed her a member of the U.S. Delegation to the Commission on the Status of Women at the United Nations. In 2002, Sheri Dew became president and CEO of Deseret Book Company.
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September 5, 2008
I have to say, Sheri Dew is not my favorite LDS author because I think she has the same problem I do: she talks sometimes when she should be listening. However, I respect her testimony and her amazing ability to embrace life and make lemonade out of lemons. I liked this book, I find myself having to put it down and take a mental break to absorb all the information that is being presented in often rapid - fire style; especially her thoughts on how we create many of our own mountains - which I completely agree with. Read it with a notepad or your journal handy - the nuggets come fast and you won't want to miss them!
September 13, 2008
She's a great writer. Some motivational books are lots of "Yay! You can do it! You're so awesome! I know you can do anything you put your mind to!" But hers are more effective for me, because I feel like she's saying more along the lines of: "Get up, off your butt, and do what you know you should be doing. It really will make you happier, even though it's harder."
October 19, 2023
Dew telling it like it is. To me, this book is the equivalent of Shia Lebeuf yelling at me to “just do it, nothing is impossible! What are you waiting for?”
Yes. Ma’am.
Yes. Ma’am.
November 23, 2024
I completely misjudged this book. I literally 'judged a book by it's cover'. I thought the title was stupid, but as I have read this book, I realize that although my opinion of the title is unchanged, the contents inside are unsurpassed in value.
I wasn't previously familiar with the writings of Sheri Dew but I enjoyed this book so immensely, I think I will read more of her works.
Her writing style is very down-to-earth. It is simple, yet her message is profound. I like how most of her examples are based on her own life experiences. In sharing her own life with the reader, it helps the reader understand and relate to her as a living, mortal, imperfect person, just as we are. She always backs her experiences with scripture or words from the prophets, both ancient and modern. Because of this, we can know that it is not her speaking only of herself.
She mentions in many instances the fact that she is in her 60s and still unmarried, a joy she would love to realize yet hasn't had that opportunity. She mentions her embarrassment and sorrow when others ask her why she isn't married. It was not by choice, she exclaims. But notwithstanding this ever present disappointment in her life, her experiences have made her who she is. By using her own life as an example, she helped me relate some of her stories to my own life.
The book itself contains relevant and useful topics including the chapter titled The Lord Will Carry our Burdens, not Our Baggage. She explains the way the Jesus Christ has taken upon himself our sins and sorrows, yet there are so many times when we suffer because of our own poor choices. We need not do that. There is a way to let go of that 'baggage' that we carry with us that inhibits our progress toward becoming a better person.
Another chapter heading is You May be Making Life Harder than it Needs to Be. Do we? Can there be a better way? Do we always have to suffer the consequences even of our own actions? This topic not only helps the reader realize how to avoid the sorrow and guilt that brings unhappiness and makes life harder, but it helps us see ways to overcome those actions that have brought us this unhappiness. None of us is perfect, but through the help of Jesus Christ, our example, we can become better people in this life.
I highly recommend this little book to anyone who would like to read about a living example to demonstrate and help us work through challenges in this life of mortality. If you strive or would like to become a better person by utilizing the example and sacrifice of our Lord, Jesus Christ, this book is for you.
I wasn't previously familiar with the writings of Sheri Dew but I enjoyed this book so immensely, I think I will read more of her works.
Her writing style is very down-to-earth. It is simple, yet her message is profound. I like how most of her examples are based on her own life experiences. In sharing her own life with the reader, it helps the reader understand and relate to her as a living, mortal, imperfect person, just as we are. She always backs her experiences with scripture or words from the prophets, both ancient and modern. Because of this, we can know that it is not her speaking only of herself.
She mentions in many instances the fact that she is in her 60s and still unmarried, a joy she would love to realize yet hasn't had that opportunity. She mentions her embarrassment and sorrow when others ask her why she isn't married. It was not by choice, she exclaims. But notwithstanding this ever present disappointment in her life, her experiences have made her who she is. By using her own life as an example, she helped me relate some of her stories to my own life.
The book itself contains relevant and useful topics including the chapter titled The Lord Will Carry our Burdens, not Our Baggage. She explains the way the Jesus Christ has taken upon himself our sins and sorrows, yet there are so many times when we suffer because of our own poor choices. We need not do that. There is a way to let go of that 'baggage' that we carry with us that inhibits our progress toward becoming a better person.
Another chapter heading is You May be Making Life Harder than it Needs to Be. Do we? Can there be a better way? Do we always have to suffer the consequences even of our own actions? This topic not only helps the reader realize how to avoid the sorrow and guilt that brings unhappiness and makes life harder, but it helps us see ways to overcome those actions that have brought us this unhappiness. None of us is perfect, but through the help of Jesus Christ, our example, we can become better people in this life.
I highly recommend this little book to anyone who would like to read about a living example to demonstrate and help us work through challenges in this life of mortality. If you strive or would like to become a better person by utilizing the example and sacrifice of our Lord, Jesus Christ, this book is for you.
March 29, 2008
This was the selection for the Cache LAPoudre bookclub this month. I admit, I was skeptical about reading it. I thought the title is kind of lame and I don't really like self help/doctrinal books, so I borrowed it from a friend and figured I would scan the book so that I could discuss it and support Norma, who chose the book. Well, I read all night. I loved it. This book actually changed the way I view myself and my realtionship with God.
In our meeting Tuesday night, we discussed how charity is more than just an emotion, or a bit of service here and there. It is a way of life, an aspect of one's personality, and is pure, Christlike love.
My favorite part of the whole book is in the last chapter, when Sheri talks about how our Father in Heaven wants us to ask him for our needs. So many people think that there are things which are too trivial for prayer, or that "since God made me smart, he expects me to figure things out by myself, and not bother him." Yet, Sheri points out that there are countless scriptures where God tells us to weary him with our supplications, and variations of that. Then she goes on to quote Bruce R. McConkie and says that if we are diligent in seeking God and living his ways, then no blessing can be held back from us, including blessings of revelation, visions, healings, even communication with God himself. I love it. How often do we sell ourselves short, saying that we are not prophets or apostles, or even that God does not speak to man today. But in this book Sheri asserts that He does not love us less than those who are Prophets or Apostles, or than those who lived in other times, and, through our faith we can recieve the same spiritual gifts as anyone else.
She also talked about how God helps us bear our burdens, but not our baggage. That, we have to let go. It isn't important. It only weakens us, and holds us back from living up to our true potential.
All in all, a good read, with an excellent discussion at Norma's lovely home.
In our meeting Tuesday night, we discussed how charity is more than just an emotion, or a bit of service here and there. It is a way of life, an aspect of one's personality, and is pure, Christlike love.
My favorite part of the whole book is in the last chapter, when Sheri talks about how our Father in Heaven wants us to ask him for our needs. So many people think that there are things which are too trivial for prayer, or that "since God made me smart, he expects me to figure things out by myself, and not bother him." Yet, Sheri points out that there are countless scriptures where God tells us to weary him with our supplications, and variations of that. Then she goes on to quote Bruce R. McConkie and says that if we are diligent in seeking God and living his ways, then no blessing can be held back from us, including blessings of revelation, visions, healings, even communication with God himself. I love it. How often do we sell ourselves short, saying that we are not prophets or apostles, or even that God does not speak to man today. But in this book Sheri asserts that He does not love us less than those who are Prophets or Apostles, or than those who lived in other times, and, through our faith we can recieve the same spiritual gifts as anyone else.
She also talked about how God helps us bear our burdens, but not our baggage. That, we have to let go. It isn't important. It only weakens us, and holds us back from living up to our true potential.
All in all, a good read, with an excellent discussion at Norma's lovely home.
August 5, 2011
3.5 stars. A great, quick, inspirational pick-me-up. Most of it has been heard before, but it was still very strengthening and supportive. I especially enjoyed Dew's sections on charity and on seeking spiritual gifts. Two chapters in particular (about chastity and virtue) seemed to be randomly stuck in the middle of the book without reason. They were appreciated and very well written, they just didn't seem to have much to do with Dew's theme of enduring to the end... But other that I really enjoyed this short book. Will probably be picking it up again in the future when I need another concise reminder of what's important.
April 1, 2009
This is an uplifting read. The ideas & principles have left me with good things to think about - things that I hope will change some of my thoughts & behaviors. One of the main points of the book is that we as LDS women want to feel close to the Savior but don't seem to find time to do the basic things (searching the scriptures, saying sincere daily prayer) that allow that to happen. This book was a good reminder of priorities. Sheri Dew really tapped into some of the qualities we possess as women & talked about how to enhance them.
June 11, 2013
This little books delivers Sherrie Dew's capsules of wisdom gathered throughout her lifetime, with some personal examples to make them that much more captivating. The author's thesis: that life has its challenges and hardships and tribulations, but the worst shouldn't keep anyone from happiness. The book treats women's issues with traditional stances, but well argued and with lots of good common sense along with the faith and inspiration. Easy and comforting and challenging reading for anyone who is or has suffered (and is there anyone who hasn't?).
March 29, 2018
Sheri Dew is the former General Relief Society Councilor of the LDS Church, of which I am a member. This book covers a lot of gospel principles and talks about why life is meant to be a challenge and how sometimes we make life harder than it needs to be. It explains the gospel plan and our part in it. The book is very uplifting and encouraging and inspirational. I loved it and it helped me through some difficult times.
November 25, 2021
Fantastic listening, just added this one to my wish list I want to add it to my personal bookshelf. Sheri Dew has become a new romodle to me and I am so greatful that she shares her testimony with others!This life is a test and it won't be easy. With Gods help we can make it back home.
This book was published years ago and it's even more relevant today.
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This book was published years ago and it's even more relevant today.
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May 8, 2012
I absolutely loved this book. It was a fast read and I feel everyone that has any type of difficult in their life would be interested in this book. I highly recommend it to all. Sheri Dew did a great job. I hope you take the time to read it. You won't want to put it down.
December 3, 2008
This book was a bit too shiny/happy/vague to be of any real help. I guess it would be good for someone who just wanted some "feel good" quotes to browse through every once in awhile.
March 26, 2013
Every woman should read this book. Great insights into service and compassion and finding motivation to keep striving for good things.
December 4, 2017
I love this book so much!! Sheri Dew is one of my all-time heroes and she has such an amazing talent of testifying of truth and making it seem livable and pertinent to my life. Highly recommend!!
May 18, 2019
Maybe it was the timing for me on reading this book, but it seemed to speak to my soul! My son is in the CICU, and just had open heart surgery, so as you can imagine, life seems extra hard for me right now. But whether you have a sick child or not, everyone’s life is hard. And everybody at some point in their life will hit a point where it seems life couldn’t be harder. But what this book does an excellent job at revealing is that those who come into Christ and rely on him for strength, always seem have to a little extra help from heaven. I loved reading about different examples of saints (prophets, apostles, and other everyday saints), who drew unto Christ during particularly trying times and as a result, received some of life’s sweetest revelations. I believe in Christ!
August 10, 2020
A nice, short book for a Sunday afternoon read.
Among many other stories and ideas, Sister Dew tells the story of how she prayed for her friend to be able to purchase a particular home "or something better." Well, I happen to have recently read a book by Sister Nelson where a friend prayed for that exact same thing for her. Sister Nelson must have been the friend! This book doesn't mention that Sister Nelson actually did find a home for herself and President Nelson that was better than that one she liked. Maybe this is just a very similar story, but I wouldn't be surprised if Sister Dew was referring to Sister Nelson.
Life is hard and requires effort. Heavenly Father loves us and will help us.
Among many other stories and ideas, Sister Dew tells the story of how she prayed for her friend to be able to purchase a particular home "or something better." Well, I happen to have recently read a book by Sister Nelson where a friend prayed for that exact same thing for her. Sister Nelson must have been the friend! This book doesn't mention that Sister Nelson actually did find a home for herself and President Nelson that was better than that one she liked. Maybe this is just a very similar story, but I wouldn't be surprised if Sister Dew was referring to Sister Nelson.
Life is hard and requires effort. Heavenly Father loves us and will help us.
November 12, 2018
I was given this book as a gift. I don't usually read religious books other than the scriptures and I won't lie: I totally put off reading this one. I have picked it up and started it a few times and kept plugging along until I finally finished it. I'm glad I did. It shouldn't have taken me so long to read, but for a little book it sure has a lot to talk about and you really need to take breaks to think and ponder. That must be why it has it's own little built-in ribbon bookmark. It was interesting, thought-provoking and even brought tears to my eyes more than once. I probably need to read it again and take a few notes.
January 19, 2023
Delightful. Inspiring. Honest. Forthright. I’m going to keep working towards something better.
July 26, 2024
Just love Sister Dew's books. EVERY man needs should read her books as well as Sister Nelson's.
March 27, 2021
Especially enjoyed the last chapter. Always good to remind ourselves what great things God has offered to bless us with - if we but ask Him.
November 27, 2020
Loved this. Life is meant to be challenging so that we turn to our Father.
December 30, 2020
Kui elu oleks kerge, ei oleks see raske!
Mulle nii meeldib see tsitaat: "Life is designed to be challenging precisely so that we will turn to our Father, learn about Him and His Son, commit above all else to follow Jesus Christ, and then spend every day of our lives learning more about Him and His gospel - a gospel that is filled with peace and hope and power."
Mulle nii meeldib see tsitaat: "Life is designed to be challenging precisely so that we will turn to our Father, learn about Him and His Son, commit above all else to follow Jesus Christ, and then spend every day of our lives learning more about Him and His gospel - a gospel that is filled with peace and hope and power."
February 23, 2017
I absolutely LOVED this LDS insightful and soul deepening book. There were many passages that just floored me in how I can change my perspectives and actions for the better. Sheri Dew is a wonderful speaker and her book continues her trend of delightful and personal stories that are applicable to life and illustrate powerful and poignant messages.
In this book, Dew examines life and the common hardships many of us face. She then offers unique perspectives and deep reflective questions. For instance some themes and examples:
1. Burdens vs. Baggage: Burdens are the heartaches natural to life (i.e. loneliness, heartbreak etc) while baggage are what we choose to carry and weigh us down. Baggage include: worry, jealousy, guilt, unforgiving heart, anger, resentment etc. How often do we unnecessarily weigh ourselves down by holding on to emotions or events that hurt us?
2. 3 self esteem and soul Destructive C's: competing, comparing, and categorizing
3. Uplifting reminders about a woman's worth and how to increase personal empowerment
4. Precious and significant role of motherhood--at all ages and even when not currently a mother
5. Trials and adversity as tests to not only help us grow but to discover who you truly are and what you truly believe. For instance, how would you know that you are an honest person if your honesty wasn't tested? How do you know that you truly believe in the principle of optimism if you have never experienced hard times?
6. How to take one's spirituality to the next level and personal reflection questions. Example: Are you stunting your own growth by feeling complacent or not asking if there is more-- more that you can do, more that you can learn, more gifts that you can be blessed with and share with others?
My favorite section (and crowning jewel of wisdom) was her discussion on charity:
"We tend to define charity as something we do or feel, but in our Father's vernacular, charity means much more. It is the word He uses to describe the character, the nature, the very essence of His Son…. Charity is who the Savior is….It is what enabled Him to endure the Garden and the Cross for you and me….Thus, when we plead for the gift of charity we aren't asking for lovely feelings toward someone who bugs us or who has injured or wounded us. We are actually pleading for our natures to be changed, for our character and disposition to become more and more like the Savior's, so that we literally feel as He would feel and thus do what He would do."
"The healing power of charity, bestowed by our Father and made possible by the Atonement of Jesus Christ, can make it virtually impossible for us even to feel emotions common to the natural man." (note: such emotions and feelings of anger, impatience, discouragement, jealousy, etc)
This read is a MUST read and I finished reading filled with hope and peace. I had a period of feeling very discouraged. I realized that I was being unnecessarily hard on myself, while in fact, I was doing better than I thought I was. I realized that I need to have more patience with myself and let go of unnecessary "baggage" as Sheri Dew says. I highly recommend this book!
In this book, Dew examines life and the common hardships many of us face. She then offers unique perspectives and deep reflective questions. For instance some themes and examples:
1. Burdens vs. Baggage: Burdens are the heartaches natural to life (i.e. loneliness, heartbreak etc) while baggage are what we choose to carry and weigh us down. Baggage include: worry, jealousy, guilt, unforgiving heart, anger, resentment etc. How often do we unnecessarily weigh ourselves down by holding on to emotions or events that hurt us?
2. 3 self esteem and soul Destructive C's: competing, comparing, and categorizing
3. Uplifting reminders about a woman's worth and how to increase personal empowerment
4. Precious and significant role of motherhood--at all ages and even when not currently a mother
5. Trials and adversity as tests to not only help us grow but to discover who you truly are and what you truly believe. For instance, how would you know that you are an honest person if your honesty wasn't tested? How do you know that you truly believe in the principle of optimism if you have never experienced hard times?
6. How to take one's spirituality to the next level and personal reflection questions. Example: Are you stunting your own growth by feeling complacent or not asking if there is more-- more that you can do, more that you can learn, more gifts that you can be blessed with and share with others?
My favorite section (and crowning jewel of wisdom) was her discussion on charity:
"We tend to define charity as something we do or feel, but in our Father's vernacular, charity means much more. It is the word He uses to describe the character, the nature, the very essence of His Son…. Charity is who the Savior is….It is what enabled Him to endure the Garden and the Cross for you and me….Thus, when we plead for the gift of charity we aren't asking for lovely feelings toward someone who bugs us or who has injured or wounded us. We are actually pleading for our natures to be changed, for our character and disposition to become more and more like the Savior's, so that we literally feel as He would feel and thus do what He would do."
"The healing power of charity, bestowed by our Father and made possible by the Atonement of Jesus Christ, can make it virtually impossible for us even to feel emotions common to the natural man." (note: such emotions and feelings of anger, impatience, discouragement, jealousy, etc)
This read is a MUST read and I finished reading filled with hope and peace. I had a period of feeling very discouraged. I realized that I was being unnecessarily hard on myself, while in fact, I was doing better than I thought I was. I realized that I need to have more patience with myself and let go of unnecessary "baggage" as Sheri Dew says. I highly recommend this book!
October 19, 2019
Here are some of the statements that impressed me in this book. Since I read an electronic copy, instead of page numbers, the location is given as a percentage.
"We don't really know what we believe in or care about until what we believe in or care about is threatened, challenged, or measured. We don't really know if we care about being virtuous men and women until our virtue is tested by some glaring temptation right in front of us. We don't really find out if we are men and women of integrity until unobserved opportunities to compromise our integrity present themselves. We don't know if we'll stand up for what we believe until we must do so in a hostile or at least skeptical environment. (11%)"
"To make matters worse, the blatant evil of ancient Sodom and Gomorrah was not instantly broadcast by satellite around the world and around the clock, as it is today. The cumulative effect of this barrage of evil carried through every imaginable form of media is devastating. Evil breeds evil. And constant exposure to evil that even a few years ago would have horrified any God-fearing man or woman, regardless of religious or cultural beliefs, spawns familiarity. Sexually explicit material, behaviors, and lifestyles that were talked about in hushed tones and found only in dark alleys when I was young are now embraced as liberating, open-minded, and, worst of all, as normal. Familiarity breeds normality, meaning it makes aberrant behavior seem and feelnormal. And anytime Lucifer convinces a man or woman—or, most horrifying, a society—that unrighteous behavior is normal, he has made inroads that are difficult to combat and almost impossible to reverse. (16%)"
"An episode in Accra, Ghana, is unforgettable. I had asked a large group of women, all Church leaders, to help me understand the unique challenges they faced. They were slow to respond and seemed to struggle with the question. Finally a beautiful African woman raised her hand and said, "Sister Dew, we do have challenges here, but we believe in Jesus Christ, and so we are happy." And they were happy—perhaps the happiest group of women I've ever met or observed. As I flew back to the United States, I couldn't help but reflect that far too often those of us who live in America have everything except happiness. Those women who had so relatively little of the world's goods had nothing but happiness. The reason: their faith in the Lord and that He would provide for them. (19%)"
"Likewise, on this jaunt through mortality we've simply got to leave our baggage behind, because our spiritual joints can't take the pounding."
"When I speak of baggage, I'm not talking about burdens. Burdens are part of the mortal experience—the burdens that come with unfulfilled expectations, with disappointment and heartache, with affliction and wavering faith. Loneliness can be a burden. Emotional wounds can be burdens. Heavy assignments from the Lord can feel like burdens. And certainly, sin creates burdens. But the Savior atoned precisely so we wouldn't have to carry our burdens alone. (24%)"
"Years ago I attended a fireside at which a General Authority asked the audience how to tell if someone is a true follower of Jesus Christ. The chapel full of adults responded with a chalkboard full of answers, none of which was the one he was looking for. Finally he wiped the board clean and said something I've never forgotten: "Observation and personal experience have taught me that the way you can tell if someone is truly converted to Jesus Christ is by how that person treats others."
"His answer surprised me. In fact—and this will reveal something about my level of spiritual maturity at the time—I didn't buy it. I immediately flipped open my scriptures and began to search for evidence to prove him wrong. But as it turns out, the doctrine that you can identify true followers of Jesus Christ by how they treat others is everywhere in the scriptures."
"When the Pharisees asked the Savior which was the greatest commandment, He responded, "Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart. . . . This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets" (Matthew 22:36–40; emphasis added). (27%)"
"There are times when I wonder if the final judgment will be a breeze compared with what we put each other through here on earth! Our Father did not intend for His children to wrench each other's heartstrings. (36%)"
"It is one of the things that makes Him God. Thus, when we plead for the gift of charity, we aren't asking for lovely feelings toward someone who bugs us or someone who has injured or wounded us. We are actually pleading for our very natures to be changed, for our character and disposition to become more and more like the Savior's, so that we literally feel as He would feel and thus do what He would do. (44%)"
"So on those days when we're not ready to stop being offended about something, not ready to forgive someone, still determined to give someone the silent treatment, and so on, what we're actually saying is, "Wait! I don't want to become more like the Savior today. (49%)"
"President Ezra Taft Benson described the process this way: "The Lord works from the inside out. The world works from the outside in. The world would take people out of the slums. Christ takes the slums out of the people, and then they take themselves out of the slums. The world would mold men by changing their environment. Christ changes men, who then change their environment. The world would shape human behavior, but Christ can change human nature" (in Conference Report, October 1985, 5). (49%)"
"Imaginewhat would happen—in our families, our wards, our neighborhoods, everywhere—if we dumped some of our baggage, and if the comparing, competing, and categorizing stopped. The stopping can start now: with us. I invite you to identify one piece of baggage you want to get rid of. Plead with the Lord to change your heart about something or someone. Plead with Him to change your very nature in an area that has always plagued you. (54%)"
"No suggestive DVD, movie, or song lyric can come close to capturing the sweet feelings that flow between a man and a woman who have made sacred covenants with each other and who become one as the Lord intended."
"Very simply, living the law of chastity is the linchpin to every significant spiritual privilege. Living the law of chastity is the gateway to immortality. (72%)"
"... far too many of my young women are succumbing to sexual advances, often in an effort to overcome their feelings of low self-worth. Ironically, even moments after intimacy, they feel more worthless than ever before." (78%)"
"A subsequent question asked the women to explain why they felt they weren't doing well. The list of responses was uncanny, because all 200 were essentially the same. The answers read generally like this: "I know I should pray more, and I know I should read the scriptures, but I get caught up in everyday life and don't do it. I know those things would make a difference." (85%)"
"I vividly remember seminary lessons in which we talked about unbelievers, almost always picturing them as heartless, faithless, even obstinate and wicked people. But over the years I have wondered if the most sobering kind of unbelief is actually that of faithful members of the Church sitting in sacrament meeting every week—members who don't really believe the Lord will reveal His mind and will and workings to them, and have thus hardened their hearts to their spiritual possibilities, potential, and privileges. (88%)"
"No one loves us more than our Father and the Son. No one understands us better. No one is more eager for us to succeed. And no one better comprehends exactly what we each need to experience in order to return and live with them."
"May we therefore devote all our days, all our energy to heeding the word of God and diligently seeking after Him and His Son. For therein lies pure joy. (The conclusion)
"We don't really know what we believe in or care about until what we believe in or care about is threatened, challenged, or measured. We don't really know if we care about being virtuous men and women until our virtue is tested by some glaring temptation right in front of us. We don't really find out if we are men and women of integrity until unobserved opportunities to compromise our integrity present themselves. We don't know if we'll stand up for what we believe until we must do so in a hostile or at least skeptical environment. (11%)"
"To make matters worse, the blatant evil of ancient Sodom and Gomorrah was not instantly broadcast by satellite around the world and around the clock, as it is today. The cumulative effect of this barrage of evil carried through every imaginable form of media is devastating. Evil breeds evil. And constant exposure to evil that even a few years ago would have horrified any God-fearing man or woman, regardless of religious or cultural beliefs, spawns familiarity. Sexually explicit material, behaviors, and lifestyles that were talked about in hushed tones and found only in dark alleys when I was young are now embraced as liberating, open-minded, and, worst of all, as normal. Familiarity breeds normality, meaning it makes aberrant behavior seem and feelnormal. And anytime Lucifer convinces a man or woman—or, most horrifying, a society—that unrighteous behavior is normal, he has made inroads that are difficult to combat and almost impossible to reverse. (16%)"
"An episode in Accra, Ghana, is unforgettable. I had asked a large group of women, all Church leaders, to help me understand the unique challenges they faced. They were slow to respond and seemed to struggle with the question. Finally a beautiful African woman raised her hand and said, "Sister Dew, we do have challenges here, but we believe in Jesus Christ, and so we are happy." And they were happy—perhaps the happiest group of women I've ever met or observed. As I flew back to the United States, I couldn't help but reflect that far too often those of us who live in America have everything except happiness. Those women who had so relatively little of the world's goods had nothing but happiness. The reason: their faith in the Lord and that He would provide for them. (19%)"
"Likewise, on this jaunt through mortality we've simply got to leave our baggage behind, because our spiritual joints can't take the pounding."
"When I speak of baggage, I'm not talking about burdens. Burdens are part of the mortal experience—the burdens that come with unfulfilled expectations, with disappointment and heartache, with affliction and wavering faith. Loneliness can be a burden. Emotional wounds can be burdens. Heavy assignments from the Lord can feel like burdens. And certainly, sin creates burdens. But the Savior atoned precisely so we wouldn't have to carry our burdens alone. (24%)"
"Years ago I attended a fireside at which a General Authority asked the audience how to tell if someone is a true follower of Jesus Christ. The chapel full of adults responded with a chalkboard full of answers, none of which was the one he was looking for. Finally he wiped the board clean and said something I've never forgotten: "Observation and personal experience have taught me that the way you can tell if someone is truly converted to Jesus Christ is by how that person treats others."
"His answer surprised me. In fact—and this will reveal something about my level of spiritual maturity at the time—I didn't buy it. I immediately flipped open my scriptures and began to search for evidence to prove him wrong. But as it turns out, the doctrine that you can identify true followers of Jesus Christ by how they treat others is everywhere in the scriptures."
"When the Pharisees asked the Savior which was the greatest commandment, He responded, "Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart. . . . This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets" (Matthew 22:36–40; emphasis added). (27%)"
"There are times when I wonder if the final judgment will be a breeze compared with what we put each other through here on earth! Our Father did not intend for His children to wrench each other's heartstrings. (36%)"
"It is one of the things that makes Him God. Thus, when we plead for the gift of charity, we aren't asking for lovely feelings toward someone who bugs us or someone who has injured or wounded us. We are actually pleading for our very natures to be changed, for our character and disposition to become more and more like the Savior's, so that we literally feel as He would feel and thus do what He would do. (44%)"
"So on those days when we're not ready to stop being offended about something, not ready to forgive someone, still determined to give someone the silent treatment, and so on, what we're actually saying is, "Wait! I don't want to become more like the Savior today. (49%)"
"President Ezra Taft Benson described the process this way: "The Lord works from the inside out. The world works from the outside in. The world would take people out of the slums. Christ takes the slums out of the people, and then they take themselves out of the slums. The world would mold men by changing their environment. Christ changes men, who then change their environment. The world would shape human behavior, but Christ can change human nature" (in Conference Report, October 1985, 5). (49%)"
"Imaginewhat would happen—in our families, our wards, our neighborhoods, everywhere—if we dumped some of our baggage, and if the comparing, competing, and categorizing stopped. The stopping can start now: with us. I invite you to identify one piece of baggage you want to get rid of. Plead with the Lord to change your heart about something or someone. Plead with Him to change your very nature in an area that has always plagued you. (54%)"
"No suggestive DVD, movie, or song lyric can come close to capturing the sweet feelings that flow between a man and a woman who have made sacred covenants with each other and who become one as the Lord intended."
"Very simply, living the law of chastity is the linchpin to every significant spiritual privilege. Living the law of chastity is the gateway to immortality. (72%)"
"... far too many of my young women are succumbing to sexual advances, often in an effort to overcome their feelings of low self-worth. Ironically, even moments after intimacy, they feel more worthless than ever before." (78%)"
"A subsequent question asked the women to explain why they felt they weren't doing well. The list of responses was uncanny, because all 200 were essentially the same. The answers read generally like this: "I know I should pray more, and I know I should read the scriptures, but I get caught up in everyday life and don't do it. I know those things would make a difference." (85%)"
"I vividly remember seminary lessons in which we talked about unbelievers, almost always picturing them as heartless, faithless, even obstinate and wicked people. But over the years I have wondered if the most sobering kind of unbelief is actually that of faithful members of the Church sitting in sacrament meeting every week—members who don't really believe the Lord will reveal His mind and will and workings to them, and have thus hardened their hearts to their spiritual possibilities, potential, and privileges. (88%)"
"No one loves us more than our Father and the Son. No one understands us better. No one is more eager for us to succeed. And no one better comprehends exactly what we each need to experience in order to return and live with them."
"May we therefore devote all our days, all our energy to heeding the word of God and diligently seeking after Him and His Son. For therein lies pure joy. (The conclusion)
August 30, 2010
I liked this book so much I haven't started reading Mockingjay yet....I wanted to finish this one first! Sheri Dew has a great way of being encouraging while pointing out ways to improve in areas where we may be falling short. I felt inspired to seek to follow the Savior more earnestly and to truly walk the Christian walk more completely in my life.
Two favorite quotes:
"Why do we compete with each other? If we all had the capacity to work at our peak every day to build the kingdom, which none of us have, there would still be more to do, more to accomplish, more to get done, more people to influence. Why do we not therefore cheer for each other's gifts, contributions, and sincere efforts to make a difference in the world? Why do we make comparisons that are never fair? Why do we have an insatiable urge to label and categorize everyone when no one can be defined by a one-dimensional category?"
"Unfortunately, perhaps too many of us are content to simply move through our days and weeks, attempting to keep the distractions of the world at bay, even working hard to serve the Lord and fulfill our various obligations. But we don't act as if we believe in the Lord's promises regarding our spiritual privileges. We don't really believe He will tutor us personally regarding the hidden doctrines of the kingdom. We're not riveted on the teachings of the prophets, seers, and revelators. We don't dive into the doctrine to gain a sense of the magnitude of what the Lord has promised us. Maybe we're afraid that somehow we're not worthy enough to partake of all our Father and His Son have to offer. And those incorrect beliefs and fears keep us from seeking and studying and laboring diligently to learn and to know."
Two favorite quotes:
"Why do we compete with each other? If we all had the capacity to work at our peak every day to build the kingdom, which none of us have, there would still be more to do, more to accomplish, more to get done, more people to influence. Why do we not therefore cheer for each other's gifts, contributions, and sincere efforts to make a difference in the world? Why do we make comparisons that are never fair? Why do we have an insatiable urge to label and categorize everyone when no one can be defined by a one-dimensional category?"
"Unfortunately, perhaps too many of us are content to simply move through our days and weeks, attempting to keep the distractions of the world at bay, even working hard to serve the Lord and fulfill our various obligations. But we don't act as if we believe in the Lord's promises regarding our spiritual privileges. We don't really believe He will tutor us personally regarding the hidden doctrines of the kingdom. We're not riveted on the teachings of the prophets, seers, and revelators. We don't dive into the doctrine to gain a sense of the magnitude of what the Lord has promised us. Maybe we're afraid that somehow we're not worthy enough to partake of all our Father and His Son have to offer. And those incorrect beliefs and fears keep us from seeking and studying and laboring diligently to learn and to know."
January 1, 2018
I love Sheri Dew, and I'm grateful for her insights.
I especially loved the last chapter: "You May Be Making Life Harder Than It Needs to Be"
And I loved her thoughts on the Law of Chastity, families, and the power of women.
Quotes I liked:
"Mothers, yours is the work of salvation, and therefore you will be magnified, compensated, made *more than you are* and *better than you have ever been* as you *try* to make an honest effort, however feeble you may sometimes feel that to be." -pg. 106 quoting Elder Jeffrey R. Holland (Ensign, May 1997, 36)
(The words between * are my emphasis)
"The adversary loves to represent the law of chastity as a law of denial, which is a disgusting, devastating lie. The law of chastity is actually a grand key to spiritual progression and to gaining greater spiritual power." -pg. 97
"The law of chastity defines the family as our Father intended it to be defined." -pg. 101
"Is it proper to seek for spiritual gifts? Should we plead with the Lord for the gift of prophecy, or of revelation, or of tongues? Is it fitting and right to pray for the soul-sanctifying privilege of seeing the face of the Lord Jesus while we yet dwell as mortals in a sin-filled world? Does the Lord expect us to desire and seek for spiritual experiences, or do the divine proprieties call for us simply to love the Lord and keep his commandments, knowing that if and when he deems it proper he will grant special gifts and privileges to us? By way of answer, it almost suffices to ask such questions as these: Are we not expected to seek salvation, the greatest of all the gifts of God? Why, then, would we not prepare ourselves for this greatest of all boons by seeking the enjoyment of the lesser ones?" -pg. 136 quoting Elder Bruce R. McConkie, A New Witness for the Articles of Faith, 368-69
I especially loved the last chapter: "You May Be Making Life Harder Than It Needs to Be"
And I loved her thoughts on the Law of Chastity, families, and the power of women.
Quotes I liked:
"Mothers, yours is the work of salvation, and therefore you will be magnified, compensated, made *more than you are* and *better than you have ever been* as you *try* to make an honest effort, however feeble you may sometimes feel that to be." -pg. 106 quoting Elder Jeffrey R. Holland (Ensign, May 1997, 36)
(The words between * are my emphasis)
"The adversary loves to represent the law of chastity as a law of denial, which is a disgusting, devastating lie. The law of chastity is actually a grand key to spiritual progression and to gaining greater spiritual power." -pg. 97
"The law of chastity defines the family as our Father intended it to be defined." -pg. 101
"Is it proper to seek for spiritual gifts? Should we plead with the Lord for the gift of prophecy, or of revelation, or of tongues? Is it fitting and right to pray for the soul-sanctifying privilege of seeing the face of the Lord Jesus while we yet dwell as mortals in a sin-filled world? Does the Lord expect us to desire and seek for spiritual experiences, or do the divine proprieties call for us simply to love the Lord and keep his commandments, knowing that if and when he deems it proper he will grant special gifts and privileges to us? By way of answer, it almost suffices to ask such questions as these: Are we not expected to seek salvation, the greatest of all the gifts of God? Why, then, would we not prepare ourselves for this greatest of all boons by seeking the enjoyment of the lesser ones?" -pg. 136 quoting Elder Bruce R. McConkie, A New Witness for the Articles of Faith, 368-69
February 20, 2018
Excellent book! Highly recommend reading
July 9, 2012
I love the straight-shooting style of Sherri Dew. She tackles some tough issues with honesty here in this book. I especially liked chapter 3 ("Our Charity Sometimes Faileth") and chapter 7 ("You May Be Making Life Harder Than It Needs to Be").
Here are a few quotes I wrote down:
"The combination of diligently seeking after the Lord and paying attention to His tender mercies, His teachings, and His workings in our lives appears to pay remarkable dividends." (p. 131)
"Is anything too insignificant to discuss with the Lord? Is any heartache too petty? Is any anxiety too trivial? Is any weakness too insignificant to deal with? The Lord doesn't seem to think so. He has invited us to weary Him with our requests and needs. He has counseled us to pray over our flocks and fields, to cry unto Him for all of His support, to counsel with Him in all our doings so that He can direct us for good, to pour out our souls in our closets and in our wilderness, to have our 'hearts be drawn out in prayer unto him continually for [our] welfare.' 'All our doings' sounds fairly all-inclusive. 'Continually' doesn't make much allowance for items the Lord doesn't care about." (pp. 133-134)
If I had one small complaint it would be that the book didn't feel very cohesive. And I still don't really get the title. But for something conversational and uplifting -- this fits the bill.
Here are a few quotes I wrote down:
"The combination of diligently seeking after the Lord and paying attention to His tender mercies, His teachings, and His workings in our lives appears to pay remarkable dividends." (p. 131)
"Is anything too insignificant to discuss with the Lord? Is any heartache too petty? Is any anxiety too trivial? Is any weakness too insignificant to deal with? The Lord doesn't seem to think so. He has invited us to weary Him with our requests and needs. He has counseled us to pray over our flocks and fields, to cry unto Him for all of His support, to counsel with Him in all our doings so that He can direct us for good, to pour out our souls in our closets and in our wilderness, to have our 'hearts be drawn out in prayer unto him continually for [our] welfare.' 'All our doings' sounds fairly all-inclusive. 'Continually' doesn't make much allowance for items the Lord doesn't care about." (pp. 133-134)
If I had one small complaint it would be that the book didn't feel very cohesive. And I still don't really get the title. But for something conversational and uplifting -- this fits the bill.
December 14, 2015
I needed to have an LDS audio book to listen to during my trip home to Delaware, as well as for future Sunday drives to and from church. I ended up buying more than one, but this was one that I had aimed for. Well, it was anything by Sheri Dew--especially if she was reading it herself! "No Doubt about It" was not available, and I had wanted to read this one as well, so I bought this.
It was wonderful. I have always greatly admired Sis. Dew. I look up to her in many ways and she is an inspiration to me as well. I have had the blessing of meeting her, singing in a choir for her, and receiving a hug from her, too! This book was very uplifting and encouraging. It had me evaluating so many aspects of my life and trying to figure out ways that I could improve and be a better person. She had me in and out of tears and laughter throughout the entire book. And she was the narrator, so it really felt like I was just sitting and listening to one of her talks. I'm so glad I own this and can't wait to listen to it many times to come.
8/15/09 I chose to listen to this book on my temple trip, and it also fits the "read a book you already own" part of my challenge. It was good to listen to this again. Always something to gain from books like these. Especially with various things occurring in my personal life. Always amazing. Always enjoyable. Always a life-changer.
It was wonderful. I have always greatly admired Sis. Dew. I look up to her in many ways and she is an inspiration to me as well. I have had the blessing of meeting her, singing in a choir for her, and receiving a hug from her, too! This book was very uplifting and encouraging. It had me evaluating so many aspects of my life and trying to figure out ways that I could improve and be a better person. She had me in and out of tears and laughter throughout the entire book. And she was the narrator, so it really felt like I was just sitting and listening to one of her talks. I'm so glad I own this and can't wait to listen to it many times to come.
8/15/09 I chose to listen to this book on my temple trip, and it also fits the "read a book you already own" part of my challenge. It was good to listen to this again. Always something to gain from books like these. Especially with various things occurring in my personal life. Always amazing. Always enjoyable. Always a life-changer.
April 11, 2012
Loved this book! Sheri Dew is oh so wise. Quick read, uplifting, insiring, thought provoking, wonderful!
few fav quotes from the book:
“Thus, when we plead for the gift of charity, we aren't asking for lovely feelings toward someone who bugs us or someone who has injured or wounded us. We are actually pleading for our very natures to be changed, for our character and disposition to become more and more like the Savior's, so that we literally feel as He would feel and thus do what He would do.”
“If you're serious about sanctification, you can expect to experience heart-wrenching moments that try your faith, your endurance, and your patience.”
"Why do we make comparisons that are never fair? Why do we have an insatiable urge to label and categorize everyone when no one can be defined by a one-dimensional category?"
Also, can't find the quote, but i loved sis dew's story about her presidency bringing her casseroles when she had been short w/ them earlier in the day. she spoke of how they showed true charity towards her. the charity, she explains, was not in the casseroles. :) I agree, casseroles, cookies, or the like are just the "door"---the ice breaker if you will. nothing wrong w/ cookies, it's everything that's behind them that "counts". ya know?
few fav quotes from the book:
“Thus, when we plead for the gift of charity, we aren't asking for lovely feelings toward someone who bugs us or someone who has injured or wounded us. We are actually pleading for our very natures to be changed, for our character and disposition to become more and more like the Savior's, so that we literally feel as He would feel and thus do what He would do.”
“If you're serious about sanctification, you can expect to experience heart-wrenching moments that try your faith, your endurance, and your patience.”
"Why do we make comparisons that are never fair? Why do we have an insatiable urge to label and categorize everyone when no one can be defined by a one-dimensional category?"
Also, can't find the quote, but i loved sis dew's story about her presidency bringing her casseroles when she had been short w/ them earlier in the day. she spoke of how they showed true charity towards her. the charity, she explains, was not in the casseroles. :) I agree, casseroles, cookies, or the like are just the "door"---the ice breaker if you will. nothing wrong w/ cookies, it's everything that's behind them that "counts". ya know?
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