I cried, a lot.
My Week with Him explores emotional abuse from a family member, and it does so sensitively and authentically, exploring the complexity of the impact this has on a person. It was tough to read — my heart broke for Nikki. I just wanted to reach through the page and hug her. I also had hope, much like Nikki did, that her mother would suddenly change and all would be healed — but that’s not reality. That’s not how it works.
I like how we got to explore all aspects of Nikki’s emotions, from the hate she has for her mother (rightfully so), the love, the anger. It was so hard to see Nikki hope, and to hope along with her that things would start to be okay, and to see her hurt again. It was a complicated relationship, to put simply. I like at the end we did get some growth (I won’t spoil too much) yet not all was forgiven, nor did characters magically change overnight in to perfect versions of themselves. It was messy, but it felt real.
One aspect of Goffney’s writing that I’ve always enjoyed and found to be her strength is the strength to make me feel. This book really had me emotional. Like I said, I was feeling all of Nikki’s hurt. When she felt betrayed by her sister, I was so angry and found it difficult to swallow when Nikki seemingly wasn’t as angry as me anymore. When Nikki cried, I cried. This book was an emotional journey.
I like the way this booked balanced all the different themes and plots. To the complicated and abusive family relationship, the complicated romance (so many complications!), to exploring what it’s like to be adopted…it all felt so well done and well handled.
I think my only “issue” (and it’s not really an issue) is that I would’ve liked to have seen a bit more of Nikki interacting with her other friends, and for the big to be a tiny bit longer. I kept swiping the page (reading on the Netgalley shelf app) to go to the next page and it was like nope, this is it. But then maybe that’s just me being greedy — because this book had a good, hopeful ending.
All in all, I really enjoyed this book. I began reading it in bed, with the intent to read a few chapters before sleep, but I ended up finishing it at 5am with tears streaming down my face.