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All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten

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Twenty-five years ago, Robert Fulghum published a simple credo--a credo that became the phenomenal #1 "New York Times" bestseller "All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten." Now, seven million copies later, Fulghum returns to the book that was embraced around the world. He has written a new preface and twenty-five essays, which add even more potency to a common,...more
Paperback, 240 pages
Published May 4th 2004 by Ballantine Books (first published 1986)
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Roy
When I read this book years ago, my first thought was that it would make an excellent Christmas gift for anyone who I couldn't figure out what else to get. The simple philosophy of living that it promotes and the author's easy going style of prose would elicit a smile from a stone. I can't quite say that it changed my life, but I was certainly charmed by this book. It also taught me a lesson in the money making potential of publishing because I happened to work for Ballantine at the time and was...more
Maegan
Essentially the GREATEST book I've ever read. I loved the humor, but it also expressed hidden truths that integrate themselves into our day to day lives in a quirky sort of way. I thoroughly enjoyed the insight that you received through out the entirety of the book. Made me think about things...lots of things. Mr. Fulghum reminds me a lot of, well, ME.
I thought it was stunning.
Raymond
I am not sure this book is important to me. But I will tell you this - one of the most delightful things I had read in a long time, and a thing I have tried to memorize, is Fulghum's wonderful list:

"Share everything.
Play fair.
Don't hit people.
Put things back where you found them.
Clean up your own mess.
Don't take things that aren't yours.
Say you're sorry when you hurt somebody.
Wash your hands before you eat.
Flush.
Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.
Live a balanced life - learn some and th...more
Laura
The only people who learned all they needed to know in kindergarten are the people who died when they were six. This stupid book is as facile as its title.
Jinky
I've found reading adult non-fiction books to be a tedious read because it involves many facts. I finally gave up on one that I've had for almost a month because telling me every detail history of her relatives just got too much and it looked like she wasn't going to let up! But this book had nothing tedious about it. It had me chuckling through the entire book. It was sooooo easy to turn from one page to the next and time just flew by. I would have been disappointed that it ended but Mr. Fulghu...more
Marie
I find it funny that so many people who reviewed this book made comments about the title. Why on earth does the title really matter? I know I have read hundreds of books with odd titles, but I did not base my review on it.

This book was easy to read - I read it in one rainy afternoon. I did not pick this book up to find the answers of life - I read it because it seemed light and fun - which it was.

I feel the book is very cool - hundreds of times I have thought random, misc. thoughts and told myse...more
Apple
So, I don't understand why this is a New York Times best-seller? To each his own, then. But to me, this book felt like a venue for the author to explain away his own mulling. The title is "All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten";
(a) and it sounds like an excuse to be a bit too childish and simplistic
(b) but hardly any of the book is about things he really learned in Kindergarten.

I don't know. I'm just really confused, annoyed, and disappointed.
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Book Review: All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten by Robert Fulghum


All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten - Robert Fulghum
Surprise 1: The book is listed at MS
Surprise 2: There is only 1 review on such a marvelous book till date

Before coming to the contents and other details of this book, let me create an atmosphere by phrasing some basic facts (and some queries), you are free to agree or disagree on each point:1. You will be bli...more
Malbadeen
Jul 16, 2007 Malbadeen rated it 1 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: hippies & cultivated garden haters
the lecture series that accompanies this book can be called: how I will display my self actualization to judge your lawn care habits.
I don't remember much about this book except the over all sense that the author was pretty pleased with himself. I remember one part where he talked about his carefree acceptance of natures impression on his yard by explaining how silly his neighbor was to rake his leaves and mow the lawn.
I didn't do a ton of gardening at the time (nor do I now) but I remember thi...more
Louize

I’ve been chewing on this book for a month. Trying to read and absorb it gradually; and never wanting it to end. Yes, I was hooked.

Robert Fulghum wrote his journal-type stories in a very honest, child-like manner that it will capture you both in wonder and profound realization. It is amazing to know how our everyday life may be improved if we but apply things we already learned as a child. Life can be more meaningful, indeed, if we just stop worrying a lot and enjoy the simple things it offers....more
Pandora
I had to add this book after seeing it on the worst book list. Come on. It wasn't meant to be Les Mes or even a John Steinbeck. It was meant to be a happy book that helps you remember that it is and can be a good world out there. Which is needed after Neal Shusterman - a great author but, perhaps too good. See Unwind review - this book was used as an antidote.

I did learn that sometimes it is the simple things that make life good. It is bettter to let go of our pride, judgements and just be in mo...more
Paiman Chen
All I really need to know I learned in kindergarten. Wisdom was not at the top of the graduate-school mountain.

1. Share everything
2. Play fair
3. Don't hit people
4. Put things back where you found them
5. Clean up your own mess
6. Don't take things that aren't yours
7. Say you're sorry when you hurt somebody
8. Wash your hands before you eat
9. Flush ....
10.Warm cookies, cold milk are good for you
11.Live a balanced life- learn some, think some, draw,paint,sing,dance, play,work everyday some
12....more
Jules Alder
If you've never read Robert Fulghum before (It Was on Fire When I Lay Down on It), this is a good place to start. This wee book made a substantial impact on me partly for personal reasons, but mainly because modern philosophers are too few and not always focused on what matters in the grand microcosm--being kind to others and kind to ourselves. In an age when it seems like everyone and their mother is diagnosed as suffering from some sort of depression, I can't help but think that we lost someth...more
K.D. Absolutely
Funny and witty. I like the short anecdotes that support those learnings in kindergarten. I still remember one: "When crossing the street, hold each other hands" This is very true especially in the crazy streets of Manila.
Yva Ladera
Jun 10, 2011 Yva Ladera rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommended to Yva by: Queenelle Gazmen
I have to say this book has not taught me a lot but rather it has opened my eyes to things I had somewhat already noticed. But I MUST thank Queenelle for recommending this book. It was a fun yet thoughtful read. While reading, i have come to realize that my ideas about simplicity being the best form of happiness are headed in the right direction. I rather enjoyed how the author showed his wit and simplicity through his credo. He spoke of, "Warm cookies and cold milk" and how we should, "go out i...more
Samantha Ballard
A few days ago, I ran across this book on my bookshelf. It had been sitting on one shelf or another, moving with me from place to place for about a decade. So I finally cracked it open. Two days later I'm wondering what exactly it was I read. It's a collection of stories, written almost like journal entries. Some that uncover wisdom, some that I didn't really get any deeper meaning from.

The best part of the book, and my favorite quote from it, is within the first few pages:

Share everything.
Play
...more
gauldy
Já vlastně nevím, co o téhle knížce psát. Tak jsem si říkal, že nenapíšu nic. Ale to by zase bylo škoda, nic nepsat. Takže přeci to zkusím.

"VŠECHNO, CO OPRAVDU POTŘEBUJI ZNÁT o tom, jak žít, co dělat a jak vůbec být, jsem se naučil v mateřské školce. Moudrost mě nečekala na vrcholu hory zvané postgraduál, ale na pískovišti v nedělní škole. Tohle jsem se naučil:
O všechno se rozděl. Hraj fér. Nikoho nebij. Vracej věci tam, kde jsi je našel. Uklízej po sobě. Neber si nic, co ti nepatří. Když někomu...more
Leftbanker
This is a veiled swipe at anyone who has bothered to actually continue learning since age five. It’s another brick in the wall of pop culture that makes people feel good about the fact that they are stupid motherfuckers who have never worked hard to develop their minds. What they are saying is, “It’s OK to be quasi-literate; everyone else is just like you.” Everyone except the adults sitting around the dinner table of life. I’ll admit that I’m sort of a dumb shit but it’s not from lack of trying...more
Cecil
As a person who never went to kindergarten--look, it was a small rural community and my parents needed help in the grist mill--I decided that buying this book was not an option for me. The logical corollary of the title is that, lacking a kindergarten education, my BSBA, MBA and JD combined could not save me. Clearly, I knew nothing of what I REALLY needed to know. From the book, I learned that I should be nice to the other children, share my stuff, be quiet sometimes, and always take a nap. Sag...more
Amanda Hankins

Robery Fulghum’s iconic bestseller about the simple acts of everyday childhood and beyond were turned into this memorable little gem. It has become one of my favorite books, not because it is the literary genius of a lifetime, but because his simple idea could become such a simple book that had the potential to touch so many people. I read it for the laugh, the moment where he ties the memory of a Styrofoam cup plant to the cycle of life is simple brilliance. Although it is not the self help boo...more
sarafem
This is more of a 3 1/2 stars book; I have never wanted to read this book, but I bought it at a yard sale for a nickel and this morning I wanted something light that I could read while sitting in the doctor's office for. ever. I got the whole thing read, and frankly, it was a good book. Not at all the drivel I expected, based on the uproar made about this book by absolutely vapid people.

I'm a big fan of "the little things" and silver linings. That is what this book is about - finding life lesson...more
Greg
All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten was Fulghum's first collection of essays. I liked his style then, and still do. His writing reminds me of Mayberry...it evokes a sort of down-home feeling that brings to mind warm apple pie cooling on an open window sill, children playing on lazy summer afternoons, and neighborly conversations over backyard fences. Fulghum does a nice job of exploring simple things from a profound and thoughtful perspective to gently guide the reader to wisdom....more
Eric Tracy
This is one of the most meaningful books I've read in my lifetime, up there with: Are You The One For Me, Re-Inventing Your Life, Callahan’s Crosstime Saloon, or The Road Less-Traveled. Robert Fulghum is and has been many things in his life from a reverend to a bartender to a Salvation Army bell-ringer which, I suppose, makes him the ideal philosopher, and at that he excels.

This book, and those that follow it from him, is a collection of anecdotes and stories from his life and experiences, and...more
Suzyberry
How simple...how true. Life can be better for all of us if these wonderful guidelines were part of our everyday thinking. I think this book should be sent to every legislator in Washington...or better to EVERY legislator (and politician) everywhere. Perhaps they could get a clue about how to treat all of us out here paying the taxes, doing the right things for others and desperately trying to find our AMERICA of old. Read this and 'feel' exactly what is missing in our society today...you will sm...more
Elaine
"When you go out into the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands, and stick together."

What a good way to start my reading challenge this new year. I actually couldnt put this one down. The content was refresing to me. A very light and easy read. The things we do everyday that sometimes we took for granted just because they're simple and uncomplicated things are the ones that gives meaning to our everyday existence. Things we learned from our childhood. Sometimes people tend to complicate thing...more
T.
I don't think this book was written for the purpose of impressing anyone. Sometimes you need it, sometimes you don't. Sometimes I think it's full of shit, sometimes I am amazed at how simple and true everything is.

Sometimes I just need to take it down from the bookshelf, browse a few pages, and be reminded of the very simple things:

- Put things back where you found them.
- Say you're sorry when you hurt somebody.
- Flush.
- When you go out into the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands, and sti...more
Michael
As suggested by the title, the lessons children can or should be getting in kindergarten make a great focus for adult living. Imagine how precepts like playing fair and not taking things that don't belong to you could resonate beyond childhood into sphere of politics and moral behavior. The rule of "cleaning up your own mess" or "putting things back where you found them" make a good foundation for clean ecological living. My favorite is "When you go out, watch out for traffic, hold hands, and st...more
Ensiform
A collection of very brief, no-nonsense ruminations on learning to get the most out of life. The recurring motif is summed up nicely by the most famous title essay: see the world through the eyes of a child, with wonder and appreciation, and you will love life that much more. It’s home-spun, back-to-nature, don’t-sweat-the-small-stuff, life-is-too-short philosophy, written in a very simple, direct, pleasing style. The literary equivalent of taking a nice walk in a quiet forest, I suppose.
treehugger
Meh. I occasionally laughed, and often felt empty from the stilted sentence style and, more often even than that, felt that the "parables" were lacking purpose. Some of them were just random stories, without a greater reason for existing. No huge life questions were answered, and I find it hard to believe in some parts that this man was a minister at all - he sounds like an aging hippie with a vendetta against yard maintenance and a slightly philosophical side.

Anyway, it was ok...
Emma Joy
A philosopher he says he is... yes! Indeed.

A simple yet meaningful book set to inspire, frustrate, annoy and put a smile on a reader's physical and innermost senses. It is a compilation of modern parables of mankind's existence in Robert Fulghum's perspective. Despite of the yellowing pages of my secondhand copy of this book, I was deeply pleased on the positive effect that this book had on me. It was nicely written but not sublime so I'm giving it 4 stars.
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“I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge. That myth is more potent than history. That dreams are more powerful than facts. That hope always triumphs over experience. That laughter is the only cure for grief. And I believe that love is stronger than death.” 7667 likes
“These are the things I learned (in Kindergarten):

1. Share everything.
2. Play fair.
3. Don't hit people.
4. Put thngs back where you found them.
5. CLEAN UP YOUR OWN MESS.
6. Don't take things that aren't yours.
7. Say you're SORRY when you HURT somebody.
8. Wash your hands before you eat.
9. Flush.
10. Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.
11. Live a balanced life - learn some and drink some and draw some and paint some and sing and dance and play and work everyday some.
12. Take a nap every afternoon.
13. When you go out into the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands, and stick together.
14. Be aware of wonder. Remember the little seed in the Stryrofoam cup: The roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why, but we are all like that.
15. Goldfish and hamster and white mice and even the little seed in the Styrofoam cup - they all die. So do we.
16. And then remember the Dick-and-Jane books and the first workd you learned - the biggest word of all - LOOK.”
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