The Illustrated Guide to Extended Massive Orgasm

by Steve Bodansky, Vera Bodansky

In this companion to their best-selling book, Extended Massive Orgasm , Steve and Vera Bodansky give much more detail about the best hand and body positions for performing and receiving EMO. More than 70 photographs and drawings illustrate genital anatomy and optimum positions for manually stimulating a partner. And while the first book focused mainly on female sexual pleasure, The Illustrated Guide to Extended Massive Orgasm covers new ground in the area of male arousal and orgasm. The Bodanskys also highlight topics such as:

unknown erogenous zones — the introitus and the "hidden cock"
enhancing sensitivity — the relationship between hand position and stroking
communication — how to ask for what you like and how to "talk dirty"
Written for people of all sexual orientations, this book is a playful tool for partners of any age wishing to explore new depths of sexual pleasure. Orgasm is no longer just a fleeting moment, but the beginning of lasting arousal that goes far beyond the bedroom.

Genres: Sexuality, Self Help, Nonfiction

160 pages, Paperback

First published June 12, 2002

About the author

My wife Vera and myself started teaching folks about pleasure and orgasm since the early 1980s. we were students together at More U and started teaching there. After receiving our doctorates in sensuality with an emphasis on female orgasm we branched out and formed our own group. We wrote our first book called extended massive orgasm in 2000 and have written 5non-fiction books and recently published our first novel also about sex called extended massive orgasm the novel. I guess I'm addicted to that title which is also the name of our website www.extendedmassiveorgasm.com

Reviews

[Greg · Rating 4 out of 5]

The book primarily describes a single technique for stimulating a woman using your hands. The technique is very effective and not often shown in other books. It's well worth learning.

I would have given the book a 5-star rating but I don't think that the technique described within for stimulating males is nearly as useful. There's a lot of fluff in the book to describe one technique, however effective that technique is.

[Andrea · Rating 3 out of 5]

This book just didn't work for me... The information feels dated... More for people who have not begun the journey of self-discovery and prioritising their own pleasure. Lots of waffling-on, could tell the author is a philosopher... Felt like it was written for the repressed - people with religious and conservative upbringings and social circles. So I liked that it encourages women to seek out and prioritize their pleasure. Also the emphasis on good and open communication.
Just a heads-up the title is a misnomer - it's extended pleasure/foreplay, not orgasm.

The techniques suggested for clitoral stimimation made me cringe, I've spent my entire sex life trying to discourage direct, abrasive stimulation of my clit... Soft and indirect works better, like SOOO many other women. This book insinuates that this is the best, nay the only way to have the most amazing orgasm... Sadly all I could think was Argh my clit goes numb with over-stimulation, this is a big no from me...
Then in the masterbation section it opens with the insinuation that your orgasms can only be "best" with your partner, not inpendantly... Such crap, the best orgasms I've experienced have been self-induced and they've been frikkin fabulous!
There was also a flippant, gross generalization that vibrators cause your clit to go numb. No reference to where this dodgy assumption came from, felt like gaslighting. If you use a vibrator then good for you, you've found what works. I love my vibrator and it certainly doesn't cause numbness the way I use it. Instead they could have addressed ways to use a vibrator that pleasures women or for use in couple play... Or better yet - deferred to a reputable source if the topic is unknown to them... Don't just assume.

To people who are no longer "new" to seeking pleasure for themselves but are still seeking learning - I recommend OMGyes website. It is much more focused on women with all their nuances and with a modern, inclusive mindset. No talking at you and trying to niggle away at your self-reliance and confidence.

[Author Ruby Binns-Cagney]

Useful for anyone interested in taking their physical side further. Information in the form of illustrations helps, easy to use.