this book is interesting to me.
she's talking, as one might guess, about affect and how feelings are transmitted between people. so it's all about physical bodies and feelings and relationships. and challenges to Freud. you can see why i picked it up. so far, it's been a provocative challenge to the idea of a naturally emotionally-bounded person (upon which psychoanalysis was founded). the author suggests that the construct of such is a defensive reaction to our discomfort with all of our emotional interdependence and intermingling.
the author is really interested in pheromones & takes a laypersons look at scientific literature that seems to support the idea that emotions are transmitted between people in non-learning/visual kinds of ways. i'm fascinated by her discussion of the tendency to attribute picking up other's feelings to visual cues (i.e. theories of modeling), rather than other senses that involve more of a physical internalization the other (through inhaling their scent, for example). it makes me think more critically & theoretically about the politics of sniffing people, and the smells of different emotions.
some critiques: i am surprised that she doesn't engage more with current relational psychoanalytic theory, or talk anything at all about what people have learned from family therapy. her combination of biological/affective research made me think about gottman's couples labs, where people get wired up to all of these monitors & then talk about difficult issues in their relationships. i'd also like to hear what a scientist thinks about her use of the scientific literature... to me, it seems compelling, but maybe i'm missing something.