Good Owners, Great Dogs, by Brian Kilcommons claims to teach four things: 1. how to think from your dog’s point of view, 2. how to be patient and kind with your dog, 3. how not to be abusive to your dog, and 4. how to speak the way a dog understands. All of those can be summarized by saying, “learn to understand your dog better, and you will train your dog better.” Or “Be a good owner, and you'll have a great dog.” I see what he did there--apropos title.
Who could object to that? A better question might be, is the book able to accomplish that worthy goal? In one way it does. In another way, it doesn't—but that may be a good thing.
After having read the entire book in a five-day period, I can say that it can do, and in my case has done, what it claims—in a way. I'm beginning to understand doghood. In fact, this book was downright revelatory and amazing, though the principles of dogginess weren't really a secret. The only way to describe the way a dog feels about its owners is trust—and with that understanding, it’s hard not to feel the crushing weight of responsibility to bear the trust dogs give us every day.
As a consequence, I’ll admit that I felt guilty reading this book. Primarily because I’ve done it wrong for so long. Three months prior to buying this book, I bought a shock collar and blundered about shocking my dog (not that often, I promise) when he did things I didn’t like—of course it didn’t really work, so I quit shocking him and started buying books (including this one), but now that I know why he didn’t understand me, and how my shocking him merely caused his unnecessary suffering, I felt like Michael Vick. I wrapped the collar around my forearm and shocked myself, partly to see what it would feel like. Unconsciously, I'm sure it was an attempt to assuage my own guilt. Unfortunately, two pains do not one pain undo.
The good news is that Kilcommons helped me to return my dog's love. So we’re all good. My three dogs, Pip, Gimli, and Tucker all still love me unreservedly. Thus, the best praise I can give this book is that not enough people are reading it and they should. Anything other than what this man suggests is animal cruelty, albeit unintentionally. I want to buy this book and pass it out on the street if I knew people would read it.
In short, this book delivers on what it claims, at least from the point of understanding your dog. As for as how well his methods will work on you, I believe the same will hold true, though there is no accounting for how well you'll be able to accomplish what he’s asking you to do—but that’s your problem, not the book’s.
On the other hand, this book may no go far enough. Organizationally, the book is divided into four parts. Part 1 provides background to his method and theoretical foundation. Part 2 deals with puppyhood (the name of that section, as it turns out). Part 3 discusses adult dogs, and Part 4 deals with identifying and dealing with specific problems. While this seems pretty straightforward, this organizational scheme is far from effective.
But first, let's look at the strengths of this book. The book excels, by far, in two areas. First, the reading is just fun. Kilcommons is both humorous and light-handed. The pictures are wonderful testaments to his claims. For example, one caption under the picture of a bright-eyed dog staring intently at the camera reads, “Here, Duncan is awaiting Sarah's next command. He is calm, eager and ready, totally focused on her. He thinks training is great fun.” You get the sense that Kilcommons is training you. He probably is.
Second, his training method just makes sense. Back when I had my first dog, I picked up the only book available at my local library. Get this: that book suggested, at one point, that I grab the scruff of my dog's neck, growl or snarl at him, then “combat roll” my dog onto his back. Keep in mind that my dog was a 90 lb. boxer and he could have easily made a snack of my arm if he wasn’t such an awfully nice and patient fella.
This book advocates nothing of the sort. Through patience, love, and understanding, your dog will do what you want him to do because he loves you. That's a better motivation in my opinion. Here's the bittersweet part: my dog still loves me unconditionally after all those years of snarling and combat rolls. Perhaps my dog is condescending enough not to have taken me seriously, but needless to say, he probably loves me a lot more now, since I've read this book.
Speaking of him still loving me, Kilcommons tells of a time that one owner, out of misunderstanding and frustration, downright screamed at his dog because he wasn't “getting it.” The dog trusted his owner so fully that rather than running or biting, he rolled over submissively. This struck the author as revealingly vulnerable for such a powerful animal—he had no idea what his owner wanted but he endured. Why? Because these dogs trust us owners with their lives and their existence. They forgive us for almost everything and totally accept us just by virtue of being in their lives. I hope that helps you see, as it did me, that they don’t deserve to be combat rolled just for getting distracted by a squirrel. I’ve learned my lesson.
You might think that this book is generally well organized, based on the sections I just listed, but I’m afraid I’ve misled you. So let me be clear: it’s not organized all that well. The layout of Parts 1-4 make sense, but the sections within each part are senseless. Glancing through the table of contents ought to give you a good idea of what I mean.
Don’t get me wrong, the organization isn’t inscrutable, but it certainly makes planning difficult. The strength of the book, or course, is its detail and comprehensiveness, but it does take some creative puzzle solving to fit them all together into a coherent whole. If I were being generous, I might say that this seeming disorganization is a pedagogical tool, meant to encourage real learning through consolidated thinking.
If I weren’t being generous, I might say that the editors and the author gave up trying to organize this stuff after deciding on the larger parts of the book. Either way, be prepared for a fun read, but a challenging beginning when you finally start actually training your dog. It doesn’t help you to organize a training schedule for a beginning trainer. You can easily create one yourself, but that will take some organizational skills, which some readers may not have. You’ll need to either get another dog training book that does this or learn to do so yourself. Feel free to ask me for some of my own practices as well, and I'll be glad to share.
The only other weakness of this book it's that it is largely more of a theoretical text, rather than a practical text. It might even be too strong to call it a weakness since some might find this more freeing. It isn’t that there isn’t a ton of practical tips and tricks. What I mean is that reading this books will immerse you into a dog trainer's worldview, rather than giving you a couple of tips to tack on to your attitude toward dog ownership. You’ll most definitely benefit from the book, but not necessarily for a carefully structured training plan. He leaves the application of most of his advice entirely up to you.
TL;DR?
Overall, this book is a good resource for the following kinds of people:
1. Those who have just gotten a puppy, and have never learned to train a dog in a kind and humane way.
2. Those who have adult dogs with behavioral problems and need to learn how to correct those problems while forming a stronger bond with your pet (though severe or dangerous behavioral problems should seek professional guidance).
3. Those who train dogs with the “traditional” punishment-based methods. Of course, the book may not change your mind, but you should at least hear what this method proposes. Having read this book, and been inducted into its worldview, I can only hope that your reason for becoming a trainer is for the benefit of the dogs. If that’s so, then you’ll undoubtedly want to do what’s most enjoyable, fun, and effective for your dogs. If that’s the case, you need to at least take a look at this book to see if this is true of your method and see how it compares to his. I’ll leave it to Kilcommons to convince you that you’ve been doing it wrong—even if you’re getting results doing it your way.
In sum, this book should be a primer for all dog owners, so much so that if anyone even considers getting a dog, pick up a copy of this first, read it, then buy the dog. You’ll be well on your road to happy and healthy dog ownership. While you're at it, buy a few more copies and give it to your friends for Christmas. If not for their sakes, at least for their dogs'.