Great story about an Englischer woman who falls in love with an Amish man. He has not been baptized, so he chooses to leave the Ordnung to marry her, but retains essentially the same attitudes and lifestyle, so she finds herself in a marriage where compromise is usually AWOL and she must do all the changing and accommodating, in other words, a realistic plot! I used to read a lot of bonnet romances because they were generally clean until I realized that most involved stock characters in a generic romance novel plot with a bonnet perched on top to try to hide the lack of imagination and originality. Therefore, I cannot help but really love this book written with unique, fresh, and original characters and story. What a delightful difference! I rate a book according to the degree that I find authentic or clever dialogue, three-dimensional characters who can speak, behave, and think like real human beings, more originality than a re-hashed generic plot, and no plot holes, inconsistencies, solecisms, anachronisms, or TDTL heroines within it. This novel meets all those criteria as our heroine discovers through very hard ways that adopting a lifestyle is not the same as the fundamentally deep changes that take place when a faith truly takes hold in the heart.