Loved this book. I was inspired by Nureyev and is wish to be THE BEST. The fact that he loved what he did SO MUCH made him all the better. I took away a lot from this book. Here's just a bit of it:
NUREYEV: His Life by Diane Solway
“You are naked all the time in front of the audience.” –Rudolf Nureyev
“You can’t teach people passion. You can turn it ON, but you can’t teach it.”
-Rudolf Nureyev b. 3-17-1983 Irkutsk, Russia; d. 1-6-1993 (age 54), Levallois-Peret, FRANCE
“Never look back,” Nureyev liked to say, “that you, you fall downstairs.”
It was always music he counted on to provide solace in lonely moments.
“I looked upon music, from my earliest days, as a friend, a religion, a way to good fortune.” –Rudolf Nureyev
“I spent all of my leisure time either listening to the music endlessly poured out by our radio…or climbing up to my private observation point.”
Rudolf had learned early on that the BEST form of protection was to let no one come too close.
Rudolf had to rely primarily on his own wits and wiles to advance.
“Finally something came and clicked in my mind that nobody’s going to come and take me by hand and show me anything. I had to do it all myself.”
Rudolf associated MUSIC with EMOTION.
What he lacked in technical polish, he more than made up for with a thrilling authoritative performance that shattered the academic mold.
Rudolf had what Margot Fonteyn would come to call a “little boy lost” quality that made her want to help him.
All the articles and newspaper photographs should be glued to a sheet of paper. Otherwise they will get lost.
“Rudolf Nureyev’s dancing in not perfection but what he achieves on stage is more than ballet.” -1959, One of the Kirov Management to Gennady Smakov
Whenever Nureyev felt that strangers were looking at him, he immediately straightened his posture.
Rudolf replied, “Go to a restaurant and watch how the waiters run from table to table. There you will see great movement.”
“What did you learn today?” Rudolf would ask Tamara Zakrzhevskaya each time they met.
His most thrilling discoveries was J.D. Salinger’s THE CATCHER IN THE RYE which he devoured in one sitting.
Rudolf was simply continuing to do what he had always done: setting his own personal standards, regardless of the circumstances.
“I am sustained only by HOPE,” Rudolf had written, a play on the Russian saying, “A young man lives on HOPE alone.”
“Here in the West, I feel I’m going to ask for as much money as I can obtain,” Rudolf would tell a reporter, “because the amount of money one receives is what decides one’s worth.”
Ballerina Violette Verdy in the audience the night of Rudolf Nureyev’s debut recalls her first impression: “He had conceived the part of the prince as a man in search of an ideal, with the wonder of discovering it—and with that being mesmerized by what he was finding.”
Rudolf obsessed with Erik Bruhn after seeing a film clip of his dancing….”whether friend or enemy, I had to find out what makes him tick, and how it makes him tick, and learn the ticking.”
Symphony Divine by SCRIABIN….Rudolf played that piece sometimes three, five, ten times IN A ROW…
Erik Bruhn and Sonia Arova finally called off their five year engagement after Arova followed Bruhn to Ballet Theater in 1954 and discovered ‘a different Erik’. Arova said: “Erik felt we should stay together but I wasn’t sure that I would be able to cope with that kind of situation. He still felt very close to me, but I felt strange. I was too young to understand anything more. I didn’t want him to settle for anything that would be frustrating for him in the end. I didn’t see a clean future.”
Although no longer Bruhn’s fiancée, Arova remained one of his most enduring confidants.
Bruhn said, “I think every artist needs…an element of opposition to push you into achievement.”
Margot Fonteyn on her 1st meeting with Nureyev was not entirely won over: “I like him nine tenths.”
“If you’re going to get big fees,” he liked to say, “you have to dress the part.”
“Pop dancers, like pop singers, have got to have a gimmick or something special about them…Nureyev’s thing is that even when he is behaving in a withdrawn and gentlemanly way you feel that he may suddenly snarl and bit you in the neck…”
Rudolf had a skill of commanding attention simply by standing still.
“Maybe an artist doesn’t belong in any place. An artist dances for himself. He needs the audience to test his strength and power.” –Rudolf to NEWSWEEK journalist, Anne Scott-James during an interview.
Nureyev made you understand that you should never make anything easy for yourself. He believed it was your duty to show the audience how difficult something was.
--Dame Monica Mason DBE (born 6 September 1941) , a retired ballet dancer and was the artistic director of the Royal Ballet in London from 2002 to 2012
Nureyev changed the IMAGE of the male dancer.
“You crack very good whip,” Rudolf told Joan Thring. “I like you look after me.”
Rudolf admired beauty wherever he found it, but while he occasionally had liaisons with women, he rarely made much effort to bed the opposite sex. Not that much effort had been required, as his experiences with Xenis, Ninel Kurgapkina and Maria Tallchief had shown him.
Indeed, despite his appeal to both genders, the majority of his fans were female and ther was never any shortage of women wanting to sleep with him.
For a long time, Rudolf didn’t define himself as being homosexual. “He saw himself as a SEXUAL BEING” says Querube Arias, Margot Fonteyn’s step daughter. “There was a sexual element to all his relationships.”
Eventually he would turn exclusively to Men for sexual fulfillment. “With women, you have to work so hard and it’s not very satisfying for me, Rudolf told Violette Verdy years later. “With men, it’s very quick. Big pleasure.”
“Rudolf liked companionship but also treasured his solitude and was always afraid of anyone getting too close somehow.” --Lynn Symour
Was Rudolf Nureyev thinking of every getting married?
“No, no, I never want to be locked in a cage,” he told Don Short of the DAILY MIRROR (London) in late 1963. “To me ballet is too important. Everything else must be sacrifice for it. There must be no obstacles.”
“Rudolf has a great deal of knowledge, ability and imagination,” Fonteyn noted, “and if you have these things you can’t sit still.”
“I thrive on differences and on complication.” –Erik Bruhn told a reporter in the Spring of 1966
If Rudolf liked somebody, he took them as if he were choosing a piece of cake. “Come here, you. Talk to me. Can you join me later?”
For me, the joy was rehearsal—learning a style, putting the dance together. When it came time to perform, I would get bored. –Baryshnikov
ALL dancers wage a losing battle against time, gravity and younger rivals.
Making your body do what it naturally won’t (WAS) part of Rudolf’s definition of TECHNIQUE.
“I believe there is something in me that is still waiting to be found,” Rudolf said repeatedly.
“IF Covent Garden can’t provide you with work and incentive, you go and get it somewhere else,” Nureyev once remarked. “GET Off your ass…go, telephone, organize, provoke, make performances somewhere else.”
“And don’t forget. YOU must have discipline and routine in your life.”
--Rudolf Nureyev to Phyllis Wyeth, a DuPont heiress
The Paris star, Jean Guizerix, saw that Rudolf was “torn and scorched inside”.
Jean Guizerix: “It was difficult to find CALM in him. He was a very profound man, with a desire for things to happen the way he wanted them to. He was always digging deep in the earth to advance, as if he was continuously plowing the soil.”
“To best kill pain, you must think of something else.” –Rudolf advised a reporter.
Rudolf had grown reconciled to his solitude, he told a reporter. “A thing happens with age or experience, you learn to live with yourself. You can concentrate, you can read, you can do without this constant dialogue with the world outside.”
Rudolf once said to his protégé, Danish dancer Kenneth Greve, “I don’t want you to TRY, I want you to DO!”
Leonard Bernstein:
"The conductor must NOT only make his orchestra play, he must make them WANT to play. He must exalt them, lift them, start their adrenaline pouring, either through cajoling or demanding or raging. But however he does it, he must make the orchestra LOVE the music as he loves it. It is not so much imposing his will on them like a dictator; it is more like projecting his feelings around him so that they reach the last man in the second violin section. AND when this happens...there is human identity of feeling that has no equal elsewhere. It is the closest thing I know to LOVE itself."