I've never been a good salesman and I never will be. No, that's not loser talk/self-defeatism. I'm just a man who knows his limitations. And since I'm not in sales, it's not much of a thing to bemoan or bewail. But we all occasionally find ourselves thrust into the role of salesman, however loosely you want to construe it: trying to get rid of a couch at a garage sale, trying to sell your dog on maybe crapping less on the rug (okay, that might be construing the concept of salesmanship too loosely). Be that as it may, I did find some very helpful advice in Art Sobczak's, "Smart Calling," an unpretentious and no-nonsense book on the craft that is sometimes funny without being cloying or overly jokey. The book's appeal is mainly in the kind of salesman Mr. Sobczak is selling you to become as a potential salesperson: he suggests canning the hard sells, the sleaziness, the corniness and pushiness that just scream clip-on tie and a shellacked coat of Willy Loman-esque flop sweat that so many of us associate with the trade.
All human beings, regardless of their trade or personality type, have a near-mortal terror of rejection, and "Smart Calling" has some helpful tips to not only lower your chance of rejection, but to take the sting out of a "No," when it happens. And it happens to the best of them. Recommended.