Description:
In this latest addition to the Kissing Hand book collection, Chester Raccoon must learn to deal with another common problem of childhood: a bully at school.
When Mrs. Raccoon learns that there is a bully problem at school, she decides to investigate the situation. But after seeing the bully for herself, she shares a story about a forest that was full of smooth yellow stones, and how the animals living there changed a pointy stone they found into a smooth stone so that it wouldn't hurt any tender paws.
Chester, Ronny, and Cassy (the new friend he made when they moved in the previous book) follow the spirit of Mrs. Raccoon's story when they next encounter the Bully. Approaching him as a group, they invite him to play, proving that the best way to get rid of an enemy is to make him or her a friend.
This book encourages children to understand that many child bullies are themselves unhappy and gives readers a good example of settling differences by peaceful means. Educators will embrace this story about a positive strategy for dealing with a bully.
My thoughts...
Chester and his school mates are being bullied by a very bad, bad bullying badger and is making school miserable for them. All the little animals, including Chester dread going to school. There are four great lessons presented in this book:
1) The fact that Chester and his brother, after a bit of prompting, are able to discuss the matter with their mother, an adult. This, for most children may be difficult at times, but when they have a trusted adult to confide their problems with, it makes life so much easier for them. 2) After Mrs. Raccoon shares an old fable from her childhood, the children in the story learn that just because something is different (something that is rough around the edges), does not mean there isn't a hidden beauty lurking beneath it's rough exterior...3)it can be changed with a little help of caring friends, which is the third great lesson taught here. 4) Of course the woodland children take this fable and apply it to the bully badger; a group effort in kindness. They have also been told by mom raccoon that many times bullies are bullies simply because they are unhappy, feel excluded and have not learned that they can settle their difference peacefully.
This is a lot of very profound wisdom packed into a small book and the author is a master of taking very complex issues and wording them in a way that even the youngest of children can understand and relate to. This is a wonderful skill and we are fortunate to have writers that are willing to share.
I would recommend this book to every classroom, both young and old. Sadly, bullying is a problem that occurs everywhere all over the world - and even though there may be new programs left and right that are encouraging children NOT to bully - it still happens. This book is one that each teacher AND counselors should share with their classrooms, and could also be used at home with a parent to learn what to do in a bad situation. Absolutely no one deserves to be bullied and this book will help make things better for everyone.