This is My Body - I Get To Choose: An Introduction to Consent

by Brook Sitgraves Turner, Kati Douglas (Photographer)

An anthem for all ages, This is My Body ― I Get To Choose features photographs of kids practicing consent out in the real world. Written to help families and educators teach body autonomy and consent, this rhythmic text keeps toddlers, preschoolers, and grownups alike coming back for more in an era when teaching "my body is mine" is imperative. Complete with family discussion questions in the back matter.

Genres: Picture Books, Childrens, Photography, Nonfiction

Hardcover

Published March 21, 2023

Reviews

[Kristen · Rating 5 out of 5]

7/26/2023 - A great way to introduce the concept of consent. Gives examples of interacting with friends and grown-ups without being graphic.

[Lindsay Ross · Rating 5 out of 5]

A Note For Grownups
Our littles rely on how we model consent. So let's practice asking for hugs and kisses, and encourage friends & family to do the same. Through your example, they will learn to ask before touching and to respect the response given.

But what if your little doesn't have a choice (e.g., bath, clothing, doctor's visit)? You can still offer options. For example, "It's time to put on your shoes. Do you want to wear your blue or red shoes?"

[Panda Incognito · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a nice introduction to the concept of consent. The photographs of real children are great, and the book provides context for parental care and how a child's choices may be limited at times, such as when they have to wear a helmet for safety reasons. This is a realistic, matter-of-fact exploration of an important topic.

[Aolund · Rating 5 out of 5]

An excellent book about body autonomy and consent. Attractive photographs feature diverse children navigating space and bodily interactions. Simple, engaging, accessible text.

Themes: Body, Consent
Age range: Toddler-Kindergarten

[kim · Rating 5 out of 5]

perfect intro for little ones without getting too complicated, great photos

[Madison · Rating 5 out of 5]

7/26/2023 - A very important lesson for any age.

[Cara Byrne · Rating 4 out of 5]

A concise introduction to consent, great for toddlers and preschoolers (as well as a good refresher for older children).

[Elaine Fultz, Teacher Librarian, MLS · Rating 3 out of 5]

If only the title were true. Spare text introduces body autonomy.

[Charlotte · Rating 1 out of 5]

Oh for heaven's sake. 🙄

[Hannah Jane · Rating 4 out of 5]

This was a simple and easy-to-understand introduction to consent. I appreciated how consent was represented not just verbally but also through body language and American Sign Language. Included at the end are consent discussion opportunities based on different age groups.

[SamSamSam · Rating 5 out of 5]

Phonological awareness, background knowledge, TALK; Toddler+