I almost. *ALMOST.* Threw this one at the wall and DNF it.
We have a naive young man who holds his vows of chastity — which is his right to do — in high esteem, who is being stalked (sexually harassed) by an older, sexually provocative woman with more power than him.
Our 'hero' emotionally manipulates him, through his own position of power over this young man, into giving this woman what she wants.
IF WE ARE NOT HERE FOR SEXUAL HARASSMENT OF WOMEN, WE ARE NOT HERE FOR IT FOR MEN EITHER.
When we open this passage, Sparhawk has basically just scared off this creepy woman (Elysoun) from cornering this young man (Berit) yet again.
'Thanks, Sparkhawk,' Berit said with relief. (THIS KID IS RELIEVED HIS BOSS HAS SAVED HIM. He doesn't WANT this attention.)
'Why don't you just stay away from her?'
'I can't. She follows me everywhere. She even trapped me in the bath-house once — in the middle of the night. She said she wanted to bathe with me.' (WTF this is not ok)
'Berit,' Sparhawk smiled, 'as your preceptor (establishing the power dynamic again) and spiritual guide, I'm supposed to applaud your devotion to the ideals of our order. As your friend, though, I have to tell you that running away from her only makes matters worse. (WTF) We have to stay here in Matherion, and if we stay long enough, she *will* (their emphasis) get you. She's very single-minded about it.'
'Yes, I've noticed that.'
'She's really quite pretty, you know,' (LIKE THIS SHOULD BE RELEVANT?) Sparhawk suggested tentatively. 'What's your difficulty with the notion of being friendly?' (If your stalker is pretty why are you saying no.)
'Sparhawk!'
The big Pandion sighed. 'I was afraid you might look at it that way. Look, Berit, Elysoun comes from a different culture with different customs. (And.... Berit comes from his own culture with customs, why is his agency irrelevant?) She doesn't see this sort of thing as sin. Sarabian's (oh yeah, that's her HUSBAND) made it quite clear that he wants some of us to accommodate her, and she's chosen you as the lucky man. (What you want is irrelevant). It's a political necessity, so you're just going to have to set these delicate feelings aside. (At this point I was barely breathing I was so angry). Look upon it as your knightly duty, if it makes you feel any better. I can even have Emban grant you an indulgence if you think its necessary.'
Berit gasped.
'You're starting to embarrass us,' Sparhawk said. 'Elysoun's been making Sarabian's life miserable about the whole thing. He won't step in and order you to do as she asks, no matter how much she nags him, but he quite obviously expects ME to speak with you about it.'
'I can't believe you're saying this, Sparhawk.'
'Just go ahead and do it, Berit. Everybody expects you to. (Oh yes because some PEER PRESSURE is what we need here for the winning trilogy of stupid). You don't have to enjoy it if you don't want to, but do ig. Do it as often as you have to, but make her stop screaming at the Emperor. It's your duty, my friend, and after you and Elysoun have romped around the bedroom a few times, she'll start looking for new playmates.'
'But what if she doesn't?'
'I wouldn't worry too much. Patriach Emban's got a whole saddle-bag full of indulgences if it should turn out that you really need them.'
NOPE NOPE NOPE NOPE.
Now, if this was written as a gender-flipped critique of women being expected to do this, that would be one thing. Or if it were written in such a way that negative consequences arose, that would also be one thing.
BUT NO. It plays out that our perfect hero did in fact give this young man perfect advice and in the long run, was completely justified in doing so.
THAT. That is what made me beyond angry.
Beyond that, everyone who had been established one way in terms of characterisation become a blob or a complete idiot or had their motivations completely flipped 180 for the purposes of the plot. Sephrenia is now a bigot, Aphrael is now a manipulative conniving child with no redeeming qualities (she had redeeming qualities previously), Kalten cries regularly at singing and is oblivious to obvious manipulation, the list goes on. This was a painfully awful book to slog through.