One of the most frightening books that I have ever read...
If you wait to read this book until your son is having difficulty in school, it will be too late.
Intuitively, I knew it was wrong when I saw the reading material being brought home by preschoolers, but I wasn't sure why. I just knew that they were not ready to develop reading skills.
I knew the damage that can occur in the classroom when students are forced to learn something for which their brains are not yet developed. I also have seen the long term effects on a student's self-esteem when he fails continually at a subject because he got "behind". I tutored one student in Grade 8 with a mark in the teens in Math. It did not take long to find out that he did not know his 3 times tables... he had been sick when this material was covered, and he never made up what he had missed, As a result, most of his math answers were wrong; he did not know why. He thought he had no ability in Math.
We went back to the basics, times tables from Grade 3, and his mark rose to the mid-70's in a few weeks.
I did not know that MRI's today show that areas of the brain used in reading in a 5-year old boy mirror the same areas of brain in a 3 1/2 year old girl, That means that, by the time a boy gets to Grade 1, he is at least 1 1/2 years behind the girls in his class. Sadly, teaching in a class (unless it is done with independent individualized learning) focuses on the middle of the class. This means that most boys will be left behind.
The author suggests that many discipline problems of boys (more boys expelled from preschool!) are related to their frustration in being unable to do what is required of them in literary skills.
Like the boy I tutored in Math, these boys can develop a lifelong dislike for reading, a strong lowering of self-esteem (thinking that they are not as good as the girls) and unfortunately a possible permanent shutdown of that area of the brain responsible for reading and writing.
Studies seem to indicate that by between Grade 4 and 6, the ability of boys to acquire literary skills will have caught up to girls, but by that time, they have failed so consistently and become so far behind that they will never catch up.
If a boy is 5 months behind in Grade 1, then there is only a 1 in 5 chance of him ever catching up. But he is likely farther behind than 5 months since at the age of 5, he is 1 1/2 years behind the girls.
The author does an excellent job of showing how this failure to read and write costs boys career and university opportunities because they do not have the verbal skills to succeed.
I disagree with the author in one major area. He talks about successful programs which correct the problem AFTER the boy has had years of frustration and failure.
I think that the solution is to prevent the problem from developing ... he cannot learn to read until he is developmentally able. The solution is to slow down the reading part of the curriculum until he is ready for it. The author talks about the success of separate gender classrooms which are legal in the US. IF possible, there should be a separate curriculum for boys and girls with the boys learning Math and Science earlier than girls, when their brains are ready for it, and then learning literary skills later, also when their brains are developmentally ready. Likewise, the girls, whose brains develop in literary skills before Math and Science skills, should have their curriculum reversed. By Grade 6, the curricula should match and gender separate classes would no longer be necessary.
This could be easily accomplished in home schooling, but there are other educational and social advantages and disadvantages to consider in home schooling.
The author states that schools felt that the solution to low literary skills was to introduce reading earlier. This explains the emphasis in preschool on literary and arithmetic skills.
But you can see that the brains of preschoolers, especially boys, are not ready at this age for learning to read.
So the parents face great difficulty with their boy who becomes increasingly frustrated because each day he gets farther behind in every subject... because all subjects depend on reading and writing skills. Then he becomes bored, angry and a discipline problem.
The change in curriculum has not benefited anyone... it is like toilet training. If someone is ready to read at age 5, it will take a few weeks to teach the basics. If you begin at age 3, it will take 2 years.
Reading is an individual skill and each student learns at his own pace.
The most successful reading programs that I have ever used have been the SRA labs in which each student progresses at his own rate through material that increases in difficulty. I have also used reading materials that are age-appropriate (and gender-appropriate) but geared to individual reading levels. The author so correctly emphasizes the lack of reading materials relevant to boys, especially now that there is a zero tolerance policy to any form of violence, even in books, so that even a basic adventure story is banned. Boys just do not like the materials that they are given to read. I have taught individualized reading programs to entire classes where everyone loved to read because the material was relevant, exciting and at their reading level.
We had reading texts with the same cover, same page numbers, same pictures, but different reading difficulties. These books were mixed in the class so that you did not have separate groups of fast, moderate and slow readers. Nobody except the teacher knew at which level a student was reading. Each question was designed so that it could be answered from any of the different level texts. So students learned the basics of literature as well as reading.
If books like this were used until Grade 6, there would probably be no need for classes to be separated by gender.
If I were faced with this very discouraging situation that seems to have no solution except for home schooling, I would prepare myself for an intensive 6 years until the boys caught up to the girls. During these years, I would take the responsibility of teaching my son reading at his current level and daily encouraging him to believe in himself. I would help him to understand that a curriculum unsuited to his level has nothing to do with him. I would help him realize that it is not his fault that he has been given reading materials above his level, but promise him that we will get through this until he is ready for the material given to him.
Of course, by the time that the general public realizes the damage that has been done, it will be too late to correct it for a generation of boys.
But that does not need to happen to your boys.
I am thankful that the author has done such compelling research with such a heart for boys (when he has only two daughters, so he is not dealing with the problem at a personal level.)
As always, information is power. If you, as a parent, know about this situation, you can make this problem much less serious for your boy.