Snuffed Out is about twin "energetics" (basically witches, although they'd be offended if you said so) running a candle shop in Savannah, Georgia. Our main character is Tabby, who almost killed someone with her powers once and now refuses to use them. FYI the man in question was going to assault her, but that's only provided as a reason for why she lost control of her powers and not an actual traumatic event with lingering emotional scars. But I digress. There is plenty of space for ranting below. Her twin is Sage, who can't help but use her abilities for everything. This is a cozy mystery, and our victim is a customer of the candle shop who was videoed making a scene at the shop over an ineffective aromatherapy candle. Even though they handled it professionally and without rising to the bait, this is the basis for the police's interest in the twins and their employee. Really. After being hassled by the police over it, the two dedicate themselves to finding the real killer.
So here's the thing. There were so many moments that made me mad while reading this. I took a slew of notes, and staring at them now, there's not a reasonable way to pare it down and organize it. So instead, treat yourself to this list of my complaints, in order of when they arose.
1. My first little clue that this book might not suit me is the use of a racial slur referencing the Romani people not once but twice.
2. Next up, Tabby notes that the detectives are like "salt and spicy pepper," and the spicy part of the equation is a woman named Sharmila. The racial undertones there are weird and unwelcome.
3. There's a clunky attempt to address policing and racism when the twins' employee, Gerard, who I think is Black and definitely isn't white (the author sort of dances around it), is pulled in as a suspect. And though the book decries the assumption that a Black man is good at sports (fair), it leans into other racial stereotypes by giving him a dad who didn't stick around and a grandmother who raised him. I have more to say on Gerard's depiction as a bi man to come *sigh.* Anyway, it's not a cohesive theme of the book to question why the police especially distrusted a Black man or to worry about what future injustices he might experience compared to one of the white characters. Later, Tabby notes that she wants the "bad element" taken off the streets by the police. So her distrust seems to be situational rather than systematic, i.e. when it becomes a problem for her personally.
4. I really oughtn't cast stones over this, but Tabby seems to have the thinnest skin alive. Her deeply scarring experience of so-called bullying as a kid was being called "dummy," and this supposedly happened in public school?? Bro, get your head out of the sand on the kinds of things kids say to each other because it's rough. Your life was not hard, Tabby.
5. Now let's get into it about Tabby's love interest. Quig's the friend who's been boldly pining after her (and he's not the only one-- more on that to come) while being a guy's guy who dates socialites. He believes that no man is inherently clean and tidy. A woman has to make it so, be it a mom or a girlfriend. So he's a real winner. On a superficial level, he drives a Hummer, which gives me the ick.
6. About our other pining lad... It's a classic love triangle that exists because the protagonist is just so sparkly special that everyone's trying to get with her. Gerard's jealous to see her getting closer to Quig and comments that she'll look like a goddess "for Quig" because her dress is so beautiful for an event. Instead of correcting him that she'll look beautiful for herself or just in general, Tabby instead goes the self-deprecating route. You can smell the toxic masculinity for MILES. And it's extra annoying because it's not really a triangle. Tabby's crystal clear with Gerard that she's not interested, but he keeps pushing his luck to let her know that he's in love with her.
7. The romantic relationships aren't the only problematic ones in Tabby's life. Sage is constantly pushing boundaries, making demands, and acting on her bitterness-- apparently the major driving force in her life. This especially comes up with Gerard, Sage's ex who she torments by siphoning off his energy for revenge. The kicker? She wiped his memory of their time together because she's so mad he cheated on her. And since his grandmother has Alzheimer's, he's especially freaked out by the gap in his timeline. Sage takes it too far (if you don't already think she has) and almost kills Gerard from taking too much of his life force or whatever. The sisters finally have it out over this mistreatment, but their aunt says Tabby has to forgive Sage because family's the most important blah blah blah, so Tabby just... gets over it? Like what the fuck. During their argument, it comes out that Sage's extra mad that Gerard cheated on her because he's bi?? She's butthurt because she didn't know, and apparently that's worse than past boyfriends who cheated on her with women. This lovely mix of biphobia from the character and bi stereotyping from the author KILLS ME. Like, what? He's bi, so that means he just wants to sleep with everyone? Even Tabby? Ugh.
8. This one's a quicker one: Tabby has an awkward attempt to interact with a gender-nonconforming person and figure out how to refer to them. It's not the most heinous thing in the book (see: numbers 1-7 for a refresher), but it's not good either. She just decides on a set of pronouns based on physical presentation and powers onward.
9. I'm not mad Tabby's got a strong moral compass (especially compared to Sage), but her white savior complex is another matter. When questioning a Latino man, she claims to empathize with his experience with racist police. But like... she can't? Because she's white? And her experience with the police was smoothed over because her friend with benefits is old money and hooked her up with the best lawyer money can buy? I also didn't appreciate the author writing the Latino character's dialogue in broken English. Ultimately, he's down on his luck, and Tabby offers him some advice because *white savior complex.* Get the woman her angel wings or whatever.
10. The twins talk at a woman in a domestic abuse situation and tell her to think of her baby if she won't think of herself. And like, they don't listen to what she has to say. They just steamroll her even though they've never been in her shoes. Plus, there isn't a good relationship between them, so I'm not sure how they thought that interaction would go.
11. Finally, there's this antiquated family "need" for a new generation of women to take over the business that's just plain creepy. Both Sage and their aunt put pressure on Tabby to escalate things with her not-boyfriend so she can continue the family line like ~what~ century is this exactly??
Well, if it weren't obvious, I don't recommend this book. Do yourself a favor and find your cozy mystery and/or witchy vibes somewhere else.