2.5 stars really
After having a bad run in reading contemporary romance novels before this one, I was actually quite relieved to find myself enjoying the first 5 chapters of this book. Unfortunately, after chapter 5, the book went down for me.
Sorry for the spoilers, but I have to include them to fully express why I didn’t like this book.
What I liked about the book – a great hero and heroine
In fairness, I really love the heroine (Emma). I really empathized with Emma and admired her resilience and strength despite the difficulty of growing up with parents who were very incompatible, ie a bossy, strong, very ambitious, city-girl Mom and a laid back, disorganised, outdoorsy type of Dad. I loved how she still cared for her Dad even though he was an absentee father for most of her life, and stayed loyal to her Mom despite all the “negative” stuff she learned about her.
Stone, meanwhile, was a hero worth swooning over too.
I loved the circumstances on how these two met and really laughed when Stone had to help Emma deliver a baby out on a wilderness trail. I was really ready to enjoy this book for a change, but then the next chapters became a bit too painful. Well, maybe not all the chapters... the sexy bits were kind of hot...
What I didn’t like about this book – the curse of the evil big city strikes again
Overall, what I really didn’t like about the book is that it’s another one of those romances set in a small town where again another author gives a very polarising/black and white view about the small town lifestyle/culture versus living in the big city. Basically, it’s like this:
Big city living and big city folk = BAD
Small town living and small town folk = GOOD
I am really getting sick of this polarising set-up for romance stories, particularly since I have lived and visited in both settings, and the reality is that there are both good and bad sides to both. It is kind of annoying that authors like Jill Shalvis only show the idyllic/good side of a small town like Wishful. Granted, she tried balancing it with the harsh weather/climate conditions which partially drove Emma’s Mom to leave and head back to NYC, but even so, given that Emma’s Mom was portrayed more as the “bad parent” (and she kind of represented the Big City life/folk in this book), you can clearly see the author’s bias against living in the big city.
The one-dimensional portrayal of Emma’s parents is an example of this polarising. All throughout the book, the small town folk only viewed Emma’s Mom as the “evil parent”, ie 1) she left Emma’s Dad and took Emma with her; 2) she made sure Emma’s Dad had little contact with Emma; 3) she hated Emma’s Dad for his lack of ambition; 4) she asked Emma’s Dad to pay for Emma’s medical studies tuition but didn’t bother telling Emma about this, and also because of this act, her Dad didn’t have any money left for his retirement and had to take out a second mortgage.
But so far no one in the town seemed to understand that: 1) Emma’s Mom had been willing to give up her life in the city for several years to be with Emma’s Dad whom she fell in love with at 19. However, no one noticed that the Dad didn’t even try doing the same, giving up his life for a while in Wishful and live with his wife and daughter in the city; 2) The mother had to work long hours as a registered nurse to support herself and her daughter. Note it wasn’t very clearly established that the Dad was providing child support; 3) She was a “tiger Mom” to Emma because she wanted to ensure she becomes a doctor. Was that so bad given that in the end even Emma’s Dad was proud that she too went into the same profession? Given his propensity to be so laid back, I greatly wonder if Emma would have pursued medicine if he raised her; 4) For a woman who wanted to independently raise her daughter, it must have been difficult to ask help from her ex-husband to pay the tuition for Emma’s medical studies. However, as a father mostly absent and not even providing child support, surely he does kind of owe Emma that support. I even question why the Dad didn’t even try saving early or setting up a trust for his only daughter to ensure she would be able to go to med school or any other college studies in the future... But I suppose if you are so laid back, happy to accept casseroles as payment for medical services without thinking that you have a family or at least just a daughter to support, it is unlikely you will be planning for your daughter’s future needs at all; 5) She may have barred her ex from seeing his daughter, but wait, did he try fighting this behaviour through the courts or by trying to be assertive? Nope. When Emma became more of an adult and her Mom died, did he make any attempts to be closer? Nope.
Overall, despite his shortcomings, it is the Dad who is always shown to be the “martyr” parent for most of the book. I can’t help but wonder if the Dad relishes this role. I mean, he seems ok with letting people in the town know about his marital problems, financial and even health problems, but he can’t seem to say anything to his daughter, so in the end the daughter ends up looking like the “ungrateful” daughter to the town folk (along with her “bitchy” mother).
It wasn’t just the contrast between parents that brought home the “evil big city versus good small town” vibe of this book, but what really pissed me off was that the author even contrasted medical doctors working in small towns versus those working in the city. Towards the end of the book when Emma realised the value of practicing as a medical doctor in a small town, the author made Emma state something about how being a doctor in the big city meant she was just “a dime in a dozen”, compared to a doctor in the small town being “irreplaceable”. Wow! It seems that in the author’s attempt to vindicate the important work/contribution a small town doctor does, it was necessary for her to give such an insulting remark about doctors working in the city. Perhaps I am biased because I have a brother, relatives and many friends who had worked long shifts as doctors in the city, but I thought making such a statement is sooo uncalled for! What is the author trying to imply? Because city doctors have replacements, their work is negligible? That they are not as important/valuable as a small town doctor? (Actually, when I see how long these doctors work in the city and the volume sometimes of patients they have to attend to, I wish there were dozens of them so that patients are given better care and that the doctors themselves can have a life.) I also question whether a doctor like Emma would even make such a statement. Surely, as a real doctor, she would actually appreciate the higher volumes of patients in the city as it would give her the opportunity to sharpen her skills, increase her medical knowledge and be a better doctor for other patients. (I mean wouldn’t you be more confident with a pilot with more flight time and more experience? So similarly, you’d feel the same way about a doctor with skills sharpened due to treating a wider variety and great number of patients.)
While the author did portray Emma’s Dad as a good caring doctor who genuinely cares for the folks in the town, I do question his medical skills and experience given the limited number of cases he looks at and I really wonder if he even was trying to upgrade his skills (I think I recall that in his clinic, his equipment weren’t all that upgraded).
Another cliché, but questionable HEA
I know a lot of readers won’t agree with me, but why is it always necessary for romances like these to end with the heroine giving up their lives or the career they built up to be with their man, even if the hero (like Stone) was willing to give up his life and follow her anyway? Honestly, I am not particularly that convinced Emma will be happy living in Wishful in the long term. Why?
For starters, for all his “martyric facade”, I thought the Dad was as manipulative as Emma’s Mom in bringing her there and actually making her feel guilty for not staying (initially). I also question his assertion that that Emma “was losing her soul/joy” in the city because of the work she had there. On what basis is he making this assertion? And how could he even assert this when he had not made the effort to know her in the past? The way I see it, Emma’s depressed/lonely/unhappy/”unwilling to give” state is more the product of being caught in between two incompatible parents. She didn’t have to be an ER doctor for the rest of her life and work long hours. She could have chosen a specialisation in medicine that was “less” stressful, where she could dictate the hours or have more time for herself even if she lived in the city (my cousin doctors are living examples of this as are other real doctors). But she didn’t do this, and it’s quite obvious she continued working the long hours, because she had no family (again Dad made no effort even after her Mom died) or made the effort to make friends. If she ended up having a meaningful relationship with Spencer or if Stone resided in New York, can one still conclude it is her job or the city “crushing her soul”? Honestly, when the endorphins for Stone had faded a bit, I wonder -- would she be like her Mom and want to move back to NYC? For all we know, the ending of this book could simply be like the story of Emma’s Mom when she had just moved into Wishful to be with Emma’s Dad.
Townfolks that ain’t so nice and the mystery of that Thai dish
Finally, what’s so great about the small town folk of Wishful? Emma takes over her Dad’s practice, but no one seems to respect her in the beginning. They resent her for charging, but hey they’re very much aware of her Dad’s financial problems. If they are really “nice” as opposed to be just plain “nosy”, surely they should be making the effort to pay him because you can’t run a business or pay mortgage by just accepting casseroles! (And as shown, some of them actually have the ability to pay but don’t anyway!)
Lastly, how did one of the senior patients (Missy) actually manage to make a tom yum soup (casserole?) for Emma? Do they have an Asian store in Wishful? I actually come from Southeast Asia and since I know the ingredients for tom yum soup, I know they’re not exactly the easiest to come by if you don’t have an Asian store that’s well stocked. I really wonder how she made it and what she used to make that Thai dish. Of course, I could be wrong, but Wishful didn’t strike me as a town with a big Asian population to make it viable for an Asian store to be open there.
Will I read another Jill Shalvis or recommend this book?
I’m currently reading another book which is part of another series by her. But I’m not sure if I’ll recommend this book. I’m biased though. I’m really not a big fan of these “small town vs big city” type of romances and the negative remark about city doctors just annoyed me!