In hindsight I think I barely knew or understood anything about dogs. What a fun and useful dog full of practical tips put in a simple and understandable way. Graeme has this British sense of humour that I quite like and the audiobook version of this book is even better as his way of telling the stories and jokes is even better. He has a manner of getting straight to the point while at the same time being respectful and kind which is exactly the type of character that works well with dogs. Although he sprinkles in stories of his own dogs and those dogs that he was called in to train or help the owners with, the book is structured in a very organised way that will make you understand dogs and training dogs in steps. Starting with his 3.5 rules. 1) Behaviour that feels rewarding will increase 2) Behaviour that feels uncomfortable will decrease 3) Some behaviours that are ignored will fade away. 3.5) Practice doesn't make perfect.
Graeme focuses a great deal of the book on this principle of course and the book continues from there. There is a very logical procedure to training dogs and nothing seems to be random. An overall lesson that I've learnt is that some senses that we use to communicate need to be sharpened while others not as much like our hearing as dogs don't use verbal language. A big point that might seem obvious but seems to often be done wrong anyway is that since dogs don't use words, they also don't understand words or sentences either. They rely much more heavily on voice tone and also the sounds/ques associated with a word. Touch is another one that people don't get right either as the intensity of the touch also has a different effect. It's sort of like a voice. Graeme explains on how good they are in reading us, regardless whether they understand what they are reading. They process that information faster than we do by reading our forehead wrinkles, nose flaring and ears. In regards to training dogs there were a couple of essential concepts that needed to be understood. One of them was how timing is a skill that must be mastered in order to train your dog. Consequences don't really exist for dogs and ignoring is not advisable because the owner often don't understand the dynamics and consequences of ignoring them for that specific amount of time. A popular tool of course to master the skill of timing, is the clicker or whistle. They serve as markers and you can then start with holding rewards to then build up your progress. He also clarisies the cons of these extra tools like their inconvenience as an object or in busy environments. Simpler is better for Graeme so h was a bigger proponent of skipping the middle man and using simple verbal ques such as "good" or "down". There are also impracticalities to the reward system too such as always having to have a reward for the dog so relying on their reward ADDICTION is a much better long term option as dogs can potentially unlearn something. Make it simple and build from there. Commands also have to be distinctly different as they can often be confused with the pronunciations. Later in the book Graeme talks about about dogs "understanding" or responding to different languages. It is difficult and possible but again, must be consistent in regards who says what in the specific language and must not have any overlap. In regards to the unlearning, Graeme talks about Generalization which talks about learning and doing a skill and one place and eventually being able to transfer that skill somewhere else in another situation. That's a human problem that they should relate to too. Graeme is careful to not constantly compare humans to dogs as there are parallels that humans should be understanding of but also should approach differently as they are not the same species and function differently too. Another essential concept to understand is the excitement management. A stand out example or story was that of different language interpreting what a happy dog is ,different to that of how a British or English speaking person would interpret a happy dog to be. In Eglish we assosiate Happiness with Excitement all the time which is why the wagging tail is associated with happy dog. Which is not necessarily the case. The are 100% excited but that does not always mean content or happy though. In regards to the excitement management, a dog needs to be alert in order to learn but there is also a point of no return in the excitement meter where they are purely irrational. great physical deeds require more attention than others. Measureing and manageing this meter will vary from dog to dog but it will certainly not be from 0 to 100%. Measure what level they start at and how fast they go up and not to be overlooked, what level of excitement/fear that YOU are at. This relationship between you and the dog is the last and essential concept that people in general I din't think have mastered as effectively for better or worse for the dog. That concept is that of the leader and follower.. Dogs have this relationship with all their relationships and it isn't as clear as it it may seem to us. It's not always about domination or bullying like it may imply but it also isn't about total submission to every desire that the dog has either. You have to ask yourself of what makes a good boss/leader? A smart, rewarding, stubborn and consistent one. Lastly, how can we read dogs better. Graeme breaks down each feature on dogs and how that can tell you how you know how they feel. Is the tongue visible, are they smiling, what direction are their ears pointing, can you see the white of their eyes and also what direction is their tail wagging? Amazingly, dogs can also be potentially left or right handed.
To wrap the book up, he gives the reader some practical tips in owning the dogs. Things like avoiding puppy farms and the importance or value of a good breeder. The need for puppies to experience a lot in order to learn and that is best done with their mother up to 8 weeks. Give them a wide variety of food to avoid pickiness and be patient of teenage "years" in dogs too. A important safety note is never to run or do exercise with a full stomach.
Wonderful book and would recommend to any dog lover that is willing to learn more.