I appreciate the immense variety of information and spells. This book contains practically every scenario, from building friendships/relationships, securing a good job, cleansing and creating energy, breaking addictions and obsessions, and more. This is a wide variety that I did not realize I would receive, so it was interesting to read about rituals for situations I likely (or hopefully) will never need to use. It helped me think about difficult scenarios that others are experiencing at this moment and appreciate the little things I CAN do in my own life.
The authors explain the significance of every part of every spell, which is far more thorough than other crystal, reiki, or spell guides I have seen. By providing this extra information, they help the readers recognize and acknowledge each step of their spell. The authors even were able to justify why certain spells should be performed on certain days of the week or times of the day, which opened my eyes a little. Unfortunately for me, that means I need to get certain colored candles and focus on burning them on specific days.
I also like the fact that the authors emphasize that lighting a candle will not solve all of your problems. If you want something to change in your life, you have to also change and make attempts to be open. This fact is incredibly important to me, but the book takes it one step further and also emphasize that victims of abuse or infidelity have resources available and that readers are worth more than that.
The only aspect of this book I did not like as much was the structure. Each chapter begins with more general information, typically drawing from one of the author’s experiences. Then there are spells, along with in-depth explanations about the materials, process, and intentions. In theory, this would be an effective order, but I had a hard time mentally categorizing the spells into the chapters they were. I think I would have liked it a lot more if the beginning of the book included most of the general information instead of interspersed through the book. Then the spells would be separated into specific intentions or results (e.g. manifesting, breaking, cleansing, and practicing daily as chapters, then having subcategories of money/wealth, jobs, love, etc). Otherwise, being broad (e.g. a chapter about romantic love) and breaking it down into the intentions (e.g. manifesting and attracting love, maintaining a relationship, rejuvenating a relationship, breaking it off, and coping with a breakup or loss of a partner). Obviously, there are a number of different ways that spells can be organized!
I’m sure the current order will make a little more sense once I read through it again, but for now, I’ll just have to flag certain intentions with colored post-it notes.
I’m also not crazy about them encouraging us to plant mullein—an invasive species—in our backyards. Make sure you do individual research before planting in your area!
Genuine questions indirectly related to this review:
I’m not sure what kind of heat-safe bowls or heat-safe holders I should be using. Are these basically old candle jars? Does the shape matter?
Should I treat the spells like cooking or baking? (In cooking, you can substitute ingredients or put your own spin on it. In baking, you NEED to follow the recipe, otherwise it may not turn out as expected.)
Also, can wax melts with specific scents and essential oils work in similar ways to candle magic?
Most of the spells say to “let the candle burn in its entirety,” but how long does that typically take with taper, and votive candles? Do I need to meditate for a solid 2+ hours?
I honestly wish I had been part of this community during the pandemic because the live streams and video chats sound like they were reassuring and overall lovely. I’ll have to look into their other book, “Reading the Leaves!”