“...the boy carrying my bags nodded vestigially…”
Hotel du Lac is written so well its setting seems timeless. Is this 1984 when it’s published? Or 1934 or 1954 when the sex role stereotypes were more universally demanded? It wasn't clear to me, but really since for the class of people the author is describing, I guess it doesn’t really matter. Have the rules changed that much?
A Booker prize winning look at character or maybe just behavior. I found it rather misogynist. Mr. Neville, a nihilist, entirely selfish man is deemed eccentric and understandable, really, given the way life is. But the women all are fairly horrid – manipulative, self-obsessed, vain and meretricious, pathetic, self destructive, obeisant – none seem given any chance to be viewed through a longer, clearer lens.
But maybe that is the point.
I can’t help but remember a (true) story about an old woman in an Iranian mountain village who was about to be thrown out of the only home she had known for 40 years, a small hovel, because her husband had died and all property goes to the closest male relative, in this case a nephew who had chosen to displace her. She was looking at being homeless, as she had no rights to anything but the arbitrary decisions of a distant relative of her husband’s. She looked at her limited repertoire and chose shame. She went to the center of the village and began to scream, keening and wailing, tearing at her hijab, not eating, for days, making the whole village uncomfortable.
The nephew was called upon to relent. He did. Not for her, for the men of the village. To release those men from their discomfort.
When I read this I thought - when you have no power, no legal rights, few acceptable ways to manifest at all – you must use what is available, no matter how meager your options, no matter how sparse the tools in stock.
That’s what the women in the Hotel du Lac were doing. Choosing from the skills they found in their acceptable repertoire, disagreeable as those skills may appear to us.
The book is biting, engaging. Like the bag boy in the oh-so-proper Hotel du Lac nodding “vestigially”, an adverb so perfect it made me laugh out loud. Edith, our protagonist (who is, BTW "Not drowning, waving.” ) is hilarious and insightful. Her insights are veracious if unforgiving. I particularly enjoyed this exchange with her publisher about Cosmo girls:
“ ‘Harold,’ said Edith, ‘I simply do not know anyone who has a lifestyle. What does it mean? It implies that everything you own was bought at exactly the same time, about five years ago, at the most. And anyway, if she’s all that liberated why doesn’t she go down to the bar and pick someone up? I’m sure it’s entirely possible. It’s just that most women don’t do it. And why don’t they do it?’ she asked, with a sudden return of assurance. ‘It’s because they prefer the old myths, when it comes to the crunch. They want to believe that they are going to be discovered, looking their best, behind closed doors, just when they thought that all was lost, by a man who has battled across continents, abandoning whatever he may have had in his in-tray, to reclaim them…
‘Well, my dear you know best,' he said. ”.
This is my first book by this author. I bought it because it won the Booker prize. I want to believe she is secretly saying that it is time for women, of all ages, to battle across continents, keep whatever they choose from their in-trays, fight for what they love, and jettison, just chuck, what doesn’t nourish them.
And do it by themselves.
That’s what’s wonderful about fiction, and life, we get to choose the meaning, and if we're lucky, the ending.