I read this years ago and remembered not liking it. It was one of the worst of the rom coms.
The words on the cover are stupid: 'cold feet, and hands, and ears...but warm hearts).
I didn't think it was a good way to start the book off with her about to run into people.
I found it odd when she says her friend Crystal moved to Minnesota from Colorado and hadn't adjusted to the low temps or 4-day no sunshine. Minnesota is supposed to be really cold.
She's 7 years younger than her sister, who's 24. That hit a lil hard cuz that's my age. And this is a teens bk& I relate to the older sister!
She said she landed on top of one, then says one of them she'd fallen onto asked if she's ok.
He tells her how to play crack the whip,& she says gee thanks, I'll try to remember that.
She'd like a guy that's bad at skating so she could laugh when he fell down.
She said maybe he'd been obnoxious. And then defends he couldn't be that terrible of a person since he'd bothered to return her hat. The next sentence she said he hadn't been suave about it. Especially not after he'd tried to be nice and she'd been rude. What does that have to do with him being suave?
Her friend says he likes her cuz he was looking for an excuse to talk to her. She said or to harass me, cuz he made fun of her. And she said he would have left the hat in lost and found, so she'd have to come back and see him again. Why would he put it in lost and found when you were right there that very day? Why hold it to give to you another time when he could see you right then & there?
These girls are over analyzing something very simple, a guy returning your hat.
Idk why these books are so ridiculous. Her friend Jones is obsessed with Topher Grace and asked her ex bf to go by the name Topher. She didn't break up with him, but it didn't help his cause. How bizarre to ask someone to change their name to your crush, and get upset when they won't. How would you like to be called by another woman's name that ur bf likes?
She said it herself. She has a month to get to know a guy well enough by to ask to a wknd getaway. That's ridiculous.
Ironic that Jones is saying Kirsten has to find a guy when she's single too. How do these girls expect to just find a guy? If you haven't yet, you most likely wouldn't in a month. Especially to be close enough to invite for a wknd trip.
And jones was gonna invite her ex just because he's a good skier& can make a fire. Our lil Kirsten actually realized it was mean.
The comment about being 25 hurt. It hurt a lot.
The characters are always so difficult in these books. The main and sides. She jokes her sister has been disorganized since birth, and lost her bottle. & Sean is like how would you know if she lost track of her bottle if you're younger. Just go with the joke. It was obviously a joke. Maybe her parents told her she always lost her bottle.
She starts to say the thing about crack the whip& he doesn't understand.& she's like oops. That must have been the other guy. You dr who said what??
The mention of polar bear plunge was cool. But when her sister says you should do it, Kirsten says no you should,& they're acting like her sister can jump in with a broken leg. Her sister is flirting with the worker there,& says she's gonna be on the shore so she can keep him warm, when she was giving the impression she'd be jumping in.
It's funny she called tanning the fake bake.
She sees the guy who had her hat& says the cute guy. Idr her finding him cute. Then says the one she'd fallen on. Earlier it was 'sort of landed on'.
It's far fetched that a 17 yr old would have a credit card.
I found it embarrassing she thought he was talking to her, asking if she needed help w/ her groceries& he said he was talking to that elderly woman.
Their mom is nice enough to send cupcakes, and just because her sister is on a diet she wants to get rid of them. Idk why Kirsten even suggested dumping them. She goes upstairs to check on Brett and tells him there's cupcakes. When they go downstairs, Gretchen puts them in the garbage disposal. Why didn't she just let her sister &kid have them? She tells Brett they were messed up in the mail. So you lied to your kid. That was a crappy mom moment right there.
It turns out Brett's bday is at the end of the month, and she'll be buying a cake for him then. So...wth. Why not keep these cupcakes? I guess we're supposed to give her props for allowing her son to eat bday cake on his bday.
'Because then it wouldn't be as much fun for us, we couldn't just relax. We'd have to keep track of him. He'd spill coffee, he'd bug people. He'd bug us." Wow,& she's his mom.
She says her sister should meet ppl. She has a broken leg& it's snowing out. Her sister has to say give her a week cuz it's so hard getting around on the snow. And Kirsten responds with idk.
'I realized he was the Zublansky's dairy aisle guy, and the one I'd nearly knocked down at the skating rink,& the one who brought me my hat.' We get it. You don't have to keep a list.
Now we can add Connor to the list of difficult characters.
He's like why did u ask it like a question? & more awkwardness ensues with her answer.
His fellow worker says his name,& she thought Conor was a nice name, but she already heard it, when the old lady said she prefers Conor to help with her groceries.
She trash talks her sister to strangers, sayig they went to another bakery until the guy ruined her wedding cake w/ a figurine that was too big for her. She realizes she's making a fool of herself, but continues doing so with "my sister is a control freak with a bad self image." You're not making a fool out of yourself because you're babbling, but because you're talking about ur sister.
She said she's "going to Europe, too. well England. Then maybe Europe." And Conor yawns. That's so rude.
I found the comment tacky where she says the laptop has had more upgrades than Janice Dickinson has plastic surgery.
Conor is acting rude too.
No humor Sean strikes again. She says she'll have to take Bear on long walks or run a marathon cuz he's full of energy,& Sean asks if she runs marathons, looking impressed or startled. Lots of ppl run marathons. She says yes, she could run if she's being chased. Then he asks if she's planning on being chased. Take a joke, dude.
Sean says his bro is insane, as goalies are. And she says this is ur bro ur talking about. You've said things about your sister too!
The sister bickering/taking shots thing is getting old. She wants to go skiing with Sean and her sister says no way cuz she wiped out. When she was a kid. So that means you can nvr go skiing? So she actually says since her sister is dead set against her skiing they'll have to do something else. I was lookin forward to them skiing, so I was annoyed.
"I had to farm out the shoveling. But now that you're here, I guess I can cancel it--I hadn't even thought of that." Then Kirsten goes no don't fire him!
I was so surprised when she went to surprise Sean with hot choc. But I knew his bro would be Conor.
Of course Conor did a better job at shoveling.& they agreed that the mall was a waste.
All of a sudden on pg 134 she wears glasses,& a few pgs later she said it gets old when ppl look at her and assume she's stupid. She's had it with that. When has anyone treated you like that?
He implies she can't get into a good school.
She says she's all about sledding,& Conor says you keep saying that. How can u be all about everything? This is so embarrassing & rude.
She says the snow reminds her of the movie Shackleton. Conor gets pushed in the snow,& all of a sudden says he read Endurance,& no one comments on it. It was bizarre.
'"Hey," the group said, almost in unison, like they'd done this before and had a routine.' Or they're just saying hey. Hey is something ppl say when meeting others.
She lands on top of Sean and kisses him. When he looks surprised, and 'wasnt sure about all this' she kisses him again. So when someone looks like they dw kiss you, just kiss them again, harder, until they feel differently. How does she go from trying to work on her inner flirt to outright kissing him, when they haven't even really came out and said they like each other. They've only been hanging out.
And poor Conor has to see that.
Conor asks if her and Sean are an item. Teens don't talk like that.
He warns her from Sean. 'What was with the criticizing Sean? Brotherly love, it wasn't.' You've said worse!
Inundating is a big word.
'It wasn't as if Sean didn't like her because they'd done a lot together.' No you haven't.
So obnoxious when Jones said how about you take one and I'll take the other, like the brothers are pieces of meat.
She says she wants to talk to Sean in private& jones asks if she's gonna invite him. She says he's totally injured and she's just not doing it, so Emma urges do it. Don't sweat it, we won't be watching to make you nervous. What part of she's not doing it don't you understand?
Conor wipes her tear away & she thought he was gonna kiss her.
Her sister said the girl on his lap doesn't sound like much. When is that not much?
When she opens the door and Sean smiles she forgets everything she was going to say. She wants to kiss him but won't until she knows the truth. So when he asks where she went she doesn't say anything about the girl on his lap.
They're having a convo about what's for dinner. Chicken, baked, fried?
Chicken with onions mushrooms peppers and tomatoes. How exciting.
C says he's all about tomatoes, and she looks at the other cashier and they give each other 'irritated, he-is-so-annoying-and-we-have-no-patience-for-this glances.' More rudeness.
The line two bags' worth and you get me was funny.
She says Conor thinks she's stupid then starts following her everywhere& sort of kisses her. Neither of which are true.
I really hate when embarrassing/awkward things happen to the MC. She goes to kiss his cheek before going to get changed, which was random to do anyway. But he'd turned his head to talk to his friends and she ended up kissing the air.
Then these guys come up, hitting on her right with Conor there,& there's no reaction from Conor.
What's the point of wearing the skirt if Sean or Conor don't really react?
I like that Conor said he hates HS,& it's fake, competitive and he hates cliques.
So annoying how Conor is trying to be serious, telling her about his brother,& she tries to lighten the mood with her dumb jokes. Then changes the subject to herself& how she played field hockey in PE. So we didn't even get the full story.
She said she flattened her friend's finger enough to break it,& Conor said that's hilarious. Um, no it isn't.
It's so stupid she turns it into a deal, she'll go to his formal dance if he goes on their weekend getaway.
Jones says if she won't ask Conor, she'll ask him.& she's never even spoken to him. Then ends up saying she's joking. Why would you joke about that? That is not funny.
It's so stupid when she said it was like she was more interested in inviting Conor than Sean. That makes absolutely no sense, because you don't even like him.& you just spent the afternoon kissing his brother.
They use stupid things to show they're meant to be together. Like that Conor knows what groupie means. & that he plays baseball and she plays softball.
Bear jumps on her lap and she says 'If my head wasn't hurting, my legs would soon.' Your legs can still hurt.
Gretchen all of a sudden went out with her friends, which begs the question of why Kirsten said she needed to go out and meet ppl.
He makes a snowball in her coffee foam& she says does that rlly look like a snowball to you? So rude.
Conor didn't go dating just to date, didn't have tons of gf, which is refreshing.
She actually asks Conor to the winter carnival.
Conor asks if they can leave Bear home so he doesn't knock anyone down& she said she'll take him to an off-leash park so he can run all he wants, & he won't miss them. Why tell us this? Just leave the dog home.
Kids. Strollers. 'Necessity bag.' This shouldn't be in YA.
He asks if she has any side effects from falling on the ice. She says no but Gretchen made her go the docs with them just in case. He asks what the doc said and she said that her sisters leg is healing. I thought she went to the doc for her head, also, not just for her sister.
It's cute they crowned King Boreas and Snow Queen.
He talks to a beauty Queen, asks to take their pic& then poses with them.& says he has a thing for princesses. I didn't like that. He's supposed to like the MC, not some freaking beauty queens.
He says you'll always be miss Midwest to me and she says gee thanks. Why can't she be sweet??
She thinks Conor was going to kiss her& moves away. Then says she was pretty sure if Conor didn't kiss her she would kiss him.
It was weird how Conor said jones has a point, they look good together.
"You have to admit we make a cool couple." Who says cool couple?
All of a sudden says maybe she was more interested in him than Sean.
Conor is delusional saying he's been nice since day one. NO you haven't.
She says she didn't sense any interest from him,& Conor says what about serving her coffee& bagging her groceries& going sledding to protect her from the guys.& it was just so lame and sort of pathetic. Like Kirsten said, that was his job.
'According to Gretchen and the saleswoman (basically clones of each other), it looked great with my hair and slightly golden skin. Whatever.' Yea it's a real bummer being complemented like that.
She says her sister sprang for the dress to repay her for helping out.& of course a pair of shoes, a shawl, and nail polish. What a hardship to have someone buy you a whole outfit. How awful.
She bought herself a dress& said of course she couldn't go shopping without buying herself something. Well your sister should after buying you all that.& wanting to celebrate losing 10 lbs.
She says "forget about Brett's silly bday cake. Let's talk about the party some more." What kind of mom is this?
Gretchen is trying to teach Kirsten how to dance,& stops suddenly, her eyes widening& continues staring like an idiot at Conor standing in the door. Why would u react like that to a HS kid standing in YOUR house. When Kirsten later says how embarrassing, and her sister says who cares, it's only Conor. Then why were u acting like an idiot when he walked in?
On Pg281 Sean all of a sudden looks like Ashton Kutcher. Because of the suit? His hair?
It makes no sense to go to the party with Sean and break up with him there. And then you'd have to ride home with him. Break up with him so he can bring someone who actually likes him.
Then after Conor shows up with a date you say you'd be having fun if you were with Conor.
All of a sudden 3 girls come up asking Conor to dance. I got the feeling he wasn't that popular.
Auld Lang Syne for New Years.
Connor was dancing with an entirely dif girl than the one he brought.
No teen says may I cut in like Melissa did to Sean. And guys usually cut in, not girls.
The slip in the ice sculpture puddle as she makes her exit was annoying. As was the calling herself cursed again.
That's funny she said it isn't fair Conor ran out on his date. You're not the person to talk about what's fair. You're planning to break up with Sean, and date his brother.
He says do you think I'd invite you and go with someone else which is refreshing. But he was with 5 dif girls.
She said kissing Conor wasn't like anyone else she'd ever kissed before. I didn't realize she had. She didn't say her and Tyler did. They only dated a month. Then Sean.
He says he has to work and she's like too bad becuz you're coming away with me.
& he oddly asks if it's to show up some old bf.
She tells sean in front of her sister that she left with Conor,& he has to ask when that happened.
Idk why Gretchen was telling her to be with Sean.
She tells Gretchen how Conor made sure she was ok. And left out the part where Conor ran over her foot with the cart. It was a freaking accident.
You told Sean you like his bro so when he shows up you think he came to tell you Conor couldn't go and you guys were back on.
'There was no reason we couldn't go out with each other, but there was no reason we should, either.' Huh.
She says Sean is too nice& that's why he has all the girls around him. He should be discriminate and be mean to a few to thin the pack. Wth.
They're leaving for the cabin on pg 327, and it hit me. This should have happened ages ago. Why were we reading of them in town when they could have been on the trip? That would have been much more exciting to read about.
I like that she said she didn't plan on sleeping with anyone until she was older.
Then Bear chases after them & they have to bring him back. Freaking leave already.
It took several more pages on their journey at the gas station. Which was unimportant.
They'd be going skiing, snowshoeing& hiking. I'd rather be reading about that.
She writes I luv u Conor in the snow& it ends the way their relationship was, with rude jokes.
He doesn't even say I love u.
They only kissed once. She kissed Sean more than she did Conor, the guy she ended up with.
I didn't enjoy this. Besides the humor in here, there was nothing.
Conor seemed so nice and sweet when he returned her hat, idk where he disappeared to. It was never brought up why he was so rude to her after. It seemed to be because she was rude to him. But he never said and he actually thought he'd been nice to her the whole time. So bizarre.
Conor actually acted like the bad boy, who you don't end up with. So to have him actually be the 'good guy' in the end just blows my mind. I literally don't understand why he was written so horrible. Then again, the MC is rude and uptight too, so maybe they deserve each other.
This could have ended a lot better. The most exciting part of the book--the weekend getaway--was saved for the very end and only lasted a few pages, while the entire book was full of mundane things. The last lines ended the way their entire relationship did; sort of rude. This just wasn’t good.
I had given this two stars from memory, and after rereading it, it was even worse than I remembered. This is actually one star. I don't think I enjoyed anything in here.