Look at drinking in a completely different way
Two weeks ago I was drinking up to forty units of alcohol a week. I knew I was doing possibly irreparable harm to my health, I was putting on weight and my habit was costing me a lot. I heard this described as disfunctional behaviour and it certainly felt that way to me. I had my first drink before dinner each evening, a long established habit, then continued, unable ever to have just one. Sometimes no more than two large glasses of wine, but seven days a week ... I started reading The Ten Day Alcohol Detox and stopped drinking. That was two weeks ago, okay, not that long, but I feel so much better, probably psychologically more than physically. I can do it, and yes I may have another drink, just not today. The first three days were hard, lots of ‘urge surfing’ and dodging ‘thought bombs’, but I survived. As Lewis David says, sobriety isn’t the boring unhappy place my drinking self thought, it is a place of comfort and good feelings. Try it!