Quite literally the best self-help book I have ever lain my eyes on.
Jung circumvented the biggest issue when it comes to self help in the most charming of ways. Furthermore, the theme underlying it is the one and unique theme that explain every other themes in the human experience.. the “original theme” if I may say.
‘I have come looking for my soul through external entities, instead of asking directly to my own soul.’
Instead of seeking answers to our issues onto philosophical books or just advice given by other people, he wants us to ask directly our soul how to solved issues that trouble her.. ‘cause only she, knows best what’s bothering her, and what will really help alleviating her suffering.
But how do I speak to my soul ? Or how does my soul speaks to me ?
He wants us to think profoundly into things/issues by ourselves, but in a particular manner depending on the issue!
this book will give us tools in order to live in a more concordant manner with our inward self.
Not only that, but from the way it is narrated, its mysticism with desert, jungle, sea imageries, and its cohesion all along added an exotic charm during the reading experience, as well as intellectual stimulation to reason out these puzzling figures.
Moreover, this puzzling narration indirectly constrains the reader to look into himself, in order to decipher the meanings depicted.
As he said at the beginning, C. Jung doesn’t want us to find answers of our problems onto philosophical books or others, so he wrote the book in a way that *obliged* us to seek answers within ourselves …
but of course, not in a lazy manner.
He meticulously insisted on recurrent themes, but laid out in different ways each times, giving us hints here and there.
The time he spent at vivifying these helpful ideas, and fit them into his enigmatic narration, is as though, it is impossible to finish this book and not come out with something lasting for the better. (In my opinion)
There is point in life when you realize your soul is your only torch in this world. Picture yourself a body in a dark setting-
Walking not knowing exactly where, and then you hit a wall, because everything around you it’s dark and obscure , you hit a wall, it’s painful and frustrating because you didn’t even know there were a wall there,
and you are not even sure if it’s actually a wall, so you tell yourself you just go in the opposite direction , but still you don’t have a torch fully bright so you can always hit that thing that hurt you or another object.
By knowing your soul, its needs and warnings, even though you don’t know where you go, this torch will brighten your way. If there is wall , you will perceive it, if you trip somewhere by accident, you will know *exactly* what made you trip back then.
And now that the torch made you perceive clearly the thing that hit you, the next time you will walk, you will pay more attention to its possible future presence.
When you understand precisely the reason behind your insatisfaction with life; like the roots of it, you reach such a fresh, divine feeling of actually knowing why things happen, of somewhat being in control. it's fucking frustrating not to be able to explain with reason your "qualms".
It feels like you have ascended to a God status, once you finally reach these depths of your soul and connect all the dots. Awareness can bring peace of mind sometimes…
because, you will be able to find more fulfilling ways to approach your problem if you are intricately aware of its sources… at least compared to, if you were not aware of them.
C. Jung’s method to trigger the unconscious of his audience is by attempting the artificial creation of a soul in a textual medium; the richness of the book comes from this atmosphere whose origins are known to 1/8th and unknown to 7/8th. By trying to reproduce the human experience in front of his soul, this entity only partially known, before our eyes.:: the red book forces us to spend time with it due to our daily activities which prevent us from doing so.
The following review is made of my own personal interpretation of Jung’s presentation, you are allowed to quit the review from now😭
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I-/ Elijah & Salome: Forethinking and Pleasure
I just love the stoical message and how everything is brought up??
“I see Elijah high above me: this indicates that forethinking stands nearer to love than, I, a man do””.
Elijah symbolizing forethinking, this means for us to love someone we need the latter. “Love is empty without thinking. Thinking hollow without love. The serpent lurks behind the pure principle.”
Let me take an example, imagine your girlfriend cheats on you with another guy.
-By forethinking *alone* (it makes you hate her cos logically, she did smth morally wrong to you)....
but is it really sane for us to torment ourselves with this? What can I do to alleviate my hateful feelings towards her ?
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Well, as it is said, for you to “love” your gf again , you need to think that by being “aggravated against your brother, think that you are aggravated against the brother in you, -that is-, against what in you is similar to your brother”.
Your girlfriend cheated on you, maybe you too have had thoughts of lust upon someone else, her actions came from a place that is universal to all of us... like I get it , that unlike her, you didn’t cheat. But you can understand than what led her to cheating come from a feeling that belongs to us as well.
You understand that by trying to fight her bc of that feeling, is trying to fight yourself in a way.
You are going to have this soul/body for the rest of your life, By making peace with yourself, as in with every single bits of yourself, -even that feeling of lust that we all share that led your gf to cheaiting - by this forethinking and LOVE of those feelings you’d be able to reach inner tranquility.
Silence and peace come over you if you begin to comprehend the darkness.
“If you are aggravated against your brother, think that you are aggravated against the brother in you, that is, against what in you is similar to your brother.”
Be glad that you can recognize the darkness, for you will thus avoid becoming its victim.
I would like to add that, this might not work for everyone.
Knowing my personality, This would work for me. This would help me hate that person, that cheating partner or whatever, less. But if it doesn’t work for you that’s fine.
As it is stated in the book, you should find what’s work for you through your own soul, and NOT onto philosophical books or other ppl. It might overlaps with solutions for your personality sometimes, but not always. You, alone, can find the most fitting way to alleviate your soul’s negative feelings. Think profoundly into what can do it.
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II-/ “How much our life needs death!”
Sometimes when something negative happens to us, we tend to work our ass off to overcome it.. and we tend to expect that by trying hard, by working our ass off, we’d gonna reach a certain point where we’d be free from that negative pain/misfortune.
But the thing is, expecting *abscence of evilness* in this world is utopic and impossible, it is always gonna be here.
Most people (esp the depressed ones) are gonna torment themselves about their inescapable fate despite all their efforts to overcome its bad sides, but the thing is,
I shouldn’t have EXPECTED that no additional evil/bad occurrence will happen despite my efforts.
Should we work our ass off to overcome our obstacles in life and get what we want ? Absolutely yes.
Should we expect *abscence of additional evilness* after reaching that point? Absolutely no.
And that’s not necessarily a bad thing. Because evilness in this world makes us appreciate the good moments of life so much more. Without evil there’s no joy... How much our life needs death ...
“Without the depths, I do not have the heights. I may be on the heights, but precisely because of that I do not become aware of the heights. I therefore need the bottommost for my renewal.”
For me for example, It’s so sad to think that we weren’t prepared to have friendships with certain really great people
That our friendship probably woulda turned out so much better if I had met them in my current state of mind.
But the thing is, I only got to this more positive mindstate bc I’ve went through lot of stuff.. “How much our life needs death”..
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III-/ My animalistic nature :
The animalistic nature of humans.
Your love of your neighbour is your bad love of yourself. You flee away from yourself and seek salvation through external people ,
whether through their knowledge, their company, through desiring what other people have etc.. like animals feed off on other animals to survive/(for salvation)
For example, some people think their life would be so much better when they’d get a girlfriend, or if they’d get tons of friends... and that is not healthy cos human beings are unpredictable, you shouldn’t rely on them
He wants us to seek salvation within ourself.. within our soul.
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The devil always belongs to God
Don’t follow beautiful things, cos by striving for them we forget our essence. We endeavor to attain the good but at the same time seize the devil. And no one wants the devil (basically misfortune, -causes of- negative emotions)
We should remain true to our essence, which differentiates ourselves from the good and beautiful and hence from the devil.
Our essence is differentiation, but we shouldn’t SEEK from it through thinking/reasoning etc. You should strive for your own essence, just listen to your heart and you know EXACTLY what you want if you pay close attention to your soul, sometimes we don’t wanna admit it ourself, bc of external factors have a weight on our thoughts and so on.
But by striving for your soul, for your essence, what you truly want , and not the beautiful, we escape from the devil as well. (Negative emotions)
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“God” here can be assimilated as something good happening to you.
He goes first:
1- “Happy am I who recognize the multiplicity and diversity of the Gods. But woe, unto you who replace this incompatible multiplicity with a single God.”
People tend to assume everything good in their life has only 1 function : creating good upon their life. Jung debunks 4 “Gods” within such thing instead :
a- the sun, the creation of that happiness, that thing will bring u happiness
b- Eros, binds himself together and spreads himself out in brightness
c- the three of life, it fills space with bodies
d- the devil, he dissolved everything formed and physical, that good thing, that god in your life will destroy what he has formed at some point
A lot of people tend to perceive that “God” only as the brightness they will procure upon their life but by doing so, you produce the torment, incomprehension (when that happiness turned out not being only happiness).
Basically Never expect things to be only positive 100% in this world.
Cause What you do unto the Gods is done likewise unto you. You all become equal and thus your nature is maimed.
What you do onto that thing that provided happiness, you assumed it will only bring u happiness, so when he brings you happiness then you are happy atm, but when it doesn’t, when it dissolves everything it has brought onto you, you dissolves yourself too, as in you breaks down.. because you didn’t recognize the multiplicity and diversity of your God from the get-go.
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The world would be such a better place for all humans if everyone did an effort to thoroughly understand their psychology and inner self