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Can too much love be a dangerous thing?Bhaunri is married, as is the custom in her tribe of nomadic blacksmiths, when she is still a child. When she is finally sent away to her husband's home as a young woman, she finds herself drawn deeply and powerfully towards the gruff and handsome Bheema. Bheema, however, is far from the ideal husband, and when he strays one time too many, Bhaunri's love for him begins to fester and grow into something dark and fearsome. This is a story of obsessive love and the destructive power of desire. Half real and half fable, and redolent with the songs and myths, the beauty and mystery of Rajasthan, Anukrti Upadhyays Bhaunri announces the arrival of a powerful new literary talent.
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First published January 1, 2019
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January 26, 2024
OMG what a crazy ride! 😁
Set in a village in Rajasthan Bhaunri is an enthralling novella that paints a married life of a bold rural Indian woman her locksmith clan, her marriage, life, love and wishes who questions the norms laid down by our society as the story unfolds. The book has a beautiful smell of rural India.
The most amazing part of this book was the romantic envy and nerve chilling ending which without any dramatic closing takes you by surprise.
We allow the men we love to hurt us and take us for granted so many times. I wanted Bhaunri to fight back and not just leave her husband. I wanted her to take her revenge which she did in her own sweet little way. I was so engrossed in the story like I felt I am there with her living each moment, witnessing everything. That's the power of Anukriti's writing.
Speaking of characterization, this book portrayed some of the best characters I have ever read about. Starting with our female protagonist who is powerful and thunderous. Loved how with her bold words and anger she challenged Bheema’s ( her husband) male ego.
The author sets the rural and tribal villages of Rajasthan in her writing beautifully right from their attire to their food and scenic beauty. Her refined and embellished language made me finish this novella in one sitting.
Being a Rajasthani myself I can't help but notice the use of words of the local dialect some of which we still use. I really appreciate authors effort for not missing even the minute details.
Highly highly highly recommended.
Set in a village in Rajasthan Bhaunri is an enthralling novella that paints a married life of a bold rural Indian woman her locksmith clan, her marriage, life, love and wishes who questions the norms laid down by our society as the story unfolds. The book has a beautiful smell of rural India.
The most amazing part of this book was the romantic envy and nerve chilling ending which without any dramatic closing takes you by surprise.
We allow the men we love to hurt us and take us for granted so many times. I wanted Bhaunri to fight back and not just leave her husband. I wanted her to take her revenge which she did in her own sweet little way. I was so engrossed in the story like I felt I am there with her living each moment, witnessing everything. That's the power of Anukriti's writing.
Speaking of characterization, this book portrayed some of the best characters I have ever read about. Starting with our female protagonist who is powerful and thunderous. Loved how with her bold words and anger she challenged Bheema’s ( her husband) male ego.
The author sets the rural and tribal villages of Rajasthan in her writing beautifully right from their attire to their food and scenic beauty. Her refined and embellished language made me finish this novella in one sitting.
Being a Rajasthani myself I can't help but notice the use of words of the local dialect some of which we still use. I really appreciate authors effort for not missing even the minute details.
Highly highly highly recommended.
December 25, 2022
What the hell did I just read?!
I mean WOW.
***One of the best quickest reads of 2020***
I don't think you will come across another author's writing which is quite unique yet captivating as this. Just like how K.R. Meera, Haruki Murakami or Perumal Murugan having a genre of their own, and nothing, I say, nothing can compare to their outstanding work.
I find the writing quite outstanding. I didn't realise it the moment I started reading the book. But the force with which it justs sucks you in is just too strong that you would not be able to do anything about it and you would certainly become anxious towards the later half of the book because the book is just too short and you don't trust the length of the book!
I don't know how the author does it but the story becomes so palpable towards the end that I didn't trust my eyes to blink even for a moment because I was terrified of what might possibly happen to the main character (maybe because I assumed that she's just a young woman in a wrong marriage).
I cannot believe how I underestimated the characters at the beginning of the story! It turned out quite different and it ended with a bang.
Of course, such strong feelings while reading a good story comes because of the uncertainties that something dangerous and bad was going to happen but, heck, even if the characters are unlikely to be your most favourite ones, these kind of stories make you want to be empathetic towards them, understand them and want to justify their actions. Yes, the character building and development stand out.
The characters will always stay memorable, especially the notorious father-in-law. Forget the joker or any character you aim to dislike. Get to know this character and stay terrified. No, he's not violent but you will want to avoid a character like this but he's damn interesting. Someone you would desperately want to stay away from but someone you cannot avoid.
The story describes the village life and its traditions; the pangs of being in a difficult marriage; the unfulfilled desires of a young bride and the emotional burden she has to go through in a totally different surrounding away from her home.
***One of those books which I started just before bedtime to "check out the first few pages before I sleep". And yes, you're right. All hell broke lose and yes, imagine my bloodshot eyes when I ended up reading this book.
(Do not open up a new book before you sleep. Forget this. It happened with An Ember In the Ashes....and that book is almost 600 pages and I couldn't stop reading it. Imagine my bloodshot eyes again)
I mean WOW.
***One of the best quickest reads of 2020***
I don't think you will come across another author's writing which is quite unique yet captivating as this. Just like how K.R. Meera, Haruki Murakami or Perumal Murugan having a genre of their own, and nothing, I say, nothing can compare to their outstanding work.
I find the writing quite outstanding. I didn't realise it the moment I started reading the book. But the force with which it justs sucks you in is just too strong that you would not be able to do anything about it and you would certainly become anxious towards the later half of the book because the book is just too short and you don't trust the length of the book!
I don't know how the author does it but the story becomes so palpable towards the end that I didn't trust my eyes to blink even for a moment because I was terrified of what might possibly happen to the main character (maybe because I assumed that she's just a young woman in a wrong marriage).
I cannot believe how I underestimated the characters at the beginning of the story! It turned out quite different and it ended with a bang.
Of course, such strong feelings while reading a good story comes because of the uncertainties that something dangerous and bad was going to happen but, heck, even if the characters are unlikely to be your most favourite ones, these kind of stories make you want to be empathetic towards them, understand them and want to justify their actions. Yes, the character building and development stand out.
The characters will always stay memorable, especially the notorious father-in-law. Forget the joker or any character you aim to dislike. Get to know this character and stay terrified. No, he's not violent but you will want to avoid a character like this but he's damn interesting. Someone you would desperately want to stay away from but someone you cannot avoid.
The story describes the village life and its traditions; the pangs of being in a difficult marriage; the unfulfilled desires of a young bride and the emotional burden she has to go through in a totally different surrounding away from her home.
***One of those books which I started just before bedtime to "check out the first few pages before I sleep". And yes, you're right. All hell broke lose and yes, imagine my bloodshot eyes when I ended up reading this book.
(Do not open up a new book before you sleep. Forget this. It happened with An Ember In the Ashes....and that book is almost 600 pages and I couldn't stop reading it. Imagine my bloodshot eyes again)
February 25, 2022
‘A woman’s capacity to bear is unending – like the earth’s. It is not our place to complain. Whatever fate dispenses, we have to bear. Nothing is too much.’
Imagine a world where women have been taught this since the time they were old enough to understand the consequences of being born a female. Imagine a world where women have been taught by their parents to kill themselves before they could leave or open their mouth if their husband abuses them. Imagine a world where women have been taught that rape, sexual violence, physical assault, abuse, cheating etc were something very normal and nothing to be concerned about. Imagine a world where women have been taught to not speak out their voices.
Now imagine a book written about these women who are going through everything you couldn't even imagine. This book opens eyes about how in this modern world there are still people who don't have the fortune to be educated, who don't know what technology is, who can't ask for help because everyone around them has the same opinions on their gender- "If you are a woman then you need to learn to give your body for your man to enjoy" or "if you are a woman then you need to control your tongue".
Bhaunri's story is something I think everyone should read. Bhaunri is a girl (she's 16 keep in mind) who was married to a man when she wasn't even old enough to remember about it happening but at the beginning of the book she was still living with her parents. But then she was taken away from her home by the man she was married because it was time for her to live with her new family. There she meets her mother-in-law whom she calls Mai. Mai takes care of Bhaunri like her own daughter and teaches her things like 'A woman’s lot is always pain'.
No, my share is the same as his. He and I are two parts joined together. How could his share be different from mine? I shall not suffer, Mai. If I do, so shall he.’ Bhaunri’s throat filled with sobs.
Mai and Bhaunri are two different women with two different beliefs who were taught differently about life. To one marriage was about being a slave to their husband while to the other marriage was about being an equal. On one hand Mai never opened her mouth while on the other Bhaunri couldn't see the injustice done to her and spoke out while she knew she was going to get hurt but she never let the pain stop her. You know what's the worst thing? Mai could have raised her son to be a better man, to be different from his father but according to everything she'd been taught since birth she couldn't do much.
This book was very painful to read. Since my birth I have been living in this bubble, protected by my family and living a good life while on the other women born in the same country I'm living in are still going through so much pain just because they were born at the wrong place. And while I am expressing how helpless I felt, they are the ones still suffering.
Imagine a world where women have been taught this since the time they were old enough to understand the consequences of being born a female. Imagine a world where women have been taught by their parents to kill themselves before they could leave or open their mouth if their husband abuses them. Imagine a world where women have been taught that rape, sexual violence, physical assault, abuse, cheating etc were something very normal and nothing to be concerned about. Imagine a world where women have been taught to not speak out their voices.
Now imagine a book written about these women who are going through everything you couldn't even imagine. This book opens eyes about how in this modern world there are still people who don't have the fortune to be educated, who don't know what technology is, who can't ask for help because everyone around them has the same opinions on their gender- "If you are a woman then you need to learn to give your body for your man to enjoy" or "if you are a woman then you need to control your tongue".
Bhaunri's story is something I think everyone should read. Bhaunri is a girl (she's 16 keep in mind) who was married to a man when she wasn't even old enough to remember about it happening but at the beginning of the book she was still living with her parents. But then she was taken away from her home by the man she was married because it was time for her to live with her new family. There she meets her mother-in-law whom she calls Mai. Mai takes care of Bhaunri like her own daughter and teaches her things like 'A woman’s lot is always pain'.
No, my share is the same as his. He and I are two parts joined together. How could his share be different from mine? I shall not suffer, Mai. If I do, so shall he.’ Bhaunri’s throat filled with sobs.
Mai and Bhaunri are two different women with two different beliefs who were taught differently about life. To one marriage was about being a slave to their husband while to the other marriage was about being an equal. On one hand Mai never opened her mouth while on the other Bhaunri couldn't see the injustice done to her and spoke out while she knew she was going to get hurt but she never let the pain stop her. You know what's the worst thing? Mai could have raised her son to be a better man, to be different from his father but according to everything she'd been taught since birth she couldn't do much.
This book was very painful to read. Since my birth I have been living in this bubble, protected by my family and living a good life while on the other women born in the same country I'm living in are still going through so much pain just because they were born at the wrong place. And while I am expressing how helpless I felt, they are the ones still suffering.
April 2, 2025
Bhaunri: A Novel is set in rural India. Bhaunri, the eponymous lead, though uneducated, strives to live life in her own terms as far as she can within the male dominated and casteist society. When confronted with a situation that doesn't suit her temperament, she too cracks mentally, but in a very different way. I would rate the book a 4.5 out of 5. Definitely worth reading if you are seeking a book with strong women characters living life in a society that places men on a pedestal, whether they deserve it or not.
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July 4, 2019
Anukrti Upadhyay expertly handles the theme of romantic envy, in this book. Brought up by a fiercely independent woman, Bhaunri (the protagonist) believes in equality between husband and wife. Her personal beliefs are starkly different from those of her mother-in-law and the prevailing customs of society, where men do as they please and women accept their fate without complaint.
I feel the real strength of the book, however, is in its description of rural life in Rajasthan. The author goes into painstaking detail of the daily activities of the household, as well as their occupations. Her descriptive narration transports you to Rajasthan and makes you feel a part of this troubled family of Lohars.
The novel is well-written and easy to read, short in length with a captivating plot. However, I felt that it ended too abruptly. The story builds well like a novel should, but ends rather suddenly like a short story. It has the potential to be explored further and fleshed out.
“Bhaunri” has a rustic charm that sets it apart. It explores young, passionate love, as well as the colourful life of a Rajasthani village. I recommend the book to people who enjoy good fiction, and those that enjoy exploring different ways of life and different worlds through books.
Read more on my blog at nooranandchawla.com
I feel the real strength of the book, however, is in its description of rural life in Rajasthan. The author goes into painstaking detail of the daily activities of the household, as well as their occupations. Her descriptive narration transports you to Rajasthan and makes you feel a part of this troubled family of Lohars.
The novel is well-written and easy to read, short in length with a captivating plot. However, I felt that it ended too abruptly. The story builds well like a novel should, but ends rather suddenly like a short story. It has the potential to be explored further and fleshed out.
“Bhaunri” has a rustic charm that sets it apart. It explores young, passionate love, as well as the colourful life of a Rajasthani village. I recommend the book to people who enjoy good fiction, and those that enjoy exploring different ways of life and different worlds through books.
Read more on my blog at nooranandchawla.com
February 16, 2022
2.5 Just ok but could have been better ?
Idk what to think of this novella. I mean, I like the representation and the storytelling was good too but I felt like the novella went nowhere beyond the synopsis.
Except the ending, nothing much unexpected or exciting really happens in the novella. We’re just given a glimpse in bhaunri’s life while she navigates her complicated relationship with her husband.
It’s interesting to see her live the best she can in a sexist society and the story does have a strong start.
However, then it just goes nowhere and seems to go in a circle.
A bit disappointing and not really memorable
Idk what to think of this novella. I mean, I like the representation and the storytelling was good too but I felt like the novella went nowhere beyond the synopsis.
Except the ending, nothing much unexpected or exciting really happens in the novella. We’re just given a glimpse in bhaunri’s life while she navigates her complicated relationship with her husband.
It’s interesting to see her live the best she can in a sexist society and the story does have a strong start.
However, then it just goes nowhere and seems to go in a circle.
A bit disappointing and not really memorable
June 19, 2019
I loved reading this book and finished it in a single sitting. Bhaunri was a delight to read.
Bhaunri, our protagonist, belongs to the nomadic blacksmith clan of Rajasthan. She is married in her childhood, as is the custom of her clan, but she lives in her father's house until she is ready to be sent to her husband's house.
She moves to her husband's house and is drawn to her husband, Bheema. Bheema isn't the perfect husband Bhaunri had dreamed about. He is a womanizer, and is the typical person who thinks low of women and believes women shouldn't talk and have control over his life.
Bhaunri, is different, she consider herself equal to her husband, she is different than her mother in law, who silently bears the brunt of her philandering husband who shows off his pseudo manliness. A headstrong woman, she speaks her mind and has very firm opinions on how she should be treated. She is determined to make her husband loyal to her, and the lengths she goes to make it happen form the story. It takes some time for her to accept the reality that her husband doesn't love her back.
The book made me fall in Rajasthan all over again. The life of the blacksmiths, the sensual beauty of the desert had its heart in the right place.
The characters are flawed and they seem real. You may think there is a Bhaunri, her husband or her mother in law somewhere between us. Bhaunri's mother was one strong character in the book, I wish there was more about her. She has left her old husband and moves in with Bhaunri's father because he wasn't able to satisfy her needs. Their marriage was a marriage of equals, and was a powerful start to the book.
'Bhaunri' was a very powerful character and she has given voice to the many women living in tribes whose voices go unheard. This book essentially is about women, but also about men who live in clans and tribes.
At its core, Bhaunri is a story focusing on a husband-wife relationship. It reads like a folktale yet seems so real.
This book can also be a great character study. Upadhyay writes well, doesn't mince her words and knows how to keep her reader engaged. You have become my auto buy author now.
I highly recommend this book. It's the perfect one to read on rainy afternoons sipping a cup of tea/coffee.
4.5⭐
Thank you Harper Collins India and Anukrti Upadhyay for sending a copy for review.
Bhaunri, our protagonist, belongs to the nomadic blacksmith clan of Rajasthan. She is married in her childhood, as is the custom of her clan, but she lives in her father's house until she is ready to be sent to her husband's house.
She moves to her husband's house and is drawn to her husband, Bheema. Bheema isn't the perfect husband Bhaunri had dreamed about. He is a womanizer, and is the typical person who thinks low of women and believes women shouldn't talk and have control over his life.
Bhaunri, is different, she consider herself equal to her husband, she is different than her mother in law, who silently bears the brunt of her philandering husband who shows off his pseudo manliness. A headstrong woman, she speaks her mind and has very firm opinions on how she should be treated. She is determined to make her husband loyal to her, and the lengths she goes to make it happen form the story. It takes some time for her to accept the reality that her husband doesn't love her back.
The book made me fall in Rajasthan all over again. The life of the blacksmiths, the sensual beauty of the desert had its heart in the right place.
The characters are flawed and they seem real. You may think there is a Bhaunri, her husband or her mother in law somewhere between us. Bhaunri's mother was one strong character in the book, I wish there was more about her. She has left her old husband and moves in with Bhaunri's father because he wasn't able to satisfy her needs. Their marriage was a marriage of equals, and was a powerful start to the book.
'Bhaunri' was a very powerful character and she has given voice to the many women living in tribes whose voices go unheard. This book essentially is about women, but also about men who live in clans and tribes.
At its core, Bhaunri is a story focusing on a husband-wife relationship. It reads like a folktale yet seems so real.
This book can also be a great character study. Upadhyay writes well, doesn't mince her words and knows how to keep her reader engaged. You have become my auto buy author now.
I highly recommend this book. It's the perfect one to read on rainy afternoons sipping a cup of tea/coffee.
4.5⭐
Thank you Harper Collins India and Anukrti Upadhyay for sending a copy for review.
July 15, 2019
Bhaunri, raised by a loving father and a daring mother is now ready to travel to her husband’s house. But Bheema, a handsome young lad turns out to be shrewd and popular among other women in the village.
The seeds of love, however, have already been sowed in Bhaunri’s heart and this love runs deep. How much love is too much love? the author asks and gives us this beautiful story to ponder over.
Bhaunri as a character became my instant favorite when she stood up to being bullied by her father-in-law and asked her husband to return the love she feels for him with the same intensity. But her love for Bheema is definitely overbearing at times and obnoxious. And Bheema, handsome with a perfect build has grown up in a chaotic and stressful environment. He has learned of the ways of life from the outside world and his behavior isn’t exactly justified.
Other than their relationship, Bhaunri’s equation with the other characters has been explored quite well and this household in its entirety makes for a fulfilling story. With barely 140 pages, Bhaunri gives us a love story that goes beyond reasons and a family, flawed by circumstances.
The seeds of love, however, have already been sowed in Bhaunri’s heart and this love runs deep. How much love is too much love? the author asks and gives us this beautiful story to ponder over.
Bhaunri as a character became my instant favorite when she stood up to being bullied by her father-in-law and asked her husband to return the love she feels for him with the same intensity. But her love for Bheema is definitely overbearing at times and obnoxious. And Bheema, handsome with a perfect build has grown up in a chaotic and stressful environment. He has learned of the ways of life from the outside world and his behavior isn’t exactly justified.
Other than their relationship, Bhaunri’s equation with the other characters has been explored quite well and this household in its entirety makes for a fulfilling story. With barely 140 pages, Bhaunri gives us a love story that goes beyond reasons and a family, flawed by circumstances.
July 13, 2019
How to love fiercely and obstinately is what you will learn from Bhaunri. A wilful, strong woman of a nomadic tribe, married off as a child to a wealthy family of blacksmiths. She stepped into his in-laws’ house after attaining the requisite age and fell deeply in love with his husband, Bheema.
Bheema did make passionate love with Bhaunri but he was a womanizer. The step she took to stop her husband from getting laid with other women left me in awe of her persona and stubbornness. Her character was totally enthralling and enchanting.
Honestly, I loved everything about Bhaunri. Her fearless love, bold expressions, her wilfulness to get the love of her husband and her strong assertion. No doubt, Bhaunri is an exceptional character which is very much delighted to read and envision.
Besides, Anukriti’s writing is fresh and vivid that made the customs of nomadic tribes spirited. The use of Rajasthani words and slangs gave the rustic aura of those times. I finished reading this book in just a single sitting.
Moreover, I just loved the ending. Loved it.
Will definitely recommend this beautiful and intense work of literature.
Bheema did make passionate love with Bhaunri but he was a womanizer. The step she took to stop her husband from getting laid with other women left me in awe of her persona and stubbornness. Her character was totally enthralling and enchanting.
Honestly, I loved everything about Bhaunri. Her fearless love, bold expressions, her wilfulness to get the love of her husband and her strong assertion. No doubt, Bhaunri is an exceptional character which is very much delighted to read and envision.
Besides, Anukriti’s writing is fresh and vivid that made the customs of nomadic tribes spirited. The use of Rajasthani words and slangs gave the rustic aura of those times. I finished reading this book in just a single sitting.
Moreover, I just loved the ending. Loved it.
Will definitely recommend this beautiful and intense work of literature.
July 31, 2019
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Sometimes when you read something so delectable, you hesitate to put your thoughts on it. You don’t want to spoil the magic, book contains itself.
Bhaunri is a mesmerizing character. Anukrti Upadhyay painted contours of her journey of love and desire, Author crafts the facets of her life with crystalline clarity. This is not some mushy love story but it surely shows that love is difficult ride to follow. It has upside and downside too. Sometimes love is messy but worth to put your heart into it.
“There is more than one way for hearts to meet; sometimes they are twisted together, hurting each other but inseparable. You are a child, I pray your happiness thrives, but you must let go of everything at once and become so immersed, I am afraid for you. You must keep safe”
I really enjoyed meeting, Bhaunri, a daughter of lohars- the ironsmiths, lived in a village of Rajasthan. Although, story begins with her mother’s background. Author tried to depict the character of those empowered women, like mother-like daughter. They are fearless; they are brave, how they prioritize their freedom to love. Somewhere the boldness of protagonist enthralled me.
“My mother said to me, before all else, hearts must meet. Unless hearts meet everything else is a burden of sin and must be thrown off”
Bhaunri got married at very tender age, now she has to move to Sasural, her husband’s home. She found Bheema handsome like some Greek god but ill-tempered too. She tried to interpret their relationship eventually, and felt passionate love towards her husband. Soon, the story is seeped into tension.
“No, my share is the same as his. He and I are two parts joined together. How could his share be different from mine? I shall not suffer, Mai. If I do, so shall he.’ Bhaunri throat filled with sobs”
Along the way, we see Bhaunri’s relationship with her loving mother-in-law. Author managed to capture the shades of everyday vibrant life of Rajasthan, what stands out amount of detailing.
There is something so empathetic about her struggle. Some hidden stories also waited for readers as she got to know about jeth-ji and his dismembered past.
I instantly fell in love with the protagonist, who came to life in these pages. It touched a nerve in my heart with its raw honesty and delicate simplicity. Story is so rich with colloquial words and metaphors used in ways I have never felt as refreshing.
There is nothing over-the-top about storyline, no heavy drama, no roller-coaster ride, but story thrives in its effortless writing, clean sentences and hidden insights. Beautiful imagery of Rajasthani culture resonates so deeply within your psyche that as though you are at home.
Author has great command on inner lives of rural women, turned this book into an engaging tale. Depth of women’s unseen strength is the core of the story.
Also, I love how author has played out the climax, Writing is fluid and natural. Narrative is so absorbing I found it difficult to put it down. Anukrti Upadhyay created a character you can live with.
I would certainly recommend. I adored this book to eternity and beyond.
Sometimes when you read something so delectable, you hesitate to put your thoughts on it. You don’t want to spoil the magic, book contains itself.
Bhaunri is a mesmerizing character. Anukrti Upadhyay painted contours of her journey of love and desire, Author crafts the facets of her life with crystalline clarity. This is not some mushy love story but it surely shows that love is difficult ride to follow. It has upside and downside too. Sometimes love is messy but worth to put your heart into it.
“There is more than one way for hearts to meet; sometimes they are twisted together, hurting each other but inseparable. You are a child, I pray your happiness thrives, but you must let go of everything at once and become so immersed, I am afraid for you. You must keep safe”
I really enjoyed meeting, Bhaunri, a daughter of lohars- the ironsmiths, lived in a village of Rajasthan. Although, story begins with her mother’s background. Author tried to depict the character of those empowered women, like mother-like daughter. They are fearless; they are brave, how they prioritize their freedom to love. Somewhere the boldness of protagonist enthralled me.
“My mother said to me, before all else, hearts must meet. Unless hearts meet everything else is a burden of sin and must be thrown off”
Bhaunri got married at very tender age, now she has to move to Sasural, her husband’s home. She found Bheema handsome like some Greek god but ill-tempered too. She tried to interpret their relationship eventually, and felt passionate love towards her husband. Soon, the story is seeped into tension.
“No, my share is the same as his. He and I are two parts joined together. How could his share be different from mine? I shall not suffer, Mai. If I do, so shall he.’ Bhaunri throat filled with sobs”
Along the way, we see Bhaunri’s relationship with her loving mother-in-law. Author managed to capture the shades of everyday vibrant life of Rajasthan, what stands out amount of detailing.
There is something so empathetic about her struggle. Some hidden stories also waited for readers as she got to know about jeth-ji and his dismembered past.
I instantly fell in love with the protagonist, who came to life in these pages. It touched a nerve in my heart with its raw honesty and delicate simplicity. Story is so rich with colloquial words and metaphors used in ways I have never felt as refreshing.
There is nothing over-the-top about storyline, no heavy drama, no roller-coaster ride, but story thrives in its effortless writing, clean sentences and hidden insights. Beautiful imagery of Rajasthani culture resonates so deeply within your psyche that as though you are at home.
Author has great command on inner lives of rural women, turned this book into an engaging tale. Depth of women’s unseen strength is the core of the story.
Also, I love how author has played out the climax, Writing is fluid and natural. Narrative is so absorbing I found it difficult to put it down. Anukrti Upadhyay created a character you can live with.
I would certainly recommend. I adored this book to eternity and beyond.
August 26, 2019
Meet Bhaunri , a member of the Gaundiya Lohar (nomadic blacksmith ) tribe of Rajasthan.She is ferocious with a fire in her belly,beautiful,courageous ,has a mind of her own and listens to her heart,always. She is raised by an equally ferocious mother who sends her to her bridal home with the following words -" Remember, girl,” she said, her voice audible all over the house. “I did not stay with a man who did not please me. If hearts don’t meet, bodies are but fleshly houses of sin.” And there in lies the Crux of this simple and yet powerful story .
Bhaunri loves her husband Bheema with all her heart .It is a love that can never be replaced .Love like that never happens ,or yet it might touch the lives of certain lucky ones perhaps ,once in a lifetime .A love of such intensity is sometimes ways doomed .Bhaunri's love is not reciprocated with the same passion by Bheema,who trysts with all the prostitutes in the village and also has his own lady love elsewhere. Bhaunri's mother -in-law ,another victim of a loveless marriage expects Bhaunri to accept her son's ways .Bhaunri finds solace with her father in law who is no angel himself .Yet,she is frustrated and suffocated and tries to make her man give her the respect and love due to a wife .
This story made me think so much about women .We ,talk so much about feminism and yet a few of us are fine with so many atrocities ,committed by men .We allow the men we love to hurt us and take us for granted so many times💔.I wanted Bhaunri to leave Bheema,not to fight with him for something which the reader knows is futile to even expect from a person like him.Yet,Bhaunri finds her peace at last ,in her own way.
The book perfectly ,brings out the climate of the Rajasthani desert to the readers and the food descriptions were really good .I loved this small book 😍😍.
Bhaunri loves her husband Bheema with all her heart .It is a love that can never be replaced .Love like that never happens ,or yet it might touch the lives of certain lucky ones perhaps ,once in a lifetime .A love of such intensity is sometimes ways doomed .Bhaunri's love is not reciprocated with the same passion by Bheema,who trysts with all the prostitutes in the village and also has his own lady love elsewhere. Bhaunri's mother -in-law ,another victim of a loveless marriage expects Bhaunri to accept her son's ways .Bhaunri finds solace with her father in law who is no angel himself .Yet,she is frustrated and suffocated and tries to make her man give her the respect and love due to a wife .
This story made me think so much about women .We ,talk so much about feminism and yet a few of us are fine with so many atrocities ,committed by men .We allow the men we love to hurt us and take us for granted so many times💔.I wanted Bhaunri to leave Bheema,not to fight with him for something which the reader knows is futile to even expect from a person like him.Yet,Bhaunri finds her peace at last ,in her own way.
The book perfectly ,brings out the climate of the Rajasthani desert to the readers and the food descriptions were really good .I loved this small book 😍😍.
April 26, 2021
Toxic love always makes for one hell of a story and Bhaunri is no different. Obsessive love, mighty egos and destructive desire come together brilliantly in this one making it for a quick paced read.
Set in Rajasthan, India, the story focuses solely on the characters and not on the city. Small town girls are mighty and Bhaunri fights for what she wants, even if it is not the right way.
Not at all what I expected. I was pleasantly shocked.
Set in Rajasthan, India, the story focuses solely on the characters and not on the city. Small town girls are mighty and Bhaunri fights for what she wants, even if it is not the right way.
Not at all what I expected. I was pleasantly shocked.
March 21, 2022
Buddy read with partners in joblessness Unknown Reader and Ishika <3
Ishika's review - https://www.goodreads.com/review/show...
Unknown Reader's review (which I completely agree with) - https://www.goodreads.com/review/show...
This book left me wanting more, it did a good job of addressing abusive husbands, misogyny, child marriage, and most importantly how normalized sexism is in some places :') Apart from this, I didn't have much to take away from this book. Still a fast read <3
Ishika's review - https://www.goodreads.com/review/show...
Unknown Reader's review (which I completely agree with) - https://www.goodreads.com/review/show...
This book left me wanting more, it did a good job of addressing abusive husbands, misogyny, child marriage, and most importantly how normalized sexism is in some places :') Apart from this, I didn't have much to take away from this book. Still a fast read <3
November 13, 2019
A mesmerizing fable that took me to a part of India that I am not really familiar with, ‘Bhaunri’ is a treasure. Lyrical and compelling, evocative and stunning, it’s an atmospheric read that I was able to finish in a day. There are so many nuances that I want to mull over, so many layers that seek out different meanings. Almost the perfect book.
September 4, 2021
I started this book, both anticipation, and curiosity egging me on. I was ske[tical about the rave reviews that have been following this book. I mean, it is a very short book and it narrates the story of a village family. I was under the assumption that something horrible and gory happens in this book that astounded the readers to give those rave reviews. So I thought, I will just read the first 10 or 15 pages and then close it and come back at a later time. Page number 10 flashed in front of my eyes, and here I was thinking- ' ok, maybe another 10 pages".10 became 20, 20 became 30 and then the pages whirled past leaving behind a curious and greedy mind who was learning to know more. There was a sultry quality to the words that kept me hooked to the pages and before I knew it, I finished the book, and a couple of angry friends waiting for me - who still doesn't believe that my phone was switched off under mysterious circumstances.
So, what hooked me in? Easy. The lyrical and prose-like narration, the characters, the crisp clear chapters, and the Rajasthani folklores sprinkled throughout the story. These are some of the strong points that make an impression upon you. But the largest dent is made by the women characters in the story - Bhaunri, her mother, Mai, Phool, and Keechak's daughter. Each of these characters is so different but they share the same intensity of love. It's love that makes them different. Curious how the same emotion can bring different characters. We are exposed to different facets of womanhood throughout the story. The character of the father-in-law comes across as one of the most confusing and strong at the same time. Even though Bhaunri holds our attention, the other characters are equally strong and wilful.
Another shout-out to the author for capturing the rural beauty in her words. The daily chores and the attitude of villagers provided a nice backdrop to the story. The narration could be the real-life story of anyone, and therefore very much believable. Curious how I was ready to believe anything that was written in the story.
My only complaint regarding the book is that abrupt ending. It was very unceremonious and I have to scourge through the internet to make sure that the ending that I have read is the only ending that the book has. She could have expanded the ending a little more. She left me hanging feeling unsatisfied. Very much like drinking evening tea without fritters, or biriyani without salad or .............................. You get the idea. Gotta go and eat something now, all this typing has made me really hungry!
So, what hooked me in? Easy. The lyrical and prose-like narration, the characters, the crisp clear chapters, and the Rajasthani folklores sprinkled throughout the story. These are some of the strong points that make an impression upon you. But the largest dent is made by the women characters in the story - Bhaunri, her mother, Mai, Phool, and Keechak's daughter. Each of these characters is so different but they share the same intensity of love. It's love that makes them different. Curious how the same emotion can bring different characters. We are exposed to different facets of womanhood throughout the story. The character of the father-in-law comes across as one of the most confusing and strong at the same time. Even though Bhaunri holds our attention, the other characters are equally strong and wilful.
Another shout-out to the author for capturing the rural beauty in her words. The daily chores and the attitude of villagers provided a nice backdrop to the story. The narration could be the real-life story of anyone, and therefore very much believable. Curious how I was ready to believe anything that was written in the story.
My only complaint regarding the book is that abrupt ending. It was very unceremonious and I have to scourge through the internet to make sure that the ending that I have read is the only ending that the book has. She could have expanded the ending a little more. She left me hanging feeling unsatisfied. Very much like drinking evening tea without fritters, or biriyani without salad or .............................. You get the idea. Gotta go and eat something now, all this typing has made me really hungry!
December 19, 2020
This is a nuanced narrative of romantic obsession, lust, possessiveness and longing set in rural Rajasthan. The lead characters are emphatic. They are also sketches in stark contrast, making the plot effortlessly sizzle with conflict. Bhaunri - a newlywed bride, wants exclusivity from her straying husband Bheema. Their lover's tiff is spiced with racy vernacular references, generous leering from a salacious father-in-law and nonchalance of an extremely docile and caring mother-in-law. When Bhaunri's pleas and rage fail to dissuade Bheema, her simmering longing froths over scalds and scars the whole household. The ending underlies why elders advise keeping passion in check. The author's voice is original yet familiar. An absolutely refreshing read!
July 13, 2024
What a Banger. ....guys read it...like please read it
May 18, 2025
Just finished reading it. Too shook to write anything profound. I will return to this when I am able to shake off the effect of the story and its narration.
May 21, 2021
Damn, I did not expect that ending..
April 17, 2021
"Remember Girl" she (mother) said, her voice audible all over the house, "I did not stay with a man who did not please me. If hearts don't meet, bodies are but fleshly houses of sin."
Bhaunri by Anukrti Upadhyay is a short and a refreshing read talking of love, intimacy, patriarchy, infidelity through a fiction story set in the rural Rajasthan. What really makes this book worthy as recommended read are the captivating writing style, the protagonist Bhaunri and her character portrayal along with strong Rajasthan background with descriptions of Desert landscape, caste and communities, cultural practices of the folk (Kalbelia, Lohars, Gujjars) along the storyline.
However, the book was a little unsettling for me in the way it ended and this can be because I was hoping to see the author drive a natural/ plausible conclusion with some moral value outlined. Nevertheless, a recommended read for the refreshing writing style and rich depiction of rural lands of Rajasthan.
Bhaunri by Anukrti Upadhyay is a short and a refreshing read talking of love, intimacy, patriarchy, infidelity through a fiction story set in the rural Rajasthan. What really makes this book worthy as recommended read are the captivating writing style, the protagonist Bhaunri and her character portrayal along with strong Rajasthan background with descriptions of Desert landscape, caste and communities, cultural practices of the folk (Kalbelia, Lohars, Gujjars) along the storyline.
However, the book was a little unsettling for me in the way it ended and this can be because I was hoping to see the author drive a natural/ plausible conclusion with some moral value outlined. Nevertheless, a recommended read for the refreshing writing style and rich depiction of rural lands of Rajasthan.
January 17, 2023
It was a breathtaking page-turner. The life of Bhaunri, guided by the values instilled within her by her mother—the one who decided her own fate. Bhaunri’s mother, a feminist icon in her own right, dared to escape the fate sealed by bride price. Married to an old man who couldn’t please her, she fell in love with a lohar of a nomadic tribe. She denied her husband to pay the bride price, to which the smitten man said, I am not buying you, I am selling myself to you. Bhaunri, though married as a child, was brought up in a household with a strong mother and looked at her father as a dedicated husband. As she turned into a teenager, it was time for Bhaunri to go to her sasural, with her mother’s advice that hearts must be united, if not then the marriage is that of a sin.
The story evokes the ethos of the nomadic lohar tribes of Rajasthan, briefly exploring their history and how such tribes came to an understanding with the government to settle in allotted land. It is reminiscent of folktales and fables. The descriptions are picturesque beginning from Bhaunri’s clothes to the mango tree under which Bhaunri becomes one with her husband.
Bhaunri is a tale of power, love, desire and how each of these can bring about destruction when it turns into obsession. There’s a constant dialogue between behaviour of men and women, especially when it comes to men’s promiscuity and women’s duty to tolerate it. There’s a constant powerplay between the genders and eventually, between Bhaunri and her mother-in-law too.
Throughout the reading, I kept hoping for Bhaunri to not fall for praises from men who find strong, vocal women challenging and hence, more attractive than the docile ones who believe serving their husband is the be-all, end-all of their lives. The end took me by surprise but also brought an evil satisfaction.
Is Bhaunri, the character, a feminist icon? It’s difficult to say. She is spine-chilling and there’s an abominable admiration towards her.
Is Bhaunri, the story, feminist? Hell, yes! Is shows the destructive side of desire without glorifying it and how!
The story evokes the ethos of the nomadic lohar tribes of Rajasthan, briefly exploring their history and how such tribes came to an understanding with the government to settle in allotted land. It is reminiscent of folktales and fables. The descriptions are picturesque beginning from Bhaunri’s clothes to the mango tree under which Bhaunri becomes one with her husband.
Bhaunri is a tale of power, love, desire and how each of these can bring about destruction when it turns into obsession. There’s a constant dialogue between behaviour of men and women, especially when it comes to men’s promiscuity and women’s duty to tolerate it. There’s a constant powerplay between the genders and eventually, between Bhaunri and her mother-in-law too.
Throughout the reading, I kept hoping for Bhaunri to not fall for praises from men who find strong, vocal women challenging and hence, more attractive than the docile ones who believe serving their husband is the be-all, end-all of their lives. The end took me by surprise but also brought an evil satisfaction.
Is Bhaunri, the character, a feminist icon? It’s difficult to say. She is spine-chilling and there’s an abominable admiration towards her.
Is Bhaunri, the story, feminist? Hell, yes! Is shows the destructive side of desire without glorifying it and how!
May 4, 2020
I liked the book, oh yes it's a good one to read and specially loved the protagonist.
The book, if I have to look at the various themes it deals with, are varied and the author did a wonderful job of bringing forward 2 schools of thought. These schools of thought co-exist in India even today where, atleast what I know of, the older generation still think of love/marriage/commitment in a certain way while the new breed is like Bhaunri.
So, it was a good contrast of how she managed the two while highlighting one love which is highly accomodating with all it's shortcomings and the other is overtly destructive.
Also, the book transports you right in the middle of a dessert-village in Rajasthan and makes you crave for the food being prepared, sight of the locust swarms she talks about, conversations of the wandering tribes and all the songs passed down through generations that are sprinkled around, I loved it all. That's exactly why I enjoy indian literature - it connects to me. A Jalopy wouldn't resonate with me as much as a bullock-cart would.
Oh! and the end, I kept thinking of the worst and the worst does come as a 'perceived worst' but by then you would have figured out where this will lead to.
I am surely following this author.
The book, if I have to look at the various themes it deals with, are varied and the author did a wonderful job of bringing forward 2 schools of thought. These schools of thought co-exist in India even today where, atleast what I know of, the older generation still think of love/marriage/commitment in a certain way while the new breed is like Bhaunri.
So, it was a good contrast of how she managed the two while highlighting one love which is highly accomodating with all it's shortcomings and the other is overtly destructive.
Also, the book transports you right in the middle of a dessert-village in Rajasthan and makes you crave for the food being prepared, sight of the locust swarms she talks about, conversations of the wandering tribes and all the songs passed down through generations that are sprinkled around, I loved it all. That's exactly why I enjoy indian literature - it connects to me. A Jalopy wouldn't resonate with me as much as a bullock-cart would.
Oh! and the end, I kept thinking of the worst and the worst does come as a 'perceived worst' but by then you would have figured out where this will lead to.
I am surely following this author.
May 2, 2024
I enjoyed reading about the daily lives of erstwhile nomadic communities in Rajasthan. The promise of a strong woman protagonist in a setting known for gender discrimination made me pick up this book. The writing does convey Bhaunri’s fire now and then. However, I found the plot to be thin, and the characters underdeveloped. Some other reviewers seemed to have appreciated the climax, but I just did not, despite really hoping to. I was not sure if one of the incidents would be considered as marital rape, perhaps that’s intentional. It could have been interesting if there was more exploration of how Bhaunri felt about that violation, and not only about her husband’s extra marital relations.
July 30, 2019
Intense • Strong • Delightful
Bahunri is a strong, willful, bold & fearless women.These multiples are obtained from her mother. In this book Bahunri's mother is a intense and strong character too. The core part of this story depicts the Bhaunri's desire, obsessive love, her marital life along with her mother - in - law who bears her husband's casual sexual relationship with other women silently, her father-in-law who constantly shows his manliness. Bhaunri is not only a story of pure love or obsession or desire but also a story of survival of a man dominating society.
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I loved this book. This was a light and simple read with an intense and impactful plot. All the characters were seemed real and meaningful. This book portrays a Shade of feminism through the character, Bhaunri. It talks about the life of the rural women. Bhaunri could become a ideal to the all-women, who are also struggling to this man dominating society. Bahunri could be a strong voice. Most importantly, the whole plot set in the Thar desert in Rajasthan which made me fall in love with the beauty of Rajasthan. There was an astonishing essence of the folklore of the Rajasthan which had gripped me from the very first page. .
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Apart from all these, I really adore the writing skill of the Author. Her writing wins.The use of Rajasthani words Which took its charm to another level. Upadhayay writes an epic story, It was refreshing and delightful. This is a worth a read.
I'm looking forward to her another work.
4.5 ⭐ Highly recommended ✨
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Bahunri is a strong, willful, bold & fearless women.These multiples are obtained from her mother. In this book Bahunri's mother is a intense and strong character too. The core part of this story depicts the Bhaunri's desire, obsessive love, her marital life along with her mother - in - law who bears her husband's casual sexual relationship with other women silently, her father-in-law who constantly shows his manliness. Bhaunri is not only a story of pure love or obsession or desire but also a story of survival of a man dominating society.
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I loved this book. This was a light and simple read with an intense and impactful plot. All the characters were seemed real and meaningful. This book portrays a Shade of feminism through the character, Bhaunri. It talks about the life of the rural women. Bhaunri could become a ideal to the all-women, who are also struggling to this man dominating society. Bahunri could be a strong voice. Most importantly, the whole plot set in the Thar desert in Rajasthan which made me fall in love with the beauty of Rajasthan. There was an astonishing essence of the folklore of the Rajasthan which had gripped me from the very first page. .
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Apart from all these, I really adore the writing skill of the Author. Her writing wins.The use of Rajasthani words Which took its charm to another level. Upadhayay writes an epic story, It was refreshing and delightful. This is a worth a read.
I'm looking forward to her another work.
4.5 ⭐ Highly recommended ✨
To read full review head on to my blog: https://theunloststory.wordpress.com/...
May 26, 2021
Review by @aesthetic_renditions
Set in rural Rajasthan, this novella is about Bhaunri, a defiant, rebellious and wilful girl born in a nomadic Gadoliya tribe of Rajasthan. Bhaunri is married to Bheema, from a wealthy family of Lohars when she is just a child as per the customs of her tribe. She is entranced by Bheema and when she moves to her in-laws’ house she sets out to win his heart. Just as she feels that their hearts have united, Bhaunri finds out that he’s not the ideal husband she dreamt of but is a womanizer and a philanderer. His infidelity destroys her and her love for him becomes obsessive. How much love is too much love? To what lengths will Bhaunri go to keep him from going astray?
A stark contrast is drawn between Mai (Bhaunri’s mother-in-law) who is timid and believes that “it is the duty of a woman to endure” and Bhaunri who is strong-headed and considers herself equal to her husband, this difference drawn between the two characters shows the depth of various emotions and beliefs women have about love.
Bhaunri is a thought-provoking novel with a compelling plot, it talks about key issues like abusive marriages, male entitlement and domestic violence.
The writing style is simple, lyrical and evocative. The author Anukrti has intricately woven this novel with beautiful character development and detailed description of the nomadic life. This book takes the reader on a journey to the deserts of Rajasthan and showcases the rich culture and essence of Rajasthan through vibrant and colorful attires, sumptuous cuisines, folk songs, myths and folk tales.
Set in rural Rajasthan, this novella is about Bhaunri, a defiant, rebellious and wilful girl born in a nomadic Gadoliya tribe of Rajasthan. Bhaunri is married to Bheema, from a wealthy family of Lohars when she is just a child as per the customs of her tribe. She is entranced by Bheema and when she moves to her in-laws’ house she sets out to win his heart. Just as she feels that their hearts have united, Bhaunri finds out that he’s not the ideal husband she dreamt of but is a womanizer and a philanderer. His infidelity destroys her and her love for him becomes obsessive. How much love is too much love? To what lengths will Bhaunri go to keep him from going astray?
A stark contrast is drawn between Mai (Bhaunri’s mother-in-law) who is timid and believes that “it is the duty of a woman to endure” and Bhaunri who is strong-headed and considers herself equal to her husband, this difference drawn between the two characters shows the depth of various emotions and beliefs women have about love.
Bhaunri is a thought-provoking novel with a compelling plot, it talks about key issues like abusive marriages, male entitlement and domestic violence.
The writing style is simple, lyrical and evocative. The author Anukrti has intricately woven this novel with beautiful character development and detailed description of the nomadic life. This book takes the reader on a journey to the deserts of Rajasthan and showcases the rich culture and essence of Rajasthan through vibrant and colorful attires, sumptuous cuisines, folk songs, myths and folk tales.
June 4, 2020
Bhaunri by Anukriti Upadhyay was my first read of June, and I was completely floored by it. This is a novella spanning less than 200 pages and is brilliantly written. Set in the deserts of Rajasthan, India, Bhaunri is a tale of a fiercely strong-willed woman, who refuses to bend to the age-old notion of being an afterthought in a relationship and household, and would not sit being sidelined.
Our protagonist, Bhaunri is a daughter of wandering Lohar father and a headstrong mother. Although she has no say in who she married, but once she gets to her in-laws house, she is ready to give it all. But she's also ready to take it all. Bhaunri is truly her mother's daughter. She is unwilling to be her husband's trophy. She believes in equality in relationship. But the world she lives in is not yet ready to accept her ideas, neither is her husband.
The book is a definite page-turner. Upadhyay crafted a clear storyline and stuck to it, deviating away from and drawing back into the story at all the right places. The descriptions of the winds and the lands will make you smell the deserts of Rajasthan, you would even get a whiff of the aromatic spices simmering in the clay pot over the chulha. You would feel the heat of the days and the cool starry nights. And that is the magic of Bhaunri's prose.
An extremely entertaining read, Bhaunri is a contemporary tale set in a rustic, traditional setting. And Anukriti Upadhyay had done complete justice in delivering this amazing combination. If you are looking for a quick read, this should be your pick.
Our protagonist, Bhaunri is a daughter of wandering Lohar father and a headstrong mother. Although she has no say in who she married, but once she gets to her in-laws house, she is ready to give it all. But she's also ready to take it all. Bhaunri is truly her mother's daughter. She is unwilling to be her husband's trophy. She believes in equality in relationship. But the world she lives in is not yet ready to accept her ideas, neither is her husband.
The book is a definite page-turner. Upadhyay crafted a clear storyline and stuck to it, deviating away from and drawing back into the story at all the right places. The descriptions of the winds and the lands will make you smell the deserts of Rajasthan, you would even get a whiff of the aromatic spices simmering in the clay pot over the chulha. You would feel the heat of the days and the cool starry nights. And that is the magic of Bhaunri's prose.
An extremely entertaining read, Bhaunri is a contemporary tale set in a rustic, traditional setting. And Anukriti Upadhyay had done complete justice in delivering this amazing combination. If you are looking for a quick read, this should be your pick.
May 18, 2020
Beautifully written, and the climax is superb, if quite controversial. Folk-tale, feminism, fresh.
September 9, 2020
1 star less for revealing the climax a bit too soon. A good read nonetheless. Who doesn’t like obsessing lovers doing stupid things? 😂
March 13, 2024
I know I shouldn't say this but YOU GO GIRLFRIEND!!!
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