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Too Busy Not to Pray: Slowing Down to Be With God
No longer available from publisher. Most of us have trouble finding time to pray. There's church and school and neighborhood and job and friends and recreation. And then the crises hit! Time for prayer seems an impossible luxury. As a pastor, Bill Hybels knows hundreds of people with schedules like this. Yet in his own life he has made the hard discovery that prayer doesn't happen on the run. He decided he was too busy not to pray. Hybels's accessible introduction to prayer has already helped over 400,000 readers develop a rich and regular prayer life in the midst of life's busyness. Now, in this revised and expanded 10th anniversary edition, he includes new insights from his years of ministry and his own spiritual journey. He shows how to slow down to pray, listen to God, respond to what we hear, practice the presence of God and overcome prayer barriers. His fun and practical book offers the resources we need for growing, ongoing experiences in prayer.
192 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 1988
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Bill Hybels
397 books217 followersBill Hybels is the founding and senior pastor of Willow Creek Community Church in South Barrington, Illinois, a non-denominational church with eight regional locations in the Chicago area. He is the bestselling author of more than twenty books, including Simplify, Axiom, Holy Discontent, Just Walk Across the Room, The Volunteer Revolution, Courageous Leadership, Too Busy Not to Pray, and Becoming a Contagious Christian.
Hybels launched Willow Creek Community Church in 1975 with his wife, Lynne (Berry), and a group of friends who gathered in rented space in a movie theater with a vision of helping people from any faith background (or no faith at all) become fully devoted followers of Jesus. Utilizing contemporary music, the arts, relevant teaching from the Bible, and a small-groups community focus that has revolutionized how people experience community in the local church, Willow Creek has grown to more than 25,000 attendees, one of the largest churches in North America—and one of the most influential.
In 1992, Hybels launched Willow Creek Association, a not-for-profit organization that equips, inspires, and empowers leaders around the world. In 1995, he convened WCA’s first Global Leadership Summit, an annual two-day event featuring top leaders from all perspectives and areas of expertise—both faith-based and secular (past speakers include Condoleezza Rice, Colin Powell, Bono, Melinda Gates, Andy Stanley, Jim Collins, Ed Catmull, Tyler Perry, Sheryl Sandberg, Nicholas Kristof, David Gergen, and Brené Brown). Telecast live from Willow Creek’s 7,000-seat South Barrington auditorium each August, more than 400,000 pastors and community leaders attend the Summit at hundreds of locations across North America, and around the world at 675+ sites in 130 countries and 60 different languages—making it the largest event of its kind on the planet. “Everyone wins when a leader gets better,” Hybels says.
Hybels holds a bachelor’s degree in Biblical Studies and an honorary Doctorate of Divinity from Trinity College (now Trinity International University) in Deerfield, Illinois. He and his wife, Lynne, have two grown children and two grandsons.
Hybels launched Willow Creek Community Church in 1975 with his wife, Lynne (Berry), and a group of friends who gathered in rented space in a movie theater with a vision of helping people from any faith background (or no faith at all) become fully devoted followers of Jesus. Utilizing contemporary music, the arts, relevant teaching from the Bible, and a small-groups community focus that has revolutionized how people experience community in the local church, Willow Creek has grown to more than 25,000 attendees, one of the largest churches in North America—and one of the most influential.
In 1992, Hybels launched Willow Creek Association, a not-for-profit organization that equips, inspires, and empowers leaders around the world. In 1995, he convened WCA’s first Global Leadership Summit, an annual two-day event featuring top leaders from all perspectives and areas of expertise—both faith-based and secular (past speakers include Condoleezza Rice, Colin Powell, Bono, Melinda Gates, Andy Stanley, Jim Collins, Ed Catmull, Tyler Perry, Sheryl Sandberg, Nicholas Kristof, David Gergen, and Brené Brown). Telecast live from Willow Creek’s 7,000-seat South Barrington auditorium each August, more than 400,000 pastors and community leaders attend the Summit at hundreds of locations across North America, and around the world at 675+ sites in 130 countries and 60 different languages—making it the largest event of its kind on the planet. “Everyone wins when a leader gets better,” Hybels says.
Hybels holds a bachelor’s degree in Biblical Studies and an honorary Doctorate of Divinity from Trinity College (now Trinity International University) in Deerfield, Illinois. He and his wife, Lynne, have two grown children and two grandsons.
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December 26, 2008
Too Busy not to Pray (Slowing down to be with God)
Bill Hybels
Inter-Varsity Press
ISBN: 0-85111-329-X
I read this book as part of the preparation for the week of prayer at Christ Church. Our vicar Warner recommended it. The back cover overview starts "Why should we pray? How can we when we are so busy?". Thats covers some of the reasons why I wanted to read it. Others include the questions of technique - just exactly WHAT can you do that will help you engage with God. The clue to this is in the sub-title, of course. I also wanted to know about hearing God's word. Many years ago I read "Listening to God" and found it very helpful. Applying some of the suggestions in here improved my prayer life, but over a period of time things get stale, thats how I am (and how most people are , I think). So its is good to find a book that addresses things slightly differently, and allows us to take a new approach. Bill starts his book with three chapters about God. What you understand about God, and how much you really believe it will have an impact not only on how you pray, by also on your motivation to pray at all. Then there are some techniques, based around the ACTS acronym - Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, Supplication. Bill recognises that we will not simple jump into a new way of praying and find that it works brilliantly, he suggests that practice is required. I agree.
The book ends with some discussion on listening to God, and evaluating what you hear - to be sure that the source of the message is indeed the Holy Spirit, and not just our own internal cravings, or something much worse. As a pastor of many years understanding, he has some good examples to share. They may well make you think of some "What if I'd .." situations in your past.
As a way to improve or perhaps establish your personal prayer life this is a useful read. I am currently trying some of his suggestions to see how they work for me. Everyone, is of course different, but most of us aren't THAT different, so its likely there will be something useful for most people.
Bill Hybels
Inter-Varsity Press
ISBN: 0-85111-329-X
I read this book as part of the preparation for the week of prayer at Christ Church. Our vicar Warner recommended it. The back cover overview starts "Why should we pray? How can we when we are so busy?". Thats covers some of the reasons why I wanted to read it. Others include the questions of technique - just exactly WHAT can you do that will help you engage with God. The clue to this is in the sub-title, of course. I also wanted to know about hearing God's word. Many years ago I read "Listening to God" and found it very helpful. Applying some of the suggestions in here improved my prayer life, but over a period of time things get stale, thats how I am (and how most people are , I think). So its is good to find a book that addresses things slightly differently, and allows us to take a new approach. Bill starts his book with three chapters about God. What you understand about God, and how much you really believe it will have an impact not only on how you pray, by also on your motivation to pray at all. Then there are some techniques, based around the ACTS acronym - Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, Supplication. Bill recognises that we will not simple jump into a new way of praying and find that it works brilliantly, he suggests that practice is required. I agree.
The book ends with some discussion on listening to God, and evaluating what you hear - to be sure that the source of the message is indeed the Holy Spirit, and not just our own internal cravings, or something much worse. As a pastor of many years understanding, he has some good examples to share. They may well make you think of some "What if I'd .." situations in your past.
As a way to improve or perhaps establish your personal prayer life this is a useful read. I am currently trying some of his suggestions to see how they work for me. Everyone, is of course different, but most of us aren't THAT different, so its likely there will be something useful for most people.
January 1, 2025
Informative and practical, but a bit more basic than I was hoping. I wish I had read this book years ago, because it would have been even more beneficial then!
January 13, 2021
Hybels' approach to prayer is straightforward and clear. While challenging readers to reconsider the busy in their lives, Hybels is not critical or judgmental. Through sharing Scripture and seasons of prayerlessness in his own life, Hybels demonstrates we are better with a consistent prayer life than without one. This is a solid book for believers in various stages of faith-- from those who need to get out of a rut, to those who are looking to refresh their prayer life, or those who just would like encouragement to keep pushing through on unanswered prayers.
November 16, 2009
Too Busy Not to Pray was a 15-week study with my women's bible study group. This study challenged us to slow down in our busy lives & take the time to pray. We learned about God calling us into his presence, inviting us to talk with Him continuously, methods to use to break down the barriers that prevent us from praying to God, recognizing how God speaks to our hearts, and most importantly listening to & taking action when God prompts us. In one of the lessons we contemplated on The Lord's Prayer & rewrote the prayer in our own layman's terms to make the prayer more meaningful to us as individuals. If you are looking for encouraging words to improve your prayer life, Hybel offers practical ideas on slowing down to pray.
June 4, 2012
I read this with a group of women at my church. Having not seriously prayed in 30+ years, I found the "instruction" quite good. However, as usually is the case with book clubs, the discussions we had, whether directly about this book or other things, was almost more useful than the book.
Here are a just a few (paraphrased) lines from the book which particularly resounded with me (recently returned to God):
-"Prayer is an unnatural activity...alien to our proud human nature".
-"It is hard for God to release his power in your life when you put your hands in your pockets".
-"The real reason my prayers were weak was because my faith was weak".
-"He wanted God's presence in his life; he just didn't want to form any habits that would actually invite it to show up".
-"The normal Christian life is defined by its supernatural dimension".
-"(Another)reason why we may not hear God's voice is that we don't plan to do anything about it".
-"Of the one to whom much is given, much is required". Luke 12:48
I, and the other ladies, found the chapter on "Unanswered Prayers" to be especially beneficial.
So, with this glowing write-up, why only a rating of 3?
There were a few references to those who "don't believe" being "wrong"; or, those who are of another religion being "wrong" that will never sit well with me.
Yes, I've returned to God but this doesn't mean I now think anyone who doesn't, or, who practices a religion that does not involve the belief of Jesus Christ as their savior, is doomed.
That's just not "my" God.
Here are a just a few (paraphrased) lines from the book which particularly resounded with me (recently returned to God):
-"Prayer is an unnatural activity...alien to our proud human nature".
-"It is hard for God to release his power in your life when you put your hands in your pockets".
-"The real reason my prayers were weak was because my faith was weak".
-"He wanted God's presence in his life; he just didn't want to form any habits that would actually invite it to show up".
-"The normal Christian life is defined by its supernatural dimension".
-"(Another)reason why we may not hear God's voice is that we don't plan to do anything about it".
-"Of the one to whom much is given, much is required". Luke 12:48
I, and the other ladies, found the chapter on "Unanswered Prayers" to be especially beneficial.
So, with this glowing write-up, why only a rating of 3?
There were a few references to those who "don't believe" being "wrong"; or, those who are of another religion being "wrong" that will never sit well with me.
Yes, I've returned to God but this doesn't mean I now think anyone who doesn't, or, who practices a religion that does not involve the belief of Jesus Christ as their savior, is doomed.
That's just not "my" God.
May 25, 2017
The title caught my eye. An easy read with good thought provoking questions. A few examples.
Being aware of the meaning of our prayers. We bless the food to nourish our bodies, even if it is greasy and we chase it with a sugary drink. What nourishment can really come from this type of food, yet we all say it.
He told the story about having to talk in front of a large group and was very worried he was going to let the bigger leaders down. Then the words to a song came to him and made him realize he had been stressing on all of his inadequacies, but knew that God was adequate to make it happen. When he focused on God's adequacy instead of his inadequacy he was able to move forward and give a great talk.
Be Still and know that I am God. We have to listen to hear God talking to us. Often this happens in those quiet moments. Take time to listen.
Journaling helps to slow down our minds to make us more receptive to God. It doesn't matter what we write about, the very act of writing forces us to slow down.
Being aware of the meaning of our prayers. We bless the food to nourish our bodies, even if it is greasy and we chase it with a sugary drink. What nourishment can really come from this type of food, yet we all say it.
He told the story about having to talk in front of a large group and was very worried he was going to let the bigger leaders down. Then the words to a song came to him and made him realize he had been stressing on all of his inadequacies, but knew that God was adequate to make it happen. When he focused on God's adequacy instead of his inadequacy he was able to move forward and give a great talk.
Be Still and know that I am God. We have to listen to hear God talking to us. Often this happens in those quiet moments. Take time to listen.
Journaling helps to slow down our minds to make us more receptive to God. It doesn't matter what we write about, the very act of writing forces us to slow down.
August 6, 2012
“When was the last time you prayed diligently over a period of time for your spouse, your parents or your children? Or for someone to come to know Christ? Or for peace in war-torn parts of the world? Or that God’s power would cause a revolution in your church? Or that God would put you to work for his glory?”
This is an excerpt from this month’s book and it has really challenged me to re-address my prayer struture and indeed my prayer life. I’ve come to realise that for a while my style of prayer may have been good and even right but without due care and attention the adopted style can translate into routine whereby the words become babbling since deep thought is not placed upon the words spoken, which is less of a communication and more of a recital…may God help us all as we take a deeper look into our prayer life as challeged to do so by Bill Hybel.
This is an excerpt from this month’s book and it has really challenged me to re-address my prayer struture and indeed my prayer life. I’ve come to realise that for a while my style of prayer may have been good and even right but without due care and attention the adopted style can translate into routine whereby the words become babbling since deep thought is not placed upon the words spoken, which is less of a communication and more of a recital…may God help us all as we take a deeper look into our prayer life as challeged to do so by Bill Hybel.
January 5, 2024
Really good! Brought me into deeper trust and relationship with Jesus :)
July 17, 2021
First published in 1988, and then reprinted several times in the decades since, this feels and reads like a timeless classic and rounded book on the practice of Christian prayer and a 'prayer life'.
The chapters help break down components and principles of praying, including barriers and associated mindsets.
Sometimes Hybels comes across as a bit blunt or vaguely anecdotal. At one point he says how he hated his family dog, for example, which just felt jarring, unpleasant and mostly irrelevant! I found the best parts were about whether prayers are sincere or not, the breakdown of the Lord's Prayer (perhaps the ultimate prayer!) and the prayer acrostic ACTS (adoration, confession, thanksgiving, supplication).
I was not sure what had been updated for the 2008- editions, but I think the book could have dwelled more on difficult issues facing the 21st century world and how they might shape practices of prayer. The book makes important points about global poverty towards the end, but could have gone broader and deeper on related issues from earlier on, perhaps.
The book is also, not unreasonably, mostly focused on individual prayer, but more attention could have potentially been given to group, collective and cultural variations as well.
The chapters help break down components and principles of praying, including barriers and associated mindsets.
Sometimes Hybels comes across as a bit blunt or vaguely anecdotal. At one point he says how he hated his family dog, for example, which just felt jarring, unpleasant and mostly irrelevant! I found the best parts were about whether prayers are sincere or not, the breakdown of the Lord's Prayer (perhaps the ultimate prayer!) and the prayer acrostic ACTS (adoration, confession, thanksgiving, supplication).
I was not sure what had been updated for the 2008- editions, but I think the book could have dwelled more on difficult issues facing the 21st century world and how they might shape practices of prayer. The book makes important points about global poverty towards the end, but could have gone broader and deeper on related issues from earlier on, perhaps.
The book is also, not unreasonably, mostly focused on individual prayer, but more attention could have potentially been given to group, collective and cultural variations as well.
December 13, 2020
This book felt like a memoir of Hybels' own prayer journey, which would have been more palatable if it wasn't undertaken with such self-consciousness and grandiosity. Prayer is a topic best learned about through experience, not reading about the experiences of others. A few have pulled off meaningful and helpful books about prayer. Hybels is not on that list. Besides, his claims about how much prayer has changed his life ring a little hollow when you find out that he was involved with another woman, likely while writing this book.
September 9, 2023
Op zich een sterk boek die de dingen gewoon echt weer even zegt zoals ze zijn: we verwachten vaak te weinig van God en nemen zelden de moeite om echt naar Hem te luisteren in de stilte. Op sommige punten kon ik me minder vinden in zijn theologie, maar over het algemeen vond ik het een goede boodschap die we soms te lang mislopen.
Wat wel een domper was is dat deze dominee moest aftreden na allerlei schandalen die tijdens de periode waarin dit boek is uitgekomen hun oorsprong vonden. Dat maakte het soms wat lastiger om serieus te nemen.
Wat wel een domper was is dat deze dominee moest aftreden na allerlei schandalen die tijdens de periode waarin dit boek is uitgekomen hun oorsprong vonden. Dat maakte het soms wat lastiger om serieus te nemen.
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December 17, 2021Read pretty much everything Bill Hybels wrote back in the 80s and 90s. He was the pastor of Willow Creek, after all. Great communicator, popular author, influential church, etc. Welp. Still, this book was a basic primer back in the day on prayer for new believers and probably still helpful in a very basic intro kind of way. Read it in 1991.
October 2, 2024
This book is hard to rate objectively so I’m rating it according to how I felt after reading it.
I was very excited to read this book based on the title alone. I cracked it open and was finding it helpful. Then my wife informed me the author has been accused (and confirmed) of multiple accounts of sexual misconduct.
It’s very difficult to take a book on prayer seriously when the author had such accusations… Regardless, I decided to plow ahead.
Most helpful/practical take away to me: He suggests journaling a page or paragraph each day to help you slow down. Then once you’ve slowed some write out your prayer to slow down even more.
The book had helpful thoughts and comments but the shadow of his character loomed over the whole thing. According to the book he was prioritizing prayer when he wrote the book and he mentioned confessing sins and how a poor relationship with your wife interrupts prayer. He talked about how leaving your wife for another woman because “God said to” is an example of a deceptive leading. I just can’t help but wonder what happened. Was he being duplicitous when he wrote the book or did he fall off the road sometime after writing it?
Finally, the last few chapters on hearing God’s voice, listening for prompts, and responding to His leadings made me uncomfortable. But that is a personal issue not a book issue. These chapters were in direct contrast with a book I respect called Good News for Anxious Christians. I’m honestly not sure how I stand on the topic of hearing God’s voice in your heart day to day (though I lean heavily against it). So, this may be more of a strike against me than the book. I’m really not sure…
With the allegations looming overhead distracting me from the content (a book about character and discipline is directly impacted by the author’s character or lack there of) and my uncomfortableness with the final chapters I rate the book 3 stars. I don’t regret reading it but I’m not going to promote it to friends.
If anyone knows of a good book on prayer I’d like to hear it.
I was very excited to read this book based on the title alone. I cracked it open and was finding it helpful. Then my wife informed me the author has been accused (and confirmed) of multiple accounts of sexual misconduct.
It’s very difficult to take a book on prayer seriously when the author had such accusations… Regardless, I decided to plow ahead.
Most helpful/practical take away to me: He suggests journaling a page or paragraph each day to help you slow down. Then once you’ve slowed some write out your prayer to slow down even more.
The book had helpful thoughts and comments but the shadow of his character loomed over the whole thing. According to the book he was prioritizing prayer when he wrote the book and he mentioned confessing sins and how a poor relationship with your wife interrupts prayer. He talked about how leaving your wife for another woman because “God said to” is an example of a deceptive leading. I just can’t help but wonder what happened. Was he being duplicitous when he wrote the book or did he fall off the road sometime after writing it?
Finally, the last few chapters on hearing God’s voice, listening for prompts, and responding to His leadings made me uncomfortable. But that is a personal issue not a book issue. These chapters were in direct contrast with a book I respect called Good News for Anxious Christians. I’m honestly not sure how I stand on the topic of hearing God’s voice in your heart day to day (though I lean heavily against it). So, this may be more of a strike against me than the book. I’m really not sure…
With the allegations looming overhead distracting me from the content (a book about character and discipline is directly impacted by the author’s character or lack there of) and my uncomfortableness with the final chapters I rate the book 3 stars. I don’t regret reading it but I’m not going to promote it to friends.
If anyone knows of a good book on prayer I’d like to hear it.
January 24, 2023
I have never finished a theology book that fast! But I just really learned more about the character of God and how to dwell in his presence more. I learned practical steps that I can implement in my prayer life and with my relationship with Christ. This book is exactly what I needed - a reminder to slow down and spend time with the most important relationship in my life. I could not recommend this book more.
January 13, 2025
Practical advice - just what I needed as I begin a new year.
Few notes for myself:
Pray regularly
Pray privately
Pray specifically
Pray sincerely
Confession - Courage to call sins by their true name
Test leadings. Is this from the HS or the prince of this world?
Consistent with scripture?
Compatible with who you are, your gifts, who God made you to be?
Servanthood vs self-serving?
Prayer journal.
Write, review, reflect, and sit in silence.
October 10, 2021
Easy read on a very important subject
August 10, 2023
“You matter to God.”
This book is an excellent reminder of the importance of prayer, and making sure that time in prayer is intentional.
This book is an excellent reminder of the importance of prayer, and making sure that time in prayer is intentional.
October 10, 2023
Had a lot of helpful tips on how to pray. 🙏
June 9, 2020
This book has been so refreshing! The author lays out clearly why we pray and how to pray well. Through the use of some satire, Hybles uses stories and examples to show the importance of humbly and worship fully praying to the Father.
July 26, 2017
This book sat on my shelf for a long time because I thought I'd already read it. I'm glad I pulled it off and got a strong refresher on what it means to pray. The title of the book is interesting because I had just finished Crazy Busy by Kevin DeYoung. It was cool to read these books back to back. Though I don't know Bill Hybels, he has influenced me a lot through his book Just Walk Across the Room. In that book, he seems like such a humble and meek person that is willing to do anything for the Gospel. However, in this book (which was written nearly 20 years earlier) really focuses on Hybels struggles with prayer and how he has worked (and work is an important word) to improve his prayer life. The book gave many practical ideas and examples from Hybels life that made it very helpful. I especially thought his focus on finding a quiet/private place for prayer was really important. I didn't find it a very quotable book, but overall I thought it was a good read.
My favorite quotes:
p. 12 - "God's power flows primarily to people who pray."
p. 38 - "Whatever it taks for you to own the doctrine of God's omnipotence, do it. Until you own it, you will be a faint-hearted pray-er. A 'prayer warrior' is a person who is convinced that God is omnipotent - that God has the power to do anything, to change anyone and to intervene in any circumstance."
p. 43 - "I fear that for too many believers, spiritual dispcipline turns into a straightjacket experience filled with requirements that squeeze the vitality and spontaneity and adventure right out of faith and life."
p. 64 - "Adoration purifies the one who is praying. When we have spent a few minutes praising God for who He is, our spirit is softened and our agenda changes. Those burning issues we were dying to bring to God's attention may seem less crucial."
p. 84 - "How do you pray a prayer so filled with faith that it can move a mountain? By shifting the focus from the size of your mountain to the sufficiency of the mountain mover, and by stepping forward in obedience."
p. 96 - "Sometimes God delays so that we can develop character qualities such as endurance, trust, patience, and submission - qualities that come only when we wait patiently and trust in his timing. A lot of spiritual gains come through pain, hurt, struggle, confusion and disappointment."
p. 126 - "The archenemy of spiritual authenticity is busyness, which is closely tied to something the Bible calls worldliness - getting caught up with this society's agenda, objectives and activities to the neglect of walking with God."
p. 147 - "No one can become an authentic Christian on a steady diet of activity. Power comes out of stillness; strength comes out of solitude. Decisions that change the entire course of your life come out of the holy of holies, your times of stillness before God."
My favorite quotes:
p. 12 - "God's power flows primarily to people who pray."
p. 38 - "Whatever it taks for you to own the doctrine of God's omnipotence, do it. Until you own it, you will be a faint-hearted pray-er. A 'prayer warrior' is a person who is convinced that God is omnipotent - that God has the power to do anything, to change anyone and to intervene in any circumstance."
p. 43 - "I fear that for too many believers, spiritual dispcipline turns into a straightjacket experience filled with requirements that squeeze the vitality and spontaneity and adventure right out of faith and life."
p. 64 - "Adoration purifies the one who is praying. When we have spent a few minutes praising God for who He is, our spirit is softened and our agenda changes. Those burning issues we were dying to bring to God's attention may seem less crucial."
p. 84 - "How do you pray a prayer so filled with faith that it can move a mountain? By shifting the focus from the size of your mountain to the sufficiency of the mountain mover, and by stepping forward in obedience."
p. 96 - "Sometimes God delays so that we can develop character qualities such as endurance, trust, patience, and submission - qualities that come only when we wait patiently and trust in his timing. A lot of spiritual gains come through pain, hurt, struggle, confusion and disappointment."
p. 126 - "The archenemy of spiritual authenticity is busyness, which is closely tied to something the Bible calls worldliness - getting caught up with this society's agenda, objectives and activities to the neglect of walking with God."
p. 147 - "No one can become an authentic Christian on a steady diet of activity. Power comes out of stillness; strength comes out of solitude. Decisions that change the entire course of your life come out of the holy of holies, your times of stillness before God."
February 7, 2016
I thoroughly enjoyed this book and reading it was timely for me as I have been trying to make my prayers more meaningful and to better my relationship with my Heavenly Father. It was interesting to me that right at the beginning of the book, Hybels reports that prayer goes against what we are taught from birth. We are told to be independent, yet we stop to ask for help when we pray. I like how he simply states that we just need a quiet room to pray and that is all. This means we can pray anywhere and it will not be too much of an interruption. I really liked some of his practical tools with how to structure our prayers. This is a great way to get started, especially for someone like me who is very methodical in my organization. I am going to apply some of his tools into my life to get me started on an organized path to prayer.
Some of his greatest chapters were about why God delays answers. These are not easy to read as we all find that we are fallible and human but they are worthwhile to note. Probably the hardest thing for me at this time of my life is well stated in this quote, "The archenemy of spiritual authenticity is busyness." (Pg. 106) I have not found a way to cut some of the busyness out of my life so that is the difficult part for me. I need to find times of stillness and solitude where I can pray and listen. Since I am a scheduler, I have decided to do as he says and build the solitude into my schedule.
I found Hybels suggestions and insight very helpful and I envy the relationship that he has with God. I hope to create that for myself!
Some of his greatest chapters were about why God delays answers. These are not easy to read as we all find that we are fallible and human but they are worthwhile to note. Probably the hardest thing for me at this time of my life is well stated in this quote, "The archenemy of spiritual authenticity is busyness." (Pg. 106) I have not found a way to cut some of the busyness out of my life so that is the difficult part for me. I need to find times of stillness and solitude where I can pray and listen. Since I am a scheduler, I have decided to do as he says and build the solitude into my schedule.
I found Hybels suggestions and insight very helpful and I envy the relationship that he has with God. I hope to create that for myself!
February 23, 2009
Easily read, very practical treatment of prayer, taking up the cause of the person who would like to or used to pray, with specifics on how to get going or resume. After discussing potential roadblocks--like holding grudges or sins we haven't given up--the author offers very practical suggestions on praying.
In summary, his method is a simple technique of single-page daily journaling (great for busy people and those who go way overboard). Divide your journal page with 2 titles: "Yesterday"--an examination and recording of yesterday's highlights; and then today's "Prayer" using A.C.T.S. to focus your prayerful thoughts [Adoration/Confession/Thanksgiving/Supplications. He suggests additional subcategories for the Supplications.:].
Having journaled, leave yourself about equal time to stop and "Listen" to the Lord as He talks to you. How do you know it is He 'speaking' to you? Is it biblical or contrary? Does it square with who you are, ie, what your gifts are, or lead you to do something out of character? And finally, critically, is it calling you to be a Servant, or just a big shot?
The author joins with others down through history in assuring us that when we listen to the Lord as the result of real prayer, we will experience an increased awareness of His Presence-- of Divine Companionship as we go through our days; an increased trust in His Guidance; and an increased compassion for our fellow human beings.
In summary, his method is a simple technique of single-page daily journaling (great for busy people and those who go way overboard). Divide your journal page with 2 titles: "Yesterday"--an examination and recording of yesterday's highlights; and then today's "Prayer" using A.C.T.S. to focus your prayerful thoughts [Adoration/Confession/Thanksgiving/Supplications. He suggests additional subcategories for the Supplications.:].
Having journaled, leave yourself about equal time to stop and "Listen" to the Lord as He talks to you. How do you know it is He 'speaking' to you? Is it biblical or contrary? Does it square with who you are, ie, what your gifts are, or lead you to do something out of character? And finally, critically, is it calling you to be a Servant, or just a big shot?
The author joins with others down through history in assuring us that when we listen to the Lord as the result of real prayer, we will experience an increased awareness of His Presence-- of Divine Companionship as we go through our days; an increased trust in His Guidance; and an increased compassion for our fellow human beings.
May 19, 2021
Most of the book was helpful, especially the reminder to slow down in life when we pray to God (especially significant as I read that part when I was sick, God forcing me to slow down)
But the end on hearing God speak, assumed that Christians today would have the same experience as Moses and David, but they were specific people for specific tasks. So not sure if I agree.
But the end on hearing God speak, assumed that Christians today would have the same experience as Moses and David, but they were specific people for specific tasks. So not sure if I agree.
May 2, 2011
Good book on a very important topic-our conversations with your creator. This book, along with a class I was taking at the same time, got me to make it more then a one way conversation with me doing all the talking. I learned the importance of listening and what to listen for. I also have learned to journal my prayers so I can re-examine them at a later point to see how God has answered my prayers. I know I love to hear from my kids so it should go without saying that God loves to hear from us.
December 1, 2007
Great introductory book on prayer--many books recommend too many things to implement. Bill Hybels gives a very readable, practical and inspiring way to pray daily that jump-started my prayer life when it was stalled. I wouldn't recommend someone to make this a formula for a lifetime of prayer, but it's a great structure to develop key habits and basic skills of prayer--which I use to this day.
October 29, 2013
This really put things in perspective regarding busyness and spirituality. It isn't just a book stating reasons why we're too busy not to pray and doesn't make you feel completely guilty for putting spirituality on the back burner. Instead, it provides practical tips on how you can keep God first in all areas of your life and pray more.
June 6, 2021
This book has some really great practical tips in it for prayer. The reason I rated it only 3 stars is the last chapter completely ruined the book for me. He painted a picture that claims Jesus came *mainly* for the poor, but in reality he came for people to be saved. I thought there were instances where the author seemed very prideful and it just really rubbed me the wrong way.
September 5, 2009
I'm only half way through this book so far but it's really challenging my way of thinking about prayer (and how low on my priority list making time with God is). It's a very practical book with lots of tips, and has reminded me how important it is to pray!
March 6, 2024
Update: Read this several years ago (sorry if you read that positive review which I have now deleted). Now it's 2020 and I'm updating books on authors I'm now concerned about. Be discerning. Turns out, Hybels has serious theological issues, and I advise to steer clear.
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November 21, 2016I should have read this years ago and I think I'll need to read it again. Excellent discourse on the power of prayer, why and how someone should pray, and why your prayers may not be heard.
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