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He's Lying Sis: Uncover the Truth Behind His Words and Actions, Volume 1
Get ready to uncover the truth behind his words and his actions! "He's Lying Sis" will show you some of the most common lies men tell, and what to do about it when they do!
This groundbreaking book, jam-packed with expert insight and advice will help Avoid the pitfalls and negative cycles created by a man's lies and lack of transparency.Get the confirmation you need to do what is truly best for you.Create healthier communication and better relationships.and MUCH MORE...A better relationship IS possible if you know the right steps to take…
And when a man hurts you, you can read this book to find out how to take control, keep your sanity intact, and navigate the situation with grace and ease.
This book is a must read so get your copy today!
This groundbreaking book, jam-packed with expert insight and advice will help Avoid the pitfalls and negative cycles created by a man's lies and lack of transparency.Get the confirmation you need to do what is truly best for you.Create healthier communication and better relationships.and MUCH MORE...A better relationship IS possible if you know the right steps to take…
And when a man hurts you, you can read this book to find out how to take control, keep your sanity intact, and navigate the situation with grace and ease.
This book is a must read so get your copy today!
146 pages, Kindle Edition
Published February 25, 2019
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About the author
Stephan Labossiere
26 books439 followersStephan Labossiere is a man on a mission, and that mission is to make relationships happier and more fulfilling.
As a certified relationship coach, a speaker and author, Stephan seizes every opportunity to help both men and women overcome the challenges that hinder their relationships. From understanding the opposite sex, to navigating the paths and avoiding the pitfalls of relationships and self growth, Stephan’s relationship advice and insight helps countless individuals achieve an authentically amazing life. Stephan empowers millions to take charge of the difficult situations standing in the way of the life and love they seek and to make impactful changes on a daily basis.
Dedicated to helping, and devoted to keeping it real, Stephan’s straightforward, yet compassionate delivery style, attracts a versatile clientele including; notable celebrities, civic and social organizations, academic institutions, singles, and couples alike, who can and are ready to handle the truth!
Seen, heard and chronicled in national and international media outlets including; the Tom Joyner Morning Show, The Examiner, ABC, and Huffington Post Live, to name a few. Stephan is highly sought-after because he is able to dispel the myths of relationship breakdowns and obstacles–platonic, romantic, and otherwise—with fervor and finesse. To coin a phrase by an individual who attended one of his speaking engagements, “he’s definitely the relationship guy, all relationships all the time.”
With an international following of singles and couples alike, the name Stephan Labossiere is synonymous with breaking down relationship barriers, pushing past common facades, and exposing the truth. It is this understanding of REAL relationships that he brings to everyone he encounters
As a certified relationship coach, a speaker and author, Stephan seizes every opportunity to help both men and women overcome the challenges that hinder their relationships. From understanding the opposite sex, to navigating the paths and avoiding the pitfalls of relationships and self growth, Stephan’s relationship advice and insight helps countless individuals achieve an authentically amazing life. Stephan empowers millions to take charge of the difficult situations standing in the way of the life and love they seek and to make impactful changes on a daily basis.
Dedicated to helping, and devoted to keeping it real, Stephan’s straightforward, yet compassionate delivery style, attracts a versatile clientele including; notable celebrities, civic and social organizations, academic institutions, singles, and couples alike, who can and are ready to handle the truth!
Seen, heard and chronicled in national and international media outlets including; the Tom Joyner Morning Show, The Examiner, ABC, and Huffington Post Live, to name a few. Stephan is highly sought-after because he is able to dispel the myths of relationship breakdowns and obstacles–platonic, romantic, and otherwise—with fervor and finesse. To coin a phrase by an individual who attended one of his speaking engagements, “he’s definitely the relationship guy, all relationships all the time.”
With an international following of singles and couples alike, the name Stephan Labossiere is synonymous with breaking down relationship barriers, pushing past common facades, and exposing the truth. It is this understanding of REAL relationships that he brings to everyone he encounters
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February 26, 2020
WOW!!! This book was amazing. I've been following Stephan on Twitter for a while. I didn't know much about him outside of impactful tweets. I saw him on a talk show and thought, "He seems like he knows what he's talking about." I'm a bit of a skeptic when it comes to people that are deemed as relationship experts, so I never thought of purchasing any of his books. However, I was given this book as a gift. It took me 2-3 days to read it and I was pleasantly surprised. While this book is a quick read, there was no shortage of heart piercing information. A lot of what is written in this book struck a chord. This book was like holding up a mirror and it was very revealing. At the same time, Stephan gave me the advice and knowledge that I haven't seemed to be able to find. This book doesn't leave you to guess how you should move forward when you're dealing with certain situations in relationships. I am so thankful that this book showed me how to deal with certain situations and not settle for anything. We deserve God's best, so don't settle for anything less. Believe it! Walk in it! Stand in it!
June 5, 2019
I am familiar with Labossiere's Instagram page, however, that is NOT what lead me to read his book. I was simply attracted to the title and wanted a book that was different from what I typically read.
This book was written for women who want to understand why they end up in "situationships" instead of relationships. Though he addresses the many of the questionable mind games men play, Labossiere does not use his book to group all men in the "guilty" category or to insult them. He also points out the flaws and mistakes women make that contribute to the issues they have in their relationships. He offers common sense knowledge about why men lose interest in the relationship, refuse to commit and why women later feel they wasted their time.
The author writes in a style that is very relatable, which makes for an easy read. This is not a technical book, so if you are looking for supporting scientific evidence, you won't find it here. Though I must say, a professional's take on some of the issues would have provided more clarity. One of the issues I had with the book was Labossiere makes each lesson longer than it needs to be by repeating himself or using filler quotes and the like to make a point. If it was not for the fact that he is funny, I would have shut this book down at Chapter Three.
I understand there are women who will genuinely seek the advice in this book to gain insight into the mind of a man. I did not feel the advice was substantial. Though the topics were good, there were not enough supporting facts to help drive his points home. The scenarios were not in-depth and at times I wondered if there was a better example he could have used. Honestly, he is not a licensed psychologist and that could explain the lack of substance.
Another negative: grammatical errors and missing lines. I hope this was just a Kindle issue, but who knows? The errors were many and it made the book appear to be a rush job. This is unfortunate as spelling and grammatical issues can discredit the writer. He made several plugs for upcoming books...to which I advise he either fire his current editor or invest in one prior to taking his next piece of work to print.
If you have read this book, let me hear your thoughts!
This book was written for women who want to understand why they end up in "situationships" instead of relationships. Though he addresses the many of the questionable mind games men play, Labossiere does not use his book to group all men in the "guilty" category or to insult them. He also points out the flaws and mistakes women make that contribute to the issues they have in their relationships. He offers common sense knowledge about why men lose interest in the relationship, refuse to commit and why women later feel they wasted their time.
The author writes in a style that is very relatable, which makes for an easy read. This is not a technical book, so if you are looking for supporting scientific evidence, you won't find it here. Though I must say, a professional's take on some of the issues would have provided more clarity. One of the issues I had with the book was Labossiere makes each lesson longer than it needs to be by repeating himself or using filler quotes and the like to make a point. If it was not for the fact that he is funny, I would have shut this book down at Chapter Three.
I understand there are women who will genuinely seek the advice in this book to gain insight into the mind of a man. I did not feel the advice was substantial. Though the topics were good, there were not enough supporting facts to help drive his points home. The scenarios were not in-depth and at times I wondered if there was a better example he could have used. Honestly, he is not a licensed psychologist and that could explain the lack of substance.
Another negative: grammatical errors and missing lines. I hope this was just a Kindle issue, but who knows? The errors were many and it made the book appear to be a rush job. This is unfortunate as spelling and grammatical issues can discredit the writer. He made several plugs for upcoming books...to which I advise he either fire his current editor or invest in one prior to taking his next piece of work to print.
If you have read this book, let me hear your thoughts!
July 4, 2022
I cried… real tears while reading a couple of these chapters. Nothing was said in this book that I didn’t already know, however I really did some self reflection while reading.
I had to take this book in sections. Emotionally, I couldn’t handle it all in one setting.
I started reading this book about a year ago, but I wasn’t ready. Why? Because “he” was lying and subconsciously I knew it but didn’t want to face it.
No more letting things go.
Great read!!!
January 22, 2020
Enlighten
This book was everything, I truely enjoyed all the stories how Stephan broke it down where you really could relate and I could on alot, this was so informative, I loved it ! And this is a must read for sure! Great Job!
This book was everything, I truely enjoyed all the stories how Stephan broke it down where you really could relate and I could on alot, this was so informative, I loved it ! And this is a must read for sure! Great Job!
May 7, 2021
This feels very 'commercial', something to sell to the ladies because that's what they want to know about; men & lies!
It lacked depth for me. It seemed as if though these were bullet points someone jotted down a paper and then went through the trouble of making repetitive chapters out of them. I, too, noticed the mistakes and couldn't help but wonder how much 'work' was put into the book, especially when the writer references a previous and upcoming book; as if he's in a rush to be over with this one and move on to yet another 'flashy title'.
Apart from that, there were some insights, some bits that would come as helpful to women beginning their dating - relationship experiences.
I'll read The Man God Has For You and see how that one feels.
It lacked depth for me. It seemed as if though these were bullet points someone jotted down a paper and then went through the trouble of making repetitive chapters out of them. I, too, noticed the mistakes and couldn't help but wonder how much 'work' was put into the book, especially when the writer references a previous and upcoming book; as if he's in a rush to be over with this one and move on to yet another 'flashy title'.
Apart from that, there were some insights, some bits that would come as helpful to women beginning their dating - relationship experiences.
I'll read The Man God Has For You and see how that one feels.
February 20, 2023
I should have heard of this book back in 2018.
I would definitely read more books from this author, although it was a tad bit repetitive at points, but nonetheless, all important information.
I am going to start listening to the authors podcast as well.
Some of my favorite quotes:
“Men aren’t the best liars. I honestly haven’t ever felt like men ever play women. Women play themselves” (read the chapter so you get why I like this quote) (pg. 121)
“You can’t receive what you don’t believe” (pg.126)
I would definitely read more books from this author, although it was a tad bit repetitive at points, but nonetheless, all important information.
I am going to start listening to the authors podcast as well.
Some of my favorite quotes:
“Men aren’t the best liars. I honestly haven’t ever felt like men ever play women. Women play themselves” (read the chapter so you get why I like this quote) (pg. 121)
“You can’t receive what you don’t believe” (pg.126)
November 17, 2019
Very interesting read. There were surely some scenarios in this book that I have either been in myself or know someone who has been there. Hearing most of the things mentioned in the book coming from a man speaks in larger volume to me. As a woman I strongly believe we can not and will never be able to understand the mind of a man so we can not truly speak to how/why they do or act the way they do. So to have these words from a man helps put some things in perspective. I have a few of Stephan’s other books and I am excited to soak up the knowledge they have between their pages.
December 30, 2022
I recall attending a Vision Board brunch event years ago and hearing Stephan Labossiere speak. His message and delivery left an impression on me as he wasn't bashing anyone instead he presented realistic ways of viewing situations for positive outcomes. It didn't hurt that he was from my home Brooklyn, NY! lol
This book shares realistic scenarios, suggestions on improving your thought procedures and listening to your gut instincts as well as focusing on what people actually do rather than just what they say or translating messages so it's what you may want to hear. It's a very insightful read utilizing his experience and holistic approach to love and healing. A little something for everyone to grow on and approach perspective relationships or current relationships in a healthier manner.
It's also a quick read! (133 pages)
I'm all about growth and truly believe we can learn a little something if the message is communicated in a respectful manner. Stephan's books defintely deliver respectful messages
This book shares realistic scenarios, suggestions on improving your thought procedures and listening to your gut instincts as well as focusing on what people actually do rather than just what they say or translating messages so it's what you may want to hear. It's a very insightful read utilizing his experience and holistic approach to love and healing. A little something for everyone to grow on and approach perspective relationships or current relationships in a healthier manner.
It's also a quick read! (133 pages)
I'm all about growth and truly believe we can learn a little something if the message is communicated in a respectful manner. Stephan's books defintely deliver respectful messages
January 5, 2021
This book was definitely needed for me to become empowered and to release me from my old patterns of choosing men. This material is given me the knowledge to make wiser choices to improve my goal of getting the outcome I truly desire and that finding true God - given and God - received love.
This book was definitely needed for me to become empowered and to release me from my old patterns and ways of choosing men. This material has given me the knowledge to make wiser choices to improve my goal of getting the outcome I truly desire and that is finding true God given love and receiving the same. Thank you and blessings!
This book was definitely needed for me to become empowered and to release me from my old patterns and ways of choosing men. This material has given me the knowledge to make wiser choices to improve my goal of getting the outcome I truly desire and that is finding true God given love and receiving the same. Thank you and blessings!
September 16, 2023
Many times, rereading books is good for us to be reminded about many things. This is one of it. Thoughts and experiences coming from a man are great advice that give women perspective when it comes to relationships and find the true man that would want you to be in their lives and saving so much time and heartbreak. This is one great painful wake-up call, but it's all worth it. A must-read for all ladies who are not sure what they got themselves into when it comes to relationships or a great reminder for them for their future relationships.
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October 18, 2020A Blessing in Disguise
This book I thought would be about what Stephen say, what I'm understanding by reading his book he spends time with God to give not only his insight but God's perspectives on a healthy relationship. I recommend this book not just on knowing about why men lie but in this book he explains why it's necessary to do some self love and having a personal relationship with God as well. This book is a Blessing in Disguise....Flo C.
This book I thought would be about what Stephen say, what I'm understanding by reading his book he spends time with God to give not only his insight but God's perspectives on a healthy relationship. I recommend this book not just on knowing about why men lie but in this book he explains why it's necessary to do some self love and having a personal relationship with God as well. This book is a Blessing in Disguise....Flo C.
January 9, 2021
Nice self help book to determine how to protect yourself from falling for the trap of senseless relationships and wasting time. It gives tips on recognizing red flags when dealing with certain types of men, when to maybe work it out with him and give him a change or when to run in the other direction from someone who could possibly drain the good in you and make you damaged for the next man. Overall it was a good book but didn't really tell me anything I didn't already know.
January 4, 2023
Easy read. I just started reading it due to what I have experienced while dating now days. It help me to understand that not everything is men’s fault. We as women are also guilty for what we allowed to happen in our relationship. Of course, violence, abuse and so on, won’t be your fault in any case.
But, in term of ways to date. We as women have the power to set boundaries and establish standards and respect them.
But, in term of ways to date. We as women have the power to set boundaries and establish standards and respect them.
March 9, 2019
Very easy read. It was start forward and compartmentalized everything some women already know and have been saying about men. The great thing is that we now have the backing of a man confirming the reason(s) men say and do the things they do. It's a good book that opens up the floor for a great discussion/dialogue. It also holds you accountable moving forward.
February 4, 2021
I was certainly nice to hear from a man’s perspective about relationships. I agree with many of his sentiments about dating and the behaviors of men, just as a woman. With my dating experiences, I don’t necessarily relate to the scenarios presented. However, I know of many women who can relate and they should definitely read this book.
February 8, 2021
I decided to bought and read the PDF version after I broke up with my bf. I always thought that I was the one who were crazy, irrational and immature. After reading this book I now recalled all the red flags that I ignored before. This book I think are for those who already know that there are something wrong in their relationships but need assurance about it. Good book.
July 3, 2021
This was a pretty straightforward book. I recognize that had I read this book when I first recieved it in December, I might have walked away from a bad situation sooner. I say might have because we all make emotionally charged choices that aren't always the best for us. I enjoyed this book and it gave me something to thing about.
February 19, 2023
He’s Lying Sis
It is a refreshing take on building better and healthier relationships. It puts the responsibility where it belongs. Taking your power back is essential. Listening you your intuition is a powerful tool in living in the moment and not in a fantasy. Love this book. I read it in one day.
It is a refreshing take on building better and healthier relationships. It puts the responsibility where it belongs. Taking your power back is essential. Listening you your intuition is a powerful tool in living in the moment and not in a fantasy. Love this book. I read it in one day.
March 6, 2019
Good short read
I literally read this in one hour! It was a short easy read. Stephan really hit the nail with this one and provided some great truths behind each lie. This book is for everyone, although not everyone may not have experienced the lies told. That’s ok! Use it as a your lie detector in case you do come across a man who lies.
I literally read this in one hour! It was a short easy read. Stephan really hit the nail with this one and provided some great truths behind each lie. This book is for everyone, although not everyone may not have experienced the lies told. That’s ok! Use it as a your lie detector in case you do come across a man who lies.
September 13, 2019
Great read
Wonderful read. I did a lot of highlights. Some of it is common sense but he touched a lot of good points. I’m excited to read his book about finding the man God has for you and how to heal from a heartbreak. I recommend this book to all.
Wonderful read. I did a lot of highlights. Some of it is common sense but he touched a lot of good points. I’m excited to read his book about finding the man God has for you and how to heal from a heartbreak. I recommend this book to all.
December 31, 2019
Honestly didn't have high expectations when I picked this book up. I'd recommend this for my sisters in their early 20s especially... It's not a man-bashing book despite the title; just a map to navigate the BS in society today.
January 12, 2020
Nice read
I like the candidness of this book. Contrary to what the title may lead you to believe, this is not a male bashing book. However, the author is content in sharing his perspective on some common sense issues.
I like the candidness of this book. Contrary to what the title may lead you to believe, this is not a male bashing book. However, the author is content in sharing his perspective on some common sense issues.
February 28, 2020
Well written, easy read. Great to get insight from a man regarding lying and it holds more weight and value coming from a relationship expert. Good read to help everyone get to a healthy place in relationships and learn how to better deal with lying. Loved the advice on not taking it personally!!
May 10, 2020
Single woman sit and read
This book was awesome. I learned so much about how men think and why. It has given me the information to avoid the men that waste time and play games. You need to read this book.
This book was awesome. I learned so much about how men think and why. It has given me the information to avoid the men that waste time and play games. You need to read this book.
August 15, 2020
Awesomeness of truth
This is an awesome truth to what one misses out in a relationship. As it is put out in the book... intuition is not to be ignored.
Heal first because this book is not for the faint-hearted.
This is an awesome truth to what one misses out in a relationship. As it is put out in the book... intuition is not to be ignored.
Heal first because this book is not for the faint-hearted.
September 8, 2020
Good Book to read in order to understand what you may deem as a red flag & to really learn how to trust your instincts. Overall this book taught me how to follow my gut, not to jump to conclusions and understand relationships; not everything is black and white! Highly recommend!
January 3, 2021
Insightful and honest!
Definitely a re-read! This time writing notes! Thank you for taking the time to write a book that truthfully explains how and why men lie, and what we can do to help curb that, as well as how important listening to our intuition is. Thank you!
Definitely a re-read! This time writing notes! Thank you for taking the time to write a book that truthfully explains how and why men lie, and what we can do to help curb that, as well as how important listening to our intuition is. Thank you!
January 12, 2021
This was a great book on relationships, but I also felt that the book wasn't really one that I could relate to. Some one out there could really benefit from it, but either way, it's useful information that could be applied to anyone at any age.
February 6, 2021
Great read
This book helped put things into perspective and helped confirm some things.
Very good scenarios depicted in each story, a great read for understanding the unknown or should I say unseen.
This book helped put things into perspective and helped confirm some things.
Very good scenarios depicted in each story, a great read for understanding the unknown or should I say unseen.
March 16, 2021
Love the book
I'm rating he's lying Sis 5 star's, from the beginning to the end you express and explain everything that is true! Thus book is insightful and is and eye opener, it also encouraged as well. I recommend reading the book, if you would like clarification.
I'm rating he's lying Sis 5 star's, from the beginning to the end you express and explain everything that is true! Thus book is insightful and is and eye opener, it also encouraged as well. I recommend reading the book, if you would like clarification.
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