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It's an inconvenient time for Sinter Blackwell to realize he's bisexual. He's a 25-year-old American actor working in London, living far away from his disapproving parents in the Pacific Northwest, and enjoying a flirtation with his director Fiona. But he can't deny that his favorite parts of each day are the messages from his gay best friend Andy in Seattle, whom Sinter o ...more
Paperback, 307 pages
Published September 3rd 2019 by Central Avenue Publishing
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Sara ❀
Jun 15, 2019 marked it as wish-list
we are getting so many books with unapologetic bisexual characters. it's twenty-bi-teen and i'm thriving.
Molly Ringle
Mar 01, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  (Review from the author)
Shelves: lgbtq
This is a coming-out story, a story where a lot of the focus is on sexuality and identity. But it’s probably the only one of that category I’ll ever write. I have written and will continue writing characters who happen to BE queer (along with straight ones), where the story’s focus is on other things, but it’s true that a focus on LGBTQ issues feels like “not my story to tell.”

Some have told me so. Usually straight liberal friends concerned about “getting it wrong”—never my actual LGBTQ beta-rea
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Anniek
Jun 29, 2019 rated it it was ok
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Kyle
Jun 13, 2019 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: netgalley, lgbtqia
*Updated 7/6/19*

Actual rating: 2.5 (rounded down)

Huge thanks to NetGalley, Central Avenue Publishing, and the authoress for providing me with this eARC in an exchange for an honest review.

A few things: I find it hard to believe any of these characters were in their mid-to-late twenties. Sinter and Andy spoke like teenagers, and the dialogue (which is predominantly text messages between them) felt very much YA (LOTS of emoji smiley faces!!!!). Most of all— and this is sounding redundant of me lat
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Cas
*NOT SPOILER FREE*

This book put me in a coma, and I don’t mean in the “oh my god this book was SO GOOD that I’m dying” kind of way. I mean in the “my blood pressure skyrocketed to Saturn while I was reading it and when I finished this book I was in such a state of anger that I temporarily became the Hulk” kind of coma. I mean it like, if I could sigh any harder, I’m legitimately afraid I would black out from oxygen deprivation.

Here’s a little secret and trick of the trade when it comes to frolic
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Roberta Blablanski
Simply amazing.

When I first heard about this story over a year ago, I fell over myself with excitement. I am a huge fan of the 80s, especially the music, and the major draw to All the Better Part of Me for me was the New Wave influences. Each chapter title is a song title from the 80s, and the songs fit perfectly with the narrative.

So I went into reading All the Better Part of Me with extremely high expectations. I wasn’t disappointed in the least.

Have you ever read a book that made you feel g
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kelly ♥
Thanks to Netgalley and the publisher for sending me a copy of this for an honest review! Some spoilers below so read with caution. Review also posted on my blog.

All The Better Part of Me follows Sinter Blackwell, a 25 year old aspiring actor temporarily living in London who, at the start of the book, is beginning to question his sexuality and his feelings for his childhood best friend, Andy. The book follows Sinter as he struggles to define his identity, both to himself and those around him, al
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Tim
Jul 14, 2019 rated it it was amazing
*I was provided a copy of this novel from Net Galley in exchange for an honest review*

This book - my God... I've haven't fallen so quickly in love with characters in such a long time- but I did with this book. Sinter Blackwell (what a marvelous name) is an actor currently residing in London who finds himself cast in a BBC film by a complete stroke of luck. While working on the film he becomes infatuated with the female director of the film. There’s only one problem: he’s realizing he may be bise
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A Robin Reads
Thanks to Netgalley for letting me read and review this ARC

You know a book is good when a green car is called Celery and you're chuckling whilst reading and tearing up while you never do that with books.

I loved this book! The writing was really good, the characters were thought out well, the inner struggle of the maincharacter was relatable and the struggle between him and his friend as well. I loved the dynamic between Sinter and Andy. I also liked the way that Sinter had a problematic relation
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Barb ~rede-2-read~
I liked this story but it didn’t live up to my expectations to love it. The blurb and the letter written by the publisher excited me and I couldn’t wait to start. But when I did, I quickly realized this wasn’t as appealing as I’d hoped. I hate to admit this but I read a few chapters and stopped for a few days and then went back and read a chapter and stopped. Somewhere around the time Sinter came back to the US, I decided to DNF. And then I pushed a little farther and Sinter’s BFF, Andy, snagged ...more
Alexis  (TheSlothReader)
I think this book very much could have been written with more nuance if it were written by a queer author (which I do not believe the author is). The fact that Andy and Sinter's main relationship issue is that Sinter does not feel comfortable coming out, the handling of a trans character, the way that Sinter's homophobic parents feel very "How not to behave" instead of feeling like real characters. There are things as a queer person that I could find fault with if I though too hard.

However, I ab
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Rachel Verna
There's a playlist for this book made up of 80s songs in the acknowledgements/chapter titles, and as we all love the 80s I made that playlist on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3ex...

Proper Review: https://rachelvsweirdness.blogspot.co...
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Michaela Aisling
Jun 22, 2019 rated it liked it
Shelves: lgbtqia
3.5, maybe? Gimme those half ratings, goodreads!!

I received an e-book copy of this book from Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.

This was a tough book to rate, because I really enjoyed certain aspects of it, but other aspects I thought fell a little flat, or just didn't quite do it for me? It wasn't a bad book, definitely not, and I'd probably edge it more towards a 3.5 if that were a possibility as there were some really endearing parts, but there were still a lot of aspects that didn't
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Keelin Rita
Oct 01, 2019 rated it really liked it
Shelves: queer, netgalley
3.5 - 4 stars

I have a lot of thoughts and feelings about this book. It was both weird, run of the mill writing and storytelling, then very charming and real and emotional. I am, confused. There was some characterizations that I found bizarre especially for Fiona. For an adult woman, she says and does some things that seem far younger and immature. In a way that made me think those things were written like that just to further or create plot. On the other hand, Andy and Sebastian were such wonder
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Marcie
Dec 27, 2019 rated it it was amazing
I mean...I don’t read romances. Totally not my thing. But I’d heard this was from a bisexual man’s viewpoint, and that caught my interest. And it ended up that I couldn’t put it down. A purely pleasurable read about intriguing, genuine characters. I’d recommend it, and not only because of its soundtracks (OMG! Love it!) or that Ms Ringle uses “frisson” a few chapters in. Love less commonly used words. Love this book more though.
Harri
Sep 03, 2019 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: netgalley, queer, 5-star, 2019
Ok so first things first, I love the cover. Because it's the bi flag, and that just makes me so happy.

I was super excited to read this. A book about a bisexual that actually uses the word bisexual?! So many books/movies/shows imply bisexuality but refuse to label the character, or imply bisexuality and then outright deny it. And when bisexuality is explicitly written about, it's usually about women. Both in fiction and in real life, bi men are underrepresented and ignored, or assumed 'actually g
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Andi
Aug 17, 2019 rated it really liked it
(4.5 Stars) Sinter and Andy💕 Such a delight to read...and omg bi pride all over this cover. Check out my video review —> https://youtu.be/N5l7FwPhfEQ ...more
Jamie Deacon
Apr 16, 2019 rated it it was amazing
I could spend pages gushing over how much I loved this book! I have a massive soft spot for friends-to-lovers romances, and All the Better Part of Me ranks among my favourites. Essentially, this is a story about coming out, growing up, and finding the courage to stand up for the things you want in life. It has all the evocative writing and authenticity I so admire in Molly Ringle’s work, not to mention bucket loads of warmth and just the right amount of humour.

Why did I fall so hard for this nov
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Brandee (un)Conventional Bookworms
All the Better Part of Me was a rather heartwarming read. Witnessing Sinter figure out his sexuality and deal with the repercussions was compelling even if I did get frustrated with him at times. He was, in all honesty, doing the best he could given the "tools" he had.

Highlights:

*Characters
Sinter immediately captivated me. His love of 80's music, Shakespeare, and emo-style of dressing felt familiar and comfortable. And his career as an actor made his flair for the dramatic realistic. I a
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Sónia
Sep 11, 2019 rated it liked it
Shelves: 3stars
I received this book from the publisher through Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.

I was really excited to read this one after I received it, but I was a bit disappointed by the end of it.

I wasn’t the greatest fan of the writing style - first person past tense is not my favourite - which was a bummer. When I read first person, I prefer if it’s in present tense instead.

I thought Sinter and Andy’s friendship was super cute and, although I felt that they could have taken it a bit slower, I
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Gabby (GabsAboutBooks)
Aug 07, 2019 rated it it was amazing
I absolutely loved this book. It’s definitely a 4.5-5/5 stars. This is a romantic contemporary novel following Sinter who comes out as bisexual and has a relationship with his best friend Andy. I adored the writing style. It flowed very well and the pacing was perfect. It’s written in first person present day but we get flashbacks of Sinter’s life in high school with Andy and with his parents. There is mix media which is fantastic. You get to see emails between Sinter and his parents and text me ...more
Siobhan
Apr 23, 2019 rated it really liked it
All the Better Part of Me is a novel about an actor whose life changes dramatically when he realises he's bisexual. Sinter Blackwell is an American working in London, just cast in a TV movie set in the 80s which suits his love of new wave music and goth style well. His parents don't approve of his career, he finds himself flirting with his director Fiona, and his feelings for his gay best friend Andy might not be quite what he thought them to be. When he moves back to Seattle to see if there's a ...more
Rosie
Oct 03, 2019 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I really enjoyed this book. The author was able to take what has become a cliche plot point and give it new life!
The characters are fun and believable. The struggle of coming out to conservative parents, in more ways than one, was well developed.
Excellent book that I would happily recommend.
Morgan
Aug 26, 2019 rated it liked it
**ARC provided by Netgalley and publisher in exchange for review**

As a reader, sometimes we dive into a book with high expectations formed from a pretty cover and excellent blurb. Occasionally, our expectations are met and exceeded. Typically though, we build up the anticipation and possibilities of the story too high for the author to ever meet so the book falls flat and we’re left feeling bereft. Unfortunately, that’s what happened to me with All The Better Part Of Me.

I dug into this novel wi
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Tomas
Jul 07, 2019 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: netgalley
*This review contains major spoilers of the book, so be aware of that when reading this review*
I received an eARC of this book through Netgalley, in exchange for my honest review.
No better way to put it then from the words of the author herself, “What a clusterfuck.” – Chapter 33
The story is set around 2 best friends since high school, now adults in their mid-20s, Sinter ( Leading Character) and Andy, which chronicles them both coming out to each other at 2 separate times. Andy being the 1st wh
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Kelly
Aug 01, 2019 rated it really liked it
This was such a charming story! I loved reading about Sinter and his journey from bi-curious to bisexual and proud. I loved his relationship with Andy and the organic way it unfolded. When Sinter's parents were unsupportive and belligerent, I really felt for both men.

This book was very well written. There were a lot of things that happened that could have come off as cliches or unimaginative, but the author pulled it all off really well. I felt for the characters and the things going on in their
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Ana Rocha
Jun 18, 2019 rated it liked it
Shelves: romance, netgalley, cute
You know those periods in life when you just want to read something simple and drama free? That’s the state of mind I was in when I picked this up; and that’s the biggest reason why I liked it (although there was a lot of unnecessary cliché drama in the end).

“All the Better Part of Me” doesn’t have a very original plot. It’s the same storyline that has been done thousands of times: the main character finally realises that he’s in love with his best friend; of course there are a few twists here a
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Darlene Foster
Jun 05, 2019 rated it it was amazing
The diversity of this author never ceases to amaze me. In this, another well-written story, we get to know Sinter Blackwell, a product of the eighties New Wave scene. A struggling actor, estranged from his parents, living far away from his best friend, misunderstood and unsure of his sexuality, he is as confused as many twenty-somethings are, then and now. When a life-changing event happens, Sinter’s world is turned upside down and he has to make some serious decisions. Can he handle what has be ...more
Nola Superba
Sinter: "I had been seeking exactly this: exploration and discovery". 

And that's what I wanted to read about: Sinter's exploration of his own sexuality and not about Fiona. She and her drama weren't essential to a story about a bi-curios guy.
I enjoyed reading the text exchanges between Sinter and his best friend, I liked too the "arrangement" they found, because even though it wasn't a very wise decision it was similar to what happens in real life.
"One day an online article sent a nasty shock t
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