BOOK REVIEW
TAKE TIME FOR YOU
By – TINA H. BOOGREN
The author of the book, “Take Time For You,” Tina H. Boogren, strongly believes that the key to thriving for humans- rests in self-care that is based on consistency, as a ritual and part of an individual's routine. Tina describes self-care in the words of Psychologist Catherine P Cook-Cottone (2015) as the “daily process of being aware of and attending to one’s basic psychological and emotional needs including the shaping of one’s daily routine, relationships, and environment.” The approach and perspective of the author in this book revolves around the essence of being able to help ourselves before being capable of helping others, Tina describes this with the example of an airplane’s number one emergency safety guideline of “secure your oxygen mask before assisting others.”
Likewise, the author strongly focuses on the approach of guiding people to put themselves first, to cater to their needs, and to reach the full potential of their responsibilities that require them to perform without reaching points of burnout and inefficacy.
Tina H. Boogren, PhD, is a former classroom teacher, teacher mentor, English department chair, instructional coach, professional developer, athletic coach, and building-level leader. Tina has worked with a lot of teachers in her successful career, and despite facing a combination of good and bad teachers, Tina takes it as a responsibility to honor the amazing teachers she has worked with, as the harsh and unacknowledged perspective people have for this selfless occupation wants her to bring light to the hard work and dedication behind the realistic picture of this job. The amount of stress it can create for educators and the endless shifts they are weighed down by barely give them time to consider themselves. The author wants to focus on the importance of making accountable strategies that will allow the promotion and growth of the overall health and well-being of these educators, to be able to create better results for gratitude, respect, and the quality of generations raised and taught by these educators.
The book emerges from the point of view, that “the key to thriving as both a human being and educator- rests in self-care.” The author writes intending to help “create rituals, routines, procedures, habits, and mind shifts.” From simple examples, such as pausing to take a few deep breaths throughout the day or just having a cup of coffee in the quiet by yourself, it wants to promote the perspective and acceptance of engaging in consistent self-care habits without feeling guilty.
The book truly works for everyone and anyone, even though we widely understand it is written with all educators in mind, these include teachers, caregivers, parents, etc.
The main intentional approach is to reward the educators with guidance to serve their basic needs as described by psychologist Abraham Maslow. The book serves the reader as both a guide and an anchor.
The author writes in a relaxed semi-formal tone, addressing the respectful committee of educators in mind but also keeps the tone and mood of the book very practical and approachable for the readers to understand better and focus on the content of the book. The author writes with a flow of clarity and a deep understanding of the theory on which the book is based on the humanistic approach derived by psychologist Abraham H. Maslow’s (1943) hierarchy of needs and how this framework applies to humanity as a whole. The book follows a systematic pattern based on the theory, alongside additional guidance and help on implementing categorized strategies and being able to inculcate them in our daily lives.
The author does not drag the contents of the book into endless pages but limits the chapters and pages to the required quality guidance the reader needs to be able to grow and practically keep implementation on the positive side with consistency and habitual discipline.
The book, personally allowed me to dedicate and journal with more accountability and confidence as the statements and examples that supported the suggested strategies were very practical and implementable. The theories and facts behind each level suggest and communicate all needs from the basic to the transcendence are all required feelings of affirmation each individual needs to be able to perform with their level of potential confidence. After reading the book, I have made a point to check myself with the affirmations questions to be able to easily reframe situations to be able to regulate my emotions and energy. From my personal experience, I have related that taking some time out for myself makes all the difference in my wavelength of energy and mood throughout the day with my kids. The more I am rested and self-cared, the more productive I feel that day. I have more patience and love for my children, and I am capable of handling them with more empathy, love, and tolerance.
The book achieved the author's goals to the fullest as it outlines the guidelines in a standard and well-researched manner that is easy to implement and the format of analyzing the regulating creates a sense of gratification and progress for each individual to witness and observe towards the end of the book. It also brings light to the hard work and mental energy required by professionals in this field and the importance of being systematic and prioritizing, which go hand in hand with their success.
I would recommend this book to as many people as I can, as I strongly believe to be able to achieve our potential in our lives, it becomes very important for us to address self-care with consistency and motivation. This book allows practices of self-regulation and self-care that make the community stronger and more devoted by channeling their motivation and focus with more clarity.