A day of school cancelled due to fog and freezing and what do I do? Start on my Bradley training... Snow Days sure aren't were they were 9 years ago...
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Well, let's see... how to rate/review this thing... As a method, the philosophy makes sense, the advice it has for assisting fathers is good, helpful, and there are tons of great little tidbits throughout, though mostly for the mother: nutrition, exercises, things to expect, hints as ways to lay, pains to prepare for, and stories of the "way things used to be" as reasoning for "the way things should be."
But as a read... Good God... A real slog. I will say that i read nearly every page out of the first 230, but skimmed the last 100 as they were mostly personal anecdotes, repetitive sections, and necessary material for a doctor's book that continual points back to research and studies. Overall, despite the sound philosophy and helpful advice -- and I know it's not literature, but a doctor's instructional book -- I feel like he/they could have got just as much information across while at the same time knocking off 100 pages. There is so much repetition: how many chapters can he keep coming back to Kegel's? How many digressions are needed to describe his personal "moment of genius" as he watched animals as a child on the farm? How many whole paragraphs are needed to remind the father that "you were there to start this whole business; now you need to be there to finish it" and "this is a joyous occasion! Be happy and cherish the late-night runs for ice cream or fruit, the muscle pains, the bed-time exercises, and beautiful changes you two are experiencing." Ok. I get it, Doc. I'm here, I'm assisting, I'm not stupid. But then again, maybe not everyone in the world is as lucky as Kristie to have such an adoring, helpful, assisting, loving, caring, participating (should I go on?) husband.
If anything it was worth it to read this just to get the laugh-out-loud moment once a page when you get to that sentence that gets all obscene and blunt: "The vaginal mucus discharge that you may find on a bathroom towel or pair of underwear in the morning is perfectly normal. Cherish this beautiful, expected, and normal sign of the life growing inside your wife!" What do you think, guys? Make you excited to jump on the baby train? I'm just glad I finished it before my 2-3 snow days come this week. Now on to the Bradley classes when we get to hear this all over again, but with the added bonus of verbalizations and participation with activities!