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Match Made in Manhattan
After two intense, dead-end relationships, serial monogamist Alison finds herself confused, lonely, and drastically out of touch with the world of modern dating. Refusing to wallow, she signs up for a popular dating app and resolves to remain open-minded and optimistic as she explores the New York City singles' scene. With the click of a button, her adventures begin: On one date, she's dumped before the first kiss; on another, she dons full HAZMAT gear; she meets a tattooed folk singer turned investment banker, an undercover agent who tracks illegal exotic animals, and dozens of other colorful, captivating personalities.
Giving them each her signature "pants speech"—her pants aren't coming off unless she has a real connection with someone—she desperately wants to push past the awkward small-talk phase to find true love, but finding "the one" is starting to feel impossible. That is, until she meets Luke, who is sophisticated, funny, and not to mention, hot. Alison finds herself falling for Luke harder than any guy she's dated and finally letting her walls down, but will he stick around or move on to his next match?
Match Made in Manhattan is a fast-paced, contemporary story about the struggles of dating in the digital age. Replete with online profiles, witty dialogue, and a super-supportive group of female friends, this all-too-real and relatable debut novel will have readers laughing, crying, and rooting for Alison all the way to the end.
Giving them each her signature "pants speech"—her pants aren't coming off unless she has a real connection with someone—she desperately wants to push past the awkward small-talk phase to find true love, but finding "the one" is starting to feel impossible. That is, until she meets Luke, who is sophisticated, funny, and not to mention, hot. Alison finds herself falling for Luke harder than any guy she's dated and finally letting her walls down, but will he stick around or move on to his next match?
Match Made in Manhattan is a fast-paced, contemporary story about the struggles of dating in the digital age. Replete with online profiles, witty dialogue, and a super-supportive group of female friends, this all-too-real and relatable debut novel will have readers laughing, crying, and rooting for Alison all the way to the end.
312 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 2018
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About the author
Amanda Stauffer
1 book38 followersAmanda Stauffer is a graduate of Yale and Columbia Universities who works as an architectural conservator, restoring historic landmarks across the country. When she grew frustrated with New York City’s dating scene, Amanda headed to match.com. Her experiences provided her with a lifetime of warm and fuzzy memories, a few friends, and an abundance of material for a book or a career in comedy.
Amanda is a fan of Italian neorealist cinema, mojitos, and—well, you can just read her protagonist’s Match profile on page 20 of this book, because Alison lifted heavily from Amanda’s own profile. An erstwhile expat who has lived in Bangalore, Sicily, and Paris, Amanda currently lives in Manhattan, where she is busy writing her second book.
Amanda is a fan of Italian neorealist cinema, mojitos, and—well, you can just read her protagonist’s Match profile on page 20 of this book, because Alison lifted heavily from Amanda’s own profile. An erstwhile expat who has lived in Bangalore, Sicily, and Paris, Amanda currently lives in Manhattan, where she is busy writing her second book.
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January 15, 2018
Alison has just broken up with her boyfriend. After two years of dating, he was unable to fully commit to her. Having been away from the dating scene, and with six months free on Match.com, she decides to re-enter New York City’s single scene.
While Alison seeks to improve her social life, her professional life starts to decay. Her job as an architectural conservator is put at risk when she starts to clash with her boss. She blows off steam by actively embracing online dating. Through Allison’s email exchanges we get an authentic look at the highs and lows of online correspondence. An example is Allison’s strict adherence to a “Pants On Policy” for her suitors. Through her experiences, Allison matures and starts to realize what really makes her happy.
As a baby boomer, I missed out on text messaging and dating apps. This was a fun read and helped me better relate to the current crop of millennials looking for love. This is Amanda Stauffer’s debut novel.
While Alison seeks to improve her social life, her professional life starts to decay. Her job as an architectural conservator is put at risk when she starts to clash with her boss. She blows off steam by actively embracing online dating. Through Allison’s email exchanges we get an authentic look at the highs and lows of online correspondence. An example is Allison’s strict adherence to a “Pants On Policy” for her suitors. Through her experiences, Allison matures and starts to realize what really makes her happy.
As a baby boomer, I missed out on text messaging and dating apps. This was a fun read and helped me better relate to the current crop of millennials looking for love. This is Amanda Stauffer’s debut novel.
November 6, 2017
I was sent an advanced copy of this book by the author in exchange for an honest review. Thanks to Amanda Stauffer!
Note: The quotes in this review are from an advance reader’s copy and subject to change.
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Sometimes, it’s really fun to write negative reviews. Like when a book is totally offensive and you’re a Goodreads Superhero and you write a one-star rant thing and everyone’s like You queen! Thank you for your service! I will stay away from this book forever and it’s all thanks to your holy blessed work!
Sometimes a book is just really dumb, and that’s ALSO a blast and a half because who doesn’t love pointing out fallacies? When a book makes you angry or offended or annoyed, writing a negative review is the BEST THING IN THE WORLD. (Excluding a good chocolate chip cookie, which will forever hold the record of best thing in the world.)
But sometimes writing non-positive reviews is not fun, and this is definitively one of those times.
Boo!
I am going to have a very bad time, but this will still be fun for you, probably, if you ever find me fun. Really, I give and I give. I’m generous. It’s what I do.
This book didn’t make me angry or offended or annoyed. I actually really wanted to love it. There are parts of it I did appreciate. And I think the author will write super great and fun stuff in the future. Stauffer just hasn’t hit her stride yet.
To summarize this book: Our protagonist, Alison, has a breakup and launches into the world of online dating in New York. We follow her through what feels like one million dates with one million men and it is straight up IMPOSSIBLE to keep them all straight. (Hehe. “All straight.” Because every character in this book is.) That’s pretty much it.
So we did that. Now I’m going to get the bad stuff out of the way. Frowny face.
One, this contains the not like other girls trope in a really outright and confusing way. And you guys know I literally HATE the not like other girls trope. But I’ve never read it like...this before? Example: one very unmemorable dude’s response to Alison asking what made him go out with her:
“But also, you’re not like the girls I usually date.”
“What does that mean?”
“I don’t know. You’re just not.” He shrugs.
“Well, you must have meant something by it.”
“I don’t know. You’re...different. Maybe classier?”
“Are you about to make fun of my dress from Friday night again?”
He laughs, “No. I’m serious. You just...you’re different. It’s a good thing.”
“So I take it you haven’t dated many architectural conservators before.”
“Fine, fine. Make a joke about it. I was trying to be nice.”
“You didn’t say anything!”
DO YOU SEE WHAT I MEAN. It’s like…almost a rejection of it as a compliment, but then, like, still a compliment. And not a rejection at all. And still a nice thing. And the conversation just moves on.
ALSO. Another example. Which is a worse one. When Alison is making the incredibly bold move of actually eating a meal on a dinner date (while wearing, gasp, a cowl neck shirt!!):
“It’s not a critique. I’m actually really impressed. You’re not like most girls.”
We all must take a moment of silence for Alison’s bravery. While you’re all doing that, I’m going to go take a shower and try to scrub the trope away.
My other complaints are just more...eh ones. It can drag a little. It’s hard to distinguish between the countless men. The plot gets repetitive. Alison can be soooOOOOoooOOOO unlikable. She is so hard to impress! She is so unfair to her parade of online-dating dudes! She is so judgmental!
The dialogue, which you can maybe tell, is very…italicized and ellipsis...filled and a little - choppy.
But I feel bad. Because it’s not a bad book. It’s just a debut novel.
And also there is good stuff! This has an ending that is very different from a lot of chick lit. There are really great female friendships in it. Alison is a woman who prioritizes her career, which you don’t see a lot AND WHICH I WANT TO SEE ALL THE TIME. And the plot isn’t as repetitive as it could be. (Even though this means dudes taking Alison on amazing dates and then her being really not nice to them.)
Overall, there are aspects of it that are really refreshing and great and unique, and aspects that are the opposite. Y’know??? Life is hard. Reviewing is hard. Books are hard.
Bottom line: This was kind of an eh read for me, but I still recommend other people give it a try. Especially because I see a lot of promise in Amanda Stauffer and I will tooooootally be picking up her next one, my guy.
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I received an ARC of this book from the author in exchange for an honest review.
A fast/fun read, but I had some significant prooooooblems with it. Frowny-face, boo, etc.
Review to come
Note: The quotes in this review are from an advance reader’s copy and subject to change.
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Sometimes, it’s really fun to write negative reviews. Like when a book is totally offensive and you’re a Goodreads Superhero and you write a one-star rant thing and everyone’s like You queen! Thank you for your service! I will stay away from this book forever and it’s all thanks to your holy blessed work!
Sometimes a book is just really dumb, and that’s ALSO a blast and a half because who doesn’t love pointing out fallacies? When a book makes you angry or offended or annoyed, writing a negative review is the BEST THING IN THE WORLD. (Excluding a good chocolate chip cookie, which will forever hold the record of best thing in the world.)
But sometimes writing non-positive reviews is not fun, and this is definitively one of those times.
Boo!
I am going to have a very bad time, but this will still be fun for you, probably, if you ever find me fun. Really, I give and I give. I’m generous. It’s what I do.
This book didn’t make me angry or offended or annoyed. I actually really wanted to love it. There are parts of it I did appreciate. And I think the author will write super great and fun stuff in the future. Stauffer just hasn’t hit her stride yet.
To summarize this book: Our protagonist, Alison, has a breakup and launches into the world of online dating in New York. We follow her through what feels like one million dates with one million men and it is straight up IMPOSSIBLE to keep them all straight. (Hehe. “All straight.” Because every character in this book is.) That’s pretty much it.
So we did that. Now I’m going to get the bad stuff out of the way. Frowny face.
One, this contains the not like other girls trope in a really outright and confusing way. And you guys know I literally HATE the not like other girls trope. But I’ve never read it like...this before? Example: one very unmemorable dude’s response to Alison asking what made him go out with her:
“But also, you’re not like the girls I usually date.”
“What does that mean?”
“I don’t know. You’re just not.” He shrugs.
“Well, you must have meant something by it.”
“I don’t know. You’re...different. Maybe classier?”
“Are you about to make fun of my dress from Friday night again?”
He laughs, “No. I’m serious. You just...you’re different. It’s a good thing.”
“So I take it you haven’t dated many architectural conservators before.”
“Fine, fine. Make a joke about it. I was trying to be nice.”
“You didn’t say anything!”
DO YOU SEE WHAT I MEAN. It’s like…almost a rejection of it as a compliment, but then, like, still a compliment. And not a rejection at all. And still a nice thing. And the conversation just moves on.
ALSO. Another example. Which is a worse one. When Alison is making the incredibly bold move of actually eating a meal on a dinner date (while wearing, gasp, a cowl neck shirt!!):
“It’s not a critique. I’m actually really impressed. You’re not like most girls.”
We all must take a moment of silence for Alison’s bravery. While you’re all doing that, I’m going to go take a shower and try to scrub the trope away.
My other complaints are just more...eh ones. It can drag a little. It’s hard to distinguish between the countless men. The plot gets repetitive. Alison can be soooOOOOoooOOOO unlikable. She is so hard to impress! She is so unfair to her parade of online-dating dudes! She is so judgmental!
The dialogue, which you can maybe tell, is very…italicized and ellipsis...filled and a little - choppy.
But I feel bad. Because it’s not a bad book. It’s just a debut novel.
And also there is good stuff! This has an ending that is very different from a lot of chick lit. There are really great female friendships in it. Alison is a woman who prioritizes her career, which you don’t see a lot AND WHICH I WANT TO SEE ALL THE TIME. And the plot isn’t as repetitive as it could be. (Even though this means dudes taking Alison on amazing dates and then her being really not nice to them.)
Overall, there are aspects of it that are really refreshing and great and unique, and aspects that are the opposite. Y’know??? Life is hard. Reviewing is hard. Books are hard.
Bottom line: This was kind of an eh read for me, but I still recommend other people give it a try. Especially because I see a lot of promise in Amanda Stauffer and I will tooooootally be picking up her next one, my guy.
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I received an ARC of this book from the author in exchange for an honest review.
A fast/fun read, but I had some significant prooooooblems with it. Frowny-face, boo, etc.
Review to come
December 6, 2017
This book is fantastic. It has humor, heart and characters that you will certainly remember! There is sheer and utter genius in this book and anyone reading it will be rooting for love from start to finish. A great read for gal pals to read together or for those wanting to have a book at book club that will certainly spark great conversations. A must read!
August 23, 2017
** Review is from Advanced Reader Copy**
I thoroughly enjoyed Amanda Stauffer's debut novel. A book about a young woman, newly-single, looking for love (or at least some interesting new experiences), the story may start with a fairly common premise, but rapidly becomes specific, fascinating, hilarious, and heart-tugging. Alison is no average ingenue. Happy in previous relationships with the casual comfort of trotting over to a boyfriend's apartment in paint-splattered jeans and corporate polos, she is suddenly confronted with the necessity of dating strangers. Precisely observed, the novel had me flashing back to awkward first dates in my past, though the specifics of her dates are inimitable- some cringeworthy and some AMAZING (these are almost never just dinner or coffee dates and the men are as unique in their charms and neuroses as are the actual men of Manhattan). I laughed out loud enough times the first read that my husband banished me to the kitchen to finish so he could sleep and I have already re-read my copy to savor some of the details (things like how she and her friends cope with their own heartbreak which are again unique and specific, but also so recognizable).
There was a lot to admire in this book, from the descriptions of low-on-the-totem-pole corporate life to the obvious love the character (and seemingly the author) have for New York in all its incarnations, but I think I most loved the ending. Read enough women's fiction and it sometimes feels like you should be able to write it yourself (and then the character has to.... and then she will... and then...). But aside from the obvious skill Stauffer has in creating images and evoking specific moments, she also has the integrity NOT to follow the traditional arc of these types of novels. I don't want to spoil any part of this book for lucky future readers, but suffice to say I was pleased by the way the book manages to induce laughter, rage, and pangs of empathy without relying on tired shorthand for what makes a good date, a good friend, a good life, and a storybook ending.
I thoroughly enjoyed Amanda Stauffer's debut novel. A book about a young woman, newly-single, looking for love (or at least some interesting new experiences), the story may start with a fairly common premise, but rapidly becomes specific, fascinating, hilarious, and heart-tugging. Alison is no average ingenue. Happy in previous relationships with the casual comfort of trotting over to a boyfriend's apartment in paint-splattered jeans and corporate polos, she is suddenly confronted with the necessity of dating strangers. Precisely observed, the novel had me flashing back to awkward first dates in my past, though the specifics of her dates are inimitable- some cringeworthy and some AMAZING (these are almost never just dinner or coffee dates and the men are as unique in their charms and neuroses as are the actual men of Manhattan). I laughed out loud enough times the first read that my husband banished me to the kitchen to finish so he could sleep and I have already re-read my copy to savor some of the details (things like how she and her friends cope with their own heartbreak which are again unique and specific, but also so recognizable).
There was a lot to admire in this book, from the descriptions of low-on-the-totem-pole corporate life to the obvious love the character (and seemingly the author) have for New York in all its incarnations, but I think I most loved the ending. Read enough women's fiction and it sometimes feels like you should be able to write it yourself (and then the character has to.... and then she will... and then...). But aside from the obvious skill Stauffer has in creating images and evoking specific moments, she also has the integrity NOT to follow the traditional arc of these types of novels. I don't want to spoil any part of this book for lucky future readers, but suffice to say I was pleased by the way the book manages to induce laughter, rage, and pangs of empathy without relying on tired shorthand for what makes a good date, a good friend, a good life, and a storybook ending.
July 25, 2018
Match Made in Manhattan (MMM from now on) took me on a journey down "Memory Lane" and back into my own past.
I kicked off my dating years back in the '80s, when there were no cell phones (horrors!) and people were pretty much out of control when it came to sex, drinking (drive-in liquor stores!) and drugs.
The story Stauffer tells in her book couldn't hardly be more different than what I experienced. Even so, there are definite parallels between dating in the 80s and dating in 2015 (or so), and I think that is where the magic in this book lies--the commonalities of the dating scene that bridge age or era. I swear, I dated the older brothers (or uncles) of some of Allison's duds....
Anyhow, here's the story: Allison--our protag-- isn't out for a good time and NSA sex; she is looking for a mate. But although she has a "The Pants Stay On" approach to dating, Allison doesn't come off as a prude or judgmental, instead she is mature, focused, and decisive about what she wants in a guy. I mean she is VERY mature and focused and I found her approach to dating fascinating to read about as it is so utterly different than my own.
Interspersed between her various dates are interesting details about her job, which is certainly a conversation starter: she is an architectural conservator. Her job (well, her boss) and the attendant stresses are a big part of the story, and the reader gets more than just a series of amusing dating vignettes--they get a thoughtfully crafted tale of her life and who she is.
I think the comps on the book blurb may do this book a disservice. I've never seen the reality TV show The Bachelor so I can't say whether that is accurate, but I have read TBJ Diaries and I would say MMM is a more serious "slice of life" with humorous moments and incidents. Unlike Bridget Jones, Allison is not a drinking, smoking, weight-obsessed woman consumed with finding a man and I respect the way she conducts her friendships, career, and relationships.
While she maintains her standards throughout the book I did enjoy her changing attitude and approach to dating and her dates as the bloom slowly comes off the rose (don't want to spoil the ending, which is not what I expected...)
NYC is one of my favorite cities and Stauffer works the City into the story almost like another character. At times the role NYC played made me think of another story about single women and their different approaches to men/life/love/careers in NYC. (Go ahead, guess!)
I found myself turning pages late into the night, eagerly reading about each date and wondering where it would go. Rooting for some of the guys, shaking my head in disbelief at others (my favorite out of all the dates was Brandon. What the hell was THAT all about?!)
Anyhow, I hugely enjoyed my journey into Allison's life, which made me think back on things in my own life I haven't thought about for years.
A fun page-turner and great debut.
I kicked off my dating years back in the '80s, when there were no cell phones (horrors!) and people were pretty much out of control when it came to sex, drinking (drive-in liquor stores!) and drugs.
The story Stauffer tells in her book couldn't hardly be more different than what I experienced. Even so, there are definite parallels between dating in the 80s and dating in 2015 (or so), and I think that is where the magic in this book lies--the commonalities of the dating scene that bridge age or era. I swear, I dated the older brothers (or uncles) of some of Allison's duds....
Anyhow, here's the story: Allison--our protag-- isn't out for a good time and NSA sex; she is looking for a mate. But although she has a "The Pants Stay On" approach to dating, Allison doesn't come off as a prude or judgmental, instead she is mature, focused, and decisive about what she wants in a guy. I mean she is VERY mature and focused and I found her approach to dating fascinating to read about as it is so utterly different than my own.
Interspersed between her various dates are interesting details about her job, which is certainly a conversation starter: she is an architectural conservator. Her job (well, her boss) and the attendant stresses are a big part of the story, and the reader gets more than just a series of amusing dating vignettes--they get a thoughtfully crafted tale of her life and who she is.
I think the comps on the book blurb may do this book a disservice. I've never seen the reality TV show The Bachelor so I can't say whether that is accurate, but I have read TBJ Diaries and I would say MMM is a more serious "slice of life" with humorous moments and incidents. Unlike Bridget Jones, Allison is not a drinking, smoking, weight-obsessed woman consumed with finding a man and I respect the way she conducts her friendships, career, and relationships.
While she maintains her standards throughout the book I did enjoy her changing attitude and approach to dating and her dates as the bloom slowly comes off the rose (don't want to spoil the ending, which is not what I expected...)
NYC is one of my favorite cities and Stauffer works the City into the story almost like another character. At times the role NYC played made me think of another story about single women and their different approaches to men/life/love/careers in NYC. (Go ahead, guess!)
I found myself turning pages late into the night, eagerly reading about each date and wondering where it would go. Rooting for some of the guys, shaking my head in disbelief at others (my favorite out of all the dates was Brandon. What the hell was THAT all about?!)
Anyhow, I hugely enjoyed my journey into Allison's life, which made me think back on things in my own life I haven't thought about for years.
A fun page-turner and great debut.
April 11, 2019
I'm not saying this is a bad book, just that I didn't particularly enjoy it. My God, there are so many characters that I pretty much just quit paying attention.
I also can't help but feeling like the author wasted my time. I get trying to be all philosophical and teaching a lesson of personal growth in the end but ugh it felt so forced.
Read it or don't but please, I don't want to think about this book anymore cause I feel like the longer I reflect on it the more I'll grow to dislike it.
I also can't help but feeling like the author wasted my time. I get trying to be all philosophical and teaching a lesson of personal growth in the end but ugh it felt so forced.
Read it or don't but please, I don't want to think about this book anymore cause I feel like the longer I reflect on it the more I'll grow to dislike it.
December 25, 2017
My Review of “Match Made in Manhattan” by Amanda Stauffer
Kudos to Amanda Stauffer , Author of “Match in Manhattan” for such an entertaining, witty and unique story. The blurb for the story states” The Awkward, Romantic, and Cringeworthy Struggles of Trying to Find The One in the Digital Dating Age.” The genre for this book is Fiction and Women’s Fiction. The story takes place in Manhattan.
What do you do when your boyfriend of several years is sort of hesitating, stalling, and indecisive of the next step in the relationship, of you moving in with him.? Your girlfriends are getting engaged, and in many cases you are the “Queen” of being the maid of honor. Well, our heroine Alison decides that it is time to move on in a new direction. Alison has had two long-term relationships and really is not sure what to expect in the dating scene. Alison luckily has the emotional support of her girlfriends, and her family, and signs up for “Match.com” an internet computer dating site.
The author describes her colorful cast of characters as complex, complicated and confused. The author uses a subtle sense of humor in her writing. I love the way Alison is close with her friends, and that her parents and brother have her back. This reminds me sort of “Sex in the City”, with mostly Alison coming to grips with “Match.com” In this book, the author provides chapters of the various men that Alison meets. Alison is a hardworking single girl, and has certain rules for dating. Throughout the different stories, the author gives a feel that we have a front row seat to Alison’s dating life.
Alison gets to meet a variety of men, with different personalities. Sometimes these meetings seem awkward, witty, challenging, and the exchanges through Match.com, texting and e-mail are intriguing. Often the outcomes are confusing. and the expectations are not what she expects. I do love the growth and perspective of life that Alison seems to have.
I enjoyed the author’s perspective of the new world of online dating. I would highly recommend this delightful and heartwarming story to readers of Women’s Fiction. I received An Advanced Reading Copy for my honest review.
Kudos to Amanda Stauffer , Author of “Match in Manhattan” for such an entertaining, witty and unique story. The blurb for the story states” The Awkward, Romantic, and Cringeworthy Struggles of Trying to Find The One in the Digital Dating Age.” The genre for this book is Fiction and Women’s Fiction. The story takes place in Manhattan.
What do you do when your boyfriend of several years is sort of hesitating, stalling, and indecisive of the next step in the relationship, of you moving in with him.? Your girlfriends are getting engaged, and in many cases you are the “Queen” of being the maid of honor. Well, our heroine Alison decides that it is time to move on in a new direction. Alison has had two long-term relationships and really is not sure what to expect in the dating scene. Alison luckily has the emotional support of her girlfriends, and her family, and signs up for “Match.com” an internet computer dating site.
The author describes her colorful cast of characters as complex, complicated and confused. The author uses a subtle sense of humor in her writing. I love the way Alison is close with her friends, and that her parents and brother have her back. This reminds me sort of “Sex in the City”, with mostly Alison coming to grips with “Match.com” In this book, the author provides chapters of the various men that Alison meets. Alison is a hardworking single girl, and has certain rules for dating. Throughout the different stories, the author gives a feel that we have a front row seat to Alison’s dating life.
Alison gets to meet a variety of men, with different personalities. Sometimes these meetings seem awkward, witty, challenging, and the exchanges through Match.com, texting and e-mail are intriguing. Often the outcomes are confusing. and the expectations are not what she expects. I do love the growth and perspective of life that Alison seems to have.
I enjoyed the author’s perspective of the new world of online dating. I would highly recommend this delightful and heartwarming story to readers of Women’s Fiction. I received An Advanced Reading Copy for my honest review.
September 15, 2017
Witty and insightful while hopeful and heartfelt, this book captures the twists and turns of dating in the digital age in the most exciting and chaotic city in the world. It approaches dating as an adventure full of lessons rather than a series of unconnected disappointments. Not only are the stories a testament to the opportunities and pitfalls that inundate Alison and her generation while trying to establish lasting connections, they are also a brief peek at all the city has to offer when approached with an open mind.
December 1, 2017
I received an arc of this book through netgalley in exchange for an honest review!
Oh my gosh this book is SO relatable and SO hilarious! I cannot begin to describe the tears streaming down my face at points because of the hilarity! Alison is a girl after my own heart when it comes to looking at the bright side of online dating.
I just love chick-lit that is based in New York. There is something about how the women are so independent and spunky that just hooks me right in. This book is definitely worth picking up!
Oh my gosh this book is SO relatable and SO hilarious! I cannot begin to describe the tears streaming down my face at points because of the hilarity! Alison is a girl after my own heart when it comes to looking at the bright side of online dating.
I just love chick-lit that is based in New York. There is something about how the women are so independent and spunky that just hooks me right in. This book is definitely worth picking up!
September 23, 2017
Reading this title made for a fun few evenings. I seriously looked forward to seeing what new 'match' Alison would date next. It also had me grateful to NOT be in the dating scene these days.
If you enjoy a good romantic comedy, this could be a great read for you as well. There is plenty of humor found in the pages. And, I love how Alison gives her dates "the pants speech" as in "my pants are not coming off tonight!" This is a refreshing change from many modern romances that are hyperfocused on sex.
It is also a great example of how there are many paths our life can take. And, that there is nothing wrong with having male friends!
Note ~ I did receive an advance reader copy via NetGalley. All opinions are my own
If you enjoy a good romantic comedy, this could be a great read for you as well. There is plenty of humor found in the pages. And, I love how Alison gives her dates "the pants speech" as in "my pants are not coming off tonight!" This is a refreshing change from many modern romances that are hyperfocused on sex.
It is also a great example of how there are many paths our life can take. And, that there is nothing wrong with having male friends!
Note ~ I did receive an advance reader copy via NetGalley. All opinions are my own
September 6, 2017
Reading this smart and sassy novel is like going out to coffee with your funniest single friend! Very few books actually make me laugh out loud, but the protagonist's voice is so realistic and the guys she meets are so uniquely hilarious that I found myself giggling as I followed along on Alison's crazy dates. And unlike many books in this genre, MMIM is optimistic and upbeat about the weird realities of online/app dating; it never descends into trite man-bashing, emotional melodrama, or unrealistic bodice-ripping. It totally rings true to the dating experiences of the millennial women I know. At the risk of sounding sentimental, rooting for Alison on her journey gave me hope for every single girl who's trying to stay true to herself as she looks for "the one."
January 24, 2018
Let me just cut to the chase with this one. This may not be for everyone because if you don't live in Manhattan and its very eclectic group of people and don't find online dating particularly fun (which I don't actually), you might not find this relatable.... but boy oh boy did I have FUN with this!
Yes, there are a TON of guys in this book. You can't keep track. Quite frankly, you don't want to. And I can empathize with Alison on so many levels. It's hard to give guys a proper chance when 1. you don't particularly want to judge a person based on their picture and their blurb on an online dating site and 2. you're just NOT ready for this type of "dating" and aren't giving it 100%. But... you give it a go because why not? Your friends have had success with online dating and finding someone "organically" just ain't cutting it anymore.
I've tried online dating once or twice and have NOT had good experiences. One guy looked absolutely NOTHING like his picture. NOTHING. And then proceeded to talk my ear off without giving me a chance to interject and then told me I didn't pass his "three question rule". Um, yeah, you bet your ass I asked about this rule. "If you spend at least two hours with someone and they haven't asked you at least three questions about yourself, then they're clearly not interested... but you were close! You asked two!" Cut to a month later with a text from said guy, "Um, so, where did we end up?".... "I didn't pass your three question rule."..."Oh, ok." DELETE. The other guy was polar opposite of what I had said I wanted in my profile (note to e-harmony, you SUCK). And the third and last... well he was actually quite normal - this time it was my fault. I simply was just NOT ready. Lessons learned. (Disclaimer - this happened YEARS ago and I probably will never try it again.)
So, yeah, I thoroughly enjoyed this book. There were some laugh out loud moments and some cringe worthy moments. Quite frankly, this is one of those where you're just going to have to find out for yourself if you like it or not. I could relate in so many ways. You may not. However, if you like reading about some amazingly horrible first dates... it's well worth it just for these incidents. ;)
Thanks a BILLION to the author for this copy to review!
Yes, there are a TON of guys in this book. You can't keep track. Quite frankly, you don't want to. And I can empathize with Alison on so many levels. It's hard to give guys a proper chance when 1. you don't particularly want to judge a person based on their picture and their blurb on an online dating site and 2. you're just NOT ready for this type of "dating" and aren't giving it 100%. But... you give it a go because why not? Your friends have had success with online dating and finding someone "organically" just ain't cutting it anymore.
I've tried online dating once or twice and have NOT had good experiences. One guy looked absolutely NOTHING like his picture. NOTHING. And then proceeded to talk my ear off without giving me a chance to interject and then told me I didn't pass his "three question rule". Um, yeah, you bet your ass I asked about this rule. "If you spend at least two hours with someone and they haven't asked you at least three questions about yourself, then they're clearly not interested... but you were close! You asked two!" Cut to a month later with a text from said guy, "Um, so, where did we end up?".... "I didn't pass your three question rule."..."Oh, ok." DELETE. The other guy was polar opposite of what I had said I wanted in my profile (note to e-harmony, you SUCK). And the third and last... well he was actually quite normal - this time it was my fault. I simply was just NOT ready. Lessons learned. (Disclaimer - this happened YEARS ago and I probably will never try it again.)
So, yeah, I thoroughly enjoyed this book. There were some laugh out loud moments and some cringe worthy moments. Quite frankly, this is one of those where you're just going to have to find out for yourself if you like it or not. I could relate in so many ways. You may not. However, if you like reading about some amazingly horrible first dates... it's well worth it just for these incidents. ;)
Thanks a BILLION to the author for this copy to review!
December 20, 2017
Match Made in Manhattan is a delightful, fast paced read. It is the story of Alison, a late 20’s New Yorker, looking for love. After two long term relationships Alison finds herself newly single and utterly unsure how to meet men outside of her college network. So, she signs up for Match.com and her adventures, and ours, begin. I say “ours” because the story is written in a way that makes us experience the difficulty in deciphering emails and texts from strangers, the first date jitters, the tendency to make quick decisions in the online dating world, right alongside Alison. This book is not a collection of stories of bad Match dates. Although some dates are deliciously cringeworthy and many of the stories and details are hilarious, the author, Amanda Stauffer, in her debut novel, has sympathy for all her characters, and she shows an appreciation for the many interesting men out there who are also looking for love. And a bonus- along the way we get to learn about the architecture of New York (the protagonist is an architectural conservator, so we get to climb right up on the scaffold of some of the most incredible landmarks in NYC with her), the interesting careers of her potential suitors, and great date spots in Manhattan.
As Alison goes out on dates with multiple men that she meets through Match we are there with her as she tries to puzzle out her reactions to them. Although she tries to be openminded and give each man a chance, she is self-aware enough to realize her own snap-judgment biases, occasionally berate herself, and question why she can’t make herself be interested in some of the nice, charming, intelligent men she meets. (A few of them, of course are jerks, but not the majority.) As time goes on (she is on Match for one year) she starts "to bore [her]self," repeating the same stories and being asked the same questions, but we are never bored. Stauffer cleverly weaves into the story subtle references to previous dates and men, that show how Alison's responses in later relationships are shaped by the experiences and interactions from those that came before. As for the dates, several of her “ matches” are dreamy and swoon-worthy and it is easy to fall for them ourselves as we root for Alison to find her match. As for how it plays out? I won’t give away the ending but it was an interesting surprise.
As Alison goes out on dates with multiple men that she meets through Match we are there with her as she tries to puzzle out her reactions to them. Although she tries to be openminded and give each man a chance, she is self-aware enough to realize her own snap-judgment biases, occasionally berate herself, and question why she can’t make herself be interested in some of the nice, charming, intelligent men she meets. (A few of them, of course are jerks, but not the majority.) As time goes on (she is on Match for one year) she starts "to bore [her]self," repeating the same stories and being asked the same questions, but we are never bored. Stauffer cleverly weaves into the story subtle references to previous dates and men, that show how Alison's responses in later relationships are shaped by the experiences and interactions from those that came before. As for the dates, several of her “ matches” are dreamy and swoon-worthy and it is easy to fall for them ourselves as we root for Alison to find her match. As for how it plays out? I won’t give away the ending but it was an interesting surprise.
December 19, 2017
Summary:
Leaving a several year relationship, serial monogamist Alison doesn’t know how to jump into the modern dating world. She knows she can’t keep dating people she’s known forever, as with her last relationship- Dave, friend-turned-lover. Biting the bullet, she starts her internet dating experience with Match.com. What follows is a year of first dates-turned-buds, undercover agents, folk-singer-turned-investment banker, and a nearly perfect psychiatrist with a huge….dog. Pithy conversations, the “pants speech” and hazmat suits…. who knew dating was so hard?
My thoughts:
I loved Alison, and I felt for her right away. In her relationships, there had always been a basic knowledge of one another and a closeness from the get-go. That’s what she wants, and she doesn’t want a physical relationship before having a real, committed emotional attachment. Understandable, but not really in line with most of the on-line daters. She meets some great guys….. but not a lot that seem right for her. On the plus side, she has made some great friends and had some great drinks. I adored the premise of this story and found it fast paced and often hilarious. I found myself rooting for certain guys ( I have to admit to an absolute love of Older Luke, dog and all). In the end I was saddened by the ending a bit, but I can’t see it going any other way. For me, this book had nearly everything. It was fun and funny, flirty and a bit adventurous, but also serious at times and always sweet. I was just a teeny bit disappointed by the ending. It is still a five star book for me.
On the adult content scale, I give it a four. There is some sexual content, though mild. Also language. Nothing major.
I was lucky enough to get an eARC of this book from Netgalley and Skyhorse Publishing in exchange for an honest review. My thanks!
Leaving a several year relationship, serial monogamist Alison doesn’t know how to jump into the modern dating world. She knows she can’t keep dating people she’s known forever, as with her last relationship- Dave, friend-turned-lover. Biting the bullet, she starts her internet dating experience with Match.com. What follows is a year of first dates-turned-buds, undercover agents, folk-singer-turned-investment banker, and a nearly perfect psychiatrist with a huge….dog. Pithy conversations, the “pants speech” and hazmat suits…. who knew dating was so hard?
My thoughts:
I loved Alison, and I felt for her right away. In her relationships, there had always been a basic knowledge of one another and a closeness from the get-go. That’s what she wants, and she doesn’t want a physical relationship before having a real, committed emotional attachment. Understandable, but not really in line with most of the on-line daters. She meets some great guys….. but not a lot that seem right for her. On the plus side, she has made some great friends and had some great drinks. I adored the premise of this story and found it fast paced and often hilarious. I found myself rooting for certain guys ( I have to admit to an absolute love of Older Luke, dog and all). In the end I was saddened by the ending a bit, but I can’t see it going any other way. For me, this book had nearly everything. It was fun and funny, flirty and a bit adventurous, but also serious at times and always sweet. I was just a teeny bit disappointed by the ending. It is still a five star book for me.
On the adult content scale, I give it a four. There is some sexual content, though mild. Also language. Nothing major.
I was lucky enough to get an eARC of this book from Netgalley and Skyhorse Publishing in exchange for an honest review. My thanks!
December 13, 2017
For the first time in a long time, I could relate to a character. There were some moments when I felt I was reading my own story. Just like Alison I had my fair quote of bad dates. I had my heart broken and in the end, I swore not to put myself through the awkward and awful experience of blind dating. Oh well, never say never. I might end up doing it again.
Alison is a young woman that after two serious relationships that ended nowhere decides to give online dating a try. During her online dating ride, Alison meets some really good prospects. Some of them I rooted for but unfortunately, things didn't work out. I must admire Alison's decision of remaining friends with her ex-boyfriends. I don't know if I could do that. The pants speech part cracked me up. But it was adorable how she craved an emotional connection before letting any man into her pants. That's admirable too and it requires courage.
Match Made in Manhattan is a funny and compelling story I know many women will relate to. Dating is hard but doing it in a place as New York makes it ten times harder. Still, she remained positive. That's a quality I wished I would have possessed during my dating experience.
Alison is a young woman that after two serious relationships that ended nowhere decides to give online dating a try. During her online dating ride, Alison meets some really good prospects. Some of them I rooted for but unfortunately, things didn't work out. I must admire Alison's decision of remaining friends with her ex-boyfriends. I don't know if I could do that. The pants speech part cracked me up. But it was adorable how she craved an emotional connection before letting any man into her pants. That's admirable too and it requires courage.
Match Made in Manhattan is a funny and compelling story I know many women will relate to. Dating is hard but doing it in a place as New York makes it ten times harder. Still, she remained positive. That's a quality I wished I would have possessed during my dating experience.
November 28, 2017
I read MATCH MADE IN MANHATTAN in a single travel day: in the airport, on the plane, in the car, and then on the couch when I got home because I couldn't put it down. I was thoroughly engaged in the story of a woman's year of Match.com dating, and thoroughly thrilled that I have not been in the dating scene in this century. It's exhausting! From keeping track of who's who, to juggling lunches and coffees and dinners, to maintaining clever digital correspondence with faceless suitors, I just don't think I'd have the stamina. But Amanda Stauffer does a great job of presenting real characters, avoiding melodrama, and following a 27-year-old's year of personal growth through her dating life. MMM is not a novel version of "Girls" – it's not chock full of sex or edgy craziness. It's more of a family-friendly, sit-com version of "The Bachelorette", wrapping up its first season with a woman smarter and more independent than she was at the start of the season and prepped for an exciting (more "Girls"-like? Nah.) second season. I look forward to seeing what Stauffer does next.
October 27, 2017
Great momentum and great storytelling. I sped through this book jumping from date to date and would definitely recommend it for a beach read or for a long flight. This read like a more fun version of my life in my 20s. I wouldn't want to relive that time, but reading about it now with the benefit of hindsight is really enjoyable. The spectrum of characters in the book made me remember that the people are often the best part of living in New York. I'm definitely buying it for a few friends as a holiday gift.
September 3, 2017
Amanda Stauffer's "Match Made in Manhattan" was an absolute treat. Allison is an expertly crafted and utterly relatable protagonist in whose story the reader quickly becomes invested. The equal doses of humor and insightfulness that Amanda writes with make this a truly compelling read. This book is highly recommended and I eagerly look forward to future work from this author.
August 17, 2017
A light, fun read with a sense of humor. We follow Alison on some great dates, and on some terrible ones we can rejoice that we're not on ourselves.
September 3, 2017
This is a witty and thoughtful take on dating in Manhattan...and in this age of "the web". But the story feels personal because it's so well written with great characters. Bravo to the author!
January 22, 2018
I received a copy of this title via the author/publisher. This does not impact my review.
A fun and quirky story full of the ups and downs of online dating. Match Made in Manhattan was an entertaining and often addicting read.
The story follows Allison, a newly single twenty-something New Yorker, over the course of a year as she gives online dating a try. Though I thought she sometimes came across a little shallow, I did find her to be a likable character. She was really open to new things and treated everyone kindly. I also liked her “pants speech.” The plot of the book could have easily transitioned into erotica, but Allison’s belief that physical intimacy should be saved for committed relationships was one I appreciated, even though it was a deal breaker for some of the guys she met on Match.
The book almost read as an anthology. The chapters were divided by who Allison’s date was. Depending on the length of the relationship some chapters were very short and some were very long (and some of the men got more than one chapter). I did have a bit of trouble keeping some of the guys straight if Allison referenced them later, but for the most part I thought this format worked.
There are a few reasons why I can’t quite give this book 4 stars, though. As I mentioned above, it often read more of an anthology than a standard Contemporary and I felt there was just something missing to tie everything together. But Stephanie, THE DATING ties everything together! Well, yes, but other than an on-going storyline with Allison’s job that lasted the length of the novel, almost everything else in the chapters felt pretty self-contained. It felt just a little bit choppy to me at times and I would’ve liked to have seen another side plot or two to run throughout the story. Also, one of my pet peeves is when things mentioned in the synopsis are not included in the book (though I know this is not the author’s fault) and I do not recall there every being a date in a HAZMAT suit.
Overall, I did really enjoy reading Match Made in Manhattan. The writing was humorous and I found myself laughing often. I also found the writing to often be addictive and there were many parts where I did not want to put it down. Though I’ve never online dated myself, I think this is definitely a must read for anyone who has. I’m looking forward to reading more from Stauffer in the future.
Rating (out of 5): 3.5 Stars
A fun and quirky story full of the ups and downs of online dating. Match Made in Manhattan was an entertaining and often addicting read.
The story follows Allison, a newly single twenty-something New Yorker, over the course of a year as she gives online dating a try. Though I thought she sometimes came across a little shallow, I did find her to be a likable character. She was really open to new things and treated everyone kindly. I also liked her “pants speech.” The plot of the book could have easily transitioned into erotica, but Allison’s belief that physical intimacy should be saved for committed relationships was one I appreciated, even though it was a deal breaker for some of the guys she met on Match.
The book almost read as an anthology. The chapters were divided by who Allison’s date was. Depending on the length of the relationship some chapters were very short and some were very long (and some of the men got more than one chapter). I did have a bit of trouble keeping some of the guys straight if Allison referenced them later, but for the most part I thought this format worked.
There are a few reasons why I can’t quite give this book 4 stars, though. As I mentioned above, it often read more of an anthology than a standard Contemporary and I felt there was just something missing to tie everything together. But Stephanie, THE DATING ties everything together! Well, yes, but other than an on-going storyline with Allison’s job that lasted the length of the novel, almost everything else in the chapters felt pretty self-contained. It felt just a little bit choppy to me at times and I would’ve liked to have seen another side plot or two to run throughout the story. Also, one of my pet peeves is when things mentioned in the synopsis are not included in the book (though I know this is not the author’s fault) and I do not recall there every being a date in a HAZMAT suit.
Overall, I did really enjoy reading Match Made in Manhattan. The writing was humorous and I found myself laughing often. I also found the writing to often be addictive and there were many parts where I did not want to put it down. Though I’ve never online dated myself, I think this is definitely a must read for anyone who has. I’m looking forward to reading more from Stauffer in the future.
Rating (out of 5): 3.5 Stars
April 22, 2018
Just awful. The main character is insufferably self absorbed, yet not at all self aware. She treats many of her dates unkindly (referring to one as "Douchey Dan" to his face) and demands they share intimacies with her, but she shuts down when they ask her to reciprocate. Nevertheless, guys somehow can't get enough of her and how she's supposedly "not like other girls." Alison is not upfront about the fact that she won't sleep with someone until at least months into dating, so she perpetually creates these awkward episodes in which a guy makes a move or invites her over and she (rudely, in my opinion) tells him he's not "getting in her pants." Ugh! Aside from the unlikeable protagonist, there are other flaws: the story is almost entirely plodding dialogue and cutesy email/text exchanges; when it's not, the author relies upon telling the reader what to think instead of showing us why. It's also stuffed with cliches and tired tropes (e.g. men who like fruity cocktails are girly, women seek solace in bingeing on ice cream when relationships go awry). Weird product placement for Edy's ice cream and Match.com. Also, there's no real plot, as the book just ends--mercifully, but far too late.
April 22, 2018
this book is truly awful. unlike most people on these reviews I was not given an advanced reader copy and paid for this book, unfortunately.
I'm honestly not sure where to start. The repetition - same date with the same guy over and over and over again. The irritating main character. The italics and most of the book written as emails and texts. No one emails anymore - I can't remember the last time I got a real email that wasn't about work. They text, but I'll tell ya, no one wants to read a book of just texts. I didn't even want to read this book because of the text snippets that were not interesting or funny.
Why was the author such a prude? The pants conversation was seriously annoying and it happened over and over again. We really only needed to hear about it once - or never. Get some booty girl, then maybe all these men wouldn't dump you.
The Yalie parties and references were so upper crust as to be completely unrelatable.
I regret reading, and especially, paying for this.
Avoid at all costs.
I'm honestly not sure where to start. The repetition - same date with the same guy over and over and over again. The irritating main character. The italics and most of the book written as emails and texts. No one emails anymore - I can't remember the last time I got a real email that wasn't about work. They text, but I'll tell ya, no one wants to read a book of just texts. I didn't even want to read this book because of the text snippets that were not interesting or funny.
Why was the author such a prude? The pants conversation was seriously annoying and it happened over and over again. We really only needed to hear about it once - or never. Get some booty girl, then maybe all these men wouldn't dump you.
The Yalie parties and references were so upper crust as to be completely unrelatable.
I regret reading, and especially, paying for this.
Avoid at all costs.
August 27, 2017
So, this was not a usual book selection for me. But after two consecutive nights of my wife waking me up with her laughter (and staying up reading in the kitchen til all hours), I picked it up myself and I have to say, it's hilarious. Don't tell my wife I said so, but it really was as good as she'd said- funny, smart, self-aware. And as someone who only ever experienced dating from the other side, it was a revelation reading how some dates can be experienced. I can't say it will make me start reading women's books regularly, but I'm glad I read this one.
November 26, 2017
In Amanda Stauffer's Match Made in Manhattan, newly single Alison invites the reader on a journey through the NYC dating scene, not in a voyeuristic way, but in a best friend way. Alison is smart, witty, and optimistic. She, and her dates, are so relatable you may find yourself wanting to shoot her a text just to catch up on how she's doing now.
While on the surface the book is an adventure in dating, with Alison as your guide, it becomes so much more. It's a story of relationships, choices, discovery, and life. I thoroughly enjoyed it.
While on the surface the book is an adventure in dating, with Alison as your guide, it becomes so much more. It's a story of relationships, choices, discovery, and life. I thoroughly enjoyed it.
December 2, 2017
Match Made in Manhattan was a fun read, and made me so glad I'm out of the dating scene! I really enjoyed the style of writing, complete with text and email messages between the characters. They felt real and the dialogue was fun and witty. The cast of characters was enjoyable, and relatable. I secretly hoped for a slightly different ending, but I rooted for Alison throughout and this made for a fast and easy read.
August 16, 2017
*I would like to thank NetGalley for the pleasure of receiving a copy of this book in exchange for an honest and fair review.*
“Match Made in Manhattan” is the perfect book for anyone who loves chick-lit. I, being such a person, thoroughly enjoyed reading Stauffer’s adorable tale of a young woman in the city who is looking for a chance to start daTing again.
“Match” tells the story of Alison, a serial-monogamist who has recently broken up with a long-time boyfriend and is looking for a fresh start. Because she has only engaged in serious relationships during her adult life, she never had a true dating experience and has no idea where to begin. Thanks to Match.com’s six-month free offer, Alison decides to give internet dating a chance.
Alison meets a plethora of men who introduce her to new sides of herself and help her to understand more of what she’s searching for in a partner. There are several suiters I enjoyed—James, Young Luke, Old Luke, Dan—but ultimately it was difficult for me to “ship” anyone other than Young Luke. His relationship with Alison was electric; and, while that was initially daunting, it was a growing experience for her.
I loved Alison’s character: She does not care about being judged, she doesn’t rely on anyone to take care of her, and she has the sensibility not to have sex with all the men she dates. She is well educated (Yale and Columbia), and her job is off-the-beaten-path (conservation work). Alison is a character with whom all women can relate, because we have all found ourselves looking for love and, instead, have ended up just getting a great story to tell our friends later.
“Match Made in Manhattan” would have been a solid five stars for me, in its genre, if not for the ending. Though the conclusion was probably the more practical route, I am not usually looking for practicality in my chick-lit. I would have preferred for the book to end in a heart-fluttering scene. Regardless, I still felt that “Match” was a well-worth read, as it kept me smiling and laughing throughout.
“Match Made in Manhattan” is the perfect book for anyone who loves chick-lit. I, being such a person, thoroughly enjoyed reading Stauffer’s adorable tale of a young woman in the city who is looking for a chance to start daTing again.
“Match” tells the story of Alison, a serial-monogamist who has recently broken up with a long-time boyfriend and is looking for a fresh start. Because she has only engaged in serious relationships during her adult life, she never had a true dating experience and has no idea where to begin. Thanks to Match.com’s six-month free offer, Alison decides to give internet dating a chance.
Alison meets a plethora of men who introduce her to new sides of herself and help her to understand more of what she’s searching for in a partner. There are several suiters I enjoyed—James, Young Luke, Old Luke, Dan—but ultimately it was difficult for me to “ship” anyone other than Young Luke. His relationship with Alison was electric; and, while that was initially daunting, it was a growing experience for her.
I loved Alison’s character: She does not care about being judged, she doesn’t rely on anyone to take care of her, and she has the sensibility not to have sex with all the men she dates. She is well educated (Yale and Columbia), and her job is off-the-beaten-path (conservation work). Alison is a character with whom all women can relate, because we have all found ourselves looking for love and, instead, have ended up just getting a great story to tell our friends later.
“Match Made in Manhattan” would have been a solid five stars for me, in its genre, if not for the ending. Though the conclusion was probably the more practical route, I am not usually looking for practicality in my chick-lit. I would have preferred for the book to end in a heart-fluttering scene. Regardless, I still felt that “Match” was a well-worth read, as it kept me smiling and laughing throughout.
December 15, 2017
I received an advanced review copy of this book. All opinions are my own. I am so glad that I didn't give up on this book and finished reading it because it was very good. I was kind of iffy on the plot but it turned into so much more than I was expecting. I cringed, I laughed and I sympathized with Alison. I cheered with her as she gamely waded into the what could turn into a cesspool of dating. It was a lot of fun to spend some time in her world so definitely pick this one up and give it a chance. I am glad that I did. Happy reading!
February 12, 2018
There were many things I liked about this book. For one, I related so much to Allison, the main character, in how she felt about dating and sex. In a world where three dates often equates to sex, it's not easy to be someone who requires a little more than having drinks with someone a few times to sleep with them. I liked that she didn't succumb to pressure and stuck by her guns. She had a lot of respect for herself. I also saw a lot of the men I've dated (and Allison's reactions to them, both good and bad) in my own experiences, particularly, Young Luke and the constant doubt and fear mixed with excitement. But also the men who were "so nice" but just didn't do it for me.
I loved how it ended - very refreshing and uplifting despite not being wrapped up in a pretty bow (no spoilers).
As a New Yorker myself, it was SO much fun reading about bars and restaurants I've frequented quite often.
Finally, the dialogue was amazing. It was snappy and fun and never stilted. Not a word was wasted. As an author myself, I look for this in books.
In closing, I look forward to the author's next book!
I loved how it ended - very refreshing and uplifting despite not being wrapped up in a pretty bow (no spoilers).
As a New Yorker myself, it was SO much fun reading about bars and restaurants I've frequented quite often.
Finally, the dialogue was amazing. It was snappy and fun and never stilted. Not a word was wasted. As an author myself, I look for this in books.
In closing, I look forward to the author's next book!
August 22, 2017
Reading this book made me remember just how hard it is to date. The independent women knows her own mind, has her own morals and beliefs and should stick with them This book follows newly single Alison as she joins a dating site and go through many dates trying to find the one that leaves her feeling sparkly. Do you wonder if she finds any princes among the toads, will she find the one? Or will she realize she was looking for the wrong thing? This book was full of several emotions that lasted until the reader turned the last page. Thank you NetGalley and Amanda Stauffer for letting me read and give a honest review of this book.
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