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Fearless Social Confidence: Strategies to Conquer Insecurity, Eliminate Anxiety,
Do you freeze up and avoid people because it feels like they are judging and rejecting you? Is being self-conscious preventing you from living your life?
The power of social confidence: it lets you see a world of possibility and potential versus a world of stressful anxiety and constant fear of failure. Fearless Social Confidence gives you more than victory over shyness – it gives you social invincibility and forever eliminates the feeling that you’re just not good enough.
Feel comfortable anywhere and with anyone.
Fearless Social Confidence is a unique book that takes a deeper look into social confidence: what causes it, what drains it, and most importantly – what you can do about it in any situation. It recognizes how confidence is built, and takes you step by step through the how-tos. You'll walk away knowing exactly what to do to help yourself, this isn't a book of endless analyses that help no one.
Never say “What if they think I’m stupid?” again.
Social confidence is the number one step to any sort of self-improvement. Why listen to me? I’m a Social Skills and Conversation Coach and program designer and I’ve sold over 200,000 books on the matter!
Clinical psychologist and the US's leading social confidence authority Dr. Aziz Gazipura lends his thoughts in an insightful foreword.
How will you learn to live and speak freely?
✔ The key to being confidently assertive.
✔ How skills relate to always feeling confident.
✔ How to banish negative self-talk and other toxic habits.
✔ Getting ready and warm for any social situation.
And these ways to get rid of despair and hopelessness:
✔ The art of self-acceptance.
✔ How social anxiety relates to social confidence.
✔ How introverts can confidently thrive.
✔ The astonishing ripple effect of social confidence.
Allow people to see the real you.
Social confidence gives you the power to make your world what you want. It allows you to seize the relationships that you’ve always wanted, and felt that were out of reach.
Escape your comfort zone and meet who you want, always know what to say, and be respected and heard.
Shed your insecurities and learn how to take control of your thoughts.
True change is possible and it starts today with small steps.
To conquer your fears and reject rejection, click the BUY NOW button at the top right of this page!
The power of social confidence: it lets you see a world of possibility and potential versus a world of stressful anxiety and constant fear of failure. Fearless Social Confidence gives you more than victory over shyness – it gives you social invincibility and forever eliminates the feeling that you’re just not good enough.
Feel comfortable anywhere and with anyone.
Fearless Social Confidence is a unique book that takes a deeper look into social confidence: what causes it, what drains it, and most importantly – what you can do about it in any situation. It recognizes how confidence is built, and takes you step by step through the how-tos. You'll walk away knowing exactly what to do to help yourself, this isn't a book of endless analyses that help no one.
Never say “What if they think I’m stupid?” again.
Social confidence is the number one step to any sort of self-improvement. Why listen to me? I’m a Social Skills and Conversation Coach and program designer and I’ve sold over 200,000 books on the matter!
Clinical psychologist and the US's leading social confidence authority Dr. Aziz Gazipura lends his thoughts in an insightful foreword.
How will you learn to live and speak freely?
✔ The key to being confidently assertive.
✔ How skills relate to always feeling confident.
✔ How to banish negative self-talk and other toxic habits.
✔ Getting ready and warm for any social situation.
And these ways to get rid of despair and hopelessness:
✔ The art of self-acceptance.
✔ How social anxiety relates to social confidence.
✔ How introverts can confidently thrive.
✔ The astonishing ripple effect of social confidence.
Allow people to see the real you.
Social confidence gives you the power to make your world what you want. It allows you to seize the relationships that you’ve always wanted, and felt that were out of reach.
Escape your comfort zone and meet who you want, always know what to say, and be respected and heard.
Shed your insecurities and learn how to take control of your thoughts.
True change is possible and it starts today with small steps.
To conquer your fears and reject rejection, click the BUY NOW button at the top right of this page!
148 pages, Paperback
Published August 23, 2016
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304 people want to read
About the author
Patrick King
218 books351 followersPatrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California, and has been featured on numerous national publications such as Inc.com. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market, and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships.
He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk, perfected and honed through three years of law school.
He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk, perfected and honed through three years of law school.
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April 3, 2026
I’ve learned that it’s impossible to make your social fears completely go away, but there are things you can do to make it easier for yourself. Like 98% of the advice in the book is good, but sometimes this writer Patrick King says something or gives reasoning that make me question his character. Also, it’s OK to be an introvert.
February 28, 2019
It has some good points but the comes off as a pompous jerk. Seems like the further and further you get in the book the more he thinks of himself. I definitely walked away with a LITTLE bit of useable information. I wouldn't sell or another book by him and definitely wouldn't want to know him personally!
January 12, 2024
It was a very useful book for those who struggle with social situations. This book made a strong distinction between having low social confidence and mental health issues or being an introvert. I appreciated the exercises throughout the book and thought the practical applications were useful. The second to last chapter, a 30-day program to practice and build social skills and confidence, felt rushed and like it could have been instituted throughout the book with more depth. Like making a list of small talk questions and thinking up responses, a basic list to start would have been great. I liked the author's voice in the writing. There was understanding and compassion for the people this book was intending to help.
January 3, 2017
This book took me completely by surprise. The first few pages and I thought it had been written for me. The author `Patrick King` really knows what he's talking about when it comes to this subject. Within the first chapter it was as if my social confidence was being lifted up with each new insight. The book starts off talking about the ripple effect [known as the butterfly effect] where one small action leads to a much larger impact somewhere down the line, possibly even decades later.
Social confidence is, after reading this book i realize, more of a mind-set than an actual skill. If you think you can, you can, and think you can't, you won't. As the author points out, if you suffer from low self-confidence, it's because you unknowingly use negative self-talk against yourself by making assumptions and judgments.
One of my favourite chapters here is 4; comparing your achievements to everyone else. In this section we really learn the valuable lesson of how to value ourselves for our own traits and the worth we have when it comes to skills or ability. Since many people struggle with "comparing apples and bananas", Patrick reminds us that ‘Comparing is a learned habit that destroys your confidence because it tries to put all your value and worth into one tiny aspect.’
Chapter 5 is a lesson in building your skills to build your confidence; the better you become at something, the more your confidence will grow brick by brick. Throughout the rest of the book Patrick hits on great themes that build social confidence, help you to overcome insecurities, face up to social anxieties, learn the key to social self-acceptance, and know how to accept compliments from people.
You have to read this book especially if you want to:
• Be more assertive in social situations
• Create interesting stories to tell people when socializing
• Visualize the social situation you want to be in
• Get over the phobia of public speaking
When it comes to social confidence building, Patrick King is one of the best there is at delivering high-valued content and strategies that really work. He hits all the right spots and knows how to take your social confidence life from mediocre to extraordinary. This book ‘Fearless Social Confidence’ definitely lives up to its title by talking you from social fear to social fearlessness.
Social confidence is, after reading this book i realize, more of a mind-set than an actual skill. If you think you can, you can, and think you can't, you won't. As the author points out, if you suffer from low self-confidence, it's because you unknowingly use negative self-talk against yourself by making assumptions and judgments.
One of my favourite chapters here is 4; comparing your achievements to everyone else. In this section we really learn the valuable lesson of how to value ourselves for our own traits and the worth we have when it comes to skills or ability. Since many people struggle with "comparing apples and bananas", Patrick reminds us that ‘Comparing is a learned habit that destroys your confidence because it tries to put all your value and worth into one tiny aspect.’
Chapter 5 is a lesson in building your skills to build your confidence; the better you become at something, the more your confidence will grow brick by brick. Throughout the rest of the book Patrick hits on great themes that build social confidence, help you to overcome insecurities, face up to social anxieties, learn the key to social self-acceptance, and know how to accept compliments from people.
You have to read this book especially if you want to:
• Be more assertive in social situations
• Create interesting stories to tell people when socializing
• Visualize the social situation you want to be in
• Get over the phobia of public speaking
When it comes to social confidence building, Patrick King is one of the best there is at delivering high-valued content and strategies that really work. He hits all the right spots and knows how to take your social confidence life from mediocre to extraordinary. This book ‘Fearless Social Confidence’ definitely lives up to its title by talking you from social fear to social fearlessness.
May 4, 2022
Nada nuevo
Mucha información. No me pude relacionar mucho con su experiencia y la forma en que trata de que uno aprenda a lidear con la ansiedad. No hay conección entre el autor y el lector.
Mucha información. No me pude relacionar mucho con su experiencia y la forma en que trata de que uno aprenda a lidear con la ansiedad. No hay conección entre el autor y el lector.
June 6, 2025
It's a good book, very good but I got panicked so much that I felt pain in my chest while reading especially the total ownership part. It was abstract and distorted like too many spices in a dish unable to distinguish.
I think too much information is unhealthy as Patrick said. The more we read the less we implement.
I don't know
I think too much information is unhealthy as Patrick said. The more we read the less we implement.
I don't know
March 8, 2026
A good book with typical and more esoteric ideas. The ideas of an a bold alter ego were good. The action ideas were excellent. Some typos. The author erroneously discounts biology and personality type.
The book Self-help for Fear and Anger covers most ideas in a diff way.
The book Self-help for Fear and Anger covers most ideas in a diff way.
June 21, 2023
Comprehensive.
Comprehensive book and a good section on introverts, as well as an interesting look at social failures and self talk.
Comprehensive book and a good section on introverts, as well as an interesting look at social failures and self talk.
October 30, 2018
Excellent Book
Great recommendations for increasing your self-esteem. Easygoing and understandable. I will recomend it to my friends and family. I’m sure they’ll enjoy it as much as I did.
Thank You for this!
Great recommendations for increasing your self-esteem. Easygoing and understandable. I will recomend it to my friends and family. I’m sure they’ll enjoy it as much as I did.
Thank You for this!
April 19, 2022
This was very insightful. I relate to a lot of things and it showed me how I can change that and become more socially confident.
There were some typos in the book that bothered me, and sometimes it got repetitive, but overall I enjoyed this.
There were some typos in the book that bothered me, and sometimes it got repetitive, but overall I enjoyed this.
October 17, 2018
Simple and straight forward read
This book is for busy people, it simply gets to the point and directs you the correct path of corrective action.
This book is for busy people, it simply gets to the point and directs you the correct path of corrective action.
January 3, 2024
decent but not one of king's best still worth a read
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