For the first time since their children were born, empty nesters Judith and Stan Winters spent Thanksgiving without the kids, and it's looking like Christmas will be the same. Judith can't bring herself to even start decorating for the holiday; her kids always hung the first ornaments on the tree, ornaments they had made each year since they were toddlers. Sure they were strange-looking--some could be called downright ugly--but they were tradition. A tradition she's heartbroken to miss this year.
With Judith refusing to decorate the bare spruce tree in their living room, Stan knows something must be done. And his only hope for saving the holiday is found in a box of handmade ornaments.
Fan-favorite Dan Walsh invites readers to enjoy this nostalgic Christmas story that celebrates all of our most cherished seasonal traditions, especially the importance of family. Readers will join in remembering the things that make their own Christmas season so special.
Dan Walsh is the bestselling author of 27 novels including The Unfinished Gift, When Night Comes and The Reunion. Over 1.3 million copies of his books are in print or downloaded. He's won 3 Carol Awards (finalist 6 times), 4 Selah Awards and 4 of his books have been finalists for RT Review’s Inspirational Book of the Year. His novels have received over 47,000 Amazon reviews (4.7 Avg).
A member of Word Weavers International and ACFW, Dan writes fulltime in the Daytona Beach area. He and his wife Cindi have been married 46 years. You can find out more about his books or follow him on other social media sites from his website at http://www.danwalshbooks.com.
Keeping Christmas by Dan Walsh is his Christmas book for 2015. Judith Winters is in a funk. She just experienced her first Thanksgiving without her children or grandchildren. She is used to having them around, but now they have all moved away. Judith just found out that none of them will be coming for Christmas. Her normal tradition for Black Friday is to decorate the house in the morning and the tree in the afternoon (with the help of her children and grandkids). This year she just does not want to do it. Her husband spends the day after Thanksgiving fishing for bass with his friend, Barney and then he comes home to a lunch of leftover turkey. He puts the tree up and gets out the decorations for the tree. Stan (her husband) then heads to Big Bass Pro to take advantage of the deals (so helpful). He arrives home at lunch to find none of the decorations up. He does not understand his wife’s attitude (he actually enjoyed the quiet Thanksgiving). He proceeds with his plans completely oblivious excited to check out some great equipment that he and Barney would like to get for the new boat they are planning to get.
Judith’s funk is just getting worse. She feels like her life is meaningless without her family around. She said that she is not a mother or grandmother anymore (that did not make sense). Her friend, Betty (Barney’s wife) tries to cheer her up. Slowly Stan notices that his wife is not improving. He tries to get her interested in a new hobby, helps her decorate for Christmas, and takes her out to eat. Betty gets Judith involved in starting a create-an-ornament class for mother and daughters at the local craft store (they sell ornaments and materials). Stan talks to each of his children to see if they can come home. None of them have the extra money to pay for airfare. Stan knows he is going to have to do something drastic to help his wife.
I found Keeping Christmas to be extremely depressing. This book put me in a funk! Dan Walsh has a great writing style, but I just did not enjoy the book. I was hoping there would be a good lesson on getting pasty empty nest syndrome and not relying on your children to define you as a person. There is a little at the end as Judith tries some techniques she read about in a magazine, but overall I was disappointed with Keeping Christmas. This book definitely did not put me in the mood for Christmas (I am actually glad Christmas is still a few months away). The ending was predictable. You know what is going to happen from early in the book.
I received a complimentary copy of Keeping Christmas from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. The review and opinions expressed are my won.
Keeping Christmas has a lovely nostalgic feel to it. Dan includes a lot of familial detail, and it reminded me of Christmas’s growing up. My mom always put up a tree specifically for all of our handmade ornaments, and much like Judith, my mom and I loved unwrapping them each year. Much like the ornaments in this story, let’s just say some of them were very unique.
Judith’s story has several heartwarming moments, but also some realistic moments as well. Even though I haven’t experienced an empty nest, I have experienced changes in the holidays growing up, and I think the disappointment and readjustment might be similar in both situations. Judith’s disappointment and resulting despondence were entirely understandable and true to life. Where the story lagged for me was in the pacing of the plot. Despite being a shorter novel, I think that perhaps the nature of the story would have been better suited to a novella. There were times when Judith’s character was a bit of a downer. Though that is a main focus of the story, I think it could have been shortened and still have had the same impact.
My favorite moments are when Judith realizes she could be her own person and that she can have an identity outside of being a wife and mother. I wish that aspect of the story would have been explored even more. Though the ending is a bit predictable, it’s also happy, and readers looking for an uplifting conclusion will be pleased.
Although not something I will re-read every year, Keeping Christmas is a light, touching read well-suited to the Christmas season. Many readers will relate to the feelings and emotions that Judith portrays and the also the theme of putting family first. Fans of Dan Walsh’s previous novels will appreciate this addition to their holiday reading.
Keeping Christmas tells a touching story of a couple dealing with the painful changes of life, and how they find hope in friendships and each other. As always, Dan Walsh portrays characters who feel like friends, and the moving ending may make you reach for tissues! An excellent read, especially for those facing the empty nest.
I've read books in the pet rescue series by this author, so I was aware that he is a "Christian writer". KEEPING CHRISTMAS was a little preachy, with multiple references to "church", but not overly so.
The story started out slow, but it had an emotional ending. 20+ years ago, a Grinch "stole our Christmases" and it took me a long time (decades) to get back into the spirit of giving each December. That part of the book resonated for me -- the making of new traditions. Three stars.
If your having trouble getting into the Christmas spirit due to "empty nest" syndrome, this is a great book to bring the spirit back to you. This is a fast and powerful read. I recommend this highly! I also recommend us all to keep Christmas, no matter what is happening in our lives! Dont ever let that spirit go.
Keeping Christmas is a gift to readers, it truly is. One reviewer put it this way: "An Ending as Feel Good Cozy as a Yule log". I could not agree more!
This is an empty nest story. You know the drill...the kids move out, the father makes the most of it by doing everything he couldn't do when the kids were home, the mother slips into a sort of depression remembering the days when they were a family under one roof. It's sad, and it makes the reader feel the mother's sense of heartbreak from the beginning yet they still understand the man's point of view. It's one of those stories that you feel everything from beginning to end. This is one of those stories and yet it is so much more!
I am an avid crafter so when Judith started her little hobby to keep her mind occupied, it had me jumping with joy but still, something was missing.
I found Stan quite admirable and found myself gushing over his attempts at giving his wife a special Christmas. He truly tried to understand and when he finally got it, I was sighing with relief and shaking with excitement at what I was sure was coming. I was not disappointed!
Dan took an ordinary story and turned it into something that feels like magic! It was a beautiful story and left me sighing with happiness. And yes, dear reader, this book is every bit as warm as that simple, aw-inspiring cover.
Keeping Christmas by Dan Walsh is such a perfect family Christmas story! Beautiful outside and in, this book will leave you with the yule tide warmth you love. _______________________________________________________
*My Rating*
I give Keeping Christmas by Dan Walsh...
5 stars!!
*I received this book from the publisher and the author in exchange for an honest review, which I have given. All thoughts were my own and I was not compensated in any other way.
Good grief. I pray I never become as pathetic and whinny as this woman when my children leave home. The husband made a nice gesture but what's going to happen in the future when the kids possibly can't make it home again?? Judith needs to deal with reality. Why was the ornament class specifically and repeatedly referred to as only being for mothers and daughters? This book was written in 2015! Maybe a mother and son would enjoy the class. Or father and daughter. It should have been for any child and caring adult!!
One of the few things we can count on, as the years tick on, is that nothing stays the same.
Yesterday, we were 20 something, raising a family, had life by the tail. We got a big promotion, bought a bigger house, more toys, chased the dream.
Today, we are on the cusp of laying claim to the pot of gold. Ours will surely be very different from yours in manifestation, unless you also want a tricked out bass boat?
What won’t be different from anyone else’s dream is the fact that oxidation happens; to everyone and everything.
Judith isn’t coping well with the recent changes in her family. None of her three children and their families were able to come home for Thanksgiving. To make matters worse, none are coming for CHRISTMAS!!! Judith has pulled the plug on Christmas - figuratively and literally. Her husband, Stan, is beside himself with worry. Quite honestly, he misses the regular traditions they had and suggested a few ways to make them work; no dice so far.
Stan and his BF, Barney, are closing in on purchasing their dream boat - a literal bass trawler from Bass Pro Shop. These boys have been saving for their dream for years and finally have enough money to make it happen. It’s going to be a very merry Christmas of fishing on the lake; or will it? Stan enlists the help of Barney’s wife. Can she help reach Judith?
Filled with real life issues: empty nest, family traditions, faith vs. fiction, time or money, friends or family, my way or…
Make sure to read the note from author, Dan Walsh, at the beginning of this second edition, updated version. If you’re looking for something with substance, a little bit different, thought provoking, KEEPING CHRISTMAS is a worthy option📚
This Dan Walsh Christmas novella has a touch of romance, the warmth of Christmas and the essence of The Gift of the Magi. The pace begins slowly which may bother some readers; but for me, it captured the angst, depression, and sorrow that Judith Winters was experiencing facing an empty nest for the first time at Thanksgiving and Christmas. I remember the first Thanksgiving our son was in college and he couldn't come home for Thanksgiving. I too wondered if it was worthwhile to go the whole nine yards for a big dinner for just two people and missed our Thanksgiving family traditions. Then there was the Christmas that my dad passed away two weeks before Christmas. My husband and I forced ourselves to decorate at my mom's house as Christmas was Dad's favorite holiday. . But I was glad to see that before Christmas came, Judith tried to step out, make new traditions, and find something that she could look forward to in the new year. The ending of this book was absolutely incredible and such a gift to Judith. It was also an important lesson to the entire family.
Rating: 4.5
FAVORITE QUOTES: "Memories. That was what Christmastime meant to her. Recalling wonderful family times and creating new ones."
"Disappointment, and even downright sadness, were normal when something you hoped for didn't happen."
"Christmas memories were something to cherish and smile about, but cling to them too tightly and they'd turn sour, maybe even make you bitter. Trying to live in the past, wanting everything to stay the way it had always been, was a destructive illusion."
This is a novel about Judith, an empty-nester who did not have any of her 3 adult children visit for Thanksgiving. She has found out that her children and grandchildren will not be coming from out-of-state for Christmas. This has been a big disappointment for her & she is having trouble with the season. The setting for this story is Mt Dora, Florida, a quaint little city where the family has lived for decades. I thought the storyline was quite good for any empty-nester who is facing a Christmas season without children & grandchildren. Judith's reaction seemed quite extreme to me, but I could relate because I am also in this time of transition in my life. The story seemed contrived in some ways, but I still found it engaging. I especially enjoyed the setting. I live near Mt Dora and have enjoyed the Christmas festivities there. It is a special place. I rate this book 4 stars, rounded up from 3 1/2 stars. At this time of year, I rate Christmas books strictly on my level of enjoyment.
Keeping Christmas by Dan Walsh is a perfect read in the lead up to Christmas. Stan and Judith are 'empty nesters'. Their three children are grown up and have moved several states away. None of them could come for Thanksgiving, and then they individually dropped the bombshell - none of them could afford to come for Christmas. Stan takes it in his stride. Judith hits rock bottom. Dan Walsh covers the theme of depression sensitively. He shows how quickly one can reach the bottom of the pit, in spite of having the loving support of a spouse and friends. And how hard it is to lift oneself out of that pit. The theme of friendship runs throughout the novel. There is the male bond of Stan and Barney, and the female one of Judith and Betty. Both friendships are realistically portrayed as the women talk and the men 'do' friendship. Families are of vital importance. Dan Walsh clearly demonstrates this within Keeping Christmas. The love bond with the family is very strong - one hurts and they all hurt. Christmas traditions and making memories are central to the novel. The run up to Christmas should be a family time. It's about "having fun and making memories." Dan Walsh shows how a society that has never been so well connected with technology is actually a fractured society. People meet together but are more concerned with their phones and their tablets than with actually interacting with those around them. Whilst making memories is important. Wallowing and living in the past can be toxic. Judith realises this, "Christmas memories were something to cherish and smile about, but cling to them too tightly and they'd turn sour and maybe even make you bitter." However depression is an illness that is not easy to combat. The theme of love stretches throughout Keeping Christmas. It is a love that practices self sacrifice. It is a love that binds people together. It is an extravagant love. Keeping Christmas is a realistic and warm novel. It will get into your heart. It reminds the reader that there are seasons in life that change but overall there is a love that binds and will not let go.
I don't know about you, but as Christmas approaches and the cold weather sneaks in, there is nothing I like more than curling up with a good book. And Dan Walsh's latest novel, "Keeping Christmas", certainly fits the bill! I flew through the book in short order, partly as it's not too long at just over 200 pages, but also because it was simply so enjoyable that I wanted to stay in Stan and Judith's world until I could see how things ended. The characters have been drawn with depth and emotion, and readers who struggle with difficult emotions around Christmas time will find much in common with these characters' experience. Sadly, the truth is that what should be a joyful holiday for all is quite commonly one of the hardest times of the year for so many of us, as it can remind us of what we have lost or of what's missing in our lives. For readers dealing with these types of emotions, Walsh especially offers up a heartfelt story that will not only capture reader's hearts, but will infuse them with joy as they are reminded of what really matters in the Christmas season. The story also offers a good challenge to us male readers, as Stan is portrayed as a husband worth emulating as he puts his wife's needs before his own. As you can see, Walsh has penned a book with characters that you will grow to care about and even learn from, and for me this is the best type of fiction indeed. And for those of you who require a happy ending, especially in your Christmas themed books, well let me assure you that you are going to love this story.
A beautiful story that will put you in the mood for the Christmas season, "Keeping Christmas" is another keeper from Dan Walsh. I award it a solid rating of 4 out of 5 stars.
Book has been provided courtesy of Baker Publishing Group and Graf-Martin Communications, Inc.
The bottom line was it was time to stop looking back and living in the past. Christmas memories were something to cherish and smile about, but cling to them too tightly and they’d turn sour, maybe even make you bitter. Trying to live in the past, wanting everything to stay the way it had always been, was a destructive illusion.
Stan and Judith are now empty nesters living in Florida. Their story is a page from my own story that being said, I saw more to my story than I thought was there.
Stan loves to fish (so does my husband) and now that the kids are on their own with their own families, him and his fishing buddy are now looking to buy a new fishing boat. Judith has always been supportive of Stan’s fishing hobby but now that the kids are gone and are not planning to come home for Christmas, she can’t seem to look forward to anything and Stan is becoming more worried for his wife. Even putting up the tree is something that brings pain and sorrow instead of joy and laughter.
Dan Walsh brings out the emotions and the misunderstandings of the heart suddenly empty and the longing of family that has changed from always being there to having be put on the calendar. It was a tear jerker for me.
A Special Thank You to Revell and Netgalley for the ARC and the opportunity to post an honest review.
Stan and Judith Winters are empty nesters. The holidays are upon them. Their children can't return home for Thanksgiving, and now Christmas. Judith takes that news very hard.
This was a tough read for me. Maybe because one day all my children will grow up and move away. And I'm not looking forward to that happening.
Christmas tends to bring out the best and worst in people. Expectations unmet or hoped deferred makes a soul sick. Judith couldn't bring herself to enjoy the holidays without her children.
Stan couldn't understand his wife since being a man, he moved on emotionally. Judith couldn't.
"I've been so focused on our kids and grandkids for so many years. With them out of the picture, there goes my purpose in life." - Judith
Keeping Christmas is a feel-good story that hit all the right spots for me. On one hand, it came a little close to home because my life changed this year and I could easily identify with Judith missing the way things used to be. That's a human tendency and it takes a while to see life in a new way.
At first, I was frustrated with both Stan and Judith - Judith's depression, Stan's way of coping and seeming lack of empathy. But we see that Stan does care, he just doesn't know what to do at first. And Judith was blessed with a friend who helped her see new opportunities.
The story builds steadily into the last few beautiful chapters, in which some happy tears were shed. Love of God and sacrificial love of family are strong themes. A heartwarming read, highly recommended.
3.5 stars. A tale about empty nesters whose grown children can’t come home for Thanksgiving or Christmas. I had a hard time relating to the depth of the Mom’s depression but was sweetly touched by Dad’s gift.
I loved this book and how it shows the ways God changes us when we're saved. This book will keep you reading, so don't make plans till after you finish it!
About the Book: For the first time since their children were born, empty nesters Judith and Stan Winters spent Thanksgiving without the kids, and it's looking like Christmas will be the same. Judith can't bring herself to even start decorating for the holiday; her kids always hung the first ornaments on the tree, ornaments they had made each year since they were toddlers. Sure they were strange-looking--some could be called downright ugly--but they were tradition. A tradition she's heartbroken to miss this year.
With Judith refusing to decorate the bare spruce tree in their living room, Stan knows something must be done. And his only hope for saving the holiday is found in a box of handmade ornaments.
Fan-favorite Dan Walsh invites readers to enjoy this nostalgic Christmas story that celebrates all of our most cherished seasonal traditions, especially the importance of family. Readers will join in remembering the things that make their own Christmas season so special.
My Review: Dan Walsh has a knack for writing some very beautiful, true to heart Christmas stories. They are just so lovely to read. His stories are usually a quick read too! Reading just over two hundred pages doesn't take very long. He is a brilliant writer and I love cozying up to one of his books by the fire. He is able to transform words into images, perfectly.
Two empty-nesters are having a harder time than imagined with their children having prior engagements during the holidays. Judith and Stan are having to amuse themselves this year and poor Judith is having a harder time with it. Stan decides to lifts his brides spirits this year and he knows just how to do it.
**Disclosure** This book was sent to me free of charge for my honest review from the author.
Dan Walsh is known for well-crafted books that touch the heart, and Keeping Christmas continues to meet that description. Expert character and story development results in authentic personalities and situations that will resonate with many in the empty-nester years, as well as serve as a cautionary tale for those with children still at home. (In fact, at times, I became a bit annoyed with Judith's despair and complete obsession over her children's absence and the fact that she had developed no interests outside of her family. I only get annoyed with realistic people in the books I read!) Walsh skillfully highlights the different perspectives and reactions of Judith and Stan as they approach the upcoming holidays: Judy laments, paralyzed by grief, and Stan continues his normal routine, secretly enjoying the peace and quiet. From the beautiful cover to the final page, Keeping Christmas is a wonderful way to start the holiday season. Don't miss it.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received a copy of this book free from Revell Publishing. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
This is one heart-warmer of a book. If you are a mature single adult or empty nester, or have them in your life, be prepared to empathize with Judith’s questioning of putting out Christmas décor that “no-one” will see and the efforts of others to cheer her up. While the writing is a bit simplistic at times, and bass fishing references abound, the pay-off is worth the time spent to reach it.
If you are looking for a quick and heart-warming seasonal read, this is definitely one to consider.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the Revell Reads Blog Tour Program . I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
The empty nest syndrome hits Judith Winters hard this years, Stan and her first Thanksgiving that they have been alone since they had children. Now a call of all three of her children informs her that they cannot make it home for Christmas. The story revolves around the reminiscing of past holiday season moments, remembering how each year she helped the children make new ornaments for their tree, and how they are in a box marked Ugly Ornaments. The story tells about the ornaments and how the family jokes and cherishes these, to the point that Judith can’t stop mourning and put them on the tree. A fun Christmas read and one that makes you keep turning to find out all that is happening here. It almost felt like I was reading an O. Henry, and hoping it wouldn’t end up like that one did. This one would make a great holiday movie, and I recommend this sweet read. I received this book through Revell Reads Blogger Tour, and was not required to give a positive review.
Judith is upset because her three adult children with families of their own could not make it for Thanksgiving and would also miss Christmas because none of them had enough money to make the trip. Stan, her husband is worried but tries to keep things as normal as possible by getting down the Christmas boxes and putting up the tree so Judith can decorate which is the last thing she wants to do. Meanwhile, he and his friend Barney are saving all the money they can to buy a new fishing boat.
The reader will probably know what is going to happen pretty early on in this story but it is still enjoyable to see how it all comes together.
I probably would have given this story 4 stars if I hadn't gotten so tired of Judith's pity party. After all, children grow up and move on, it is what is supposed to happen in our world.
I received this book in exchange for an honest review. The original review can be found on www.genuinejenn.com
This is the first book I have read by Dan Walsh. I enjoyed the concept of the story but I found it was drawn out and sometimes slow paced. The characters I enjoyed and I would have loved to have seen a bit more character development on the memories on the children. This is a great story for adults who are empty-nesters, I know I will be sad the first holiday without my children when they grow up and have their own family. The author writes with short direct sentences. I found sometimes repeating. I did like how this story told both Judith's and Stan's side of the story, in the end Stan really stepped up and made a family memory no one will forget.
I give this a 3 out of 5 stars. It is a depressing story with a ray of light in the end.
Christmas isn't always full of joy and family. Keeping Christmas is a warm story of an empty nest couple. I could identify with Judith as she struggles with a very different holiday season. Stan and her best friend strive to enliven the weeks prior to Christmas and breathe life into Judith. Have you encountered those years when the jolly spirit is lost on you? When tears fall instead of the oohs and aahs of the bright lights fill your heart? Dan Walsh writes beautifully of the meaning of family connections, traditions, endings, and beginnings. A great one to add to any Christmas collection.
I recommend Keeping Christmas and was given a copy by Revell Reads for my honest review.