*She sacrificed a counseling career to be a full-time mother *She’d rather pound a nail than round steak *Oprah? No way! Give her ESPN any day *Nothing could be more stressful than scrapbooking
Nothing, except …
a distressing diagnosis, a husband who is pulling away, and two older brothers who refuse to get along
When the counselor is caught in the middle, when she needs to be strong for those around her, who is left to be strong for her?
Brenda S. Anderson writes authentic and gritty life-affirming fiction that shows God at work in people’s messy lives. She is a founding member of the award-winning, nontraditional publishing company, The Mosaic Collection. When not writing, she enjoys live sports and theater, walking along the shores of Lake Superior, and sharing hot cocoa with friends and family. She lives near Minneapolis with her newly retired husband and their twin mischievous kitties, Mauer and Morneau.
WOW, Just WOW! I was intrigued by the synopsis of this book and that is what drew me to read Pieces of Granite by Brenda Anderson. I was reeled into the book from the VERY beginning!
Debbie and Jerry Verhoeven are expecting Baby #2 and they find out the baby has Downs Syndrome. Jerry is not taking the news well and Debbie tries to encourage him. Her brother suggests something that Debbie is against. Debbie, a marriage Counselor, is struggling with her faith as she tries to hold things together.
I really think author Brenda Anderson has done a GREAT job at creating a story that is fiction, but very realistic. The story is one that focuses on Family, Faith and leaning on God rather then on our own understandings.
Pieces of Granite is part of the Coming Home series by Mosaic Collections. It is a GREAT read and I HIGHLY Recommend it.
Oh what a story! This is one that will stay with me for years to come. I was SO touched by the honest emotions and feelings that were expressed throughout the story. I was SO humbled by the wonderful messages of God's mercy, grace and His faithfulness. As a new child is found to have Down's Syndrome, emotions broiled over. Could a dad accept the child who wouldn't be the same as other children? Could the child's mother help her husband accept and love their child? Can God bring the family back together? You'll love the messages and the story.
Anderson thrusts her readers into the gritty underbelly of family life and she doesn't mince words or shy away from the difficulties that complicate relationships. No worries though, because she gives equal time to the joys of those emotional connections as well. In fact, this book is a celebration of the highs and lows of ordinary living.
I love the depth in this author's writing style. The way her words compile to create compelling images that will stay with me for a long time to come. I discovered some profound gems in unexpected places. Like when Debbie takes her young daughter to a play group and Kaitlynn suffers an asthma attack. After the crisis has passed she urges her daughter to go back to her friends but the little girl stays close, clinging to her mother's hand. Anderson writes: "If only adults would remember to cling to God's hand when life threw its own coughing fit. Why did adults insist on going through hardships on their own?"
My reading stuttered to a stop as my mind pondered that question. It's one that Anderson poses over and over again as various characters are faced with difficult circumstances. Impossible choices. Conflicting opinions. More often then not they take control and forge ahead, hoping God will have their back. How very true to life. Pieces of Granite explores the consequences and ultimate freedom that comes from giving the control back to God.
People aren’t perfect. I think we all know that. I think we all even can admit that. But in books sometimes there are perfect people with the perfect life. What we wouldn’t give to be like them! Of course, we can’t be. It’s a bit of an unhealthy view of people and life.
This book is not that. The characters aren’t perfect and their lives aren’t perfect either.
Our main couple goes to have their second child only to find out that the child will have Down Syndrome and everything changes. I like seeing this book bring Down Syndrome to the forefront as a lot of people still shy away from this. And I do like seeing how something like this can affect both the individual parents and their marriage.
There is a lot of emotion in this story. You’re going to lose yourself within the lives of the characters. It’s not one of those happily ever after fairy tales. It’s real. And it’s a bit gritty at times.
But, this is a great book that really makes you think about what would happen if you were put in that situation and where your life would go.
This is a great read and I highly recommend it.
I have voluntarily reviewed a complimentary copy of this book which I received through JustRead Publicity Tours. All views expressed are only my honest opinion. I was not required to write a positive review nor was I compensated in any other way. All opinions expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the FTC regulations.
Pieces of Granite is the newest book in the Mosaic Collection, a collection of unrelated stories by various authors in the Christian fiction genre.
While Christian fiction may be my preferred book genre, even I must admit that sometimes, it can get a little well--- unrealistic. Characters can run a little too perfect and life just seems a little TOO clean to be real. There really isn't anything wrong with that--- after all, fiction is so often our escape from reality anyway. Still, for some people, it can be a little off putting, even making them question their own Christian walk thinking they cannot live up to the sometimes unrealistic standards. This is exactly why I find books that are a little more open, honest and gritty to be a rather refreshing change. Pieces of Granite is one such read. The characters in this book- both Christian and non alike- are FAR from perfect. Their reactions and their lives are far from it as well. At times, you'll find yourself wanting to grab them by the shoulders and shaking some sense into them. Isn't that life thought? Because of these imperfections and struggles, I think it proved to be a great message of faith and of grace... and really of making a marriage work too!
In Pieces of Granite, we meet Debbie and Jerry, a married couple expecting their second child together. When they discover their child will be born with Down Syndrome, the diagnosis completely turns their world...and their marriage... upside down. This story follows their journey to accepting their new normal, and the fight for their marriage.
In the beginning of the story, Debbie seemed to be one of those too perfect characters I mentioned. The kind that seems to have it all together. But as she struggles to keep it all together on her own, we start to see that that is not always the case and that even those with the strongest faith sometimes need a little help. As a parent to a child with special needs and one who so often tries to do it all on my own, I could certainly relate to some aspects of her character and it made me want to see how it all played out for her that much more.
I have to admit though that my favorite character was actually Debbie's brother Ricky. I'm not sure what it was about him that drew me in, but I find myself looking even more forward to the next book in the Coming Home series which focuses on his life. I feel like there is a lot to his story to uncover and I for one cannot wait to check it out.
Overall, a unique and interesting read and definitely one worth checking out.
**I received a complimentary copy of this book for consideration. All thoughts are my own.
I found Pieces of Granite to be such a poignant read, so realistic that I felt I was right there with Debbie and Jerry as they struggled through their many family issues. I especially appreciated that none of the characters were sugar-coated; they were presented with all of their flaws and “cracked foundations”. Brenda Anderson did a fabulous job presenting the often controversial Downs Syndrome issue in a very sensitive fashion.
I especially loved little Kaitlynn and her child-like wisdom. The God-walks she enjoys with her parents really touched my heart.
As just the prequel, I look forward to reading the remaining books in the Coming Home series! I received a copy of this book from JustRead Tours and was under no obligation to write a positive review. All opinions are my own.
Excellent writing. Multilayered look at an ordinary, far from perfect family. Each person with issues that cause problems later in life. I loved too that Debbie was self-aware and knew where choices could lead. Loved the portrayal of the children and young Lilly. I will definitely be reading more of this author's work.
The main character, Debbie, has so much strength. Too much, in fact, that she finally cracks. Her support system is crumbling from beneath her and she still tries to do it all herself. The story really makes you think about relationships. Relationships with God and with other people. It shows how easy it is to focus on doing it all ourselves. Debbie’s two main relationship don’t have a firm foundation and they fall apart. She finally realizes she’s not perfect and can’t do it all. Restoring her relationship with God has to come first, then her other ones will follow. This story is a good reminder that we all need God as our foundation. You won’t want to miss reading this story. I was given an advance reader copy of this book and this is my honest review.
Pieces Of Granite by Brenda Anderson is a most delightful Christian contemporary novel about families. It is part of the Coming Home and the Mosaic Collection series. I originally read Pieces Of Granite in 2014 and was blown away by it. Reading it again in 2020 I found it equally powerful. God is the glue who holds our lives together. Sometimes we try to do everything ourselves and we burn out. “God’s not asking us to be strong.” It is when we are weak that we learn to rely on Him. God longs to do life in partnership with us. Our pasts influence the person we become. Sometimes we are overcome with fear of the past repeating itself in the present. Trying to ignore our fears will never work. We need to face our fears, lift them up to God in prayer and seek help from others. God never leaves us. “Life had taught [him], sometimes God was absent.” Sometimes we just cannot see, feel or sense God. “Sometimes it’s hard for me to believe that God doesn’t leave us… I don’t see Him in this. I can’t feel Him, hear Him. Nothing.” We may feel abandoned in the valley but the God of the mountaintop is the God of the valley and He will guide us through. God may not leave us but we walk away from Him when we let other things be the gods of us. “This drug named success.” Success in the world’s eyes is money, status and power. It can be addictive as we chase the next ‘big’ thing to give us a temporary high. We need to build our lives on the Rock who does not let us down – ever. The richest people are those in relationship with God and with others. “Once God gets a hold of us, He doesn’t let go.” – What a comforting thought. We need to build time into our lives to get to know God. We need places to be still with him when life seems overwhelming. “A perfect place for her to talk to God when life got too tough.” I love the thought that “God lived in the quiet moments.” Do you build peace and quiet into your life so you can be still and hear from God? Brenda Anderson is not afraid to tackle real life issues. The focus of Pieces Of Granite is Downs Syndrome. Having worked with teens with Downs Syndrome this is a subject that is dear to my heart. It is heart breaking to witness the reactions of some to the news of a Downs Syndrome baby. Every child is perfectly planned by God and exactly as He wanted them to be. No child is ever a ‘mistake’ in God’s eyes. All the characters were well drawn with realistic flaws. They are easy to empathise with – from the character who tries to do it all to the workaholic to the one led by fear. All are wonderful. I adored three year old Katelyn. Brenda Anderson has perfectly captured all her mannerisms. Pieces Of Granite is a powerful read about the need we all have for family and for God. I adore it. I adore all Brenda Anderson’s novels. They speak to my heart.
A beautifully written book with vivid descriptions of God’s abundant nature, symbolism through water and life flowing on. Very human reactions to life not going the way we planned but growth through faith and love. One particular part of the book was a nightly God walk where the family used all of their senses to see God’s glory in nature, I would like to start that with my own family. I could relate to the deep-rooted fear from a previous loss and learning what is hardest for us humans: Letting go and letting God’s will be done. The characters are great and will be highlighted in upcoming books. This prequel has me ready to read the remainder of the Coming Home series by Brenda Anderson!
Every emotion was portrayed in Debbie and Jerry’s story and so beautifully written! Wow! Each of the characters had their own story and one that really made you laugh, cry and tugged on the heartstrings. I wanted to reach in and hug them, I wanted to reach in and strangle them. A powerful story of learning to lean on God and trust Him deeply, a reminder we all need from time to time. A powerful story of learning all God’s children are born in His way and no child is left unloved. A powerful story of learning God’s grace for each of us is never failing. A powerful story of learning we are human, we can and will make mistakes and we can’t do everything on our own. Always lean on our Father as He will always carry us. A truly beautiful story you must read!
I absolutely loved this book. In fact I kept my kindle with me all day in hopes of sneaking in a few minutes as often as possible to read just a few more pages. The characters and their struggles are so real. I can relate to the main character, Debbie, who feels like she must always be the strong one and in control of every situation. That is until she finally cracks from the pressure. How often are we guilty of doing the same instead of relying on God to give us strength and to look for friends for support. I can highly recommend reading this book. It will have you hooked from the first page. I received a copy from the author and the review is my own.
Normally when you grab a series prequel, you expect a novella, not an extremely thorough novel! I was pleasantly surprised at the depth of this book. I looked at the mains from Chain of Mercy, and the hero is a prominent character from the beginning. This book focuses on an entire family, not just our hero and heroine. It dealt with some hard topics, and it did very well. I can’t wait to read more of this series.
Debbie is a amazing woman who is always there for everyone. Jerry is still struggling with the loss of his first family. When Debbie and Jerry start having problems after Lilly’s birth Ricky steps in to offer his help. The Brooks family are all amazing people. I had the honor to review this book for the author for a honest review. I would give this book a higher rating than a five star review if I could.
In Pieces of Granite, the reader encounters real life situations. Brenda Anderson causes the reader to not only feel, but also to think. Let her take you into the lives of Jerry and Debbie and walk with them as they encounter life's heartaches and disappointments and its joys and victories. This story ends on a positive note. I plan to read more from this author, as I've enjoyed every book of hers that I've had the pleasure to read.
I found this story to be very emotionally gripping. There were tears and laughter throughout. I found myself relating so much to the character of Debbie who is always trying to keep the peace and do everything to make everyone else happy. There were so many truths of God throughout this book. I received a complimentary copy of this book, but have freely chosen to give my honest opinion.
“Pieces of Granite” by Brenda S. Anderson, book review. Mosaic Collection
As a family counselor, Debbie has all the answers for other family’s problems, but when the issue is in her own family, she has serious doubts. She and her husband are thrilled to learn she is pregnant with their second child, but when genetic testing reveals the baby has Down’s, the bottom falls out for her husband.
Debbie has the support of her family, well, sometimes. Her brother is caught up in his super successful career, and seems to put the job before family time and time again. When she reveals that her unborn baby has Down’s, he suggests she abort. This drives a huge wedge in their already fractured relationship.
But Debbie leans on God for her stability, even when all the people around her seem to fail her. As an artist, she gains joy from creating beauty, but the limited income has her searching for low cost art supplies. Another brother, a contractor, brings her left over granite scraps from construction projects, and she slowly and prayerfully creates a special place for herself and her family.
I enjoyed the open and honest way the author developed the characters. Each one had issues and learned to give the problems to God and then was able to meet the needs of those around them.
This is a republication previously published, so check to see if you might have read this book under a different title.
Disclaimer: I recevied a copy of this book from the publisher. All opinions expressed are by own.
Pieces Of Granite by Brenda S Anderson - oh wow, what a brilliant novel. It tackled difficult subjects with sensitivity, and had me hooked from the very first page. The themes of grief and not letting go; fear and trust; and an unfailing love built on firm foundations are all in this book. Whilst under pinning it all is the God, who will not let us go. Jerry has been married before. He has loved and lost, but now he is married to Debbie, and they have a three year old daughter Kaitlynn. Debbie is pregnant, but as they learn that, following an amniocentesis, their new baby daughter Lilly, will be born with Down's Syndrome, all Jerry's old fears and insecurities surface, and he begins to withdraw from his family. What is he so scared of? Will Debbie be able to help him? The answers can be found in the novel. Debbie is a rock, holding not only her immediate family together, but also her extended family, as brother's Marcus and Ricky never see eye to eye, and Debbie assumes the role of peacemaker. But who can Debbie turn to, when she needs reassurance? Who will be her rock? All the characters are realistically drawn, and the reader, whilst maybe never having been in a similar situation, feels empathy with the characters. As a Mum myself, and a teaching assistant to pupils with special needs, I found myself particularly drawn to Debbie, who was so well portrayed that I felt more like I was reading about a dear friend, than a fictional character. Her pregnancy, and the knowledge that the baby would have Down's tugged at my heart strings. Three year old Kaitlynn was a pure delight, and easy to picture in my mind from the excellent descriptions and her childlike speech. The themes of fear and trust go hand in hand, and run throughout the novel. They apply to several of the characters in relation to trusting not only each other, but also God, who must play the central role in people's lives. When He does, there can be peace in the midst of chaos, but take ones eyes off God, and lives can easily crumble. The novel also deals with love and forgiveness, showing that for right standing with God, one must dispense forgiveness, no matter how much one is hurting. This links nicely to the theme of steadfast and unfailing love which runs throughout the novel. I found Pieces Of Granite to be an extremely powerful novel, and I was blessed to receive a copy. It tackled sensitive themes sympathetically, and the aura around the whole book is that of deep love. It was with great disappointment, that I came to the final page. However, it is the prequel to the Coming Home series, and I for one, am hoping to receive the first book Chains Of Mercy in my Christmas sack!
Interesting storyline that kept my attention - appreciated the realness of the storyline and characters... looking forward to reading the next book! Definitely would recommend.
Now that I'm finished reading Pieces of Granite, the tears that I had successfully kept at bay have broken loose and are trickling down my face.
I knew that this would be a difficult book just from reading the synopsis and yet I still had to read it. It was everything I expected and so very much more!
Clearly, the news that your unborn baby has Down syndrome is enough to challenge anyone. Add to that the stress of a husband whose past has him emotionally withdrawing from you and the baby and you have a recipe for such pain. And then when Debbie's brother, the one she had always looked up to, gives her the advice he did - she almost broke.
My heart went out to Debbie. As the middle child, the one who always had to be strong, always had to be the peacemaker, always had to pick up the broken pieces - all without complaining - she was just moments away from shattering with the new burdens placed on her fragile shoulders. While I wanted to yell at her to just say no, I knew why she wouldn't. And why she wore the mask she did.
The "God Walks" Debbie took her daughter on were such a great idea, as was the garden path she created. The reminders of how we experience God and that He is present in all our senses were so well done.
I love how Brenda Anderson made Ricky, Debbie's big brother, so loveable before she showed what a reprobate he was. In doing so, I cared deeply for him and wanted so badly for him to reform. Sadly, while there were signs of the beginnings of a heart change for him, his story is yet to be told. (Though, because Pieces of Granite is a re-release I can tell you the secret that his book is already released.)
Jerry and Debbie have to learn to place their hope on the firm foundation of Jesus because all others will simply crumble away. The faith message is strong and poignant.
Pieces of Granite is a beautiful story of second chances and redemption. While uncomfortable at times, it is amazing and wonderful and worth every squirm. This series is not to be missed!
I was given a copy of this book. I was not required to give a favorable review nor was any money received for this review. All comments and opinions are my own.
I had the privilege of reading Pieces of Granite by Brenda Anderson. Wow - I was hooked from page one so much I didn’t want it to end. This was the prequel to the first book in her Coming Home Series. The first book in the series is Chain of Mercy and actually picks up at the end of Pieces of Granite. I loved getting to read about Richard and his life and then finding out about his background while exploring Debbie and Jerry’s life. In fact, I want to go back and reread Chain of Mercy because it will have a completely different meaning for me with the rest of the story told. What a great idea and as a reader I loved it.
I totally related with Debbie from the beginning. I could feel her pain, could understand her sense of having to keep things together and “let them roll off her back, staying strong for everyone else.” She was lovable, relatable, and I found myself cheering for her throughout the entire book. I had a love-hate relationship with her husband, Jerry. There was a part of me that understood he was powerless to control his reactions yet at the same time when you become a husband and father, you don’t have a choice but to press in, not check out. I loved Richard too - who couldn’t? I love that Brenda introduced Lee and Amelia as well - I think especially in today’s society where people are so busy and disconnected, married couples need to stand guard against even innocent friendships.
I loved this book. I would highly recommend it to anyone who enjoys reading about true to life situations in a Christian context coupled with romance and “cuteness.” I could picture the girls’ faces, the macaroni and cheese with hot dogs, Debbie’s T-shirt (I think I’m wearing one of those right now minus the spit up) and even the steps and unfinished basement in Debbie’s house along with her beautiful handmade bench.
I can’t wait until the next book in this series. I want to learn more about Marcus and his wife. Even though I don’t know whose life I will get to step into next, I know I will love whoever it is.
Sometimes life doesn't go the way we want it to. At all. Often it seems when trouble comes, it comes in a flood. Debbie meets difficulties at every turn, and somehow she has to be the one to stay strong, whether she feels strong enough to manage it or not.
While I can't relate to everything Debbie faced (thankfully!), in many ways I felt like I was reading about a copy of myself. I think perhaps many moms would feel the same. When life falls apart, it's up to us to be strong, to help hold everything together. Oh, for someone else to carry the load for a while!
I wanted to like Debbie's older brother, Ricky, and yet I felt her frustration with him. And while I wanted to have more sympathy for her husband, Jerry, at the same time I wanted to knock some sense into him!
Pieces of Granite is the prequel to the Coming Home series. (Chain of Mercy is book one in the series, and has already been released.) If you have already read Chain of Mercy, you can easily go back and read this one -- just remember that this is happening before the other events. If you haven't read Chain of Mercy, I would go ahead and start with this one. But either way, you'll want to read both. They are well-written books which dig into some gritty issues without being "preachy." You'll walk away reminded that God is indeed good, all the time -- even when life is hard.
(This review was first published at sarahruut.com. I received a complimentary copy of this novel in exchange for an honest review. The thoughts expressed here are entirely my own.)
This book wasn't what I expected. It blew my mind in a totally magnificent way. It was a roller coastal of emotions and thoughts. The characters were so relatable. The family dynamics with their ups and downs like every other family. A story that everyone can relate to even without trying.
A beautiful, heartwarming, hearttouching story of grace and God healing brokenness.
I received a copy of this book and this is my honest opinion.
Brenda S. Anderson is a great author. She knows how to draw her readers in and get them involved with her characters. She creates relatable real-life situations within her plot. In Pieces of Granite, a Mosaic Collection book, we meet Jerry who has a lot of baggage from his family of origin as well as his first marriage. We also meet Debbie, a family counselor who left practice to be a full time mom. She has always been the “perfect” daughter/sister/wife/mom but she is finding she can’t hold everything together as well as she used to. Pieces of Granite deals with the struggle of failure, the struggle of facing the birth of a baby with Down Syndrome, the struggle of not being able to “be God” but having to rely on Him. Brenda S. Anderson tells the story with feeling that readers will empathize with, even if they haven’t found themselves in the situations the characters face. Pieces of Granite is the prequel to the Coming Home series. I look forward to reading more in the series. Pieces of Granite is an adult novel and, while there is nothing in it to prevent its addition to a K-12 Christian School library, I’m not sure it would find an audience in such a setting. If added it would probably only appeal to faculty/staff and a few older high school students. It would be a great addition to a church library. I received a complimentary e-copy from the author because I am part of her street team and the Mosaic Collection Launch Team. This is my honest review.
This book held my attention from the very start. It was well written, and the author made me feel all the emotions that Jerry, Debbie and Ricky felt. I appreciated a story about a woman who, though she was strong, needed help. We all need to recognize our need of help, especially from God but also from those around us. No one can do everything on their own! I also liked that a Down's Syndrome child was a focal point in this story, and the thoughts about abortion that were discussed. The main thing I did not care for in the story was that Jerry was a divorced man before he married Debbie. I also did not appreciate some of the language used, but there was not much of that. Marital relations were alluded to a couple of times, but carefully. Overall, this is a very clean book with a much-needed message. I received a free copy of this book from JustRead Publicity Tours, and these are my honest thoughts about it.
Wow! Wow! Wow! What a read! A can't put it down. Grabs you from the beginning. So very emotional that you are right there with the characters. Even though you get frustrated with the husband and the brothers, this author writes so well that you feel their pain and understand it even as you want to reach into the story and shake them good. I will read more from this author. I loved this emotional Christian romance fiction dealing with real life issues. This author leaves you with the knowledge that God is always there if you will turn to Him to help you deal with any issues life may throw you. I was given this book for an honest opinion.
A great story dealing with real life challenges, expectations, failures, and choices. When “for better or worse “ becomes more than a person can manage where can one turn? Debbie takes a risk that can fix or further fracture her marriage and finds that naive choices can lead to unexpected consequences. Realistic issues and relationships; thought provoking. Highly recommend.
I was interested in this book before I began to read it. I have worked with children that have Downs Syndrome and wanted to see how the author would deal with this. I love it! Brenda has characters that are true to life. At times I wanted to ask them what they were thinking of and why they were doing the things they were. I’m looking forward to reading the rest in this series. I was given a copy of this book in return for an honest review.