I'm writing this at about 50% done and I am not sure I'm going to get through this one (if this review is marked DNF, you'll know I didn't).
The attitudes the town is taking toward Ronnie cheating is just... gross. "Ha ha, he's a man, they all make mistakes," is the theme I'm getting here. Even Maddie, whose cheating husband got a woman pregnant in the previous book, is all, "Oh tee hee, well if he's the father of your child, you should definitely fight for the relationship." Yeah. I think I'll be passing on going back and reading Maddie's book.
I don't make a secret that I'm a sucker for a good grovel. I'm not going to say that cheating is a deal-breaker for me in a book -- but there damn well better be some angst and major suffering for the cheater in this situation. In this case, we're supposed to let bygones be bygones that Ronnie cheated because his self absorbed teenage daughter is anorexic. Plus, regarding abandoning his daughter for two years, he was, like, super-sad about it, guys.
And seriously, what the hell is that attitude about? Forgetting for a minute the "romance" part of this book, he didn't see his kid for two years. He wasn't in jail, falsely accused of a crime he didn't commit, or even nobly serving a sentence for a crime he did commit. He wasn't trapped on a deserted island when his plane crashed. He wasn't on a cruise ship that got hijacked by pirates and sold to white slavers. He just missed two years of his only child's life just because his ex wife was mad and hurt. There is no universe where staying gone for two years makes him a good guy or any kind of a loving father. And when the book begins, he's all, "Hm, maybe it's time for me to get my family back -- I think I'll wait for a sign." Ya think, dipshit?
And regarding Dana Sue... I dunno guys. At the beginning of the book she has a daughter who is 90 pounds, has passed out from lack of nutrition once before, and she's busy convincing herself the kid is totally eating. Then again, I know denial is more than a river in Egypt and it is easy to convince yourself that something isn't wrong. And while I get the rage and betrayal she felt at finding out the love of her life cheated with another woman, be an adult. At the time she had a 14 year old kid and she's just going to demand that he leaves town and not see his daughter? I mean given the bang-up job she did with monitoring her kid's eating disorder, she just comes across as really selfish.
And regarding said kid... Well I was thinking about skipping ahead and reading Annie's book. But then I realized, it's essentially just a regurgitation of this plot, combined with Maddie's plot (i.e., cheating husband gets another woman pregnant, but then is also the HEA). And while I might want to read that someday, I think I need some time to be less annoyed -- especially if this author's way of making you forgive the guy for cheating essentially amounts to, "Well, all guys make dumb mistakes." So maybe not.
UPDATE AT 81% (and cursing will follow): This has turned into a rage read. On the one hand, I don't have long to go. On the other hand, fuck everyone. Fuck Dana Sue for being blind to her kid's eating disorder for a full year, fuck the kid for blaming her mother for the father's affair because she got fat (as opposed to the father for screwing around -- and I guess she was at one point, but it all happened off-page, so it meant nothing for me), and most especially, fuck Ronnie for really just telling the heroine, essentially, he cheated because he wanted to see if she could forgive him anything (I'm paraphrasing - it's not quite what he said, but it's the gist).
But most of all, fuck the author. I have said repeatedly, I can be a bit misandrist in some of these books, but I have never held men to a standard of "boys will be boys" when it comes to cheating. I expect them to be better than that because I think that's what true man-hating is: to expect less of men because of their gender. No, not everyone makes that mistake, shitty people do, and I've lost count of how many times characters in this book (especially Maddie) have said some equivalent of, "Men cheat." Yeah, sure, maybe, but the ones that do need to be kicked to the curb or dragged over hot coals because that is not acceptable behavior in a marriage. I fail to see a whole lot of difference between Maddie's husband in her book and Ronnie in this one. And I have failed to see any true remorse on his part, other than two years of choosing to be away from his kid. Dana Sue brought it up a few chapters ago and his response was, I shit you not, "Old news" because he was tired of hearing about it. Yeah, dude? I'm sure she's tired of thinking of it too.
This guy did not deserve an HEA. Then again, I'm not sure any of this family did.