From one of the sharpest observers of the modern scene, comes this witty, intelligent, and irresistible novel in the tradition of Gosford Park and Snobs.
A man of wealth and privilege, Anthony Anscombe has everything he could ever an exquisite family estate, enviable social standing, and a desirable inheritance. But with all of his money and privilege, Anthony still has an aching desire for one the perfect match. Running headlong into marriage is Anthony's forte…and his greatest weakness.
As Anthony surveys Winchford Priory, his beautiful Elizabethan house in the English countryside, Anthony has the distinct feeling that he's under siege. And he's absolutely right. He may be surrounded by his sprawling estate, but lurking in the village are more than one or two reminders of his complicated past, including three ex-wives, a mistress, and a legion of children and stepchildren, all dependent on him and all determined to do whatever it takes to get what they want.
Meet the wives
the ravishing first wife. Unpredictable and mesmerizing, she dared Anthony to fall in love with her, and he took her up on the challenge. Anthony was head over heels from the first night they danced on the rooftop of his family home. Of course, the free-spirited Amanda was never cut out for country life, but young love is blind.
the steadfast second wife. Sturdy, dependable and domesticated, Sandra pulled Anthony back from the compelling chaos that surrounded his first wife. Sandra had plans to turn Anthony's estate into a proper family home, until a stunning secret forced her to make a life-altering decision.
the snobbish third wife. A true force of nature, Dita was smart, tough, rapaciously social and high-maintenance. She enthusiastically stormed through Anthony's life, organizing and rearranging, and rubbing plenty of people the wrong way, particularly the previous Mrs. Anscombes and their children.
With the entire cast of his life roosting in the village, it's no wonder Anthony doesn't have a minute's peace! Adding to the crazy mix is the mistress, Nora, a new age hippy and acupuncturist, whom Anthony seduced with disastrous consequences.
A Much Married Man is a wickedly funny social satire with memorable characters that will stay with readers long after the final page. Like a modern day Edith Wharton or Anthony Trollope, Nicholas Coleridge delivers a sensational glimpse inside the salacious world of the upper classes.
Nicholas David Coleridge CBE is the Managing Director of the magazine publishing house Condé Nast in Britain. He was awarded the 1982 prize for British Press Awards Young Journalist of the Year when he was a columnist at the Evening Standard, and the Mark Boxer Lifetime Achievement Award for magazine journalism by the British Society of Magazine Editors in 2001.
He has written twelve books, both fiction and non-fiction, based largely upon either his professional life (The Fashion Conspiracy, Paper Tigers, With Friends Like These) or social novels (Godchildren, A Much Married Man, "Deadly Sins"). He has been Chairman of the PPA - the magazine publishers' association - and Chairman of the British Fashion Council. He was founding Chairman of Fashion Rocks, the fashion and rock music annual extravaganza, which has raised more than £3 million to date for the Prince's Trust charity. He was on the Advisory Board for the Concert for Diana, Wembley Stadium 2007. He has been a member of the Council of the Royal College of Art, and a member of the Trading Board of the Prince's Trust and is Deputy Chairman of The Campaign for Wool, 2009-. He is a Director of PressBof, the parent organisation of the Press Complaints Commission. As a journalist, he has been an irregular contributor to the Daily and Sunday Telegraph, The Spectator and the Financial Times.
He is the great-great-great-great-great nephew of the poet, Samuel Taylor Coleridge. He was educated at Eton College and Trinity College, Cambridge where he studied Theology and History of Art.
He is married to the author and children's book reviewer Georgia Metcalfe. His enthusiasms include India and Indian art, gardening, sunbathing, hillwalking and photography.
Picked this up for free when I was desperate for a read. Just terrible. Thoroughly misogynist, casually racist, crudely cruel about physical appearance. The most disgusting thing about this pointless, offensive book (among many, I don't have time for a complete catalogue of its sins) is the casual way it treats sexual assault. There's a minor character, a stepson named Morad, who is a total psychopath. At 16 he strips a bathing suit off a 14 year old, violently. He drags her six feet under water, and then continues his attack:
"Through the distortion of the water, and the tangle of flailing limbs, it was hard to see what was going on, but Katie looked terrified down there. She was trying to fight him off, pushing at his face, and Morad was ripping at her bikini top which finally came away in his hand. Briefly, he rose to the surface...Katie surfaced, sobbing...But Morad was dragging Katie back under, this time wrenching at her bikini bottoms with stubby, brutal fingers. Grasping the elastic waistband, he dragged them down around her knees...Katie looked stricken as Morad jerked the bikini bottoms right over her ankles, and rushed to cover a delicate triangle of copper-coloured pubic hair with her hands..." (edited for length)
This passage, by the way, is not the first (or the last) time the author focuses inappropriately on the sexual characteristics of an underaged child. The vicious detail of the incident is appallingly out of the blue, and then is never properly addressed. There's a complete change of tone. After this incident, Morad gets ducked in the pool, but that's it. No one does anything. The whole point of this incident is to show that Morad's a baddy and his mom protects him, but there's no mention of how Katie copes.
65 pages later, Morad shoots Katie's dog, out of spite that she's still not interested in him. They don't have enough proof, they say, so no one calls the police, again.
Less than 40 pages later, Morad drugs Katie, then sexually assaults her. The main character walks in on the scene:
"To his surprise he heard a moaning sound coming from the television room, as if someone was ill in there. He pushed open the door an was met by one of the most revolting sights imaginable. Poor, sweet Katie was lying on the sofa, virtually passed out and whimpering. Her dress was pulled up above her waist and her knickers yanked below her knees. Standing over her with a hideous leering expression was Morad, vigorously masturbating over her supine body."
Again, there's sickening detail and savagery to this premeditated attack and the way it is described, but the tone abruptly changes once more. The action cuts out there to the next chapter, where Morad, AFTER SEXUALLY ASSAULTING A DRUGGED CHILD, is simply banned from the house for 6 months. No one calls the police. Again. This is how it's dealt with:
"As for Katie, she was a dear girl. Not only was she the prettiest of them all, she was also the easiest. She had been sweetly forgiving over the latest hideous Morad episode, even though Anthony knew she had been badly freaked out by it, and had suffered from nightmares for weeks afterwards. Sandra said she wouldn't be surprised if the episode put Katie off boys for life, and she would have reported Morad to the police had [Katie's family] not been living in one of [the main character and his 3rd wife]'s houses, which made it quite literally too close to home. Katie kept insisting that it really didn't matter."
Remember, this book is a comedy.
Later, Morad drugs and date-rapes another girl, goes to trial, and the victim is paid off by a rich stepfather. Eventually at the end of the book, in a couple of random sentences, it's revealed that at some point he gets done for robbery and gets an 18 month sentence.
This is supposed to be a comedy! The rapes of these girls are nothing more than light-weight movers in a sub-plot of no importance: basically their function is to prove that the main character's 3rd wife is a terrible person who is will defend her terrible son at all costs, as if it hadn't been already demonstrated in a hundred blindingly obvious examples. Eventually it leads to the breakup of this 3rd marriage, but you know, that could have happened a hundred different ways. Any of which could have worked without without the grotesque, bizarre, exploitive child abuse and rape casually deployed in a comedy.
I really can't express how much I hated everything about this book. I read it to the end, in disbelief, hoping that it would somehow make sense, but the trite, ridiculous ending rambles on until it sputters to a boring joke. On the second to last page, after an absurd breakneck section summing up and tying up every loose end of every minor character, Katie is mentioned once more:
"Katie led a rather solitary life in London...Since the incident with Morad at Dita's lunch party, Katie hadn't had a steady boyfriend, and Anthony hoped it hadn't put her off for life. On the other hand, she seemed perfectly happy without one, in her vague, arty way."
Oh, that's okay then. Her abuse in her early teens by a member of the extended family has left her unable to form healthy relationships, but no big deal.
I'm appalled that it's so popular, I can't imagine who the audience is.
I'm neither a prude nor a snob, and I've read lots of "terrible" books that I've enjoyed or admired on some level, at least. But this was just disgusting. Zero stars, if that was possible.
I read this when it first came out...12 years ago...I see, which is probably why I remembered very little. There are a lot of legitimate criticisms of this book in other reviews,and I could add some more. They clearly jumped out at me more this time around or surely I would have found these flaws more memorable. But I decided to just read it as escapist trashy entertainment and not worry about it otherwise. Much easier.
This book was a nice 'getaway' book....it didn't take a lot of concentration or translation of big words to enjoy this delicious novel. i read it in 2 days, actually. it's a very interesting trip into modern British society, with the narrator as a bumbling and sometimes dense - but successful - man, who gets sucked into marriage after marriage with hilarious results.
I wish I could give 3.75 but feel guilty about a 4 star review. If you like Downton Abbey you'll enjoy this book. It's like a modern day postscript to all that English drama. My husband reminded me that I can go to the library, so I did, and it's a fantastic book to check out from your local branch.
what a page turner! how one man manages to get involved with so many women- and how he learns that marriage is not what he thought it would be- after many wives and children. A terrific summer project!
A fun beach read, especially as we have spent much time in England. However, Anthony was infuriating to observe---I wanted to shake some sense into him regarding his thoughts about women. Always gallant, but more than a little foolish.
Definitely a fun and quick read. You'll covet pieces of each of the characters lives and then want to reach out to help them as things don't go their way.
like a modern day forsyte saga (and enjoyable for that in itself), but the "modern"-ity of it ruins the ending...everything wraps up too happily and neatly, the crisp wryness degenerates into sap.
so far, so good. I am just finishing up with wife 1 (apparently there are 3 ex-wives/wives and a mistress all living in the same village in England). Interesting so far.
Lots of foreshadowing leaving few surprised. A little annoying how the author would make a major event suddenly seem minor by having it play a small role in the next chapter. Still not bad overall.
This was pretty good. I could totally see it as a tv series or movie. I like how it all wrapped up neatly into a bow as it concluded. It was an entertaining light read.
Anthony - what can I say, a bit of an idiot when it comes to women but his heart is in the right place, at least he tries to do what he thinks is the right thing but is somewhat naive although charming, bumbling yet successful at work and not always a good reader of a persons character.
His wives - all seem to be selfish in their own way but with the exception of Dita do at least have redeeming qualities.
Barely 3-star read about a hapless English aristocrat who impulsively entwines himself with a series of unsuitable partners: in turn, a peripatetic and untamable wild child, a maternal, mom-jean-wearing homebody, a daft new age healer, and a superficial society lady. It’s an entertaining story as far as it goes, but the protagonist is so impotent and the foils so bromidic and one-dimensional that it negatively impacted the book as a whole.
I ADORED this book, drew me in and kept me reading until the end. I was surprised to see poor reviews, this is one of my often recommended books with success. It’s been a while since I’ve read it so I cannot recall details but I loved it’s over-the-top characters and English setting. It’s one I will happily read again.
An entertaining read but one that I thought, at first, I would not enjoy but found myself thoroughly absorbed by the end. it tells the story of Anthony Ascombe and his family; he is born into the aristocracy as his family own a private bank. However through various liaisons and marriages his life begins a downward spiral where eventually he finds contentment & happiness.
Nicholas Coleridge is a joy. The comedy of manners isn't a top genre these days but it should be. Where else can you find insightful analysis wrapped in a good joke? The three marriages show the many different sides of Modern British life. Lovely.
Felt sorry for this man, just could not find happiness. Too many children to be responsible for, his and wives from previous marriages. Sad, never happy with anyone, too many affairs.
Diverse cast of characters in a fun British romp, that should have been edited or cut by about 200 pages. This had so much potential, but somehow missed the mark. Things I would have omitted and a much better ending. But still enjoyable.
I wish I could give this zero stars. It took me 3 years to read this, because I'm a glutton for punishment and I can't not finish something once I start it. Luckily, I didn't pay money for this, because I would be livid.
I cannot understand the number of great reviews this book has, and the number of people calling it an easy read. It's extremely wordy, and 90% of it is just. so. boring.
It's a book about a spoiled, rich Englishman. That's it. That's the book. There's absolutely no point. Please don't waste your time.
There’s nothing like a good British soap opera/social comedy. Especially in the summer. Nicholas Coleridge’s A Much Married Man is just the thing for a summer vacation.
In this very long, but very enjoyable novel which begins inman.jpg 1965, Anthony Anscombe, a charming, if naive country gentleman, is from a wealthy Cotswold banking family that also owns most of the lovely village of Winchford, Oxfordshire. One night, at his parent’s annual ‘fork supper,’ he spies Amanda across the room and falls madly in love. The free spirit dares him to follow her to France (she’s going there the next day) which he does, and they share a romantic interlude during a storm which clinches the deal. They marry and have a child, Jasmine. But soon the impetuous Amanda leaves him. And so begins Anthony’s habit of marrying the wrong woman. By 1995, he has 3 ex-wives and 10 children and stepchildren. Which, despite the chaos and the amount of money he shells out, he really enjoys. As Coleridge puts it:
“There were times when Anthony wondered how it had all worked out like this; he felt he had ended up at the epicentre of an enormous adhesive spider’s web, upon which legions of ex-lovers, ex-wives, children and extended families were stuck for ever, all looking to him to feed, house and educate them.”
Anthony becomes extraordinarily rich, and loses everything; there are surprises revealed at the village cricket game, rock concerts, modeling careers, an evil stepson, international travel and more. Our hero, though a bit of a dolt where women are concerned, is thoroughly likeable. And though it could have stood a bit of editing (periodic updates on all those 10 kids could be a bit monotonous) it was a heck of a lot of fun finding out who Anthony would end up with.
For a PBS-like satire of upper-class British society, this novel is just perfect.
The greatest challenge in the writing of this novel was surely to make the reader sympathise with a protagonist who is heir to a massive country pile which comes with its own village and - get this - its own private bank. Somehow, by making him a self-effacing type who almost has to pinch himself every now and then ('no, I'm not dreaming, I really do own a bank') this is achieved - though my sympathy for him was vastly reduced by his failure to act decisively at the end of chapter 36.
That aside, this was a nicely paced, soapy read which follows the fortunes of its characters over a gratifyingly long period of time. It was particularly fun when, quite near the end, the characters are involved in planning a large music festival. I was at one while I was reading this which added an interesting dimension. This bit of the plot was an opportunity to have some fun (the planning stages were like something out of 'The Vicar of Dibley) and there were some wildly unlikely scenarios (not least the candles), but it was all good fun. Of all the books I've read by this author, there hasn't been a bad one yet.
It's a cliche that book reviewers have overused over decades.... "a rollicking romp." I never really knew exactly what was meant by a rollicking romp, but now that I've read this book, there is no other way to describe it. There is nothing taxing or cerebral about this book at all. You won't have any sudden insights into anything. Throughout, however, I was thoroughly entertained. It is often funny and always gossipy in tone, but it is gossip from a man's point of view and an Enlish man at that. I sometimes could not understand English words for things but it wasn't at all a hindrance to the story. This is the story of Anthony, called Ant by a few of his wives, who was born to take over his family's bank and the village and home they owned. He meets and marries several women throughout his life, all very different, yet all ending in divorce. However, he seems to have accumulated children and stepchildren throughout with the problems inherent of most blended families that all come back to roost at his home, The Priory. Just lots of fun and I enjoyed myself thoroughly.
Full disclosure-- I skipped approximately 30-40 pages, because-- so boring. I literally couldn't care less about most of these characters, including the protagonist. He's not very self aware-- just overall annoying and thinks with his... yeah, obviously. I found the plot to be derivative, because I am old enough to know what others may consider 'ancient history'-- the 60's and 70's. (awkwardly trying to say that younger readers have no context to the 'Age of Camelot' and it's aftermath--- The Kennedy White House years,and Jackie O.
All the characters are stereotypes, and not that interesting. I understand the novel is meant as satire-- but ultimately, I just wasn't that interested in these people.
A little too specific in a few places-- IE: If you aren't British, some of the references are a tad obscure== not a big deal overall.