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Madeline Says Merci: The Always-Be-Polite Book

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Madeline learns her manners!

Madeline loves adventure and is not afraid of mice. She loves winter, snow, and ice. And she also knows the secret to being polite is simply to be kind to others. With help from her friends—Miss Clavel, the girls, and even Pepito—Madeline introduces basic ideas such as please and thank you, sharing, cleaning up, and so much more. With charming illustrations and humorous verse, this new book will be treasured by Madeline fans of all ages.

48 pages, Hardcover

First published September 1, 2001

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John Bemelmans Marciano

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John Bemelmans Marciano carries on the legacy begun by his grandfather, Ludwig Bemelmans, author and illustrator of the Madeline books, with stunning watercolor artwork and playful, energetic storytelling.

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218 reviews33 followers
January 28, 2009
If you're a fan of the Madeline series, this is definitely a book to put on your shelf. I love the smaller size of this book in comparison to the classic Madeline hardcover books. Each page contains beautiful, colorful illustrations by Ludwig Bemelmans's grandson, John Bemelmans Marciano. And, of course, the signature rhymes that make Madeline so memorable.

This isn't a typical Madeline book in that it doesn't tell a story. Instead, it's divided into sections that teach young children good manners. There are sections on how to say "please", "thank you" and "sorry", among others.

A wonderful addition to the series of Madeline books.

53 reviews1 follower
February 17, 2021
This book is less of a narrative and more of a direct list of manners. The art style is exactly what you love about Madeline books. That beautiful color-pencil-esque that shows you exactly which book you are reading. Unfortunately, Madeline herself rarely makes an appearance. There are a mix of outdated manners as well as some that aren't useful to the majority of children. I would not want to read this again and I could not imagine it being captivating to a young audience. I think I would only use this if I was trying to teach manners to a child who was already obsessed with Madeline. The tone is strange and some of the rhymes were forced. However, it was a list of manners with a nicely decorated background. Each set of manners was separated by when or where you would need them, for example the dinner table. However, each set was missing a lot of the basic ones in favor for letting you know to curtsy for the queen. Again, the child who this would resonate with seems to be evading me. It seems more like something a passive-aggressive grandmother would give you as a birthday present.
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September 5, 2022
I have a soft spot for Madeline stories, but this was really uncomfortable. Teaches old style politeness that pretends to be "kindness" that I grew up with. No chance for children (although strongly aimed at girls so even worse) to advocate for themselves or have their own feelings heard. Not the type of behaviours I want to encourage in my work kids. Rather teach empathy and respect.
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22 reviews1 follower
June 19, 2017
Great book, especially if your little ones are already into Madeline books. My 3 year old actually started putting into practice this book's advise after a few times of reading this book.
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248 reviews1 follower
February 21, 2019
In the age of potty mouth, this might be a book I read again to my teenagers.
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1,554 reviews5 followers
April 5, 2022
One of the better spin-offs of the Madeline collection that introduces children to proper and polite etiquette.
1,824 reviews17 followers
December 11, 2023
I have always loved the Madeline book from when i was a small girl in the 1960s. So glad to found them again as an adult!
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38 reviews10 followers
March 25, 2024
Cute lyrical book to talk about kindness and manners
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June 11, 2025
I’m so glad I know how to say thank you now
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6,208 reviews115 followers
July 4, 2025
Madeline Says Merci: The Always Be Polite Book (Madeline) by John Bemelmans Marciano - This is a cute addition to your Madeline collection! Happy Reading!
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32 reviews
February 7, 2018
This is a great book to read on the first day of school! Students can create their own rules on how to be polite and use their manners.
60 reviews
November 18, 2016
Madeline has a few tips on how to always be polite. We should always remember to say hello, please and thank you and I'm sorry when necessary. But all of these polite manners come down to being kind, which is most important.

I have always LOVED Madeline and this book was no exception. I love the rhyming and the sweet pictures of the little girls. I love that it especially emphasized being kind, because that's where manners come from.

This would be a great book to have in the classroom or use to do a lesson plan about being polite and having good manners. I could use this as a social worker to read with any child struggling with being polite to others.
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3,857 reviews109 followers
December 22, 2014
Manners! I sound like an old grump when I say kids these day need more manners, but the lessons here are such BASIC things that we were taught as children, which sadly are not taught enough anymore. I would dearly love to see the ideas in this book take root.

Also, found myself thinking that for a child who is autistic, this might be a perfect book to use as a way to teach some basic social skills in a way they can understand. We spent a lot of time working with lessons that reinforce social skills and this is another way to repeat some of that in an interesting way.
891 reviews21 followers
September 16, 2014
Madeline is BACK!!! This nice book came out years after the death of author Ludwig Belemans and it's a pleasure getting reacquainted with the original joie de vivre girl! Here she leads old and new fans into lessons of kindness, something missing in plenty of kids books these days, and reminds us that being nice and polite has not gone out of style! Even in an age where MTV tells kids to "stop being polite and start being real" I say--WHY BE EITHER? Kindness is IN! It's what the French call "de rigeure" So: drop the Real World and let's be nice! It's more tres maginifique! Noblesse oblige!
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16 reviews
May 10, 2013
It is probably my love for things French which makes this book a delight to read.

Everything about this book makes me smile; "Being Sorry's most important part is that it comes straight from the heart".

In this book, simple manners and etiquette are explored using the much loved icon, Madeline. Although this is probably aimed for younger children. I feel that this could be enjoyed by a sparse audience.
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2,143 reviews22 followers
December 14, 2019
I wasn't a huge fan of the rhymes in this book -- many were fairly awkward and forced. The advice for the most part was okay; the book definitely covers many bases.

The best part about the book is that the kids I read it to (three- and four-year-olds) really liked it. I was skeptical that a plotless book like this could hold their attention. Maybe it was just the presence of Madeline or maybe it's just more fun than I thought. But they liked it.
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228 reviews1 follower
February 13, 2016
This book did not make my children polite little darlings, but we all enjoyed the story.
I loved the sing-song narrative and the sweet, important, and thoughtful reminders:

"As you read, please keep in mind
It all comes down to being kind.
Don't forget to think of others -
Parents, pets, and little brothers."

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335 reviews34 followers
September 14, 2016
So I'm reading a lot of kids books because of my new job. I hadn't heard of this Madeline book (turns out because it's by the original author's grandson), so I paused for a moment to read it at work yesterday. Cute enough, nice references to the original Madeline books. I would definitely read it to a younger kid.
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410 reviews4 followers
October 31, 2014
OK, well, I already knew most of the stuff in this one, but I guess it's good to be reminded, and I know some people who need to read this book.
I love the drawings. I've seen other books with these girls in them and have to find more of them.
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24 reviews1 follower
February 26, 2015
I love the illustrations in the Madeline books. I chose this book because it has a good way of presenting social skills to younger children. It allows you to read certain parts and then talk to the kids about each skill. The book is simple yet full of good information for younger kids.
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7 reviews
December 12, 2016
This is a book that every parent should own. My daughters want it to be read every night and keep repeating the good manners and habits of good girls and then ask me if they are good girls. I love this book not only for the positive message but for it's brilliantly rhyming story.
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97 reviews
October 23, 2008
Some of the illustrations in this book are reproduced in the Story Park at Worthington Park Library. Hoorah!!
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