Though I only gave this book 3 stars, I did enjoy this book. I though that for the most part it was well written, especially the descriptions about Papua New Guinea and it's people.
But there were some things I was a tad annoyed at, also. For instance, the book started off in present time, then moved into the character telling the story of how she came to be in that position, but it wasn't really made clear, and it left me confused. The same with transitioning back into the present time near the end of the book. The character would also seem to be confused and ready to give up, ready to say something to someone, and then change her mind. Once or twice would be OK, but after many times it got slightly annoying, as I tend to stay on the same feelings track as the character, and it made me switch emotions. Other people may work differently than I, though. I didn't always understand the character either, though this is probably credited to the fact that I have never been: (a) 40, (b) in a romantic relationship, and (c) on a missions trip. :) The ending also left me a little dissatisfied and confused. I do not believe that you should have a long distance relationship if you are married, even if not on a regular basis. I believe God wants you to be near your spouses side to help and to grown with them. To support them through anything.
However, I really did enjoy seeing the characters walk with God grow closer and more intimate, and getting to experience Papua New Guinea (and that beloved child called Poo) alongside Johanna. The spiritual part of it was enjoyable, despite the entire marriage thing.