Combinations: Opening The Door To Student Leadership Review
Combinations by Ed Gerety is an informational and inspiring book. It’s goal is to communicate to the reader the important skills, values, and virtues a successful student leader must possess. This book does a wonderful job explaining why each skill is important, and gives examples of each put into practice. Combinations is a great book for students to learn leadership skills at a young age. The values and skills taught are important in life, and I learned a lot from reading it, and doing the activities inside the book.
There are six values that are covered in the book. All of them can be paired together and, the first group is Gratitude and Attitude. These two qualities relate because one leads to the other. Gratitude is showing appreciation and thankfulness. “ We often don't realize how important it is to express our feelings until it’s too late (Gerety 25).”The book teaches that the importance of gratitude is the effect it has on your attitude. The more you can appreciate other people, the more positive your outlook will be. Attitude is a huge part in being a student leader.
Having the right mindset, and a good attitude is a huge role in being a leader of any age. “ Having a positive attitude is not letting others make you feel down (Gerety 47).”The book explains this concept through an old folktale about three frogs. Two frogs jump into a bucket that is a challenge to get out of. While trying to get out another frog comes along and starts to say mean things to two frogs in the bucket and, says they will never get out and they will die in there. Only one frog made it out, because he was deaf and couldn’t hear the negativity of the mean frog. Leaders can’t let their own struggles or doubts affect their confidence. It is a domino effect and when they let it happen to them, the whole group will fall. This is why attitude is such an important part in being a leader.
The next group of eachings in this book are goals and believing. To be a good leader, establishing goals is key. These goals should be very specific and focused. Instead of of saying “ I want to go into medicine”, say “ I want to be a pediatric doctor in New York, and work at the office my dad once did.” When we focus on our goals, and they are very specific, it is easier to accomplish them. We know exactly what we need to work on in order to be properly equipped. “ On the path of leadership write down your goals and look at them often. Encourage yourself and make sure your eyes are always on the prize (Gerety 74).” Making goals are key to being a good student leader, but believing in them are important as well.
Believing is related to goals because you need to believe that your dreams will come true. This also has a lot to do with attitude. “ Believe in yourself, and believe in others (Gerety 127).” The book talks about the difference between having a good work ethic, desire, and believing. If you work hard and want something but don’t believe you will get it, there is no point in trying for anything. Believing that your hard work and desire will pay off is key. “ Believing means that statements will start with ‘ I am going to.’” If I want to by a doctor then I would say “ I am going to be a doctor.” Believing in your goals is key.
The last grouping in the book is kindness and respect. To master respect, kindness is the first step. As a leader, treating others as kindly is key. It is the golden rule. “ Treat others as you would like to be treated(Gerety 109).” Being kind will help others feel like they can trust you, and help them to see that you’re a good person. To get people to buy into a leader, kindness is important. But don’t be fake with your group. This is why respect is so hard to earn. It takes a perfect amount of kindness and honesty.
Respect is one of the hardest things to earn in life. It’s the largest section of the book, because it is key to becoming a good leader. “ Being talented is a gift and hard work is a choice, but you will never become a leader if your aren’t respected ( Gerety 144).” Respect isn’t only treating your group with respect. It also means treating yourself with respect. Eating right, and going to bed at the right time all is important and will show your group that you really care about them.
Overall Combinations has taught me a lot about being a good student leader. Through different stories and analogies, the book did a great job of getting through key aspects of what is needed to become a leader. The activities in the book may seem cheesy, but do them. Think them through and you will learn something about yourself and how to become a better leader.