I picked up this book because I have a very strong opinion about having children while humans are destroying our planet (I am personally very against having children and think other people should not have many either) and I was hoping this book would give me a fresh perspective and open my mind. Sadly, I think it failed at that. I did enjoy the perspective of race on climate anxiety and the decision to have kids. I think that is really important and people should focus more on the intersection of racism and these issues. Overall, this book skimmed over several important topics that I thought needed more discussion and gave very small interview sections of people’s stories. I would have liked full access to interviews and think I would have related with people better. I also think skimming over topics is dangerous. For example, what really got me worked up was that Sasser was quite persistent that human population growth is not a bad thing, which I am surprised by and wholly do not agree with. (I rant more about that below.) For a very short book, I think it was not bad and is a good conversation starter for several interesting conversations.
Human population growth rant:
I very much agree that “ecofascist” (people who are against non-white people having children) are terrible people and should absolutely not speak that rhetoric. But having more people overall on our planet is a bad thing. Sasser gives all the same statistics that the white men on Fox News give, that the US population is greatly declining and this is bad for our economy and workforce. These ideas rely purely on our capitalist society. It is capitalism that needs people and it is capitalism that is ruining our environment. It is our terrible capitalist economy that requires more people to work, it is not necessary for life. Yes, there may be no correlation that more people create more greenhouse gas emissions, but that does not mean people do not cause harm to our planet. We need less people on this planet because we just do not have enough space or resources to feed, clothe, and house more people. We already have a shortage of affordable housing, more people just make that worse. We already have a food system that struggles to provide affordable food to people and uses way too much land. We already pollute the Earth with so much plastic and waste because of all the items that people consume. Yes, people absolutely need to live more sustainably and that will fix a lot of the issues, but we also just need less people because every person eats and every person needs to live somewhere. Yes, maybe our plant can “support” another few billion people, but how many of those people will be living in poverty? (Too many) How many acres of land with be left for nature? (Not enough) How much wildlife on our land and in our oceans will those people see? (Not many) The less people we have, the higher chance we have to do things right.
Notes (from Introduction)
* In a non-scientific opinion survey conducted in 2021, 75% of Gen Zers said they weren’t planning to have children because of climate change.
* Many people have ignored race when talking about climate change and the kid question.
* Climate anxiety and climate change are a bigger reason for Hispanic (41%) and Black respondents (30%) to not want children versus white respondents (21%).
* Ongoing legacies of colonization intensify not only the lived experience of climate change, but also its mental and emotional effects. This is called climate coloniality.
* In 2019, Miley Cyrus said, “We’re getting handed a piece of shit planet, and I refused to hand that down to my child. Until I feel like my kid would live in a world on earth with fish in the water, I’m not bringing in another person to deal with that.” Many Millennials and Gen Zers have the same thinking. They do not talk about not wanting children though. They are identifying conditions on why they cannot have children. This is not a personal decision, it is a response to a public social problem that we are collectively experiencing.
* Society tells us that it is a moral obligation to have children and is necessary for a happy life. Ironically, research over the decades, especially in the United States, shows that parents are less happy than childfree people. This parenting “happiness gap” is most prominent in the United States due to the lack of policies that would help parents thrive and have a balanced life (paid time off, childcare subsidies, etc.).
* We need to not accept state failures as personal failures. We have larger structural system failures that has made us lack reproductive justice.