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349 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 1979
They said: the series of events in the mind cannot be understood as a coherent pattern, only as observed, separate, even fragmented parts of a jumble. You cannot say: This inventory can be totalled and has such and such a meaning: all you can say is: it is there. (p.326)
What made us not know? Why were we uncertain of our identity? Surely other races, other times, other people were born knowing exactly what they were and where they fitted in. (p.287)
(The brains behind the Mass-Observation Archive during WW2 thought so, and so did those behind the persistent requests for us to record our pandemic experiences for posterity. Which I ignored, for reasons explained in my review of Blitz Spirit (2020), compiled by Becky Brown.)There was a great demand for our bodies. We girls didn't put all that much value on what our bodies represented: they did that. We simply went along with it. We were necessary; it brought advantages. Little things, it's true, but little things were all that males could give.
In truth, those little things — the dinners, the sights, the money, the drives, the gifts, the sexual exercise — were all they had to give. (p.284)