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Raining Men
Sequel to Chaser
The character you loved to hate in Chaser becomes the character you will simply love in Raining Men.
It’s been raining men for most of Bobby Nelson’s adult life. Normally, he wouldn’t have it any other way, but lately something’s missing. Now, he wants the deluge to slow to a single special drop. But is it even possible for Bobby to find “the one” after endless years of hooking up?
When Bobby’s father passes away, Bobby finally examines his rocky relationship with the man and how it might have contributed to his inability to find the love he yearns for. Guided by a sexy therapist, a Sex Addicts Anonymous group, a well-endowed Chihuahua named Johnny Wadd, and Bobby’s own cache of memories, Bobby takes a spiritual, sexual, and emotional journey to discover that life’s most satisfactory love connections lie in quality, not quantity. And when he’s ready to love not only himself but someone else, sex and love fit, at last, into one perfect package.
The character you loved to hate in Chaser becomes the character you will simply love in Raining Men.
It’s been raining men for most of Bobby Nelson’s adult life. Normally, he wouldn’t have it any other way, but lately something’s missing. Now, he wants the deluge to slow to a single special drop. But is it even possible for Bobby to find “the one” after endless years of hooking up?
When Bobby’s father passes away, Bobby finally examines his rocky relationship with the man and how it might have contributed to his inability to find the love he yearns for. Guided by a sexy therapist, a Sex Addicts Anonymous group, a well-endowed Chihuahua named Johnny Wadd, and Bobby’s own cache of memories, Bobby takes a spiritual, sexual, and emotional journey to discover that life’s most satisfactory love connections lie in quality, not quantity. And when he’s ready to love not only himself but someone else, sex and love fit, at last, into one perfect package.
314 pages, Kindle Edition
First published May 30, 2013
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Rick R. Reed
123 books1,047 followersReal Men. True Love.
Rick R. Reed is an award-winning and bestselling author of more than sixty works of published fiction, spanning genres such as horror, psychological suspense and love stories. He is a Lambda Literary Award finalist and a multiple Rainbow Award winner.
Entertainment Weekly has described his work as “heartrending and sensitive.” Lambda Literary has called him: “A writer that doesn’t disappoint…”
Find him at www.rickrreedreality.blogspot.com. Rick lives in Palm Springs, CA, with his two rescue dogs, Kodi and Joaquin.
Rick R. Reed is an award-winning and bestselling author of more than sixty works of published fiction, spanning genres such as horror, psychological suspense and love stories. He is a Lambda Literary Award finalist and a multiple Rainbow Award winner.
Entertainment Weekly has described his work as “heartrending and sensitive.” Lambda Literary has called him: “A writer that doesn’t disappoint…”
Find him at www.rickrreedreality.blogspot.com. Rick lives in Palm Springs, CA, with his two rescue dogs, Kodi and Joaquin.
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December 16, 2013
I am a big fan of Rick R. Reed. He knows it. My friends know it. I have a goal to read everything he has ever put out as soon as I can. But I have to say that I was not looking forward to this book. Don't get me wrong, I have loved everything I've read of his to this point. However, my opinion of the main character of this book, Bobby Nelson, was formed strongly in Chaser. He was only a secondary (who played a big part) in that book but I saw enough of him to end that book hating his character with every fiber of my being. So I admit to being hesitant about reading his story. If I hate a character in one book (where he is not even a main character) it's pretty much a given that I will continue to once he gets his own starring role, so to speak. I couldn't have been more wrong in this case.
I was at 5% on my Kindle and already feeling sympathy for Bobby. Farther along I was rooting for him. By the end I totally loved him. Bobby embarks on a journey of self-awareness. He has a long road to travel before he finally gets where he needs to go but he does get there and he does it in a big way.
Another outstanding book by Rick R. Reed. Anyone who can turn my opinion of a character around like he did Bobby is one hell of a talented author.
The cover is gorgeous. Both cover and title are very fitting for the story.
Full review can be found at On Top Down Under Book Reviews.
This book was provided by Dreamspinner Press in exchange for a fair and honest review.
My Favorite Books of 2013 .
I was at 5% on my Kindle and already feeling sympathy for Bobby. Farther along I was rooting for him. By the end I totally loved him. Bobby embarks on a journey of self-awareness. He has a long road to travel before he finally gets where he needs to go but he does get there and he does it in a big way.
Another outstanding book by Rick R. Reed. Anyone who can turn my opinion of a character around like he did Bobby is one hell of a talented author.
The cover is gorgeous. Both cover and title are very fitting for the story.
Full review can be found at On Top Down Under Book Reviews.
This book was provided by Dreamspinner Press in exchange for a fair and honest review.
My Favorite Books of 2013 .
September 11, 2013
HOLY SHIT. I have no words. Me, who reads words all day long, who revels in them, loves and hates them, wraps them around like a warm blanket on a winter's night - I have none of them after this book.
Whereas I absolutely hated Bobby in Chaser, in this book I only felt sorry for him. Once I got a real glimpse into his mind, into the dirty, disgusting things he does to numb the pain in his own head, I couldn't help but feel for him. Damn you, Mr. Reed, for doing that to me. Okay, just kidding. Sort of.
Early on in this book, we learn that the self-proclaimed gorgeous guy who only has sex with other gorgeous men (or so he told his ex-friend Caden before attempting to steal Caden's boyfriend for himself) will actually have sex with almost any men. The author does a fantastic and unapologetic job of accurately and in depth describing the seedy situations that Bobby seeks out, all the while giving us insights into Bobby's mind as to the deep-seated issues that propel him to seek pleasure in all sexual forms relentlessly. What Bobby doesn't seem to see, or suppresses as soon as even the tiniest thought about it crops up, is the reason he seeks out these seedy places.
By this point in the novel, I was both disgusted by his behavior and oddly compelled to take him home with me to hug him and love him and tell him that it would all be okay. He misses Caden. He knows he's guilty, and he knows that losing the friendship is his fault and his fault alone.
Then Bobby's father dies, and with his death, Bobby is confronted again with his demons and no matter how much he seeks oblivion, he cannot find it. From there, the story unfolds as Bobby begins to understand how his past is influencing his present. A note from Caden with a business card leads him to a therapist and then to a support group. Slowly but surely, and with occasional steps back, Bobby embraces the long road to recovery. And finds love in the process.
This book is an in-depth character study of a broken, lonely man and the hurt little boy inside him, as well as the journey he undertakes to make himself a better man.
Rick R. Reed delivers a novel of redemption that rang true and realistic and completely changed my attitude towards the main character from the previous book.
I highly recommend reading these two books in order. And actually reading both - so you get the full impact and the entire picture of all of them.
It is a credit to the author that he was able to take me from hate to disgust to empathy for Bobby by creating such a complex character.
I received a free copy of Raining Men directly from Dreamspinner Press. A positive review was not promised in return. A combined review of Chaser and Raining Men is available on www.myfictionnook.com.
Whereas I absolutely hated Bobby in Chaser, in this book I only felt sorry for him. Once I got a real glimpse into his mind, into the dirty, disgusting things he does to numb the pain in his own head, I couldn't help but feel for him. Damn you, Mr. Reed, for doing that to me. Okay, just kidding. Sort of.
Early on in this book, we learn that the self-proclaimed gorgeous guy who only has sex with other gorgeous men (or so he told his ex-friend Caden before attempting to steal Caden's boyfriend for himself) will actually have sex with almost any men. The author does a fantastic and unapologetic job of accurately and in depth describing the seedy situations that Bobby seeks out, all the while giving us insights into Bobby's mind as to the deep-seated issues that propel him to seek pleasure in all sexual forms relentlessly. What Bobby doesn't seem to see, or suppresses as soon as even the tiniest thought about it crops up, is the reason he seeks out these seedy places.
By this point in the novel, I was both disgusted by his behavior and oddly compelled to take him home with me to hug him and love him and tell him that it would all be okay. He misses Caden. He knows he's guilty, and he knows that losing the friendship is his fault and his fault alone.
Then Bobby's father dies, and with his death, Bobby is confronted again with his demons and no matter how much he seeks oblivion, he cannot find it. From there, the story unfolds as Bobby begins to understand how his past is influencing his present. A note from Caden with a business card leads him to a therapist and then to a support group. Slowly but surely, and with occasional steps back, Bobby embraces the long road to recovery. And finds love in the process.
This book is an in-depth character study of a broken, lonely man and the hurt little boy inside him, as well as the journey he undertakes to make himself a better man.
Rick R. Reed delivers a novel of redemption that rang true and realistic and completely changed my attitude towards the main character from the previous book.
I highly recommend reading these two books in order. And actually reading both - so you get the full impact and the entire picture of all of them.
It is a credit to the author that he was able to take me from hate to disgust to empathy for Bobby by creating such a complex character.
I received a free copy of Raining Men directly from Dreamspinner Press. A positive review was not promised in return. A combined review of Chaser and Raining Men is available on www.myfictionnook.com.
June 3, 2013
4.50 Stars
When I first read about Bobby in Chaser I must admit I was not a fan, his character seemed to be a shallow, narcissistic, evil. treacherous, deceitful SOB, I found myself loathing his character, my persona of him may be harsh but I’m not the sugar coating type of person, I was still holding a grudge against him going into this read, ( I cussed his character from here unto the heavens)and I was afraid that because of my biased opinion of him it would deflect from the book, to my utter surprise it didn't. Rick Reed did a fantastic job helping us understand Bobby he gave us insight on all of Bobby’s trail and tribulation, and to finally see the beauty and heart that was hidden within himself, I was astonished at how fast my hatred for Bobby became a feeling of sympathy I cannot say that I emphasized with his plight, but I did find myself standing in his cheering section.
When I first read about Bobby in Chaser I must admit I was not a fan, his character seemed to be a shallow, narcissistic, evil. treacherous, deceitful SOB, I found myself loathing his character, my persona of him may be harsh but I’m not the sugar coating type of person, I was still holding a grudge against him going into this read, ( I cussed his character from here unto the heavens)and I was afraid that because of my biased opinion of him it would deflect from the book, to my utter surprise it didn't. Rick Reed did a fantastic job helping us understand Bobby he gave us insight on all of Bobby’s trail and tribulation, and to finally see the beauty and heart that was hidden within himself, I was astonished at how fast my hatred for Bobby became a feeling of sympathy I cannot say that I emphasized with his plight, but I did find myself standing in his cheering section.
June 4, 2013
Reviewed on Hearts on Fire
If you’ve read Chaser you know that was about a man Caden who was a secret chubby chaser who finally met the man of his dreams, a man round in all the right places. But things go awry when his guy decides to diet & exercise his way into becoming a conventional hot guy and turning off Caden in the process. While that’s going on, Caden’s best friend Bobby decides to take advantage of the situation rushing in to cause a whole lot of trouble. This is the story of that guy, that troublemaker, Bobby.
I read Chaser and this one back to back so I had a clear memory of Bobby being a real stinker. After all the villainous things he did to ruin Caden’s love life I wasn’t sure he was even redeemable even though there were hints dropped that Bobby was harboring some deep insecurities. But holy hell what an excellent job on a turn around for a character.
What I liked was how Bobby was still Bobby in this book. He didn’t undergo a personality transplant. Instead we get the other side of the story that was missing and how Bobby’s presentation masked the fact that underneath it all is a fear that he’s really not deserving of love & happiness. And I was so drawn in that by the end, darn it, I was actually rooting for the bastard.
Just consider that you have a character who’s porn star handsome, able to attract any man he wants and one who’s never heard of a sexual dry spell and somehow we end up feeling sorry for him. That’s some skillful writing.
I’m not sure how people will respond to this book because this is not your typical romance story. It’s more of an exploration of Bobby’s life as he struggles to find out why he feels compelled to repeat self-destructive patterns and why he seems to have no limits on self-degradation .
Bobby’s descent into the hell of sexual addiction was both repellant and fascinating. Some of it was somewhat comical. I mean the amount of 10 inch dicks and gay tops that he runs into is to say the least, way outside the norm and I began to wonder if there was a gay man in Chicago left that hadn’t touched Bobby, literally, in some way. But a lot of it made you anxious on his behalf as there were numerous times I wanted to admonish Bobby , “don’t do it” and ‘You don’t want to go there.” But he did, he went there. Reading this though was like rubbernecking at a car crash. I could not look away.
But after numerous set backs, and some heartwarming revisiting of his past in Seattle, there’s light at the end for Bobby. He finally gets that confrontation with Caden that he needs to set things right. In addition, he also finds himself ready to both give and receive love. And in typical Rick Reed style, there’s a little suspense, in this case in Bobby’s love life as there are at least two possibilities presented before the final unveiling.
It was a tough journey to read at times but I was quite sucked into this story. We didn’t get a lot of Caden & Kevin in here so this is not really a sequel for them. But I did feel a sense of satisfaction & closure on the Bobby portion of the story. I’d recommend this story even as a standalone but for the best experience read Chaser first.
If you’ve read Chaser you know that was about a man Caden who was a secret chubby chaser who finally met the man of his dreams, a man round in all the right places. But things go awry when his guy decides to diet & exercise his way into becoming a conventional hot guy and turning off Caden in the process. While that’s going on, Caden’s best friend Bobby decides to take advantage of the situation rushing in to cause a whole lot of trouble. This is the story of that guy, that troublemaker, Bobby.
I read Chaser and this one back to back so I had a clear memory of Bobby being a real stinker. After all the villainous things he did to ruin Caden’s love life I wasn’t sure he was even redeemable even though there were hints dropped that Bobby was harboring some deep insecurities. But holy hell what an excellent job on a turn around for a character.
What I liked was how Bobby was still Bobby in this book. He didn’t undergo a personality transplant. Instead we get the other side of the story that was missing and how Bobby’s presentation masked the fact that underneath it all is a fear that he’s really not deserving of love & happiness. And I was so drawn in that by the end, darn it, I was actually rooting for the bastard.
Just consider that you have a character who’s porn star handsome, able to attract any man he wants and one who’s never heard of a sexual dry spell and somehow we end up feeling sorry for him. That’s some skillful writing.
I’m not sure how people will respond to this book because this is not your typical romance story. It’s more of an exploration of Bobby’s life as he struggles to find out why he feels compelled to repeat self-destructive patterns and why he seems to have no limits on self-degradation .
Bobby’s descent into the hell of sexual addiction was both repellant and fascinating. Some of it was somewhat comical. I mean the amount of 10 inch dicks and gay tops that he runs into is to say the least, way outside the norm and I began to wonder if there was a gay man in Chicago left that hadn’t touched Bobby, literally, in some way. But a lot of it made you anxious on his behalf as there were numerous times I wanted to admonish Bobby , “don’t do it” and ‘You don’t want to go there.” But he did, he went there. Reading this though was like rubbernecking at a car crash. I could not look away.
But after numerous set backs, and some heartwarming revisiting of his past in Seattle, there’s light at the end for Bobby. He finally gets that confrontation with Caden that he needs to set things right. In addition, he also finds himself ready to both give and receive love. And in typical Rick Reed style, there’s a little suspense, in this case in Bobby’s love life as there are at least two possibilities presented before the final unveiling.
It was a tough journey to read at times but I was quite sucked into this story. We didn’t get a lot of Caden & Kevin in here so this is not really a sequel for them. But I did feel a sense of satisfaction & closure on the Bobby portion of the story. I’d recommend this story even as a standalone but for the best experience read Chaser first.
May 15, 2016
Review posted on World of Diversity Fictions
Dear Rick,
I loved this story! I think I was one of the very few that liked Bobby from Chaser. I don’t know why, he did a despicable thing to Caden, but there was just something about him that tugged at my heart. I knew there would be more to him and couldn’t wait to see what you had in store. In my opinion, you couldn’t have done a more perfect job with him and his story he is exactly how I hoped he would be, plus more. You had me bawling like a baby through a lot of Bobby’s story not all of it was from sadness, I loved every minute of it.
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This isn’t your typical M/M Romance novel and by that I mean there isn’t a romance per say but there is an HEA and a whole lot more than I was expecting. I got to see what made Bobby the way he is. His endless stream of men and his indulging in what could be risky play becomes a sexual addiction stemming from a feeling of never being able to live up to what he thought his father expected of him or wanted from him. Bobby uses sex and men, lots of sex and men, to mask the pain he feels and every time he does he’s thinking and hoping it will somehow fill a void but all it does is make matters worse and has him spiraling even further down a very dangerous path.
Bobby does hit rock bottom, eventually. Therapy and new friends help him to climb out of that hole he’s buried himself in but not with out a lot of rocky times and some very large setbacks. He has one very funny and very sweet champion, a Chihuahua he finds one night in an alley. Bobby takes him home and names him Johnny Wadd. Johnny becomes influential in Bobby’s recovery, he is someone Bobby can love and be loved by unconditionally, something Bobby desperately needed. Johnny had me laughing out loud, what a little sweetheart. One of the funniest moments was when he runs into Lily a Boston Terrier at the park. If you know anything about Rick you’ll know that he has a very sweet Boston Terrier named Lily living with him. Lily wasn’t the onlything Rick included in Bobby’s story that comes from real life and I thought that was brilliant, somehow that made me feel closer to the story, if that’s possible and it brought a certain realism to the story. It was nice to see Caden and Kevin again and really nice that Caden and Bobby don’t just fall into each other’s arms and all is forgiven. Wade and Aaron are new to the story and play an important role in Bobby’s life but this story is all Bobby.
Raining Men had me crying a lot and laughing, it’s a great story and one that will be going on my favorite’s shelf ! It bears repeating I loved Raining Men!
Thank you so much Rick, now do you think I could have more? ;-)
owned-tbr
November 23, 2015I just finished Chaser, so of course I'm curious about this book. >__> But angst and drama and tears and ANGST? *quivers* I dunno if I have it in me...
February 14, 2015
God I had a tissue with me almost all the book. I hated Bobby on Chase, but with this book I fell in love with all his insecurities. Amazing book, even better than Chase
March 7, 2020
If you had told me at the end of the previous book that I'd be having any other feelings concerning Bobby than pure disdain and frankly disgust, I would have laughed in your face. But ladies and gentlemen, here I am at the end of reading this book being genuinely glad Bobby found his HEA and smiling like a loon while typing this.
How did this happen you may ask? Well, it was by the pure "magic" of this author's writing ability. In this book, he took the reader(me) through the journey of recognising an addiction and the slow, painful (and often bumpy) ride of extracting oneself from said addiction.
As I said, it was a slow, painful and heartbreaking journey undertaken by Bobby with several false starts and family pains to overcome along the way.
It might not be for everyone because it wasn't super fast paced, but for me,the pacing was great for the story and it was very well worth the read as I was totally invested in Bobby becoming healthy again and totally enjoyed my reading experience here. (Go check out my reading progress for more insights) :)
•••This book was provided by the author via IndiGo Marketing & Design in exchange for an honest review.•••
How did this happen you may ask? Well, it was by the pure "magic" of this author's writing ability. In this book, he took the reader(me) through the journey of recognising an addiction and the slow, painful (and often bumpy) ride of extracting oneself from said addiction.
As I said, it was a slow, painful and heartbreaking journey undertaken by Bobby with several false starts and family pains to overcome along the way.
It might not be for everyone because it wasn't super fast paced, but for me,the pacing was great for the story and it was very well worth the read as I was totally invested in Bobby becoming healthy again and totally enjoyed my reading experience here. (Go check out my reading progress for more insights) :)
•••This book was provided by the author via IndiGo Marketing & Design in exchange for an honest review.•••
July 4, 2020
This was an incredible book. Bobby - the person I really hated in Chaser turns out to "find" himself AND what true love really is. This is by far the BEST book Rick R. Reed has written - this story is incredibly written
August 2, 2013
"Forgiveness can be one of the most powerful and freeing gifts we can bestow on ourselves."
Bobby Nelson is a manwhore. Sexually addicted, borderline pathetic, Bobby is driven from one sexual encounter to another, each tipping dangerously toward a lack of care for his body and, most certainly, his soul. He is, essentially, alone, having betrayed his one and only friend by trying to steal his boyfriend from him. Now, desperate, and reeling from a tragedy that leaves him in a self-destructive downward spiral, Bobby realizes he must face the demons inside himself or spend his life lost. While most would look at this successful, attractive man and see only his alluring exterior, it will take someone special to love the hurting man within. But before Bobby can expect someone else to love him, he must, in fact, learn to not only love but forgive himself--a daunting task for a con artist who excels at staying hidden.
First let me clarify that Raining Men by Rick. R. Reed is indeed a sequel to his first novel, Chasers. If you are like me, you simply adored the main characters in Chasers, Caden and Kevin and most likely absolutely despised the smarmy, unethical Bobby Nelson. Hence when this novel came out, I was thrilled, hoping I would see more of the two lovers and was almost put off by the fact that this book would be about the "bad guy" from the first novel. Well, all I can say is READ THIS BOOK! I do believe that is could be read as a standalone if needed--but I would recommend reading Chasers first simply because like Raining Men it is an excellent novel. Did you catch that--"like Raining Men--excellent"? For all my reluctance over who this story centered around, I am so glad I dropped my preconceived notions at the door and traveled further into the amazing imagination of Rick R. Reed and his compelling characters.
Bobby is perhaps one of the most rich and in depth written portrayals of a man on the edge of an abyss. Literally, running from himself and the guilt he carries over so many things in his past, he flings himself pellmell into mindless sexual encounters that leave him with everything from STD's to self-loathing. My heart just broke for this man and, in my opinion, this type of character is exactly why Mr. Reed is an author of excellence. To take someone whom we found truly despicable in the first novel and reveal his brokenness and tortured soul in the second installment--well, it completely transformed my thoughts about Bobby--turned them on end! That is just really fine writing!
Along the way, we meet new characters and, yes, visit with some familiar faces, but really this story is all about Bobby and his journey. As I wrote this review, I wanted to quote so many passages from this book, each more lovely, and at times, more heartbreaking than the one before. I believe this one below sums up just what has been the impetus behind our hero's self destructive behavior.
"He looked up at the therapist with eyes that pled for understanding. "I just wanted someone to love me." There it was. The raw truth."
The beauty of this novel, Raining Men by Rick R. Reed is that he created in Bobby and "everyman". Each of us can see just a piece of ourselves in this character--our failures, desires, and, yes, our addictions. But most importantly, we can relate to Bobby's cry for love. I highly recommend Raining Men to you.
Bobby Nelson is a manwhore. Sexually addicted, borderline pathetic, Bobby is driven from one sexual encounter to another, each tipping dangerously toward a lack of care for his body and, most certainly, his soul. He is, essentially, alone, having betrayed his one and only friend by trying to steal his boyfriend from him. Now, desperate, and reeling from a tragedy that leaves him in a self-destructive downward spiral, Bobby realizes he must face the demons inside himself or spend his life lost. While most would look at this successful, attractive man and see only his alluring exterior, it will take someone special to love the hurting man within. But before Bobby can expect someone else to love him, he must, in fact, learn to not only love but forgive himself--a daunting task for a con artist who excels at staying hidden.
First let me clarify that Raining Men by Rick. R. Reed is indeed a sequel to his first novel, Chasers. If you are like me, you simply adored the main characters in Chasers, Caden and Kevin and most likely absolutely despised the smarmy, unethical Bobby Nelson. Hence when this novel came out, I was thrilled, hoping I would see more of the two lovers and was almost put off by the fact that this book would be about the "bad guy" from the first novel. Well, all I can say is READ THIS BOOK! I do believe that is could be read as a standalone if needed--but I would recommend reading Chasers first simply because like Raining Men it is an excellent novel. Did you catch that--"like Raining Men--excellent"? For all my reluctance over who this story centered around, I am so glad I dropped my preconceived notions at the door and traveled further into the amazing imagination of Rick R. Reed and his compelling characters.
Bobby is perhaps one of the most rich and in depth written portrayals of a man on the edge of an abyss. Literally, running from himself and the guilt he carries over so many things in his past, he flings himself pellmell into mindless sexual encounters that leave him with everything from STD's to self-loathing. My heart just broke for this man and, in my opinion, this type of character is exactly why Mr. Reed is an author of excellence. To take someone whom we found truly despicable in the first novel and reveal his brokenness and tortured soul in the second installment--well, it completely transformed my thoughts about Bobby--turned them on end! That is just really fine writing!
Along the way, we meet new characters and, yes, visit with some familiar faces, but really this story is all about Bobby and his journey. As I wrote this review, I wanted to quote so many passages from this book, each more lovely, and at times, more heartbreaking than the one before. I believe this one below sums up just what has been the impetus behind our hero's self destructive behavior.
"He looked up at the therapist with eyes that pled for understanding. "I just wanted someone to love me." There it was. The raw truth."
The beauty of this novel, Raining Men by Rick R. Reed is that he created in Bobby and "everyman". Each of us can see just a piece of ourselves in this character--our failures, desires, and, yes, our addictions. But most importantly, we can relate to Bobby's cry for love. I highly recommend Raining Men to you.
June 17, 2013
Realistic, rich, fabulous, emotional and beautiful. The stories in the gay romance genre just get better and better!!
This sequel to Chaser is brilliant. It really pulled at my heart without being angsty. My emotions rose and fell with the rhythm of the story and I could feel the struggles, hopes, joys and pains as Bobby journeyed towards himself. It is a deeply satisfying read and a brilliant sequel.
This isn't your traditional 'boy meets boy' romance story. The boy in the story is Bobby and he has met many boys, hundreds of men have floated in and out of his life, a river of casual sexual encounters. This is a story of Bobby meeting a special boy and that boy is himself.
'Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all' ........
Having betrayed his closest friend and losing his father Bobby realises that all is not well with his life. He yearns for love and companionship, something he hasn't really bothered with in the past. These tragic events lead him to encounter himself as he really is and he realises that this is not who he wants to be and so he embarks on a journey to get to an inner place of reality, to be fully who he is.
The story pulls us in as we get to experience the way sexual addiction has a grip on Bobby's life. His private and social life is very much about the next sexual fix and we see him coming to this realisation recognising how this has led to him to become quite shallow and not who he really is.
He journeys towards his true self in the company of others: his mother, his therapist, new friends and pets and as he journeys he discovers himself and realises things about his life that had become buried along the way.
I really enjoyed the scenery and sense of place with the story taking place in Chicago and Seattle, two cities that the author is very familiar with. I was so intrigued that I used Google Earth so that I could see Lake Michigan for myself and also see Seattle. I loved the way that the author drops his own dog into the story as well as droping a couple of other authors into it as well. These are like secret messages for those of us in the know, little amusing signs for the 'inner circle' which are funny and enjoyable.
It is a really great story showing romance, love, pain, passion and hope. The story really held my interest because the characters are real and have depth, Bobby could be a friend. I could feel him grappling with his former behaviour desperately wanting intimacy but realising that he needed something deeper than passing sexual encounters.
The spectre of sexually transmitted infections and risk taking are also there providing a moment of fear for the characters as well as repulsion. The grimy and seedy aspects of casual sex are made quite clear as is the hopelessness of this when a person really desires so much more.
I read this at a time of personal loss and I found it deeply comforting. We all have to find our way through life and we all have to make journeys towards our true selves. I have journeyed with Bobby and feel better for it because it reminds me that there is hope.
I enjoyed the story and I learnt from it too, and I hope there is more to come.
This sequel to Chaser is brilliant. It really pulled at my heart without being angsty. My emotions rose and fell with the rhythm of the story and I could feel the struggles, hopes, joys and pains as Bobby journeyed towards himself. It is a deeply satisfying read and a brilliant sequel.
This isn't your traditional 'boy meets boy' romance story. The boy in the story is Bobby and he has met many boys, hundreds of men have floated in and out of his life, a river of casual sexual encounters. This is a story of Bobby meeting a special boy and that boy is himself.
'Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all' ........
Having betrayed his closest friend and losing his father Bobby realises that all is not well with his life. He yearns for love and companionship, something he hasn't really bothered with in the past. These tragic events lead him to encounter himself as he really is and he realises that this is not who he wants to be and so he embarks on a journey to get to an inner place of reality, to be fully who he is.
The story pulls us in as we get to experience the way sexual addiction has a grip on Bobby's life. His private and social life is very much about the next sexual fix and we see him coming to this realisation recognising how this has led to him to become quite shallow and not who he really is.
He journeys towards his true self in the company of others: his mother, his therapist, new friends and pets and as he journeys he discovers himself and realises things about his life that had become buried along the way.
I really enjoyed the scenery and sense of place with the story taking place in Chicago and Seattle, two cities that the author is very familiar with. I was so intrigued that I used Google Earth so that I could see Lake Michigan for myself and also see Seattle. I loved the way that the author drops his own dog into the story as well as droping a couple of other authors into it as well. These are like secret messages for those of us in the know, little amusing signs for the 'inner circle' which are funny and enjoyable.
It is a really great story showing romance, love, pain, passion and hope. The story really held my interest because the characters are real and have depth, Bobby could be a friend. I could feel him grappling with his former behaviour desperately wanting intimacy but realising that he needed something deeper than passing sexual encounters.
The spectre of sexually transmitted infections and risk taking are also there providing a moment of fear for the characters as well as repulsion. The grimy and seedy aspects of casual sex are made quite clear as is the hopelessness of this when a person really desires so much more.
I read this at a time of personal loss and I found it deeply comforting. We all have to find our way through life and we all have to make journeys towards our true selves. I have journeyed with Bobby and feel better for it because it reminds me that there is hope.
I enjoyed the story and I learnt from it too, and I hope there is more to come.
June 1, 2013
4.5
So this is the companion/sequel piece to Chaser, a story I read quite a while back, but still remember pretty well.Of the two stories, Raining Men is the better one, simply because Bobby is a much more interesting character than Caden, who is a way too good person to be really intriguing. (But it may also be because I'm still a little disappointed Kevin had to transform from chubby to hunky before the story ended.)
Bobby had a POV scene in Chaser, a casual sex scene /hook up scene, and I remember him as a very unreliable narrator; so it was more than interesting to meet him as the single third person POV in Raining Men. It's not a traditional romance,rather a coming to terms with who you are kind of story. If Bobby had been younger I'd call it a coming-of-age story, but since he's middle aged (40) I don't think that's a fitting enough term.
Bobby has come looking for help after having lost his only friend. During his conversations with Camille he realizes he is a sex addict. I liked the way the author handled this bit; the descriptions of Bobby's sexual encounters and the behavior that comes with them is ... disgusting. It could have been alcohol or drugs just as well as sex, it's an addiction just the same. I also liked how the author was open about the health hazard Bobby's addiction put him through and how the STI:s affected Bobby - daily medicines for herpes, and the cases of syphilis ... Bobby should call himself lucky (and to be honest,he does, but for not contracting HIV) that he didn't end up with one of the almost antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhea.
In his search for help Bobby finds new friends, at ASS and in Seattle, when he goes back for his father's funeral. In the midst of all there are relapses (thank you! I would have hated a straight way to recovery, in fact I think there could have been more relapses, but then the story might have gone on for ever, which I might have liked.)
The characters surrounding Bobby are nice acquaintances. I particularly liked Aaron, from the moment in the men's room, and Bobby's mother: bobby's surprise at her proclaimed love for his father was nice, and at the time a surprise I shared with him, it shows how two persons can witness the same thing and still walk away with two different views as to what really happened, and of course as a child Bobby wouldn't know exactly what was going on between his parents.
I could have lived without the cute little epilogue. Sure I'm am happy things worked out for the best for everybody, but it's still so much more fun reading about the not quite so perfect characters, than it is the others.
So this is the companion/sequel piece to Chaser, a story I read quite a while back, but still remember pretty well.Of the two stories, Raining Men is the better one, simply because Bobby is a much more interesting character than Caden, who is a way too good person to be really intriguing. (But it may also be because I'm still a little disappointed Kevin had to transform from chubby to hunky before the story ended.)
Bobby had a POV scene in Chaser, a casual sex scene /hook up scene, and I remember him as a very unreliable narrator; so it was more than interesting to meet him as the single third person POV in Raining Men. It's not a traditional romance,rather a coming to terms with who you are kind of story. If Bobby had been younger I'd call it a coming-of-age story, but since he's middle aged (40) I don't think that's a fitting enough term.
Bobby has come looking for help after having lost his only friend. During his conversations with Camille he realizes he is a sex addict. I liked the way the author handled this bit; the descriptions of Bobby's sexual encounters and the behavior that comes with them is ... disgusting. It could have been alcohol or drugs just as well as sex, it's an addiction just the same. I also liked how the author was open about the health hazard Bobby's addiction put him through and how the STI:s affected Bobby - daily medicines for herpes, and the cases of syphilis ... Bobby should call himself lucky (and to be honest,he does, but for not contracting HIV) that he didn't end up with one of the almost antibiotic resistant strains of gonorrhea.
In his search for help Bobby finds new friends, at ASS and in Seattle, when he goes back for his father's funeral. In the midst of all there are relapses (thank you! I would have hated a straight way to recovery, in fact I think there could have been more relapses, but then the story might have gone on for ever, which I might have liked.)
The characters surrounding Bobby are nice acquaintances. I particularly liked Aaron, from the moment in the men's room, and Bobby's mother: bobby's surprise at her proclaimed love for his father was nice, and at the time a surprise I shared with him, it shows how two persons can witness the same thing and still walk away with two different views as to what really happened, and of course as a child Bobby wouldn't know exactly what was going on between his parents.
I could have lived without the cute little epilogue. Sure I'm am happy things worked out for the best for everybody, but it's still so much more fun reading about the not quite so perfect characters, than it is the others.
July 30, 2013
Both the Chaser books, Chaser and Raining Men, were books that I was not sure I was going to like but for every different reasons: Chaser because of it's interesting 'chubby chaser' theme and Raining Men because of my feelings towards the main character based on the experience of the first book. Luckily I enjoyed both immensely.
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Bobby did some pretty terrible things in Chaser, treating his best friend really poorly. So poorly that I thought he would really struggle to redeem himself in my eyes. However, Raining Men provides insight that really allows us to see deep inside Bobby to better understand why he did the things he did.
We get quite a different perspective of Bobby in this book. Originally he is portrayed as a really good looking guy who can get anyone he wants and he only settles for the best and most gorgeous guys. But in reality he has deep issues manifesting in a destructive sex addiction which results in him taking on nearly anyone and anything.
The first half of the story really focuses on Bobby and his behaviour, the men he hooks up with and his first attempts at getting help. A family tragedy also gets him thinking about his upbringing and his father. Plus he continues to dwell on how he betrayed Caden, wanting to make amends. It isn't exactly an enjoyable read, more an emotional journey where I really started to feel Bobby's pain.
There are two key men who come into Bobby's life, both of whom understand his issues, have been there themselves and can offer support and empathy. During the second half of the book, Bobby starts to explore a new relationship but continues to face heart-break and rejection.
What made this story great for me were the changes in Bobby, the idea that you can change the way you live your life, that there are such things as forgiveness and second chances and ultimately that everyone deserves love.
I now publish all my m/m reviews on my blog so if you want to see all my m/m reviews in one place come visit at Because Two Men Are Better Than One!
Click to check out my review of Chaser
Bobby did some pretty terrible things in Chaser, treating his best friend really poorly. So poorly that I thought he would really struggle to redeem himself in my eyes. However, Raining Men provides insight that really allows us to see deep inside Bobby to better understand why he did the things he did.
We get quite a different perspective of Bobby in this book. Originally he is portrayed as a really good looking guy who can get anyone he wants and he only settles for the best and most gorgeous guys. But in reality he has deep issues manifesting in a destructive sex addiction which results in him taking on nearly anyone and anything.
The first half of the story really focuses on Bobby and his behaviour, the men he hooks up with and his first attempts at getting help. A family tragedy also gets him thinking about his upbringing and his father. Plus he continues to dwell on how he betrayed Caden, wanting to make amends. It isn't exactly an enjoyable read, more an emotional journey where I really started to feel Bobby's pain.
There are two key men who come into Bobby's life, both of whom understand his issues, have been there themselves and can offer support and empathy. During the second half of the book, Bobby starts to explore a new relationship but continues to face heart-break and rejection.
What made this story great for me were the changes in Bobby, the idea that you can change the way you live your life, that there are such things as forgiveness and second chances and ultimately that everyone deserves love.
I now publish all my m/m reviews on my blog so if you want to see all my m/m reviews in one place come visit at Because Two Men Are Better Than One!
March 26, 2015
Raining Men is the follow up to Chaser and it takes the ever hated character from that book, Bobby, and takes him on a journey of self discovery. It's not a romance at all. I've been struggling with how to rate it, because even though it is a journey of self discovery and growth, and it was well written, I didn't actually enjoy reading it.
Bobby is 40 years old and still living like he's 25 and just found the buffet after being starved forever. He lost the one meaningful relationship he ever had when he betrayed his best friend Caden, and he's doing his level best to act like nothing bothers him. Bobby has impulse control issues and he uses sex as a means to not face his problems. He never felt like fit in growing up (who did, really), and he never felt like he had the love and support of his father, so he compensates, poorly, by substituting sex for intimacy and he wonders why that isn't really working for him. You're not going to find Tru Wuv in a bathhouse, Bobby.
Bobby starts seeing a therapist, which he should have done years ago, in order to explore the root cause for his issues and she gets him to concider Sexual Addicts Annonomous. It's a 12 step program like AA. I'm not a fan of 12 step programs, for a lot of reasons I won't go into here, but between his therapy and the program, Bobby does find his way. Eventually.
It really didn't take long into this book before I didn't actually hate Bobby anymore. In fact, I pretty much felt pity for him for the vast majority of the book. He's a pretty screwed up guy who has been using sex as a method to not face his own emotions for so long that I honestly wondered if he would recognise a real emotion if it slapped him on the ass. The story was well written, but it was such a downer, and the happy ending didn't really make up for it. For me, anyway.
Bobby is 40 years old and still living like he's 25 and just found the buffet after being starved forever. He lost the one meaningful relationship he ever had when he betrayed his best friend Caden, and he's doing his level best to act like nothing bothers him. Bobby has impulse control issues and he uses sex as a means to not face his problems. He never felt like fit in growing up (who did, really), and he never felt like he had the love and support of his father, so he compensates, poorly, by substituting sex for intimacy and he wonders why that isn't really working for him. You're not going to find Tru Wuv in a bathhouse, Bobby.
Bobby starts seeing a therapist, which he should have done years ago, in order to explore the root cause for his issues and she gets him to concider Sexual Addicts Annonomous. It's a 12 step program like AA. I'm not a fan of 12 step programs, for a lot of reasons I won't go into here, but between his therapy and the program, Bobby does find his way. Eventually.
It really didn't take long into this book before I didn't actually hate Bobby anymore. In fact, I pretty much felt pity for him for the vast majority of the book. He's a pretty screwed up guy who has been using sex as a method to not face his own emotions for so long that I honestly wondered if he would recognise a real emotion if it slapped him on the ass. The story was well written, but it was such a downer, and the happy ending didn't really make up for it. For me, anyway.
May 30, 2013
4.5 Stars
Bobby Nelson is that character you love to hate. And, trust me, anyone who has read “Chaser” knows what I’m talking about.
I wanted to read the sequel because I could not image how this dastardly character could be redeemed. Look, he had no redeeming characteristics — not one. And, after what he pulled in “Chaser,” I wasn’t sure I wished him to get a second chance. Well, Rick R. Reed convinced me that Bobby is not only redeemable, but deserves a second chance. Go figure because I honestly didn’t believe it was possible.
When “Raining Men” begins we find still self-involved Bobby missing his friend, Caden DeSarro. Once the two men were inseparable and Caden stood by Bobby in his worst moments, his most sordid moments. Of course that was before Bobby betrayed Caden who no longer allows Bobby in his life. Period. (Understandable, but you should read “Chaser” to get that story.)
Pretty much friendless and miserable, Bobby spends time cruising Internet pickup sites and fielding any signal thrown his way by any man wanting to hook up. This connection frenzy and the fact that he has no standards about sex with strangers leaves Bobby wondering why he gives his body to any man — good, bad and ugly — who asks with no concern for his own personal safety.
Bobby begins to see a therapist who challenges him to step back, look at his actions and to evaluate his behavior. As is often the case in life, things become complicated....
Read Carli's full review at Live Your Life, Buy The Book
Bobby Nelson is that character you love to hate. And, trust me, anyone who has read “Chaser” knows what I’m talking about.
I wanted to read the sequel because I could not image how this dastardly character could be redeemed. Look, he had no redeeming characteristics — not one. And, after what he pulled in “Chaser,” I wasn’t sure I wished him to get a second chance. Well, Rick R. Reed convinced me that Bobby is not only redeemable, but deserves a second chance. Go figure because I honestly didn’t believe it was possible.
When “Raining Men” begins we find still self-involved Bobby missing his friend, Caden DeSarro. Once the two men were inseparable and Caden stood by Bobby in his worst moments, his most sordid moments. Of course that was before Bobby betrayed Caden who no longer allows Bobby in his life. Period. (Understandable, but you should read “Chaser” to get that story.)
Pretty much friendless and miserable, Bobby spends time cruising Internet pickup sites and fielding any signal thrown his way by any man wanting to hook up. This connection frenzy and the fact that he has no standards about sex with strangers leaves Bobby wondering why he gives his body to any man — good, bad and ugly — who asks with no concern for his own personal safety.
Bobby begins to see a therapist who challenges him to step back, look at his actions and to evaluate his behavior. As is often the case in life, things become complicated....
Read Carli's full review at Live Your Life, Buy The Book
September 25, 2013
Okay, this is my first book by Mr. Reed, and guess what it's the second in a series. Guess what, you can read it without having read the other. Thank the gods, because the title made me chose it. Oh and guess what, it won't be the last one I read by him.
This is about Bobby Nelson and it is all about Bobby. It's all about his addiction to sex. Why he is addicted. What it destroys, maims in his life. What it does to him,and those in his life. Perhaps the best part of this story, is how addiction impacts others, not just oneself. It shows that we are not born and live in a vacuum. Everything a person does has a ripple effect. In Bobby's case the affects are all bad. But if anyone has been in 12 steps or in a help group knows, you got to hit bottom to start climbing out of the hole. Bobby's moment comes when he attends his Dad's funeral. A Dad he believes never loved him.
The reader gets to wallow in all the bad that Bobby heaps upon himself. Then is rewarded with Bobby getting in touch with his inner child, bringing that child out to the sunlight. For those who have never suffered from addiction, or had loved ones that have, this is very insightful as to what a person goes through.
It's doesn't start as a feel good book, but trust me you will by the end. It show there is always a ray of sunlight. We just have to wait and grab it when it is offered to us.
I give it a bright sunny day full of stars. If you are up to the challenge of this book, you will be handsomely rewarded.
This is about Bobby Nelson and it is all about Bobby. It's all about his addiction to sex. Why he is addicted. What it destroys, maims in his life. What it does to him,and those in his life. Perhaps the best part of this story, is how addiction impacts others, not just oneself. It shows that we are not born and live in a vacuum. Everything a person does has a ripple effect. In Bobby's case the affects are all bad. But if anyone has been in 12 steps or in a help group knows, you got to hit bottom to start climbing out of the hole. Bobby's moment comes when he attends his Dad's funeral. A Dad he believes never loved him.
The reader gets to wallow in all the bad that Bobby heaps upon himself. Then is rewarded with Bobby getting in touch with his inner child, bringing that child out to the sunlight. For those who have never suffered from addiction, or had loved ones that have, this is very insightful as to what a person goes through.
It's doesn't start as a feel good book, but trust me you will by the end. It show there is always a ray of sunlight. We just have to wait and grab it when it is offered to us.
I give it a bright sunny day full of stars. If you are up to the challenge of this book, you will be handsomely rewarded.
May 31, 2013
First of all, I would like to go on record and state that this is NOT a book that I would usually choose to read on a normal day. But I recently read and enjoyed Chaser, so I just had to know what happens to Bobby!!
Second, this is not a romance...well, not the typical romance we are all used to reading. No, this Bobby's journey to loving himself.
I think those who are willing to give Bobby a chance should definitely give him the opportunity to let you love him.
Please read my full review at The Blog of Sid Love
Second, this is not a romance...well, not the typical romance we are all used to reading. No, this Bobby's journey to loving himself.
I think those who are willing to give Bobby a chance should definitely give him the opportunity to let you love him.
Please read my full review at The Blog of Sid Love
November 5, 2013
I have to admit, when I saw this second book in the series has Bobby as the central character I almost did not pick it up. I'm glad I took the plunge anyway.
It is really interesting getting into the mind of a sexual compulsive. Just because a person is highly sexually active does not inherently mean they are fulfilled, happy, or content with their life. Sex for Bobby isn't about connection, intimacy, love, affection, or even getting off - it's about oblivion. He doesn't need recreational drugs - sex fills that interest.
I totally loved this book. Although my path does not resemble Bobby's, the story is written in such a way that someone with a very different experience can totally empathize and feel for the character. It is fascinating delving so deeply and profoundly into the mind of a person with this condition - definitely provides a deeper appreciation for and empathy for people with addiction/compulsive issues.
It is really interesting getting into the mind of a sexual compulsive. Just because a person is highly sexually active does not inherently mean they are fulfilled, happy, or content with their life. Sex for Bobby isn't about connection, intimacy, love, affection, or even getting off - it's about oblivion. He doesn't need recreational drugs - sex fills that interest.
I totally loved this book. Although my path does not resemble Bobby's, the story is written in such a way that someone with a very different experience can totally empathize and feel for the character. It is fascinating delving so deeply and profoundly into the mind of a person with this condition - definitely provides a deeper appreciation for and empathy for people with addiction/compulsive issues.
June 2, 2020
I had the pleasure of reading Chaser (#1) back to back with Raining Men (#2) and Rick R. Reed has a great, compelling story to tell.
Bobby isn't an awful person- he's just misunderstood. That's where we start in this second book. Okay, he was just plain awful in the first book. The stereotypical, 'bad gay friend'. I don't normally recommend the necessity of reading books in a series that are also meant to be read as a stand alone as well-- but both books are really good and #1 helps set up the incredible transformation that takes place in this book.
Redemption. Can Bobby make things right with his best friend Caden? Can he truly change? Can he find love and give up his endless sting of one-night stands?
Raining Men is satisfying, entertainment from beginning to end.
I received a copy from the publisher through NetGalley, in exchange for an honest review.
Bobby isn't an awful person- he's just misunderstood. That's where we start in this second book. Okay, he was just plain awful in the first book. The stereotypical, 'bad gay friend'. I don't normally recommend the necessity of reading books in a series that are also meant to be read as a stand alone as well-- but both books are really good and #1 helps set up the incredible transformation that takes place in this book.
Redemption. Can Bobby make things right with his best friend Caden? Can he truly change? Can he find love and give up his endless sting of one-night stands?
Raining Men is satisfying, entertainment from beginning to end.
I received a copy from the publisher through NetGalley, in exchange for an honest review.
October 19, 2020
This was all about Bobby finding his redemption. He was super easy to hate in
but I always thought there was more to that story. I'm glad we got to dive right in there and see behind the curtain.
It wasn't all sunshine and roses and this give the book more believability. Bobby took some steps forwards and tumbled back a few times.
I did want more details about
but I always thought there was more to that story. I'm glad we got to dive right in there and see behind the curtain.It wasn't all sunshine and roses and this give the book more believability. Bobby took some steps forwards and tumbled back a few times.
I did want more details about
May 30, 2013
4.5 stars!
Read a detailed review on The Blog of Sid Love
I would recommend it to anyone who wants to look beyond the aspect of M/M Romance in a book. This is a real deal, with a believable storyline and some great writing by a very talented author.
Read a detailed review on The Blog of Sid Love
I would recommend it to anyone who wants to look beyond the aspect of M/M Romance in a book. This is a real deal, with a believable storyline and some great writing by a very talented author.
January 2, 2015
Read this on a flight and it totally made me forget my nerves. First time in a while I've finished a book in 2 days. There's so much relatable here as the root cause of Bobby's situation can be adapted to probably anyone. It definitely hit home for me in more than one way. This is something I'll reread, both for Bobby's story and for the journey toward love and recovery.
June 5, 2013
2,5 stars
October 12, 2019
I don't know how Rick Reed did it, but he took a despised character from Chaser, and pulled us into his world, making us understand and eventually love him and appreciate his struggle.
Sure, I wanted to dip Bobby in Clorox and give him a good scrub down after his numerous bathhouse adventures, but darn it, this man faced his demon of sexual addition and came out the other side with a loving relationship and a strong foundation of support. 5 stars.
Sure, I wanted to dip Bobby in Clorox and give him a good scrub down after his numerous bathhouse adventures, but darn it, this man faced his demon of sexual addition and came out the other side with a loving relationship and a strong foundation of support. 5 stars.
March 11, 2020
True friendship is the greatest gift anyone can bestow upon another person and the loss of such a friendship is devastating, especially Bobby Nelson's, of 'It's Raining Men' by Rick R. Reid. Bobby lost his best friend, Caden, when his addiction to sex overtook his better judgment and he tried to steal Caden's lover Kevin, using deceit to drive a wedge between them. Bobby wants a man like Kevin. He's tired of living alone, but doesn't have a clue how to find someone for himself. Bobby knows something is very wrong with his life, but he doesn't know what it is, much less, how to fix it.
It's easy to hate someone judging by what they do, but once you understand the mitigating circumstances, the mistakes, you may not entirely forgive, yet can't help but see things in a different light. After Bobby's behavior in 'Chaser', the first book in this series, I never would have thought that I would cry for him, but cry I did. More than once, my heart ached for him and tears rolled down my cheeks. For as angry as I was at him in the first book, I felt just as sorry for him in this one. When I saw what a mixed up mess his head and heart were, it didn't excuse his behavior, but it certainly explained a lot. It takes him a long time to get beyond the denial phase and admit he has a problem. He's had his feelings buried for a long time, so long that they are hidden deep in his heart. He's so convinced that he's unworthy of love and uses sex to deaden the pain of rejection he feels. By trying to deaden his pain, he's made his problem even worse. Because he'd burned a lot of bridges in the past, he's got some construction to do in the future, but he's earned it.
Therapy is like un-peeling an onion; it's an uncomfortable, painful process. For each level that's revealed, there's another one under it and so on. Bobby has a lot of layers and, although it takes him a long time, he faces each of them as best he can, backsliding at times, but always getting up, dusting himself off, and starting again. On one particularly slippery slope, Bobby finds a dog who looks exactly like Bobby feels. There's nothing like an animal to open someone's soul. Animals are loving and trusting and much more forgiving than people. Bobby needed the comfort the little dog, he named Johnny, could offer. He needed someone to love unconditionally. In many ways, Johnny was the bridge between the old Bobby and the new, improved version.
There were times that I couldn't understand why things were happening the way they did. They do say that karma is a bitch and Bobby learns this first hand. As rotten as he was, I wondered if he hadn't suffered enough. It's as if the universe was making it even harder for Bobby to atone for his sins when he was pulling as hard as he could to get away from his old self; but this also shook up the storyline, making it delightfully unpredictable and kept me guessing. The twists had me either crying or cheering or both, depending upon the situation. I'd never have believed it, but in the end, I not only admired Bobby, I'd also forgiven him. He had earned his happiness. I'd recommend this book to anyone who appreciates a character driven story in which there is a great deal of growth and redemption. Thank you, Rick, for the heartrending, but extremely fulfilling tale.
NOTE: The first edition of this book was provided by the publisher for the purpose of a review on Rainbow Book Reviews.
It's easy to hate someone judging by what they do, but once you understand the mitigating circumstances, the mistakes, you may not entirely forgive, yet can't help but see things in a different light. After Bobby's behavior in 'Chaser', the first book in this series, I never would have thought that I would cry for him, but cry I did. More than once, my heart ached for him and tears rolled down my cheeks. For as angry as I was at him in the first book, I felt just as sorry for him in this one. When I saw what a mixed up mess his head and heart were, it didn't excuse his behavior, but it certainly explained a lot. It takes him a long time to get beyond the denial phase and admit he has a problem. He's had his feelings buried for a long time, so long that they are hidden deep in his heart. He's so convinced that he's unworthy of love and uses sex to deaden the pain of rejection he feels. By trying to deaden his pain, he's made his problem even worse. Because he'd burned a lot of bridges in the past, he's got some construction to do in the future, but he's earned it.
Therapy is like un-peeling an onion; it's an uncomfortable, painful process. For each level that's revealed, there's another one under it and so on. Bobby has a lot of layers and, although it takes him a long time, he faces each of them as best he can, backsliding at times, but always getting up, dusting himself off, and starting again. On one particularly slippery slope, Bobby finds a dog who looks exactly like Bobby feels. There's nothing like an animal to open someone's soul. Animals are loving and trusting and much more forgiving than people. Bobby needed the comfort the little dog, he named Johnny, could offer. He needed someone to love unconditionally. In many ways, Johnny was the bridge between the old Bobby and the new, improved version.
There were times that I couldn't understand why things were happening the way they did. They do say that karma is a bitch and Bobby learns this first hand. As rotten as he was, I wondered if he hadn't suffered enough. It's as if the universe was making it even harder for Bobby to atone for his sins when he was pulling as hard as he could to get away from his old self; but this also shook up the storyline, making it delightfully unpredictable and kept me guessing. The twists had me either crying or cheering or both, depending upon the situation. I'd never have believed it, but in the end, I not only admired Bobby, I'd also forgiven him. He had earned his happiness. I'd recommend this book to anyone who appreciates a character driven story in which there is a great deal of growth and redemption. Thank you, Rick, for the heartrending, but extremely fulfilling tale.
NOTE: The first edition of this book was provided by the publisher for the purpose of a review on Rainbow Book Reviews.
July 7, 2020
I have to be honest, I just wasn’t sure I was going to like this story – and it has nothing to do with Reed’s writing – I’m a die-hard fan. I honestly haven’t read a single Reed novel I didn’t gush over and love to death.
Bear with me here (pun intended). Chaser, Chaser: Book One is a story about Caden and Kevin and how the two find romance wading through the rough waters of body image – something that is a huge issue within the gay community. As a bearish kinda guy myself, I truly latched onto the characters in this novel. It’s one of my favorites. Bobby, our main character in Raining Men, Chaser: Book Two is Caden’s best friend, and in the first installment, Bobby is a complete and utter asshole. I HATED him. Imagine my chagrin reading an entire novel about Bobby. That was a “No, thank you” moment.
But I had the chance to talk to Mr. Reed about Raining Men. He told me it was one of his favorite novels to write because we get to see life from Bobby’s perspective. Reed got the opportunity to give Bobby a backstory, a personality, and humanity that we could understand, and warm up to. We, as readers, get to watch the transition and growth Bobby makes. It was a space where the villain is turned into an anti-hero.
Damn you, Mr. Reed once again you did not disappoint. I started this novel with hate and malice towards the main character stuck in my craw. And then slowly, I came to realize why Bobby is such a mess. We see his journey on his acceptance of being a sex addict. We get to understand the dynamics of his past relationship with his father, and how he transferred his perceived lack of love into attempting to fill that void with constant anonymous sex. We watch Bobby grow.
Enter Aaron. Aaron who has already traveled down the road Bobby is starting out on. Aaron who is calm, understanding, non-judgemental, and a steady point, a foothold for Bobby on his path to recovery. Not gonna lie – Aaron was described as a total hottie – which made me want everything in this story to work out.
There are lots of emotions to unpack from this book. Reconciliation with family, dealing with loss (of all kinds, but particularly the death of a parent), accounting for past actions, admission of past sins, reconnecting with those who have been hurt, and then finding self-acceptance, love, compassion, and healthy relationships.
Reed was right to love this story. It was an interesting journey for myself to go from hating the main character to feeling sympathy for him. But it went beyond that as well. Towards the end, I was rooting for Bobby – because damn it all – we all deserve second chances and the ability to change. In the course of a lifetime, we all grow. And so did Bobby.
Honestly, my blog has become a tribute to Rick R. Reed – quite by chance, and certainly not my intent – but I can’t begin to say how much I really enjoy his writing. It’s well crafted, it’s real, it’s 100% relatable and every story resonates either within myself, or I can pick out people from my life who I know have lived similar stories. Reed’s tag line is Real Men, Real Love – and it’s such a perfect phrase.
Reed captures the experience of gay life and portrays it honestly in his Romance novels. If you haven’t picked up any of his numerous works – you really should. You won’t be disappointed.
Bear with me here (pun intended). Chaser, Chaser: Book One is a story about Caden and Kevin and how the two find romance wading through the rough waters of body image – something that is a huge issue within the gay community. As a bearish kinda guy myself, I truly latched onto the characters in this novel. It’s one of my favorites. Bobby, our main character in Raining Men, Chaser: Book Two is Caden’s best friend, and in the first installment, Bobby is a complete and utter asshole. I HATED him. Imagine my chagrin reading an entire novel about Bobby. That was a “No, thank you” moment.
But I had the chance to talk to Mr. Reed about Raining Men. He told me it was one of his favorite novels to write because we get to see life from Bobby’s perspective. Reed got the opportunity to give Bobby a backstory, a personality, and humanity that we could understand, and warm up to. We, as readers, get to watch the transition and growth Bobby makes. It was a space where the villain is turned into an anti-hero.
Damn you, Mr. Reed once again you did not disappoint. I started this novel with hate and malice towards the main character stuck in my craw. And then slowly, I came to realize why Bobby is such a mess. We see his journey on his acceptance of being a sex addict. We get to understand the dynamics of his past relationship with his father, and how he transferred his perceived lack of love into attempting to fill that void with constant anonymous sex. We watch Bobby grow.
Enter Aaron. Aaron who has already traveled down the road Bobby is starting out on. Aaron who is calm, understanding, non-judgemental, and a steady point, a foothold for Bobby on his path to recovery. Not gonna lie – Aaron was described as a total hottie – which made me want everything in this story to work out.
There are lots of emotions to unpack from this book. Reconciliation with family, dealing with loss (of all kinds, but particularly the death of a parent), accounting for past actions, admission of past sins, reconnecting with those who have been hurt, and then finding self-acceptance, love, compassion, and healthy relationships.
Reed was right to love this story. It was an interesting journey for myself to go from hating the main character to feeling sympathy for him. But it went beyond that as well. Towards the end, I was rooting for Bobby – because damn it all – we all deserve second chances and the ability to change. In the course of a lifetime, we all grow. And so did Bobby.
Honestly, my blog has become a tribute to Rick R. Reed – quite by chance, and certainly not my intent – but I can’t begin to say how much I really enjoy his writing. It’s well crafted, it’s real, it’s 100% relatable and every story resonates either within myself, or I can pick out people from my life who I know have lived similar stories. Reed’s tag line is Real Men, Real Love – and it’s such a perfect phrase.
Reed captures the experience of gay life and portrays it honestly in his Romance novels. If you haven’t picked up any of his numerous works – you really should. You won’t be disappointed.
May 7, 2020
Raining Men (Chaser Book 2 ) by Rick R. Reid
Reviewed by Shee Reader for Boy Meets Boy Reviews
Find us in the web at www.BoyMeetsBoyReviews.com
Rating 4 Hearts
Blurb:
The character you loved to hate in Chaser becomes the character you will simply love in Raining Men.
It’s been raining men for most of Bobby Nelson’s adult life. Normally, he wouldn’t have it any other way, but lately something’s missing. Now, he wants the deluge to slow to a single special drop. But is it even possible for Bobby to find “the one” after endless years of hooking up?
When Bobby’s father passes away, Bobby finally examines his rocky relationship with the man and how it might have contributed to his inability to find the love he yearns for. Guided by a sexy therapist, a Sex Addicts Anonymous group, a well-endowed Chihuahua named Johnny Wadd, and Bobby’s own cache of memories, Bobby takes a spiritual, sexual, and emotional journey to discover that life’s most satisfactory love connections lie in quality, not quantity. And when he’s ready to love not only himself but someone else, sex and love fit, at last, into one perfect package.
This is a follow-up novel to Chaser and the lead character here - Bobby was the bad guy in the previous book. This is not a normal situation for a romance series. In all honesty, Bobby wasn’t really a bad guy in the first book, but he was a completely shallow and selfish prick that almost ruined his only friend’s HEA. So yeah, a bad-ish guy, but I really loathed him, I mean really. He almost ruined it for his only friend, but my main thoughts on Bobby as the story progressed changed through pity to compassion to adoration. This is the mark of a truly superb writer. The character on the page was real enough for me to develop strong feelings about. And we did the full 180 degree shift, nice work Mr Reid!
Bobby’s story opens up with his dreaming and his dissatisfaction with his life was so tangible I could almost taste it. Bobby’s friend from the previous book offers Bobby something of an olive branch, if Bobby gets himself some help. This was about the point that I started to reevaluate my loathing of Bobby. If his friend Caden (the one who was wronged by Bobby) could offer forgiveness, then maybe I could too?
Then Bobby’s dad dies. The father who had never given Bobby any love and affection was gone. Bobby has to go to his mother and help and support her, but his feelings are mixed. During the trip home, Bobby fall back into his old self destructive patters and seeks orgasms as an escape. His trip to the bath house leaves him feeling empty, but he is spotted by someone who remembers him from his youth. At his father’s wake, the almost stranger makes a connection with Bobby that could change everything.
The rest of the story is an amazing voyage of discovery, self awareness, self loathing and eventually love and happiness. It is almost dizzying, the skill with which Rick draws the reader along into the full experience. By the end, I was a slightly sobbing, smiling mess.
If you want to find a bit of yourself along with a super lovely HEA I recommend this book!
I was given a free copy of the book in exchange for an honest review.
Reviewed by Shee Reader for Boy Meets Boy Reviews
Find us in the web at www.BoyMeetsBoyReviews.com
Rating 4 Hearts
Blurb:
The character you loved to hate in Chaser becomes the character you will simply love in Raining Men.
It’s been raining men for most of Bobby Nelson’s adult life. Normally, he wouldn’t have it any other way, but lately something’s missing. Now, he wants the deluge to slow to a single special drop. But is it even possible for Bobby to find “the one” after endless years of hooking up?
When Bobby’s father passes away, Bobby finally examines his rocky relationship with the man and how it might have contributed to his inability to find the love he yearns for. Guided by a sexy therapist, a Sex Addicts Anonymous group, a well-endowed Chihuahua named Johnny Wadd, and Bobby’s own cache of memories, Bobby takes a spiritual, sexual, and emotional journey to discover that life’s most satisfactory love connections lie in quality, not quantity. And when he’s ready to love not only himself but someone else, sex and love fit, at last, into one perfect package.
This is a follow-up novel to Chaser and the lead character here - Bobby was the bad guy in the previous book. This is not a normal situation for a romance series. In all honesty, Bobby wasn’t really a bad guy in the first book, but he was a completely shallow and selfish prick that almost ruined his only friend’s HEA. So yeah, a bad-ish guy, but I really loathed him, I mean really. He almost ruined it for his only friend, but my main thoughts on Bobby as the story progressed changed through pity to compassion to adoration. This is the mark of a truly superb writer. The character on the page was real enough for me to develop strong feelings about. And we did the full 180 degree shift, nice work Mr Reid!
Bobby’s story opens up with his dreaming and his dissatisfaction with his life was so tangible I could almost taste it. Bobby’s friend from the previous book offers Bobby something of an olive branch, if Bobby gets himself some help. This was about the point that I started to reevaluate my loathing of Bobby. If his friend Caden (the one who was wronged by Bobby) could offer forgiveness, then maybe I could too?
Then Bobby’s dad dies. The father who had never given Bobby any love and affection was gone. Bobby has to go to his mother and help and support her, but his feelings are mixed. During the trip home, Bobby fall back into his old self destructive patters and seeks orgasms as an escape. His trip to the bath house leaves him feeling empty, but he is spotted by someone who remembers him from his youth. At his father’s wake, the almost stranger makes a connection with Bobby that could change everything.
The rest of the story is an amazing voyage of discovery, self awareness, self loathing and eventually love and happiness. It is almost dizzying, the skill with which Rick draws the reader along into the full experience. By the end, I was a slightly sobbing, smiling mess.
If you want to find a bit of yourself along with a super lovely HEA I recommend this book!
I was given a free copy of the book in exchange for an honest review.
August 3, 2013
Raining Men is the sequel to Chaser, and it explores exactly why our MC, Bobby, was such a miserable little sh*t in that novel. We learn fairly quickly that the lothario who pretends that he only has sex with the best looking guys will actually have sex with anyone who wants to have sex with him. And he will have it any time, any place. To the author's credit, these scenes are as gross and seedy as they ought to be, and as you read them, you go down into the muck of Bobby's putrid self-esteem right along with him (it is especially important that the author is pretty honest about the way in which Bobby has incorporated an STD treatment regime into his life, though I had my doubts about the fact that ). That is crucial because Bobby's perception of his own self-worth is key: as the novel progresses, we learn that he is a sex addict who (characteristically) almost never enjoys the act; rather, sex (in particular, anonymous sex or simple hook-up sex) functions as both a never-ending attempt to forge an intimate connection with another human being, as well as a self-flagellating form of punishment when he is rejected by a person he knows and actually, genuinely loves (we see there the degree to which he views himself as unworthy of love). Bobby knows that there is a link between sex and love, but he misses the point entirely: he is either trying to use sex to manufacture intimacy, or he is using it to drown the pain that comes from rejection. Sex will either magically produce love, or suffocate the pain that is generated by its absence. He does not understand how (ideally) sex can enhance an emotional attachment.
Ultimately, though, he does figure this out by learning how to love himself and others around him in a generous, unselfish way, and his growth in this direction allows him to conquer his addiction by putting sex in its proper place and by becoming the best version of himself. I do not know whether or not this is a facile take on sex addiction, but regardless, the book is an enjoyable read, and it does a nice job of redeeming an awful character from Chaser (to be fair, he had hints of complexity in that book; Raining Men explores them to the fullest). N.B.: This book does not follow the structure of a traditional romance novel -- it is primarily a book about self-discovery. Nonetheless, the MC does find a HEA.
Ultimately, though, he does figure this out by learning how to love himself and others around him in a generous, unselfish way, and his growth in this direction allows him to conquer his addiction by putting sex in its proper place and by becoming the best version of himself. I do not know whether or not this is a facile take on sex addiction, but regardless, the book is an enjoyable read, and it does a nice job of redeeming an awful character from Chaser (to be fair, he had hints of complexity in that book; Raining Men explores them to the fullest). N.B.: This book does not follow the structure of a traditional romance novel -- it is primarily a book about self-discovery. Nonetheless, the MC does find a HEA.
June 11, 2013
There are books out there that break the mold. They shatter your beliefs in what a genre looks like, feels like, should be. They show you that it’s bigger, more complex, out of the box. Raining Men is one of those books. This book pushes the boundaries of romance.
Mr. Reed answered a question that quite a few standard romances leave neglected. What does it look like to love the unlovely? I don’t mean exterior, because Bobby time and again was shown as an incredibly beautiful man on the outside. His looks had become his identity. The emphasis on them were part a of the slippery slope into desperation, depression, and addiction.
Can someone be truly unlovable? Someone not worthy of the happily ever after, romance addicts crave? This story says no. Not because mean attracts mean, but because to find love, real love, you must learn to love yourself, first.
I wept for most of this book. Cried myself sick. Bobby broke my heart. His pain was incredibly real. The author shows a brokenness so complete you see Bobby’s life self-destruct.
But then something amazing happens.
You are given the opportunity to see healing.
It’s a rare gift to look inside someone and see despair, pain, life-destroying addiction, and then see the wounds heal, scars form, lessons learned, joy found, life renewed. The author did an amazing job. And although this was an extremely difficult book to read, because of the level of pain, it was also brilliant.
This book, this amazing story, will change your view on romance. You will stop thinking of the HEA and look at the people behind the romance. What makes them know how to love? Who loved them well? Or didn’t. You will ask yourself, like Bobby had to ask of himself. Is this addiction, that is tearing him apart, all there is to him? Or is there more? Is he more? And is that more worthy of love?
Yes, my friends, do not fear, Bobby gets his HEA. I won’t tell you who. I didn’t know until the end and you will have to read the book and journey with Bobby through all the ups and downs. You will cry. You will sob. You will grieve with him, be angry for him, and at him. You will fall so desperately in love with this man and his story.
I have a hard time finding the right words for books that change a genre. All I can say is amazing. Marvelous. Enduring. Gut wrenching. Unforgettable. Thank you. Thank you, Mr. Reed, for writing this. For taking us on this journey and giving us time with Bobby. And for teaching us to love the unlovely. To look behind the actions and into the heart.
Reviewed by Beans
Mr. Reed answered a question that quite a few standard romances leave neglected. What does it look like to love the unlovely? I don’t mean exterior, because Bobby time and again was shown as an incredibly beautiful man on the outside. His looks had become his identity. The emphasis on them were part a of the slippery slope into desperation, depression, and addiction.
Can someone be truly unlovable? Someone not worthy of the happily ever after, romance addicts crave? This story says no. Not because mean attracts mean, but because to find love, real love, you must learn to love yourself, first.
I wept for most of this book. Cried myself sick. Bobby broke my heart. His pain was incredibly real. The author shows a brokenness so complete you see Bobby’s life self-destruct.
But then something amazing happens.
You are given the opportunity to see healing.
It’s a rare gift to look inside someone and see despair, pain, life-destroying addiction, and then see the wounds heal, scars form, lessons learned, joy found, life renewed. The author did an amazing job. And although this was an extremely difficult book to read, because of the level of pain, it was also brilliant.
This book, this amazing story, will change your view on romance. You will stop thinking of the HEA and look at the people behind the romance. What makes them know how to love? Who loved them well? Or didn’t. You will ask yourself, like Bobby had to ask of himself. Is this addiction, that is tearing him apart, all there is to him? Or is there more? Is he more? And is that more worthy of love?
Yes, my friends, do not fear, Bobby gets his HEA. I won’t tell you who. I didn’t know until the end and you will have to read the book and journey with Bobby through all the ups and downs. You will cry. You will sob. You will grieve with him, be angry for him, and at him. You will fall so desperately in love with this man and his story.
I have a hard time finding the right words for books that change a genre. All I can say is amazing. Marvelous. Enduring. Gut wrenching. Unforgettable. Thank you. Thank you, Mr. Reed, for writing this. For taking us on this journey and giving us time with Bobby. And for teaching us to love the unlovely. To look behind the actions and into the heart.
Reviewed by Beans
June 2, 2013
The dark and difficult journey of a superficially charming but deeply unlikeable character, who is finally motivated to seek professional and other help for the pathological failures of personality that have plagued him.
Bobby was the “best friend” in the previous book, Chaser, in which we met him as a casual attachment of the main character, Caden. Bobby would accompany Caden to the bars, and then ditch him as soon Bobby had found a hookup. Caden put up with this for years, until Bobby went beyond shallow and into toxic, by not only making a play for Caden’s lover but actively trying to break them up.
As Raining Men opens, Bobby is genuinely and bitterly remorseful of the actions that cost him his only real friend. As he will learn, being sorry is not enough.
I would classify this as fitting the M/M romance genre (it is also gay lit) but of the type that is focused on a single character and not a couple. (Bobby does find his romantic HEA, in a way that will please and satisfy the reader.)
Bobby is in therapy when the book begins, and the plot consists of his journey of self-awareness. He attends sessions and group meetings, wrestles with denial and several realistic setbacks, and struggles to repair old relationships and form healthy new ones. Challenges are thrown at him. The death of his all but estranged father forces him to return to the home and family he has not visited in years and deal with decades old emotional aftermath. He meets new men and must try to relate to them under his “new” rules. And through it all, agonizingly, he tries to recover his lost friendship with Caden.
Much of Bobby’s journey is disturbing to read. The narrative, however, has a pull that keeps the reader hooked, anxious but hopeful that Bobby will find his peace. There is exposition of the Sex Addicts Anonymous system and therapeutic steps, which is informative without feeling preachy. There are gritty glimpses into the underworld of low-rent sex clubs and anonymous hookup and drug abuse culture. And there is a thoughtful distinction drawn between promiscuity and pathology. Sex, even anonymous and frequent sex, is not the issue Bobby must overcome, but its masking symptom.
This one is not light and fluffy, but Bobby’s perseverance will eventually win over most readers. Well-written, engaging, and ruminatively thought-provoking. 4.5 stars.
Bobby was the “best friend” in the previous book, Chaser, in which we met him as a casual attachment of the main character, Caden. Bobby would accompany Caden to the bars, and then ditch him as soon Bobby had found a hookup. Caden put up with this for years, until Bobby went beyond shallow and into toxic, by not only making a play for Caden’s lover but actively trying to break them up.
As Raining Men opens, Bobby is genuinely and bitterly remorseful of the actions that cost him his only real friend. As he will learn, being sorry is not enough.
I would classify this as fitting the M/M romance genre (it is also gay lit) but of the type that is focused on a single character and not a couple. (Bobby does find his romantic HEA, in a way that will please and satisfy the reader.)
Bobby is in therapy when the book begins, and the plot consists of his journey of self-awareness. He attends sessions and group meetings, wrestles with denial and several realistic setbacks, and struggles to repair old relationships and form healthy new ones. Challenges are thrown at him. The death of his all but estranged father forces him to return to the home and family he has not visited in years and deal with decades old emotional aftermath. He meets new men and must try to relate to them under his “new” rules. And through it all, agonizingly, he tries to recover his lost friendship with Caden.
Much of Bobby’s journey is disturbing to read. The narrative, however, has a pull that keeps the reader hooked, anxious but hopeful that Bobby will find his peace. There is exposition of the Sex Addicts Anonymous system and therapeutic steps, which is informative without feeling preachy. There are gritty glimpses into the underworld of low-rent sex clubs and anonymous hookup and drug abuse culture. And there is a thoughtful distinction drawn between promiscuity and pathology. Sex, even anonymous and frequent sex, is not the issue Bobby must overcome, but its masking symptom.
This one is not light and fluffy, but Bobby’s perseverance will eventually win over most readers. Well-written, engaging, and ruminatively thought-provoking. 4.5 stars.
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