This novel packs a real slow-building emotional punch! I finished it hours ago and my thoughts are still racing with an ill-defined yearning in my gut. I felt like I was seeing the human condition and my own personal life in a new light, based on an old Jewish concept with the Yiddish label b'shert (or bashert) - the idea that for each there is a foreordained mate or perfect complement. Of course that drive to find true love pervades most of human culture, but this ancient concept provides a useful perspective new to me.
The central character in this novel is a teenage boy named Anthony. Essentially his coming-of-age story, the main story line follows his progress in defining himself and his desires, as the benchmark parameters shift from that of parental and peer approval/disapproval to one based on internal guidelines as he sees his parents and other adults struggle with the possibility that they had erred in chosing their mates, or as they try again for the second or even third time.
While the main story line occurs between 1979 through 1983, as indicated by the sub-titles to some of the chapters, older and newer threads soon weave themselves into the narrative. At first this was confusing, but I soon realized that the author had used a combination of persepectives (first person, knowing third person, and objective third person) and range of verb tenses (from definite past to present) as techniques for distinguishing senses of the narrator in the present, first-hand recollections, distant family lore, and even historical accounts of which the narrator is unaware. The reader gradually comes to learn the identity of the narrator, but even at the end there are scenes revealed to the reader of which the narrator may never know or understand.
I also appreciated what I learned about the history and culture of the area around Livingston, New Jerey. It was interesting to see how the once predominant Jewish and Italian communities interacted in these communities, and to finally learn more about a part of our national landscape to which I had mainly heard derogatory references in the past.
I'm really impressed by this author, look forward to reading his other two novels, and hope he writes many more.